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' !. rl 1 , . i r `1:5UC!?IC' lilliat Rfettler, I'h.l). Riegler • Shienvold Arnold T, Shienvold, 1110). & Associates Mellndii Fn+h, M.S. Wayne •lirnw, M.S. )omen CUSTODY EVALUATION Mlchuel J. N'. Anke ske L.S.W. n, I'h.l). nnnnle Ilnwurd, Arnold J. Baum vs. Suzanne S. Abel Amy K. Keisling, A.C.S.W., L.S.W. (inyle Slrrlmgnn. M.S. REFERRED BY: The Honorable Kevin A. Hess, Judge, Cumberlanti?10 LuNrcnrr• L.S.W. County Court of Common Pleas REFERRAL REASON: To evaluate and counsel Arnold J. Baum and Suzanne S. Abel regarding the most appropriate custodial arrangement for their daughter, Elizabeth R. Abel, d.o,b., 11/20/91. INDIVIDUAL INTERVIEWS, Arnold (Jay) Baum - three hours Suzanne Abel - three hours Joanne Baum - one hour Elizabeth Baum (Ellie) - two hours JOINT INTERVIEWS: Suzanne and Jay - two hours PSYCHOLOGICAL TESTING (MMPI-II) Jay Baum Suzanne Abel Joanne Baum PARENT'/CHILD INTERACTIONS: Each of the parents were observed interacting with Ellie in the office setting. HOME STUDIES: Observations were made at each of the parents' residences with Ellie present. OTHER 1 INFORMATION: 1. Court Order of October 11, 1996 was reviewed. 2. A letter from Jay Baum to Suzanne Abel dated June 15, 1997 was reviewed. 3. A faxed letter Isom Suzanne Abel to Susan Lederer dated June 26, 1997 was reviewed. 4. Multiple records regarding Edlie's work at the I larrisburg Academy were reviewed. • , 5. A copy of a letter ti•om William G. Corey, Esquire to Alison Taylor, Esquire dated June 6, 1994 regarding Suzanne Abel's ability to work Fax: (7 17) 540-1.11/ • (7171 5.10- 1.11.1 • 2151 1 1nf-,Iesi s 11 I o;it I. tinier 200 • 11iirrishin;', I'rnnsyhania 17110 Page 2 Baum v, Abel under the supervision of another attorney was reviewed, 6. A copy of the positive findings of the paternity blood test was reviewed. 7. Verbal contact was made with Susan Gillis, Suzanne Abel's current Individual therapist. The recommendations at the conclusion of this report are a result of the analysis of all of these sources of information. BACKGROUND Jay Baum and Suzanne Abel are the biological parents of Ellie Abel. Jay and Suzanne were never married, nor did they every live together. Suzanne became pregnant with Ellie during their brief dating relationship. She subsequently gave birth to her on November 20, 1991. Suzanne reported that Jay initially denied paternity of his child. Additionally, he had asked that Suzanne either abort the pregnancy or put the baby up for adoption. Jay concurred that Suzanne's report was accurate. Jay indicated that upon finding out about Suzanne 's diagnosis of Multiple Personality Disorder he was no longer comfortable dating her. He was surprised by her pronouncement of the pregnancy because they had been using birth control techniques, lie was uncertain of the paternity, but preferred to not have a child with this woman. According to Suzanne, Jay had one contact with Ellie shortly after her birth, but did not see her again for two and a hall'years. Jay stated that upon being sued for support he asked for a paternity check. Once paternity was established he feels that he accepted his responsibility and began visiting with his daughter. Visits at that time were limited to alternating weekends at Suzanne's discretion, in accordance with the visitation schedule that was established for her other two children. Suzanne has two sons. Justin and David Abel, who she shares custody with her ex- husband, David Abel. The current dispute arose when Jay Baum sued for primary custody. The catalyst for this suit was that Suzanne refused to allow Jay to have partial custody of Ellie f'or the sumnur of 1994. Jay till that there was a precedence for him to have custody since Suzanne had allowed him to have custody of Hllic for the prior summer. She had done this because she was in the process of studying for her bar exam and needed time away from Ellie. During that time period, Suzanne visited with Ellie on afternaling weekends. When Jay asked for the same schedule fur the next summer, Suzanne flatly refused Page 1 Baunn v. Abel Iloving tiled for primnry custody, Jay also expressed it multitude ol'other concerns about Suzanne's care ortheir daughter. I le is particularly concerned about Suzamne's overall emotional stability Ile reiterated that she has a dingnoMs of Multiple Personality Disorder and acts In an ' extremely unpredictable manner I le. thetOurc, believes that he and Jumme ollcr it more suable environment fir 11he. Jay stoles that Suzanne will not recognize Joanne its an important figure ht Ellie's lilt and basically wants her "burred" Ii out contact with F.Ilie Suzanne skill ollen refer to Joanne as "his whore" and dues not attempt to MUCH her onager towards this woman. Jay is concerned that Suzanne ndoes not pay enough nuention to lillic when Ow is with her. Ile notes that lillic ollen speaks ofjust sitting in !ions orthe television at her mother's home. Ellie has told them that iter nether will not rend to her on play games with her. Furthermore, Jay indicates that Ellie is logging actulenically in kinder garter and that Suzanne dues nothing to help learn her letters or numbers. It should be noted that Jay opposed Bids going to a lull-day kindergarten at the I lauisburg Academy. but that Suzanne unilaterally placed he' in the kindergarten program. The Mechanicsburg District in which Suzanne lives had indicated that they did not Icel that Ellie was ready fin kindergarten of that time Jay is concerned about some of the things that lillic hears C om her mother, Suzanne has talked to I.II& about support payments and that. "he' daddy doesn't pay Ar her " Furthermore, Suzanne refers to Jay, with the Spanish word for "asshole." Jay is concerned that Suzanne uses very fcw routines within her household 'fhe family does nut sit down to it regular meal in the kitchen or dining area, bill will rather cat in front of the television in the Gunily room. I le is concemed that Suzanne will not allow any pictures of his Ilunily in he house Joy is also worried about the type of discipline that lillic receives at Suznm+e's home. Ellie has indicated to him that her mother "scrcanns" at her all the lino 'there is also some indication that Suzanne slaps Ellie in the mouth when :mgr y. 'thee are other problems with discipline that have been noted. Suzanne has had difficulty with he younger son. David. who has apparently been diagnosed with an Oppositional Defiant Iiscuder Billon loo, has shnwn an increase in defiant behavior over the last year ['here has been very little connnunication between Suzanne and Jay. which also bothers him Suzanne is not in 1'4vor or changing the current custodial cu I angennen She Iccls that P.llie is liar better oll'in her care than in her father's cur She notes that Jay "did not, even want I?Ilic " It is Suzanne's Iccling that the entire custodial situation is being directed by Joanne She notes that "his wife wants at child She is not going to have mine " Suzanne is upset that Joanne "I'orces" lillic to call her mummy and Suzanne. "mummy Suzanne " Suzanne is also upset that Joanne provides uansportatiun fur 11he instead orJay In filet, Suzanne has notified the Sunday school and the llarrisburg Academy that that behavior kin violation ofthe curreu Court Order Rage A RE: Bourn Y, Abel Suzanne does not believe that It was a bad decision to start Illle In kindergarten. She also does not Icel that she violated Jay's rights by making that decision Finally, she noted that with respect to that issue she stated, "'T'here Is no proof that children shrivel and die il'they are placed in school early." Suzanne notes that she has not attempted to limit Jay's little with his daughter Not only did she agree to the alternating schedule, but has asked Jay on multiple occasions to take Ellie f'or additional time. Site Indicates that he has not utilized his tittle on Wednesday evenings to the extent that he can. Suzanne feels that he puts other priorities before lillie. Suzanne also slated that the Baum family Is a wonderful family and site believes that it Is healthy Im Ellie to have contact with ahem. Suzanne noted that after Ellie had been with Jay for the summer of 1995, she began to have increased problems with Ellie. She stated that it was after that time that Ellin began referring to Suzanne as "Suzanne" instead of mommy. She also believes that since that lime lillie has shown increased behavioral problems Ibllowing her visits with her father. In general, Suzanne does not see Jay as being able to care for Ellie by himself She feels that he relies heavily upon Joanne to provide this care. 'theref'ore, she believes that she is the more adequate parent. Suzanne believes that she adequately meets FIlie's needs and provides the love and attention that is necessary for Ellie to develop in a healthy manner, JAY BAUM Jay is a 40 year-old man who is employed by the State olTennsylvania. Ile is a permanent pan-time worker who works a two week alternating schedule Jay has had this job for the last two years. Jay has been married to Joanne since July of 1995 They live together in their home in the I lummelstown area. Jay presented as it tall, slender man who dressed in clean, cnsunl clothing lie presented for all of his appointmems in a timely fashion. Jay was liiendly and open during his interviews His responses were generally thoughtful and direct. Jay speaks in n very slow, loll manner. With respect to allcet. Jay seemed to be conrfintable and relaxed in the evaluation situation. He wits appropriately serious, bill also showed a good sense 01111,11110T Ile appeared neither anxious nor depressed during any ul'the sessions. Furthermore, he denied airy significant symptoms associated with anxiety or depression Jay's thinking appears to be relatively concrete and simple. He appears to be of average intellectual ability, lie was able to articulate his concerns in a rational and logical fashion 'T'here were no indications of any type ot'disturbance in his thinking. Jay expressed it wide range in interests, primarily associated with the outdoors, I le also raises and trains clogs. Page 5 flaunt Y. Abel Interpersonally, Jay appears Un be u. relatively passive, non-assertive individual. There is some degree of indecisiveness associated with his responses. 'T'here is also a tendency far Jay to be somewhat dependent on other individuals for advice. Jay Indicates that he was raised in a ' relatively happy tinnily setting. I Its father died alter Jay was already an adult. He has two brothers with whom he feels close. Jay is a high school graduate who did not complete his degree program at I larrisburg Area Community College Jay's MMPI-11 profile is valid. Individuals with this profile tend to be mildly defensive, but this is not unusual in this type of evaluation. All of Jay's clinical scales are within the normal range. Individuals with this profile tend to show a tendency towards naivete, optlnism and self- centeredness. They tend to be extroverted with good social skills and generally tend to avoid unpleasant issues. They may overuse denial and show a lack of insight into sorne ol'their own problems. There is no psychiatric diagnosis associated with this profile. Jay's interactions with Ellie were marked by comfort and enjoyment They both seemed to be very relaxed with one another in the ollice setting and in the home setting. In the otlice, Jay Immediately got on the floor with her in order to play in an innaginuly manner. lie was not anxious nor embarrassed with this type of interaction with his daughter. lie was able to follow I'llie's lead and give suggestions to help her at tbnes. In working with a play lunch set, Ellie and Jay said "prayers" before dinner. They constantly talked about activities that they do together. The language that they used was age appropriate and he listened alternatively when she spoke to him. Ellie enjoys being playful and is quite assertive. Jay was able to set limits regarding clean up. The home observation revealed that Jay lives in a large property that contains a barn, the home, a kennel addition and swimming pool. There are all sorts of pets within the home which the entire family helps to care for. Ellie has her own bedroom in which there are a significant amount of toys and an aquarium. The home is sale with ample areas in which Ellie can play, It should be noted that Ellie rclers to Joanne as nnom when she is at that house. There appeared to be genuine affection between them. This was demonstrated both within the office and the home. Both Joanne and Jay share in the care and play with Ellie. Ellie appeared to be more at case within this setting than she was at tier mother's )ionic She showed genuine enjoyment in being a part of this family. SUZANNE ABEL Suzanne is a 35 year-old woman who currently lives alone with Ellie in their home in Mechanicsburg Suzanne is employed by the Bureau of Workers' Compensation as an attorney. Ilowever, she has not yet passed the bar exam. She has held tier current position lbr a little over one year Page G RE: Baum v, Abel Suzanne presented as a slightly overweight, blond haired woman who appeared her stated ago. Suzanne presented for all of her appointments In a timely manner, She was always well- ' dressed and neatly groomed. She presented on several occasions with documents that she thought would be helplbl for the overall evaluation. Aflcctually, Suzanne appeared to be angry and Irritated throughout the evaluation. She was frequently sarcastic in her responses and spoke with on edge in her voice. Although Suzanne did show some sense ofhunwr in her sarcasm, her overall hostile attitude remained present, Suzanne was cautious in many of leer responses and assertive in stating her needs within the interviews. She does not appear to be someone who gives up control easily. Suzanne admitted to a very significant psychiatric history. She states that she has been diagnosed with Multiple Personality Disorder. She has been undergoing treatment from various therapists over the last seven years. 'treatment includes a one month residential stay at River Onks Hospital. Suzanne indicates that she was severely abused physically, emotionally and sexually as a child. The focus of the treatment at River Oaks was her history ol'abuse. Suzanne states that she has two brothers who are alcoholics. Suzanne is obviously it bright woman. She recently completed law school and has also taken course work towards a Master's I)egrec. As noted above, she has not yet passed the Pennsylvania Bar Exam. During her interviews, Suzanne's thinking appeared to be clear and logical. She showed no signs of cognitive distortions or other symptoms associated with a thought disorder. Within these sessions she also did not demonstrate symptoms that would be associated with anxiety or depression. Interpersonally, Suzanne demonstrated acceptable social skills. She was direct and assertive in her interactions. She did not attempt to filter angry feelings to impress the exatniner. When interacting directly with Jay, she demonstrated a sarcastic, cutting conversational style. There is some question as to whether or not Suzanne is able to control hostile impulses to an adequate degree. For example, in one of the joint interviews Suzanne admitted that she uses the derogatory nickname for Jay and attempted to justify that on very weak grounds. Suzanne's MMPI-II profile is very significant for emotional problems. The profile is valid and is indicative of an individual who willingly admits to minor faults and short comings. Individuals with this profile have extreme difficulty expressing negative feelings in a modulated, adaptive fashion. Periodically they tend to be aggressive and hostile because of bottled tip feelings that eventually breakthrough. Periodic anxiety attacks are possible. Irritability is generally present, but overt anxiety or depression are unlikely Emotional instability is characteristic of this profile. Page 7 RE: Baum Y. Abel 'T'hese individuals often have an unstable history associated with work, living situations and relationships. I fistrionle traits such as egocentricity, Immaturity and attention seeking may be present. They can appear extremely uninhibited In social situations and sexual acting out is possible. 'T'hese individuals also demonstrate a low frustration tolerance and impulsivity. On the other hand, some of these patients may appear childish, energetic, and talkative Interpersonally, these individuals experience considerable problems socially and in social interactions. They may experience feelings of inadequacy and feelings of alienation from others. Often strong demands are made on others for affection and attention. It is not beyond them to use manipulative means in order to get their needs met. Forming warn, intimate relationships is often difficult. Their interpersonal problems probably have their origin in a long history of inadequate family and social relationships. Cognitively, these individuals may experience time periods of confusion. They generally have a difficult time feeling trust with others around them They tend to use an excessive degree of repression and denial when trying to create a sense of control in their lives, They also tend to externalize blame for problems in their lives, They are prone to experiencing many physical symptoms. These may have it psychosomatic basis its it means of dealing with stress Diagnostically, there are multiple syndromes associated with this profile. Given Suzanne's psychiatric history and prior diagnosis of NIPD, it is unnecessary to relate the other diagnoses. Suzanne was observed interacting with Ellie on two separate occasions, once in the office and once within the home. In both situations the relationship between Suzanne and Ellie appeared to be comfortable, although Ellie was more rambunctious and silly when with her mother than with Jay. This was noted within her behavior when she would mimic her mother. There appeared to be a slight edge in the relationship that was either competitive or anxious Nonetheless, within the office Suzanne got on Ellie's level and began interacting with her, She talked in age appropriate language and made good eye contact during her interactions. Suzanne tends to be more directive with Ellie than does Jay Ellie was somewhat slow to respond verbally forcing Suzanne to work harder within the interaction Ellie did take direction from her mother and listened to what her mother had to say. Suzanne used several opportunities to teach Ellie how to do something with a card game, reinforcing Ellic's behavior thercafler. Within the home setting, the home observer noted Suzanne's sarcastic attitude. Within that setting, Tillie also responded to her mother's attitude without any negative effect. The relationship appeared to be easy and con listable Suzanne appropriately went through Ellin s homework with her and planned the next day. Page 8 RE: Baum V. Abel FLUE AUFI. Ellie is a 5 year and 10 month old attractive child with shurt brown hair. She attended kindergarten through the I lar isburg Academy for the 1996/1997 school year. IJer schooling f'or the 199711998 school year remains hl question. If she is with her mother, she will go to Mechanicsburg public schools and if with her Luther Lillie will attend the Lower Dauphin Elementary School. Ellie experienced social and academic problems at the Academy. She is noted to have logged somewhat behind inobtahning some of the letter and number skills for kindergarten. She also had a difficult time structuring herselfbehaviorally. The teacher's felt that her behavior was immature when it cane to following directions. It is also noted that on occasion she would act d16respcetively towards the teachers. These reports brought into question Ellie's readiness for kindergarten at that time, and her future readiness for first grade. Ellie easily separated from both of her parents when being interviewed. She also looked for affection from the interviewer placing herself in very close proximity to him. There was no shyness or social anxiety expressed. On the contrary, Ellie appeared very comfortable in this new situation Ellie indicated over the course of her interviews that she has more No at her lathers house than her mother's house. She stated that her mother plays very f'ew games with her. More often they watch television together rather than play games. While at her father's house she has many more things to do. Either she and her dad, and/or Joanne will play games inside or play outside. She particularly likes the animals at tier l'ather's house and enjoys pan of the responsibilities of taking care of them. Ellie stated that tit tines tier mother is extremely mean to her. She noted that her mother has slapped her in the mouth on occasion. She stated that her mother will say bad things about tier father, but that tier father does not say bad things about tier mother. Ellie stated that on one occasion her mother whipped the dog of her boyfriend with it belt. This made Lillie sad. In general Ellic appeared to be it happy, bright child. She demonstrated at adequate vocabulary and appropriate social skills within this setting. As noted above, tier parents have reported various behavioral problems at home and at school. She appears to be experiencing significant anxiety and distress secondary to the custodial situation. However, the environment appears to be less tense at her father's home. She also appears to feel more secure in that setting. Page 9 RE: Bourn v, Abel SUMMARY AND RFCOMMFNDATIONS Jay Ilaunn is requesting that prinunrycustody be transferred to hbn. lie feels that he can ' provide a more stable and consistent environment for Ellie. I Ic also believes that he can do it better job in encouraging her relationship with her mother than her mother can do In encouraging the relationship with him. Ile Icels that Suzanne 's emotional instability makes it difficult f'or her to parent Lillie in a consistent manner. Suzanne feels that primary custody should remain with her. She indicates that she has always served in the role of primary custodian and doubts that Jay could seriously handle that role without Joanne's help, She believes that Joanne is behind the thrust f-or primary custody because she is unable to have children of her own. Suzanne believes that Jay could have increased (line with Ellie if he so desired, but he has not pursued this in the past. The current evaluation tends to support Jay Baum's concerns about this overall situation. I listory, current interviewing, and psychological testing demonstrate that Suzanne sutlers with significant emotional problems. She presented as an extremely angry, sarcastic woman who shows a considerable lack of respect for Jay and Joanne Baum. Suzanne is limited in her ability to control her hostile feelings and it is believed that she frequently demonstrates these feelings to Ellie. She seems to lack adequate impulse control to be able to tiller some ofthese adult feelings from her five-year old daughter. I ter impulsivity and volatility also present problems for Ellie with respect to direct parental care, I c. (he episodes of corporal punishment. tier MPD symptoms may lead to difficulty with establishing appropriate intimate relationships with Ellie. In my conversation with Susan Gilius, some of these observations were shared in an attempt to help her work with Suzanne around custodial issues. Interestingly, when asked for feedback, Ms. Gilius indicated that she could not "disagree with what I am hearing." That comment was taken to reflect general agreement with the observations made during the evaluation. It is Mt that as a function of her problems, Suzanne is unable to show good judgement when it conies to keeping Ellie out of the middle of the various adult conflicts. Iter overwhelming desire to limit Joanne's involvement in the situation shows a lack of recognition of the importance of Joanne's relationship with Ellic. Ellie clearly shows that she has a warm and nurturing relationship with her step-mother. Their relationship can only serve to help the betterment ofEllic. Yet, Suzanne would totally eliminate it if it were at all possible. While it is recognized that Jay may not have the experience to the be sole primary custodian for Ellie, he demonstrates a genuine love and concern for his daughter. With the complimentary help of Joanne, it is felt that Ellie would experience a stable and secure environment within the Baum household Neither of these individuals demonstrate the hostility Page 10 RE: Baum v. Abel and anger towards Suzanne that she demonstrates towards them. Furthermore, they have shown the ability to curtail negative and derisive comments about Suzanne in front ol'Ellic. Furthermore, they have not exposed Lillie to other hostile situations between them. ' It should be noted that Jounne also completed the MMPI-11. I ler results are valid. All of her clinical scales are within the normal range. There was nothing within her interview nor psychological testing that would cause concern about her caring liar Ellie. On the contrary, her experience as a teacher is in special education. letters of reference about her teaching ability were reviewed and they all indicated that she does excellent work. 'T'herefore, it is recommended that primary residential custody of Ellic be given to Jay Baum. It is further recommended that Suzanne be allowed periods ol'partial custody alternating weekends from Friday evening until Sunday evening. It' the Monday following one of her weekends is either a legal or school holiday, that Ellie should remain with her mother until Monday evening. Additionally, Suzanne should be able to have a mid-week visit which would last from the time tlmt she is done with work utmil 7:30 pat. 'fie evening should be selected contingent upon activities in which Ellie is involved. All holiday time should be shared between these parents. It' Suzanne plans to continue her practice of Judaism, that both the Jewish and secular holidays should be shared. II' Suzanne no longer plats to practice Judaism, than the Jewish holidays should be spent with the Baum Innnily. The other holidays should be shared equally. Finally, with respect to summer access, custody should be shared during that time period in a two week block fashion. The schedule should correspond to Jay's work schedule. It is strongly recommended that Suzanne Abel remain in her individual therapy so that site can continue to work on the problems that have plagued her since childhood. It is recognized that she will have difficulty accepting these custodial recommendations. It is hoped that her therapist can help her gain insight into the problems that she has experienced and help her to identify ways that she can continue to be an important part of Ellie's life. 'T'here is no doubt that Suzanne loves her daughter very much, but her emotional problems make it difficult for her to maintain a stable and consistent relationship with Ellic. ?-X 16 Date Arnold T. Shienvold, 11h, D. Puplfne.Wallin, Ph.D. Lirenrrrl P'syrhnlogftr & Associates r'N CUSTODV EVALUA'rl()N February 26, 1998 Childt Elizabeth "Ellie" Abel D,0111. 11/20/91 Parentet Suzanne Abel Arnold Jay Ilautn Dates of assessment: December 1997 • Jwnuary 1998 Assessment procedure: 201 South 32nd street Cnnllr Hnl, PA 17011 (717)761•IN14 I'AX (717) 761.1942 I, Interviews with Suzanne Abel, ulone and with Elizabeth 2. Interviews with Jay Baum, alone and with Flizabeth 3. Interview with Joanne Baum, Elizabeth's stepmother 4. Interviews and play observations with I:livabelh, alone, with each parent and with stepmother 5. Psychological testing: Minnesota Multiphasie Personality Inventory (Mrs, Abel, Mr. Baum, Mrs. Dawn) Children's Apperception Test (lilizabeth) 6. Interview with (jury Custeel, firmer boyfriend of Mrs. Abel 7. Review ol'records: a. Records furnished by Mrs. Abel: Time line of events Schedule of Elizabeth's visits with her father Various letters to attorneys, schools, and Individuals Testimonials Irom friends Elizabeth's school papers and report curds Family photographs Excerpts from personal journal entries about rllie's development. 3/92.6/97 Medical records b. Records furnished by Mr. Bawn: Letters from Mrs, Abel to him and to the I larrishurg Academy c. Records furnished by Joanne Bantu: Dated log of conflicts between the (lawns and Mrs. Abel d. Custody report by Arnold Shlenvold, Ph.D.. 9/10/97 c. Court documents 8. Telephone consultations with L•lizabeth's teachers at Upper Adams and Cumberland Valley School districts 9. Telephone consultations with Peg Ilchn. M.S. and Sully Rooney. M.S., psychologists who have worked with Elizabeth and her mother. 10. Telephone consultation with Dr. Shienvold 11. Interview with Daniel and Justin. Mrs. Abel's sons CONVIA A IION • FVA It i A IION • 1'S Wal)I'IIIHAI'Y r bale Abel ... Page 2 BACKGROUND DATA Elizabeth Abel Is the daughter of Suzanne Abel and Jay Buunn. She was conceived during a brief relationship between Mrs. Abel and Mr. Baum, and born several months aller the relationship had ended. At first Mr. Baum denied paternity, but later agreed to genctle testing. When It was determined that he was the biological father, he Initiated visits with Ellie. By this time Ellie was about two years old. The parents dill'er in their recall ot'esactly how old Ellie was when her lather begun visiting with her. During the summer of 1995 when Mrs. Abel was studying for the Pennsylvania Bar c.?ant, Ellie spent most of the summer with her father. In 1996 Mr. Baum tiled liar custody of Ellie ufler Mrs. Abel refused to allow her to spend the majority ol'the summer with him. This resulted in u conciliation conference, in which it was ordered that Dr. Arnold Shienvold conduct "counseling and family therapy" with the couple, for the purpose of reconmmending "to the parties u permanent order with respect to a custody arrangement in this case." Dr. Shienvold subsequently submitted a "Custody Evaluation" to the court, recommending that primary physical custody of Lillie be given to Mr. Baum. When Mrs. Abel contested the report and the manner in which the data were gathered. another conciliation conference was held 12/2/97, and an independent custody evaluation was ordered. FINDINGS SUZANNE ABEL INTERVIEW DATA Mrs. Abel arrived promptly for her uppointments. She was neatly groomed and spoke articulately in a matter-of-fact, somewhat detached manner. She was openly critical of Mr. and Mrs. Baum, as well as of her ex-husband. Although she acknowledged having had psychological dillicultics in the past, she attributed most of her current 1rustrations to people and situations outside herself'. At the initial visit she provided written documentation in the form of a time line, ol'signiticant events in her life, including relationships. marriage, divorce. children and education. She also volunteered to sign release forms permitting me to talk with Ellie's teachers and former therapists. Mrs. Abel described the history of her conflict with Eillie's father and his wife over visitation and custody. She claimed that when she became pregnant. Mr. Baum denied responsibility and wanted her to have an abortion. When Ellie was born, he had nothing to do with the child until the paternity tests showed that he was the father. By this time Lillie was 2'/2 years old. Mrs. AW- t? Wile Abel ... Page S off=ered Mr. Baum what she t'elt was it tnir arrangement firr visitation, every other weekend and one day during the week, In 1995 Mrs. Abel graduated from law school. That summer, while she studied for the Pennsylvania Bar exam, Ellie stayed with her lather. A month later, when Mrs. Abel requested that Ellie return home, she clahnti that Mr. Baum "wouldn't give her buck." It took another month for Mrs. Abel to have Iillie returned to her. Mr, Baum married his wife fn 1995. Ile then allegedly told Lillie to call his wile "Mommy Joanne," and to call her biological mother "Mommy Suzanne." Conflict between the two families was escalating, Mrs. Abel said that she requested counseling lirr herself and Mr. and Mrs. Baun together, but that they relnsed. In the summer of 1996 Mr. flaunt expected to have Lillie stay with him firr the whole summer. When Mrs. Abel did not agree to this. a conciliation conl'crence was held, They reportedly agreed to joint counseling, but did not fellow through on it. 'T'hat summer Ellie spent alternating two-week periods with each parent, which Mrs. Abel claimed was detrimental to FIlfe. The child was cr^olled fn day camp, but her tether would not take her during the two weeks she stayed with him. In October 1996 there was another conciliation conlcrence. Mrs. Abel once again requested counseling, which was ordered by the Court. She was later dismayed to learn that what she thought was "counseling" turned out to be a custody evaluation with a formal report to the Court. Mrs. Abel was highly critical of Joanne Bunn. She claimed that not only did Mrs. flnunl try to interfere in educational decisions tier [=life (strongly advocating against early admission to kindergarten), but that she also had "a Ictish with Ellie's bottom." Mrs. Baum allegedly was overly concerned about toilet training and overly scrupulous in wiping Ellie's bottom atler the child went to the bathroom. Mrs. Abel also suspected sexual abuse. Mrs. Baunt reportedly took baths with Ellie and accompanied Ellie to the bathroom, locking the door. (When I interviewed Mrs. Baum at a later time, she denied these allegations.) furthermore. the school had reported that Ellie was masturbating fn class. Mrs. Abel contends that she is a better parent to I-Ilie than is Mr. Baum. She has been "the constant fn Ellie's life," and that when Ellie is at her father's house, it usually his wife, not he who takes care ol'the child. PERSONAL HISTORY Mrs. Abel described her family of origin as quite dysfunctional. She has one older brother and two younger brothers. In her description of her parents she referred to them by their first names rather than "my mother" or "my father." When I commented on this, she replied that this helps 000 r1 IIlle Abel ... Page d her to think of them as people, Both parents abused alcohol and drugs. I ler father used prescription drugs and her mother used street drugs, I ler tither was u professional and very intelligent, but "he didn't seem to come with a spine." When her mother wus overly harsh In her discipline and the children asked their father to intervene, he replied that he was too scared of her, Mrs, Abel does not maintain contact with her family. When Suzanne was 13 years old her parents separated. She wits then subject to sexual abuse by her mother, which Involved Including Suzanne in her liuisons with men, as well as raping her with alcohol bottles when Suzanne replaced the alcohol with water. Despite her problems at home, Suzanne excelled in school, both academically and ht sports. In her junior year her mother moved hit with u boyfriend, leaving the children on their own. Once a week she'd come home, pick up the bills and leave grocery money. Suzanne was responsible for her brothers. After graduating from high school she attended Temple University on a full scholarship, but dropped out to marry David Abel. Ills family was very supportive, especially utter she had their first son, Justin In 1982. At that time she converted to Judaism and has practiced the religion ever since. Mr. and Mrs. Abel had another son, Daniel, barn bit 1985. The marriage was dissolved in 1990, Last May Justin went to live with his father, and in August Daniel followed. Mrs. Abel has not contested this, since she felt it was In the boys' best Interest to live in their father's home at this time. She maintains regular visitation with her sons, Jay Baurn was a friend of Mrs. Abel's husband. Ile dated Mrs. Abel a few times alter her divorce, but she loll the relationship when she learned that he was seeing three other women at the same time. Mrs. Abel currently works as a law clerk. In 1984 she returned to school, got her BA from Penn State, and finished law school in 1995, She studied for the bar exam, but did not pass it. In terms of personal relationships, Mrs. Abel stated that she was not involved with anyone since Ellie was born until last February, when she met Gary Casteel, She moved into his home in Gettysburg last August, but later learned that "he had a second life with about 34 other women." and moved out in November, A few weeks later she began seeing another man. who, according to Ellie, often stays overnight, although not in Mrs. Abel's bed. Mrs. Abel's mental health history is significant. In 1990 she was diagnosed with multiple personality disorder. She has been hospitalized twice: in December 1990 and in May 1991. She has also had outpatient psychotherapy, and continues to see Sully Rooney every two to three weeks. Mrs, Abel feels she has a solid understanding of how her problems developed, and knows that she needs to continue working on them. She is currently taking Prozac. d,4 e"` EUfe Ahe! . , Page PERSONALITY TESTING Mrs, Abel's MMIII was within the normal range, In contrast to her MMPI.2 profile udnnhnistered by Dr. Shienvold in February, 1997, which hndicuted significunt emotional and interpersonal problems. This apparent discrepuncy could reflect the di&I-Cat Orcumsmnces under which the test was administered. When Mrs, Abel was seeing Dr. Shlenvold, she assumed she was there for counseling, and therefirre may have been more open hn admitting personal difficulties, ht file present situation, she was aware that she was being evaluated fur parenting ahilities, and therefore was probably defensive, as ore most parents in similar situations. Alternatively, It Is possible that she Is experiencing less subjective distress than she did u year ago. Although her MMPI scales were less elevated than In previous testing, the configuration of the scales was similar. Mrs. Abel has difficulty dealing with her own anger. When angry site Is likely to express it in an indirect way, e.g., via sacusnn or passive aggressive behavior, probably because she fears the consequences of direct confrontation. periodically, when angry leelhngs accumulate, she is apt to explode, She is not currently depressed, but site Is angry, The lest indicates that she is likely to project blame onto others, which Is consistent with my clinical impression. BEHAVIORAL OBSERVATIONS WITII El.l.lli During the several visits in which Mrs. Abel brought Ellie I observed that In file waiting room they sat together reading or talking. I lowevcr. Ili my presence they became silly with one another. For example, Ellie would bark like a dog and chew on her mother's finger, When lillie said something that her mother did not agree with, her mother would challenge her, "Llur. liar, pants on fire." They interacted more like peers than like u mother and daughter. While Mrs. Abel was very attentive to Ellie and immersed herself bn play with her, there were occasional comments that seemed inappropriate or overly dramatic, For example, while playing together with orange playdoh, Mrs. Abel said cusu:nlly. "I've figured out why I don't like orange, I've associated it with being afraid," Then she asked Ellie il'she ever got scared. When Ellie said "no;" Ms. Abel responded, "Liar. liar, pants on lire." Shortly thereuller they sung a sang together, a variation on "Wild Thing." Their version was "You Lire my weird thing! You make my heart sing! You make my ears ring!" Mrs. Abel was generally positive and encouraging, but sometimes her praise took unusual firrm. For example, she told Ellie that she appreciated how Ellie kept the blade of the plastic playdoh knife away from her fingers. She then reminded Ellie of the time when she (Mrs. Abel) hod cut her finger and there was blood everywhere. Thus, although Mrs. Abel and lillie have a very close, often playful relationship, her conunetts often reflect "leakage" from her own problems and anxieties. From my consultations with previous therapists, this issue has never been addressed, r"1 rl? lalle Abet ... Page 6 Mrs, Abel did have adequate disciplinary control over Ellie, For example, when she told [-.'life to clean up in the play room, Ellie compiled. Mrs. Abel wus encouraging, patient mid supportive. She did not aisplay much cuddling, stroking or gentle signs of physical affection. She encouraged achievement and Independent behavior In Ellie, mid used opportunities during play to provide a learning experience for the child. Mrs. Abel's notes and personal journal entries reveal that she has been attuned to many details of Ellie's development, including milestones, preferences and perceptions. There was genuine love expressed in these writings. Mrs, Abel noted in July 1993, "Since the tests cane buck In late March, you have developed a whole new family. Grandma Buu)n is wonderful with you ... " She also wrote about Ellie's father in positive terms, until 1996 when she blamed hill) for the upheaval in Ellie's life. In an entry dated 8/5/96. Mrs. Abel wrote that Ellie was trying to [earl) how to keep herself "out of the parenting triangle." Mrs. Abel puts a great deal of effort into being a good parent. She Is focussed on 1:11ie's achievements, but she is less able to Identify with her emotional needs, Jay Baum INTERVIEW DATA Mr. Baum arrived promptly for his appointments. He was cooperative with the evaluation process. He was casually dressed and spoke in an open, somewhat rambling manner. At the first interview he made it clear that he wanted "what's best for Ellie.'" but also spent most of the session criticizing her mother, presenting himself and his wife as victims of Mrs. Abel's wrath. He claimed that Mrs. Abel did not dress Ellie warmly enough, that sometimes her clothes had (toles in them, and that Mrs. Abel used Ellie "like a pawn on a chess game." In response to my questions about Mrs. Abel's statement that he had initially denied paternity, he replied that they had used condoms and therefore he assumed that he couldn't be the father. He contended that he initially suggested that they both get blood tests, but that she refused. It was not until 15 months later, when he was served with papers demanding child support. that he insisted on blood tests and she then compiled. There is some dispute as to the age at which Mr. Baum began seeing his daughter. lie claims Ellie was 15 months old, and produced a photograph of her crouching beside a dog. She looked to be about a year and a half, but her mother had a copy of the same photograph and insisted that she was sure Ellie was well over two years old. I have not obtained independent verification of the exact date when Mr. Baum begun his visits with her. Mr. Baum also offered his own version of the brief relationship with Mrs. Abel. He claimed that he stopped calling her after she shared her mental health history with him and woke up in the middle of the night talking like a three-year-old. She reportedly pursued him after he terminated l'.ttte Ahel ... Page 7 the relationship, and when she learned she was pregnant, allegedly told him flint he should many her and take care other hi the manner to which she was accustomed, Mr. Baum said that problems with Mrs, Abel begat tiller be married his current wile. When Ellie spontaneously addressed Mrs. Baum its'1nom" he instructed Ellie to call her "nlanl Joanne." However, Mrs, Abel was so Incensed by this thus she took him t11 court over this issue, and he was ordered to put a stop to this. Mr. Baum noted sarcastically that when Mrs, Abel was living with Gary Casteel, she allowed I?Ilia to call him "dad." Mr, Baum was also concerned about the degree to which Mrs. Abel would undermine him Land his wile. For example. 1{ Ilse told him that her mother reterred to Mrs. Baum all a "bitch," and that she told Is111c that her lather doesn't love her, lie attributes Ellle's problems In school lust year to her mother's "muking up all those lies." As tier hinnself and his wife, they do not say derogatory things about 1111e's mother in the child's presence. Mr. Baum contends that he would be a better role model aid parent liar Ellie. I le has it stable home and a family environnicnt. lie lives in a rural area with many animals and there Is much room for Ellie to play. Ile recently joined a synagogue because he believes strongly In rellglous education. Although his wile is not Jewish, she wins at participate ht Ellic's religious education, and has volunteered at her Sunday school. Ile works part file so that Inc cull make Ellie his priority. On the other hand, her mother has moved three times in the past year, and Ialie has been in three dificrent schools. Ile made frequent reference to Mrs. Abel's psychological problems. Ile described conflict between her and her ex-husband, arising out of allegations that her ex-husband had sexually abused her sons. Mr, Baum said that there was no substance to those allegations, Ile viewed Mrs. Abel as perceiving things erroneously and overreacting to them. Mr. Baum defended his wife's involvement with Ellic, despite Mrs, Abel's objections. I IC emphasized that his wife was a special education teacher. Ile admitted deterring to her opinions on dealing with Ellie, because he respects his wil'e's knowledge and experience. He wants her to be involved in raising Ellic, and welcomes her participation hn helping with mealtime and bedtime routines, PERSONAL HISTORY Mr. Baum described his family ol'origin as warn and loving. I le has two younger brothers, with whom he maintains a harmonious relationship. I Ifs tither was a salesman, %1111 "quit his job because he wasn't home enough forme." Ilis father died of age S I. Mr. Ihuun could nut recall how old he was at the time. He recalls a happy childhood, with parents who were supportive. lie enjoyed cooking with his mother. His family went on camping trips and nattue oulings logelber, Mr. Baum was somewhat defensive in describing personal difflcullics. In school W"wahli'l file world's greatest student." He attributed this to the fact thin when the funnily moved to ( Hilo he did not want to go, and he threatened to foil his school year if they did so. I hat year his grades I'1 t•:Ille Abet ... Page B were poor, but he did pass. When the family returned to Pennsylvania, he once again upplied himself; but he never caught up. Mr. Baum uttended HACC For a year and a hull' but did not do well because he couldn't work and keep up with his studies at the sane time, and also because he was not good at written tests. He was married for the first time "around 1979 or '80." They separated after 2'/: years because his wife had extramarital affairs, Prior to dating Mrs. Abel he dated several women, most of whom he had met through a Jewish dating service, lie knew Mrs, Abel through her husband, mid he described her as "a real lady" and "pleasant to talk to." They saw each other four tines in four months, and he left the relationship because he did not feel he could handle her emotional problems, Mr, Baum met his current wife through dog training. He has enjoyed animals and the outdoors ever since he was a cub scout. Fie noted that Ellie also loves animals and the outdoors. For the past three years lie has worked for the state, in a permanent part-tine position as a clerk in the Department of Revenue, Prior occupations Included sales for Tru-Green and Muzak, and he also had his own business doing custom restoration and floor refinishing. PSYCHOLOGICAL TESTING Mr. Baum's MMPI reflected a significantly defensive approach It answering the test questions, minimizing personal shortcomings. Most scales were within the normal range, with one of them at the top of the range and one slightly above. The profile reflects a very outgoing Individual who enjoys pleasing others. However, Ire Is also overly sensitive to being controlled by others, and when he perceives he is being controlled he is apt to overreact internally, but will not typically explode. Fie is more apt to show anger in indirect ways, e.g. vita passive resistance. He is quite naive and has little insight into his own feelings and motives. The test results are consistent with any clinical impression. Mr. Baum's current MMPI is similar in configuration.to the MMPI.2 administered by Dr. Shienvold in August 1996. The main difTerence is that the scales are slightly more elevated, indicating a mild increase in distress level, and that his anger is more intense than previously. BEHAVIORAL OBSERVATIONS WITH E:L.LIE, In the waiting room, Ellie sat next to her dad and they looked at books together. Mr, Baum was warm and attentive to Ellie both in formal observation and in our casual encounters outside the interview room. In play he followed her lead, but also directed her toward greater mastery of the task she was engaged in. He readily joined Ellie in her fantasy with the plastic farm animals. During his conversations with Ellie he referred to his wife as "mom," and did not discourage Ellie from also doing so. 04 time Abel. . Page 9 In the last session with Ellie, she was mildly aggressive and defiant toward her lather, Ile admonished her In a calm voice, and they continued to play together, Ile then distracted her front her anger with a game of "memory" In which she identified which plastic animal he had removed from the group in front of her, By the end of this game she was once again calm and cooperative. In dealing with Ellie, Mc Baum was generally positive, Ile was neither overly protective nor overly pemnissive. When discipline was necessary he was patient but firm, Ile did not criticize Ellie's mother when Ellie was present, but when she lell the room, he was quick to voice his disapproval of her mother's life style. Joanne Baum INTERVIEW DATA Mrs, Baum arrived for her appointments on time, and she was cooperative with the evaluation process, She seemed guarded in our interview, as well as anxious to present herself in u positive light. She expressed concern that Ellie grow up In a stable environment and have good self- esteem, Ellie has told her that her mother is mean and that she yells. Mrs. Baum contends that Ellie's father can provide the stability and consistency that the child needs. As evidence that Ellie enjoys her visits, Mrs. Baum said that she never asks to call her mother and that she dawdles when it is time to leave, She described her husband as a very giving person, although she acknowledged that "Sometimes he has to learn that he can't just take offon the spur of the moment when he has Ellie." Mrs. Baum believes that much of the animosity between the two families stems from Mrs, Abel's anger and jealousy. She described Mrs. Abel as a "day and night person, One minute she'll be real sweet to you, and later she'll go off" In the past Mrs. Abel has changed the visitation schedule in what Mrs. Baum believes to be an arbitrary, vindictive manner. I asked Mrs, Baum about Mrs. Abel's allegations concerning her "fetish with Ellie's bottom." Mrs. Baum replied that because Ellie had not been wiping herself' properly after going to the bathroom, she would develop rashes, and Mrs. Bann tried to make sure the area was clean. She admitted that she used over-the-counter ointment to facilitate healing of the rashes. This is Mrs. Baum's second marriage. She was married previously from 1976 to 1981. The details of that marriage were not explored in our interview. She currently works as a special education teacher in Derry Township, and she also trains dogs, She did not mention it, but Mr. Basin had previously told me that she is well known for her work with dogs, and that, her animals have appeared on the cover of a trade magazine. She enjoys her work and hobbies, and enjoys Ellie's visits. r"4 I'1 bills Abel ... Page In PSYCHOLOGICAL TESTING Mrs. Buun's MMPI was within normal limits, She responded to the questions in u mildly defensive manner, which is not unusual In this type of situation, The profile was similar to that ot'November 1996, but with u slightly more serious, mistrusting and introverted attitude. The scale configuration suggests u conventional, rule-conscious approach to life, us well as u tendency to express anger In an Indirect manner. BEIIAVIORAL OBSERVATIONS WITII ELLIE Mrs. Bann approached Tillie In it gentle, low-key manner, fillic was spununeously ull'eetionate with her, touching her and cuddling up to her. When Tillie behaved In u silly manner, Mrs. Daum ignored the behavior. While playing with Lillie, Mrs. Baum uppeared comfortable and relaxed. She lollowed Ellie's lead in working with playdoh, and encouraged Ellie to try new things. Ellie addressed her as "mommy," which Mrs, Baum did not contest. I did not observe any problenns with discipline. Atone point, when Ellie stared down the stairs head first, Mrs, Baum commented, "Arc you sure you wont to go down that way?" Lillie then spontaneously got up and walked down the steps in u normal manner. Justin and Daniel Abel: Interview Dula 15-year-old Justin and 12-year-old Daniel were brought to the interview by their mother, When I asked theta If thcy knew why they were here, Daniel replied, "Under the request of my mother we are here to be evaluated on behalf of my sister," Daniel was clearly protective of his mother. He alleged that his Collier and stepmother talk about his mother In derogatory terms. As I'or Mr. Baum, Daniel commented, "I think his commitments arc in the wrong place. There are thnes he'll forget about Ellie because there is a dog show or his truck needs to be fixed." Justin then criticized his younger brother ti)r "bushing on other people." He said that he didn't know Mr. Baum that well, but he seemed like a good guy, Neither boy criticized his mother, They explained that they lived with their I'uther mainly for financial reasons. They described Ellic as cute and adorable. Daniel added that Ellie did not like her mother's current boyfriend, but "It's kind of the way you feel when you get dumped," Daniel admitted to interpersonal problems of'his own, c,g,, that he hay no friends. I fis views and assessments of the people in his life are no doubt colored by his own dissatisfactions, The two brothers have u provocative relationship with one another and will) their mother. When the three of them were together, the interaction consisted mostly of verbal sparring. It was lively, and occasionally sarcastic, but there was also much loyalty among them, r"1 r Ellie Abel ... Pup I I Gary Carteelt Interview Win Mr, Casteel Is the Ibrmer boyfriend ol'Suranne Abel. lie met her fn the loll of 1996 when he answered u personal ad that she had placed, Ile ended the relationship the l'llowhng spring, because he felt it was "too Consunnbtg," especially dealing with her sons, who were living with her at the time, Ile described the boys as sell'-centered and disrespectful, especially when they returned home from visits with their father. Their mother sometimes tried to correct them, but without success, Ile and Mrs, Abel got back together In (lie fill of 1997, alter both boys moved to their f'ather's home, lie finally ended the relationship again lust loll, because he Iclt he could not deal with the conflicts between Mrs. Abel and the lathers ol'her children, However, Mr. Casteel still has u great deal ol'respect for Mrs, Abel. and calls her front (line to time to see how she's doing. I le described her as "a darn good mother." Ile was impressed by how she worked with Ellie on her schoolwork, took her to activities. and generally spent tittle with her, lie noted that when Ellie retuned home from her visits with her father, she would talk about all the things she did with Joanne and didn't mention her father very much, l asked Mr. Casteel about allegations concerning Mrs, Abel hitting his dog. Ile denied that this occurred, and added that he would not tolerate anyone hurting the dog who had been his constunt companion for 14 years, purthennore. he never observed Mrs. Abel yelling and screaming at Ellie. "If she was like thut I would never have been with her," he stated. When Mrs. Abel did discipline Ellie, she would talk cahnly and directly to her, e.g.. "You are not to do that." Ellie Abel IN'T'ERVIEW AND BEHAVIOR Ellie Abel is an attractive, outspoken six-year-old child. At her lirst visit with her mother, she behaved in a silly manner as mentioned above. In my presence Ellie and her mother communicated via banter when they were not occupied in a task. She seemed to enjoy tills. and egged her mother on. With her father she was more docile. She invited him to play with her, and he complied. In my initial interview with Ellic, she said thut she wanted to live with her dud, because she wanted to be with her puppy, and that it's more fun at her dud's house because "there are hundreds of more kids," Ellie tried to remain neutral when I asked her questions about her parents. In a fantasy drawing exercise, in which the child is asked to draw paths to a bunny's father's or mother's house in response to questions such as, "Where does the bunny go when he wants to have full?" "Where does the bunny go when he's seared?", Ellie drew paths to both parents' houses. When I asked with whom the bunny would want to go on u long trip fix a year, she stated "definitely the r^ fine Abel ... Page 12 mommy," 'T'hus, Ellie Is ambivalent about choosing one parent over the other, but she has strong emotional attachment to her mother. Ellie's behavior In my office was consistent with reports from her parents and teachers, That is, she values her independence and resists being told what to do. For example, when I indicated that we were going upstairs an the playroom, she said, "I walnut see this first" (referring to the dollhouse In my office). When I introduced the curds ol'thc Children's Apperception Test, she announced that she wanted to do something else. tit the other hand, she was generally polite in the outer office. For example, before helping herself to candy she first asked permission of the secretary, 1 discussed discipline with Tillie. I asked her what happens when she's told to brush her teeth and she doesn't want to, She replied that her mother would say, "O.K., first get dressed and then do it." She added that sonncthmen her mother would later forget saying this, At her l'ather's house If she rel'used to brush her teeth, he would tell Joanne, and they would brush their teeth together. Although it would appear that Mr, Bautn does not exercise much discipline, in u recent telephone conversation he reported having to confront Ellie liar talking back to film. Ellie expressed concern about her parents not getting along. She said (hut she wants to cull Joanne "mommy", but on the phone she has to cull her "Joanne" because her mother will get mad, She also commented that her mother says bad things about Joanne, but denied that Joanne criticized her mother, She sold that she wanted to have two mommies and that they should get along with one another. She acknowledged that her mother used to yell, but "that was a long. long time ago." Similar sentiments were reflected in Ellie's drawings. When I instructed her to draw her family she drew a house, She did not draw the people, but stated that they were all inside the house. The people included herself, her brothers, her mother, her father, her stepmother, and her dog 'rrina, who died, She drew several other dogs outside the house, including Anther who lives with her mother, and it few others who live with her Iuther. When I commented, "So everyone lives together?" she replied, "It's actually two apar4ments-Upstairs live Joanne and Jay. Downstairs live Suzanne, Justin and me." Note that she referred to the adults by their first names. This is probably her way of remaining neutral and avoiding using the word "nom" which has created much controversy. Ellie is deliberate and meticulous in her approach to tusks. This is consistent with teachers' and parents' reports, She concentrates quietly on her work, commenting on the task at hand. During visits to my office, she played with the Playdoh extruder repeatedly. She noticed small details, and spent a great deal of time on them, Working this way seemed to have a calming cITM on her. r"`1 ro? r.me Abel ... Page 13 'L'EST RESUI:I'S; CHILDREN'S AI'I'liltC'lil''I'IUN'I'IiS'I' (CA'I') Ellie was fidgety and restless while telling stories to this series o1'card depicting uninals ht various situations. This was likely due to the fact that at the time she sold that she wanted to do something else, I ler stories were quite revealing. One these ruining through several stories was that of the child feeling Ignored or abandoned by the parents, who ore too busy with their own agcndus. The young uninwl ends up taking care of itself. A second, related theme was 1ior. The young aninials in the stories felt afiaid when there was no one to take care ol'them A third theme was sadness. All these reflect Ellie's feelings about her situation, She perceives herself to be alone, sad and Insecure, She does not trust that adults will be available to her when she needs them, 'T'hus, she works at being independent from adult control, but this also contributes to her anxiety, because she lacks the skills and the maturity to deal with the world. Reports from other sources I spoke with Ellie's teachers at Arendsville lilementury School, which she attended front September to December 1997, and at Sporting I ill Elementary School, where she has been enrolled since January. I also reviewed records from the Ilarrisburg Academy, where Ellie attended Kindergarten. The schools concur on Ellie's behavior and her dilliculties with learning numbers and place value. Mrs. Kane, the teacher at Arendsville Elementary School, said that Ellic had some ditiiculty handling the work at the beginning of the school year, but that by the end o1'December "she was like u new person." Mrs. Kane said that both parents expressed interest hl Ellie's progress. She had no difficulty dealing with either parent, but she was put otl'by Mrs. Boom's reportedly coni'rontive attitude. Furthermore, during conferences, Mr. and Mrs, Bauer spent much time criticizing Mrs. Abel, while Mrs. Abel focussed on 1?I11c and her school work. Ellie's current teacher, Mrs. Smith, also reported Mr, and Mrs. Ilaun's caustic comments about Mrs. Abel, while Mrs. Abel has•'not made such cunnnents. 'thus, although Mr, and Mrs. Baum clahn they do not criticize Ellie's mother in 1'ront ot'the child, they ore preoccupied with Mrs, Abel's deficiencies. I spoke with Sully Rooney and Peg Iiehn, psychologists who have worked with Ellic and her family. Ms. Eclm saw Ellie at the beginning of the custody conflict, Mrs. Abel had initiated the sessions to provide a neutral forunn for Ellic to talk about her 1eclings. Ms. Ilelm noted that Ellie's behavior changed over the course of therapy. At first she was "pretty open, happy-go- lucky", but as time went on, she becanne more quiet. serious and closed. Ms. lielm attributed this the the stress of the custody battle. Ms. Rooney has been working with Mrs. Abel for live or six years, Mrs. Abel has consulted her on issues of parenting, and regarding concerns about sexual abuse of her sons and daughter. Ms. r'^ File Abd . , . Pole tit Rooney said that she vaguely recalled the allegation ol'ubuse by Justin unit Daniel's linher, but it was never pursued, With regard to Ellie, Mrs, Abel had taken her w u physician. The physician reported that the physical exam of E llie's genitalia was normal. Ms. Rooney has worked with Ellie through many sessions. She described the child as bright and manipulative, and prone to exaggeration. She described the relationship between mother and daughter its healthy. and finds no evidence that Mrs. Abel "loses her cool or beats her kid." Mrs. Abel supplied several written testimonials from long-tine friends. 'these were predictably positive, but they also went Into detail about specific situations, and dismissed the notion that she has difficulty controlling her temper. INTERPRETATIONS AND RECOMMENDATIONS Mrs, Abel bus been very conscientious In providing for Ellie's physical needs and tier education. She is goal-directed and achievement oriented. She cares deeply about her daughter, but sometimes has difficulty expressing the closeness she Icels inside, I ter own history ol'being emotionally and physically abandoned by both her parents, colors her perceptions and values, For example, independence and achievement are Important to her, and she communicates these values to Ellie. Although she has u significant psychiatric background, Mrs. Abel consults mental health professionals on a regular basis. tier therapists reported that she is responsive to suggestions. However, she still seems to have diflicultics with trust, and consequently is apt to interpret other people's actions as hostile when they are not. Mr. Yuan is u committed lather who wants the best lilt his child. I le is better tuned into her emotions than is her mother. but he tends to overreact when Ellie complains. ht his primary focus on her feelings, he may lose sight of expectations regarding tusks and obligations. Mr. Baum's traditional funnily background provides a good model fir his own role as u parent. The fact that he deters to his wife for direction in this area is not necessarily u drawback. as Mrs. Abel claims. Ellie's personality reveals a need for structure and precision. She also needs to learn to ditlerentiate between situations where questioning and challenge are appropriate, and when they are not. Like most children, she tries to satisfy her otsv immediate wishes in any way site can, which in her case, invloves manipulation of her parents. Her oppositional behavior represents a defense against underlying fears and sadness, She is fully aware of the conflict between her mother and her father and stepmother. and by keeping herself' independent ol'the wishes of adults, she remains emotionally neutral. Both Mr. Baum and Mrs. Abel have lost sight of Ellie's best interests. They have both become more motivated by anger and revenge than by the goal of creating a harmonious living situation for their daughter. Mrs. Abel views Mrs. Baum as a threat, Rather than try to promote u healthy relationship between Ellie and her stepmother, Mrs. Abel undermines it both directly and subtly. Mr. Haunt's I'?1 ,^a I'.Ite Abel . , page 13 general reluctance to confront contributes to the siuwtion. Were he to take charge more with Ellie, there would probably be less conflict between mother and stepmother, Mrs. Baum Is low- key, but harbors resentment nonetheless, wtd this Is reflected subtly III her behuvior, It Is this evaluator's opinion that Mrs. Abel's behuvior Is not sulliciently detrimental to Ellie's development to warrant u drastic change in custody. Prior to the litigation of the post year and a half, Ellie was described by professionals us a busiculiy happy child, At the sunnc tine, FIlle is entitled w ready access to her father, regardless of Mrs. Abel's opinions concerning his parenting abilities, Ile Is conscientious and responsible, and although lit: delegates some child cure duties to his wife, this Is appruprlute to the situation, Tillie should not be deprived of what he has to ollcr. 'T'herefore, the following recommendations are made: I, The parents share physical and legal custody of ilie. The time should he divided to coordinate with Mr. Buum's tine off work, such that I?Ilie stays at his house during his weekdays off. As a consequence, I'.Ilic will probably end up spending more weekends with her mother, since this is the time when Mrs. Abel is free. Holidays should he evenly divided between the parents, 2. Given flint Ellie is ht her third school placement in less than u year, It is recommended that she remain at her current school, and that her I'uther drive her to school when site stays with him, 3. Mrs. Abel's unger toward Mrs. Baum needs to be kept under control. There is no harm done to Ellie if Mrs, Baum picks her up from school, attends school functions, etc. II'Mrs. Abel ceases criticizing Mrs. Baum for such actions, Ellie will Icel more secure.. 4. 'there is no reason why FMC should be prevented from addressing Mrs. Baum as'9mmmnny," Ellie is fully aware of who her mother is. Culling her stepmother "mommy" does not diminish Ellie's feelings flor her biological mother, 5. Mr. and Mrs. Baum should retain Isom their vocal criticism of Mrs. Abel to teachers and other professionals who deal with Ellic, 6. Mrs, Abel should refrain from making derogatory remarks about Ellie's stepmother. Respectfully submitted, Pauline Wallin, Ph,D. Licensed Psychologist h IWINI%IWrWPWINwMFMo KANIIIIAUMI MIM ARNOLDJ,BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant W10" IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO, 96.4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION -LAW IN CUSTODY PLAINTIFF'S MEMORANDUM 1, story of Custodvt Pursuant to an initial Order of Court dated October 11, 1996 the parties have shared legal custody of the minor child, Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20, 1991, The Mother has primary physical custody of said child with the father having partial physical custody on alternate weekends and every Wednesday evening. This case was initially instituted by the PlaintiffFather who, on July 17, 1996, filed an action for primary physical custody. Although the Order of October 11, 1996 was generally followed by the parties, in fact in the summer of 1997 the Defendant gave custody of the child to the Plaintiff so that she could devote herself to her studies. When the Plaintiff assumed that he would continue to have custody of the child for the summer of 1998 Defendant informed him that she was going back to adhering to the letter of the October 11, 1996 Order, At this point in time the Plaintiff is granted little time with the child other than that which is granted to him under the aforesaid Court Order, i , P?WINIX)WOWPWINWUNMUNANIPIIAI)MI MW OIWM Pursuant to the aforesaid temporary Order of Court Dr. Shienvold met with the parties and issued a report including his recommendations as to custody. When Defendant was not pleased with that report she then requested that a second psychological evaluation be performed, A second such evaluation was in fact performed by Dr. Pauline Wallin. Dr. Wallin has likewise issued a report along with recommendations. Since the time of both psychologists' reports they were asked by counsel to meet with the parties closer to the time of hearing and to reassess whether or not their recommendations were still valid, 11. Issuest Whether Plaintiff should now have primary physical custody of the minor child, Elizabeth, 11. Plaintiffs Position: Although Defendant, in her Pre-idearing Memorandum, attempts to dwell far in the past, the only relevant issues are those occurring since the last Order of Court. Since the inception of the original Order of Custody on or about October 11, 1996 it has come to Plaintiffs knowledge that the upbringing of the child has been anything but ideal. 2 f'W'IMI> )Wtl'WI'WINOOMIMUAAN1111AIIMI MM AWN Plaintiff believes that Defendant's Multiple Personality Disorder may clearly effect her judgment and her ability to properly parent, It is felt by plaintiff that, although Defendant may in fact mean well, she is incapable of appropriate parenting. Defendant has exposed the child to a constant stream of men with whom she strikes up immediate physical relationships. Inappropriate language is frequently used in the child's presence. Defendant has over-involved this child in the ongoing litigation to mi extreme degree, perhaps the clearest picture of the problems existing in this case can be seen in the results of the psychological evaluation requested by Defendant. (After being displeased that Dr, Shienvold had performed such an evaluation Defendant requested a second, This was performed by Pauline Wallin, But for the ultimate recommendation the reports are mirror images of each other.) Dr. Wallin portrays Defendant as someone very openly critical of the child's father. The Defendant is even more critical of the step-mother and does so openly to the child, The Defendant likewise moves around a good deal and appears to get involved in relationships without regard to Ellie. Clearly, both psychologists believe that Defendant has trouble dealing with her anger and is subject to outbursts of anger, Furthermore, it is common for her to project blame on others, M.VINIMM 11WINWNIM9&ANI 111AUMI N1 M MIQI" Of a serious nature is the fact that Defendant has a history of accusing people of sexually abusing the child. 'these allegations have always been unfounded, It is believed that this is the result of real or imagined abuse which the Defendant suffered at the hands of her mother, Finally, Defendant claims that It is important for Ellie to be raised with her half- brothers. Plaintiff would first point out that Defendant gave up custody of those children to their father approximately I year ago, More importantly, Plaintiff believes that these boys, who are considerably older than Ellie (ages IG and _ ), are very bad influences on her. These children have very foul mouths, are rude and verbally abusive to their mother in Ellie's presence, and are extremely physical with each other. IV. Witnesses$ A. Expert; Amold T. Shienvold, Ph,D. - Dr. Shienvold conducted the original psychological evaluation in this matter and will testify as to his findings and his conclusion that Plaintiff, Jay Baum, should have primary physical custody of the minor child. 2. Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. (if not called by Defendant) - Dr. Wallin was appointed to do a second psychological evaluation at the request of the Defendant. Although Dr. Wallin's original report was extremely similar to 4 P XWINIY)WMWYWINWMI:MORANPI)IAI)MI Mk'M WIWB that of Dr, Shienvold's she reached the conclusion that the parties should share physical custody of the minor child. It is believed however that, due to circumstances which have taken place in the last few months, Dr. Wallin may now in fact find in favor of primary custody in the Plaintiff Father. B. Fact: I. Jay Baunt - Plaintiff - Mr. Bautn is the Plaintiff herein and the father of Ale minor child in question, Elizabeth Abel. Mr, Baum will testify to his relationship with the child, the time he spends with the child, the wonderful relationship which exists between the child and his wife and to other facts which will generally support a finding of primary custody in him. 2. Joann Baum - Plaintiffs wife - Mrs. Baron is the wife of the Plaintiff and the step-mother of the minor child. Mrs. Baum will testify to her own relationship with the child and to the quality of time which they spend together. She can also add testimony as to the relationship of the child and her fattier. 3. Paul Baum - Plaintiffs brother - Paul is the brother of Jay Baum and therefore uncle to the child. Paul maintains a fairly close relationship with the Defendant Mother and can therefore testify to her care of the child, the 5 Y IWINIk1W610WIN WWONOMANI111AUMI ME M threats which she has delivered to other individuals, her attitude toward Plaintiff mid her care of the child, 4, Matt Evans - Plaintiffs neighbor - Mr, Evans will testify to the Plaintiffs care of his child and to the hostile exchanges initiated by the Defendant when she comes to exchange custody of the child, 5. Cam Fitzgerald - Friend of Plaintiff - Cam will testify to the WIWN Defendant's habit of discussing inappropriate topics in front of her children, 6. David Abel - Ex-husband of Defendant - As the ex-husband of Defendant and the father of her first two children Mr. Abel can aptly testify to the inappropriateness of Defendant's care of her children in general. Mr. Abel can further testify to Defendant's emotional and psychological ill health. Gary Casteel - Ex-boyfriend of Defendant - Mr. Casteel, as one of many ex-boyfriends of Defendant, can testify to her attitude toward men in general, her attitude toward the father's of her children, her serious desire to ruin these men and her poor emotional and psychological state of mind. 8. Walt Wiltschek - Ex-fiance of Defendant - Mr, Wiltschek was the gentleman with whom the Defendant had an affair since the time of the reports of the above-named psychologists. In that period of time Mr. P VINIXAMWINMMIAMUNANU IMUMI MYM . . YIW" Wiltschek has in fact instituted suit against the Defendant with regard to her taking of his vehicle and his home, However, and more importantly, Mr. Wiltschek can testify to the Defendant's poor care of the minor child, the extremely poor behavior of the Defendant's two other children and their negative effect on the minor child, Defendant's obsession with sex, Defendant's obsession with ruining the post men in her life and various and sundry other important and relevant factors. Dated: August 10, 1998 Respectfully Submitted, /?iCLcu? LC c? . Maria P. ognettsquire Sup. Ct. I.D. #27914 200 North Third Street Twelfth Floor P.O. Box 689 Harrisburg, PA 17108-0689 (717) 232-2103 7 1 1 CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE 1, Maria P. Cogr?ettl, Esquire, Attorney for Plaintiff herein, do hereby certify that on this date 1 served the foregoing Plaintiffs Memorandum by depositing a true and exact copy thereof in the United States mail, first class, postage prepaid, addressed as follows; Diane G. Radcliff, Esquire 3448 Trindle Road Camp Hill, PA 17011 /vl? 1cG? Maria P. ogne , Esquire Sup. Ct. 1.13, #27914 200 North Third Street Twelfth Floor P.O. Box 689 Harrisburg, PA 17108.0689 (717) 232-2103 Dated; August 10, 1998 IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM, ) Plaintiff ) vs, ) File No. 96.4960 SUZANNE S. ABEL, ) Defendant ) ORDES AND NOW, this f ,1 4 day of < r-, 1998 upon consideration of the foregoing David Abel's Motion to Quash Subpoena to Attend and Testify, the court schedules. drlL%&. r -lasw4mg to address said Motion for the 20M duy of ( I ? ; i 1 , 1998 at fI tr d m, in courtroom number of the Cumberland County Courthouse. BY THE COURT; , r I I r I I IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff ) vs, ) Pile No, 96-4060 SUZANNE S. ABEL, ) Defendant ) DAVID ABEL'S MOx OI N TO QUASH SUBPOENA TO ATTEND AND TESTIFY AND NOW9 conics David Abel, by and through his attorneys, Howett, Kissinger, and Miles, P.C. , and files this Motion to Quash Subpoena to Attend and Testify mid in support thereof states as follows; 1. Movant, David Abel (hereinafter referred to as "Mr. Abel"), is an adult individual who currently resides at 5217 East Simpson Ferry Road, Mechanicsburg, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, 17055, 2. Mr. Abel is the former husband of Suzanne S. Abel, the Defendant in the above. captioned case. 3. Mr. Abel and the Defendant are the parents of two minor children, namely Justin Abel and Daniel Abel. 4. Currently, pursuant to a custody order of February 18, 1998, Justin and Daniel are in Mr. Abel's majority physical custody. 5. On August 13, 1998, Mr, Abel was served with a Subpoena to Attend and Testify in the above-captioned case on behalf of the Plaintiff, Arnold J, Baum. A copy of the Subpoena to Attend and Testify is attached hereto, marked exhibit "A" and incorporated by reference herein, as if set forth at length, 0. On August 14, 1998, Mr. Abel's counsel was informed by Diane Radcliff, Esquire, counsel for Defendant, that Justin Abel has been listed as a rebuttal witness for the Defendant for the sole purpose of rebutting Mr. Abel's testimony should he testily. Accordingly, If Mr, Abel is released from his subpoena, Justin Abel will likewise not he called to testify. 7. Pu,R.C. P. 234.4(b) provides as follows, (b) A motion to quash a subpoena, notice to attend or notice to produce may be filed by a party, by the person served or by any other person with sufficient interest. Aller hearing, the court may make an order to protect a party, witness or other person from unreasonable annoyance, embarrassment, oppression, burden or expense, 8. Mr Abel believes that he and his children will be caused unreasonable burden, annoyance, embarrassment, and /or oppression if he and, therefore, Justin Abel are forced to testify in the above-captioned case. 9. Steven P. Lindenberg, Ph.D„ the children's counselor since May, 1997, thoroughly believes that forcing Mr. Abel to testify will have u detrimental impact on the relationships between the Defendant, Mr. Abel and their minor children as is evidenced by his letter of August 13, 1998, a copy of which is attached hereto, marked exhibit "B" and incorporated by reference herein, as if set forth at length. 10. Mr. Abel currently has no direct knowledge of circumstances surrounding Defendant's relationship with the child in question. He has not lived with Defendant since 1989, and his dealings with Defendant in the recent past have involved only matters attendant to the two minor children of Mr. Abel and Defendant. Mr. Abel believes and therefore avers that he has no relevant information which would assist this court in it's custody determination in this matter. 1 1. Mr. Abet believes and therefore avers that the burden, prejudice and potential disruption with his relationship with his children which may result from a requirement that he testily in the above-referenced matter significantly out weighs the very limited probative value of any testimony he is capable of offering. WHEREFORE, David Abel respectfully requests that this Honorable Court Quash the Subpoena to Attend and Testify served on him on August 13, 1998, Date: X Respcetfully submitted, Donald T. Kissinger, Esq irc HOWETT, KISSINGER & MILES, P,C, 130 Walnut Street P.O. Box 810 Harrisburg, PA 17108 Telephone: (717) 234-2616 Counsel for Movant David Abel 3 VRRIFIATION I, DAVID S. ABEL, hereby swear and affirm that the facts contained in the foregoing David Abel's Motion 4o Quuoh Subpoena to Attend and Testify are true and correct to the best of my knowledge, information and belief and are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa.C.S. 14904 relating to unsworn falsification to auth rides. Datet 8/17/98 DAVID S. ABEL I f ! PlJli 13-19% 13924 PULL MINTING 1-0, &w1V 44el RUSH SUBPOENA DO NOT C'EL AY rOMMOn,ZALTH O PENNSYLVANIA POWNTY_Cly CONAl1CBLAlYJB ARNOLD I BAUM, Pltdntiw v File No. 96.4060 SUZANNE S. ABLE, Defmdant r,Ol T0! David Abel 5217 Eat Simpson Ferry Road Mechanicsburg, PA 17055 I, You are ordered by the Court to come to the Courtroom 04, Fourth Floor, Cumberland County Courthouse, Carlisle, Pennsylvuda, on August 20, 1998 at 9.70 o'clock, a. m., to testily on behalf of Arnold I. Baum in the above case, and to remain until excused 2. And bring with you the following. NIA if you MI to attend or to produce the documents or things required by this subpoena, you, may be subject to the sanctions authorized by Rule 234 5 or the Penasovaala Rules of Civil Procedure, including but not limited to costs, attorney fees and imprisonment ISSUED BY A PARTY/COUNSEL IN COMPLIANCE WITH Pa R C P No 274 2(a) NAME Mans P Cogtletti, Esquire ADDRESS 200 North Third Street, Twelfth Floor P O Box 699 Harrisburg, PA 171US TELEPHONE (717) 232.2107 SUPREME COURT ID 027914 DATE. Q 97J) _- Scal of he Coun AUG-13-1999 13900 BY THE COURT IQ, Prothonotary, Civil Divisi Deputy EXHIBIT nnn TOTAL P.01 9'Y: P.01 From 717-533-6365 to 9,2345402 at 08/13/99 04t34p Pq 002/003 LINDENBERG INSTITUTE FOR THERAPY STEVEN P. LINDENBERG, PH. D. CLINICAL MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELOR LINDA K. LINDENBERG, M.DIV COUNSELOR ) IS WEST GOVERNOR ROAD HERSHEY, PENNSYLVANIA 17033 717 S14.10l41VQIL.1) Donald Kissinger, Esquire 130 Wahurt Street PO Box 810 Harrisburg PA 17108 Via Fax and U.8,111W Dear Mr. Kissinger: 717 $11065 d•AN) August 13, 1998 IN REt JUSTIN AND DANIEL A#,1khPIAi9wl .0111 (.11190) 'Today 1' became aware that David Abel has been subpoenned to testily against Suzanne Abel in the case of Hanel 1. Abel next '11lursday, August 20, 1998. l understand that you urn going to move to quash the subpoena. I am writing in the interests of Justin and Daniel Abel, sons of Suzanne and David Abel As you know, I have been the children's counselor since May, 1997. 1 also mediated a custody and visitation agreement between David and Suzanne that has been working well since August 18, 1997. Since that time, David and Suzanne have demonstrated cooperative, civil copurcnting in the inlerc?4ls ol'their minur vhildren, Nu longer in tin middle of their puruds' ucrintoniuus dispule, and as it result of signilicunt reduction in stress and tension present hcretohuc, the children and their parents (including Holly Abel), have benefited both psychologically and emotionally. Given that David Abel's coerced testimony against Justin and Daniel's mother would become part of the public record and given that such Icslinunny is likely to be interpreted by Suzane as udverse to her interests; I have serious clinical concenw that the end result will undermine the civility and cooperativeness the Abel's presently enjoy. It is illy prolrssional opinion, within u reasonable degree of clinical certainty, that such at development would be detrimental to Justin and Daniel's health and wellure. It would cause therm psychological and emotional hunt. For instance, one or both of my patients may view David's testimony as it betrayal oftheir. Another. In another scenario, Suzanne may view David's testimony as it mace to completely cut her out ot'Justin and Daniel's lives. 1 area sure that the Court could appreciate that these auld other possible scans ios can only result in conflict between David and Suzanne and unknown hams to illy patients. I C0IFIU1'17AI, EXHIBIT f>I.1G-13-1999 16: 42 717-!,33-5 3E5 1 P. 0,2 "li" From 717-533-6365 to 9,2345402 at 08/13/96 04c34p Pq 003/003 i ENDERG, PILMC ?rlc?u? ?rru? l?1t ,crr?!Lt?Yr?i4.:L. have loom involved in custody evaluations and mediation in over 300 ruses during the last 15 years. Based ulon my experience as un expert. I land it hard to Whom that Mr. Basin's dispute with Suzame MW ht line above referenced custody mutter hinges or otherwise depends upon Mr. ANN testimony against his Ammer wile mad the mother ot'my patients. Therefore, I support your motion to quash the subpoena. I urge you to do everything possible to protect the health and welGare ol'3ustin and Daniel Abel that hus Wilelited livm the cooperative copurenting arrangement mediated letwcen Suzamc and David AM: their Mather and Father, Sinomly, Steven P. Lindmix-rg, MD. Clinical Menial Health Counselor X2.6181398 CONFIDENTIAL aatrj-13-1998 16:43 717-_533-6365 W, P.03 IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J, BAUM, Plaintiff ) vs. ) File No. 96.4060 ) SUZANNE S, ABEL, ) Defendant ) I, Donald T. Kissinger, Esquire, counsel for David Abel, Movant in the above-captioned action, hereby certify that a true and correct copy of the foregoing David Abel's Motion to Quash Subpoena to Attend and Testify was served upon DluncG, Radcliff, Esquire, counsel for Defendant, Suzanne S, Abel, by hand delivery on August 17, 1998, to the following address: Diane G. Radcliff, Esquire 3448 Trindle Road Mechanicsburg, PA 17055 Date: - Donald T. Kissinger, Esquir HOWETT, KISSINGER & MILES, P,C. 130 Walnut Street P.O. Box 810 Harrisburg, PA 17108 Telephone: (717) 234-2616 Counsel for Movant David Abel IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff ) vs, ) File No, 96.4060 SUZANNE S. ABEL, ) Defendant ) CERTIFICATE QF SERVICE 1, Donald T, Kissinger, Esquire, counsel fur David Abel, Movant in the above-captioned action, hereby certify that a true and correct copy of the foregoing David Abel's Motion to Quash Subpoena to Attend and Testify was served upon Maria P, Cognetti, Esquire, counsel for Plaintiff, Arnold J, Baum, by hand delivery on August 17, 1998, to the following address: Maria P. Cognetti, Esquire 200 North Third Street Harrisburg, PA 17101 Date: l 177f Y Dona . Kissinger, Esqui e HOWETT, KISSINGER & MILES, P,C, 130 Walnut Street P.O. Box 810 Harrisburg, PA 17108 Telephone: (717) 234-2616 Counsel for Movant David Abel '. 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BAUM, M THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF Plaintiff tCOMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA t V tCIVIL ACTION - LAW I SUBANNS S. ABEL, tNOt 96-4060 CIVIL TERM Defendant 1ZN CUSTODY COURT OJ=R A. e (.w l,le, I " AND NOW, this fir day of Meyembsr, 1997, upon consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Report, it is ordered and directed as follows: 1. A hearing is scheduled in Court Room No 4 of the Cumberland Co my Courthouse on the /4 day of 'h ) 0 IL L, , 1998, at `?'1 0C) 4' m. at which time test moray will be taken in the above case. At this hearing, the Father, Arnold J. Baum, shall be the moving party and shall proceed initially with testimony. Counsel for the parties shall file with the Court and opposing counsel a memorandum setting forth the history of custody in this case, the issues currently before the Court, each party's position on those issues, a list of witnesses who will be called to testify and a summary of the anticipated testimony of each witness. This memorandum shall be filed at least ten days prior to the mentioned hearing date. 2. Mouher may make arrangements to have a custody evaluation done and Father is directed to cooperate in the evaluation to the extent that his wife shall also cooperate in this evaluation. This directive to the Father is conditioned upon the understanding that Mother shall incur all expenses in connection with this evaluation. 3. In anticipation of Dr. Shienvold being called as a witness for the Father, Mother shall continue to cooperate with Dr. Shienvold in the event any additional information/documentation/interview sessions are required in order to ensure that Dr. Shienvold has all necessary information to render an opinion. Cost for Dr. Shienvold's work in this nature shall, from this point forward, be at the expense of the Father. 4. Pending further Order of this Court, thin Court's Order of October 110, 1996, shall remain in effect. 8Y THB COURT, ev see out Diane Q. Badoliff, dsquirs - O IR/8 John J. Connelly, Require /917, r I I I I I 1 I I I r 1 I l I I r I' 1 1 I I '. I I I r r I I I I r 1 I I r I r l I 1 ' 'Y r 1 It r r 1 I 1 I I r 1 r I r 1 1 r I II r I I i ' I, r I , ' i l r r r I I IAI ! M r I rl i Ir111r l' WI(.' ?7 nr -r, R, ,pI, I 1? fl t,llli'' L II,Y„'i'li'111' I i 1 II, '' 1r 1 ?, 1 , , r r 1 '., 1. ,. I I , 1 , I I , 1 I , I 11.' 1 r I , I i , r 1 II 1? , 1 I 1. 1 I ,r II 1, 1 ' I I I ,1 I 1 ',I -, it 1. 1 1? 1 1. 1 1 r i 11 1 ?1I , ,, ) 1 1, 1 r?, I I 1 r. t I 1 I ? y 1 I 1, , I, 1 I , I I 1 I I I_ 1' I , I r I? I r ' i 1 I I 1 I 1' ? 1 r , 1 1, 1 ' 1 I 111 I i ' Ir I I 11.1 ' I_ i I 1 ''-. I I r ' I,r I ? , I Ir I li. 11 ,1 .1 , I 1 ,I I ' , 'Ili , II I I ' I I , , 1. I 1 I I ' J I I 41 Pending further Order of this Court, this Court's Order of October 11, 19960, shall remain in effect. BY THE CounTo sv At ass act Diane Go Radcliff, Require _ d ?c,v rnu?.1s a ??t???97. John J, Connelly, gxqulro r r 1 I r 1 ? I I r 1 ' I I I ,' Ir I r r ' ' I I ? II , I 1 ? r I Ir r r r ,. r rI r I r 1 r r I r I 1 I I 1 I 1 , I r r , 1 , I' r I ARNOLD J. BAUM, tIN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF Plaintiff tCMMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA t V tCIVIL ACTION - LAW I SUSANNE S. ABEL, tNOt 96-4060 CIVIL TERM Defendant tIN CUSTODY Prior Judge: Kevin A. Hess CONCILIATION CONF1d mau SUMMARY REPORT IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE CUMBERLAND COUNTY CIVIL RULE OF PROCEDURE 1915.3-8(b), the undersigned Custody Conciliator, submits the following reportt 1. The pertinent information pertaining to the child who is the subject of this litigation is an follower Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20, 1991. 2. A Conciliation Conference was held on November 18, 1997, with the following individuals in attendancet The Mother, Suzanne S. Abel, with her counsel, Diane Q. Radcliff, Esquire, and counsel for the Father, John J. Connelly, Require. 3. The parties were previously before the Conciliator in October of 1996. At that time, the parties agreed to undergo counseling and family therapy with Dr. Arnold Shienvold for the purpose of Dr. Shienvold recommending to the parties a permanent order with respect to a custody arrangement in this case. Dr. Shienvold's evaluation is complete and has been presented to counsel for both parties. 4. The existing Custody Order provides Mother to have primary physical custody and Father to have periods of temporary physical custody. Dr.. Shienvold's report suggests that Father should be the primary physical custodian of the minor child. Mother is unwilling to abide by the recommendations of Dr. Shienvold, and she seeks to have another evaluation performed. The Conciliator is of the opinion that the Mother can have her own expert do an evaluation in this case and that the Father would be required to cooperate in that evaluation as long as the second evaluation is paid for by the Mother and does not unreasonably delay the resolution of this case by a hearing. A S. rho Conciliator recommends an order In the form an attached, DATE u GIlro equ rf s Custody Concll for I I r l I I , i 1 I 1 I 1 ' i. I I - , I I 1 i r I I I 1 I r r I I t , I I .. I r 1 1 i r 1 1 1 r I r' 1 I 1 I I r r I , I l I 1 I ARNOLD J, BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO, q(i . 11060 Ae.u-.i t CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY AND NOW, upon consideration of the attached Petition, It Is hereby directed that the parties and their respective counsel appear before, Esquire, the Conciliator, on the "day of 19 1, at 6i)_A,M., at the 44h F4eer-@nmbertene?eunty?ourthouee GerNs4e Pennsylvania, for a Pre-Hearing Custody Conference. At such Conference, an effort will be made to resolve the Issues In dispute; or If this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the Issues to be heard by the Court, and to enter into a Temporary Order. All children age five or older may also be prosont at the Conference. Failure to appear at the Conference may provide grounds for the entry of a temporary or permanent Order. Notification to the Defendant by the Prothonotary's Office is waived. For the Court, Date of Order: 4 l7 /446 By: Custody Conclllatori ?rl.t YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE, IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A LAWYER OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP. Office of the Court Administrator Cumberland County Courthouse, 4th Floor Carlisle, PA 17013 (717) 240.6200 X17 1 .. 1. ,r ,. ;6 jilt, IU Iy; ; 1 I ?U, ?ll/!%I L; 4r I rl r 1 I I I,IIa N?.rv'rl?ari.l?? lls, ' I I r. I I ,?,? rOG ?f . spy ?r< t r ? d??"?? ' I I 1 I r r r I I I r II r ? I I? I I I ! I I I II Iii. I I ? I I I I 1 r I I r 11 r I I 1 I 1 1 r r I r I I ? r 1? ? I I I I r Ir rl I d r r. ?. I r I ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff V, SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS, CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO, CIVIL ACTION • LAW IN CUSTODY You, Suzanne S. Abel, Defendant, have been sued In Court to obtain custody, partial custody or visitation of the child: Elizabeth Abel. You are ordered to appear In person at the Cumberland County Court House, One Courthouse Square, Carlisle, Pennsylvania, on the day of 1996, at o'clock _.m, You are further ordered to bring with you the child: Elizabeth Abel. If you fall to appear as provided by this Order or to bring the child, an Order for custody, partial custody or visitation may be entered against you or the Court may Issue a warrant for your arrest. YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A LAWYER OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP. Office of the Court Administrator Cumberland County Courthouse, 4th Floor Carlisle, PA 17013 (717) 240-6200 BY THE COURT: J. ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE S, ABEL, Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO, 96- ti 060 (,A J T CIVIL ACTION • LAW IN CUSTODY 1. The Plaintiff Is Arnold J. Baum, residing at 390 Crooked HIII Road, Hummelstown, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania 17036. 2, The Defendant Is Suzanne S. Abel, residing at 211 East Locust Street, P.0. Box 1032, Mechanicsburg, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania 17066 3. Plaintiff seeks custody of the minor child, Elizabeth Abel whose present residence and date of birth Is as follows; NAME PRESENT RESIDENCE D.O.B. Elizabeth Abel 211 E. Locust Street 11/21/91 Mechanicsburg, PA 17066 The child was born out of wedlock. The child, Elizabeth Abel, Is presently in the custody of Suzanne S. Abel, who resides at 211 E. Locust Street, P.O.Box 1032, Mechanicsburg, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania. During the past five years, the child has resided with the following persons and at the following addresses; NAME RESIDENCE DATE Suzanne S. Abel Justin Abel Daniel Abel Wesley Perk Apts, Mechanicsburg, PA Approx, 11/91 • 5/93 Suzanne S, Abel Justin Abel Daniel Able 211 E, Locust Street Mechanicsburg, PA 5193 • Present The mother of the child is Suzanne S, Abel, currently residing at 211 E, Locust Street, P.O, Box 1032, Mechanicsburg, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, She Is single, The father of the child is Arnold J. Baum, currently residing at 390 Crooked HIII Road, Hummelstown, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania, He Is married, 4. The relationship of Plaintiff to the child Is that of father, The Plaintiff currently resides with the following person: NAME Joanne Baum RELATIONSHIP Wife 5, The relationship of Defendant to the child Is that of mother. The Defendant currently resides with the following person: NAME RELATIONSHIP Justin Abel Son Daniel Abel Son 6. Plaintiff has not participated as a party or witness, or in another capacity, In other litigation concerning the custody of the child In this or another court, Plaintiff has no Information of a custody proceeding concerning the child pending In a court of this Commonwealth, Plaintiff does not know of a person not a party to the proceedings who has physical custody of the child or claims to have custody or visitation rights with respect to the child, 7. The best Interests and permanent welfare of the child will be served by granting the relief requested, 8. Each parent whose parental rights to the child have not been terminated and the person who has physical custody of the, child have been named as parties to this action. WHEREFORE, the Plaintiff, Arnold J. Baum, requests the court to grant shared legal and physical custody of the minor child, Elizabeth Abel, to him. Respectfully Submitted, CONNELLY, REID & SPADE Date: - 19-9(p cost uttice HOx ub3 Harrisburg, PA 17108 (717) 238-4776 (717) 238-4793 Telecopler PA 1. D, No. 15615 I I I verify that the statements made In this Complaint are true and correct, I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of Is Ps.C.S. Section 4904 relating to unsworn falsification to authorities, I Date: /P Arnold J, S m 1 1 1 ', I I r 1 1 1 1 Ir I r I I r I ' r I I 1 1 - I • I I ?,? 1. ARNOLD J, BAUM, t IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS Plaintiff t CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA t v, t NO, 86.4060 CIVIL TERM , SUZANNE S. ABEL, t CIVIL ACTION - LAW Defendant t IN CUSTODY i ACCEPTANCE OF SERVICE I, Susan E, Lederer, Esquire, attorney for the above-named Defendant, accept service of the Complaint in Custody on behalf of my client, Suzanne S, Abel, ti? -- f ?'--YQ • - Date, s?-8o-16 Susan E. Lederer, Esquire 1 , I 1 I I , 1 I , , i I I ? 1 i i. i i I i ' i I I I' I I I ?I ? r .I i I ?. 1' ? I 1 ? - r I I i I - I I I ? I. I I I I i I I I ? 1 I 1 'I ? I I I ? ? I I I I I ? I I I i ? Il ?? R{.f I I /!' ?. ' ... I ?., I I I I I 4 1 ?? i 1 r,t,' ? I I fi_I?i? rT. II ? I I ?. I I rl. h ? ? ,, CJ u? I i I I' I I I ., I I .I ? .I ? I ' ' ? i _ ?. r- I I 1 I I ' i I ? i I I I rl I I 1 I i I I I I I ? ? r ' i ?. I _ I I 1 i i i i I I I i I I I I I I i I . 1 I i i i I I I. I I i I I' I i i s-III I I i? I?. I I i' I it I I I I i I I i ' r i I. i it i i i.'I I w , ARNOLD J. BAUMr Plaintiff V. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant t IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS t CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA t t CIVIL ACTION - LAW t t CUSTODY/VISITATION t NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM DEFENDANT'S ANSWER TO COMPWNT FOR CUSWOQ 1. Admitted. 2. Admitted. 3. The minor child's name and address are correct as stated, Her date of birth is November 20, 1991, It is admitted that the minor child has resided with Defendant for the child's entire life, The correct residences and dates are as followst K= RESIDENCE DATEE. Suzanne Abel 601 North Baltimore Avenue 11/91 - Justin Abel. Boiling Springs, PA 7/92, Daniel Abel Suzanne Abel 211 East Locust Street 7/92 - Justin Abel Mechanicsburg, PA present Daniel Abel The information regarding the minor child's mother and father is admitted. 4. Admitted. 5. Admitted. 6. Admitted. 7. Denied. Strict proof demanded, VERI/IQATION I 1 P verify that the statements made in the foregoing, Defendant' a Answer to Complaint for Custody are true and correct, I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa,C.S, 64904 relating to unsworn falsification to authorities, U Suzanne S. el I I I 1 1 I I 1 I I 1 I i I I I I I i I I I ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff t t v. t t SUZANNE S, ABEL, t Defendant t IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA CIVIL ACTION - LAW CUSTODY/VISITATION NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE I, SUSAN E. LEDERER, do hereby certify that I served a true and correct copy of the foregoing Defendant's Answer to Complaint for Custody upon the following below-named individual by depositing same in the U.S. Mail, postage pre-paid at Hershey, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania this 1,60-day of A d?,,..., 1996, SERVED UPONt John J. Connelly, Jr., Esquire CONNELLY, REID & SPADE P.O, Box 963 Harrisburg, PA 17108 Susan E, Lederer Supreme court i,D. #44861 JAMES, SMITH & DURKIN 134 Sipe Avenue Hummelstown, PA 17036 (717) 533-3280 I I `J?II ((• 'I? I r r I I I ? I I _,1 R U_II (1 . 'I.?1? I r. I I I I I I l 44 F A ° a 44 4J F 6? n 64 ? O o ti N ?C 7 r '' tx W H m a° O o jai ? O N AU I I r I I I I I I '' 1 ' I . r ' 1 r r I I I ? Ir i . ri r ' ? I I r I r II ? I r I I r i r , cps r-Y.td • kcc , ??a.?u:JLc ES, M.D, JAMES F. DALY, JR., M,D, ROBERT L. COLDREN, M.D, MARIO M. SANGILLO, M•D, SANDRA J. SMITH, M.D, UPTOWN 1`1101 L 6610NAL nulLnwa 215461,10N1 It 11111106TNEGT• SUITE 160 IIAI11116nUR0, PENNSYLVANIA 171102091 1LlEPHONE 42,0174 ' C.L E ((? -- 01RTHDATE: 1/ 'q 0 9l (Iasi) (Ilrs (middle) - DRUG ALLERGIES: ---.-.-- PROBLE PROBLEM M LIST (Major) Birth History Ap Family History P ROBLEM LIST (Minor) LABORATORY PROBLEM _ DATES .? -- - OtRIS ^----- - -"' Media - - •- - ------- ------ -- 2 -- - IMMUNIZATIONS - ---- Tuberculin Test OPT - DATE LOT NUMBER REACTION - OPV -- DATE LOT NUMBER DATE DATE 96 - 4 MMFi - I 7 20V /1i1h l 7 ?d ? _ HIB (H. Inllue )ATE z. COMMhNIS nzoa) Vaccine LOT NUMBER 1 , -- `- - - --- Othor. _ .I ?,i • ?, I / ®? FAMILY MEDICAL HISTORY Today's data (To be completed by all patients) l - - Child's Name _----- Home Address 'is a .-_--...__._-- l' f?,/? ?I)11A.L'iK,.f?,}I??C?_aI)1Cf Phone Mother's Name Race ulh? _._ Haight Weight Mother's occupalion _______...-_-----_-----_------_---_°-- Health problems? Y?------------ Smoking? _ Maternal Grandmother - Health Problems Maternal Grandfather Health Problems Father's Name JJ?1 LSJILL . Age .-Atgt•!-L Race -Li I1L-tj- Height Vd r., Weight J._ 5-. Father's Occupation Health Problems? ._-9Y?L-_ ---------•-• Smoking? -L Paternal Grandmother '1._)C>,1 kaL1 tL_ LLy?,/ Problems Paternal Grandfather ' !r c s J?J!7c1?_1Alltl` Problems Brothers 8 Sisters of Child (Name) Bolhdate Full yr or Slop Sex Health Status Living in your household dLk6l r i,) - ?I.-g,?- M -keU(( \.i o ,I F t f<? !lr b`.? '/.) f?1 cCLLU1 L GW Please circle any problems on either side of family. II circled, note relationship to patient. FAMILY ILLNESS RELATIONSHIP FAMILY ILLNESS RELATIONSHIP An birth defects or inherited disease Lungs Cystic Fibrosis Death in infancy or earl childhood Tuberculosis Infertilaylmultiple miscarriages DiSeaselKldne tumor Kidne Allergies. Seasonal (hayfever( A th y Mental relardahon/Down's syndrome s ma Eczema Nervous s stem. m ro ems Migraine headaches NourohbromatoslslTubarous sclerosis Learning problems Cleft lip or palate Spina Blhda o an spine) _ Eye Problems/Blindness/Reanablastoma Seizures convulsians Hearing problems/Dealness (al early age) Skeletal Extra fingers/toes Blood Ancnua N d bl Muscular d slra h ee ing pro ems _ xl - Heart Heart defects • childhood j , Scoliasls/bone da10rmities w Heart allacks • below age 50 Glantlr. QIabC 4r Ut ' 0 kJCjVA-l Cam lienl•> _ Thyroid pfable is hl1(L Wulsually short or tall r PKII -- --- Olhor tl.-.., Mile n remelt child of u V I_" i'fv N.tt - ...... ' L 661 17 IY Hasp No ! I ,; V r ", W nest) IMothec t given nnnel i li a given name( On Inl Il non ,W -- Mo Oa 4m Tlm w'f- Ire- ghl - - -we-, l Tngth Cheat s --Head - c c J - C)? - /dd/ Attending pg vtun --? ---? O( BIrtA a )1 F? am a. Ihs? or ITli . ... v? Incbe y?L < (,i% . q/ "oVi A 10 '1 .. _ ADMISSION EXAM _. INATION DISCHARGE EXAMINATION APGAR_. I'Z -it S__ ItATION 1 GENERAL APPEARANCE Im1l Ullly, activity, lone, colol, nutnoon, edenul 2. SKIN Uttuus. tallies hematomal 7. HEAO, NECK Ilonlaneh. lace imom. molding, Caput, tnnwlabal, teplialah1u11lamll 4. EYES pbnoitnahha. tnnlunttlva, _ led lelleel 5. EARS. NOSE 6 THROAT (lips. gums, palatal 6. THORAX (including breast hypeltrophyl TAW N G S 8. HEART pnrlueing lament pulses) DESCHIPTION OF FINDINGS xW, 6V( .t'A 97-AB DOMEN _ (including umbilicus. hvm. spleen R Wrists) •?•r 10. GENITALIA (lesles. cuteni(ivion, meatoe, docliaigel ,•J1.+_ •"J 11. ANUS I (V t,,. 12. TRUNK A SPINE 17. EXTREMITIES (including clavicles and abduction of hip bunts) A, _ 14. RIFLE ES (Moro. grasp, tucking, swallow mg, icy. Ionic neck) lz..lr1 7 Impression at admission ??`.'vl lrT ' ? (? ?m Impression mid discharge diagnosis ! 1 '`i (I r / tuV ?i/?•j'(il? 1?j(t?(???' II?'a??si?? '.?YJ?Z1 l 'v J d i i ji . Aau u•ii i ai - ? ilnn a ?nnii?i u4 , IMPRINT PAIIENTS PLATE HERE r'•,. HARRISBURG HOSPITAL ?.-1.? ¦ `; AtwrPU. I1bv;1)4 tJren7+1 Itigltnu. 5111.111 6imnuy NFW 11OIM DESCRIPTION OF FINDINGS tJ J a I .FFc0 i L GIRLS: BIRTH TO 36 MONTHS PHYSICAL GROWTH NCHS PERCENTILES' I „- 1016 r,11 :J9 100 38- 31- 95 :16. 90 75 70 65 155 21 21') 50 14) 18 45 17 16 -- ,10 n Lrt1 ,. 7 .1 _ e s- .1 ( 1 I r ( j 1 r I •. If A1.1I I.. ?.t? ? ?)1 1 II 1111+11 I I 2k? j/ I I C3 1 ; I I 16 ?, I I ' r I I f? ? I r 1 11 , I / I r r "f 1 ' l ?'I ' 1 1 ; - I ..A 5 6 (1 8 ; oil 0 1 S ; 4 27 30 3( 3a I 1. T y' i 1 f 1 L .r L ' I - i ./ r r ?' I I I I i ?'J ?• ? I W I i J ?/I 1; ' 16 111 1 2.1 ?7 :10 I I I I ( r r•ul I. Id' ? .. ... -I/ ? -I 1 I 1 I " 'rq n • ? I ?? .1I1 rur ? /I. r.l•? I rrl i 1 I I I , I I I 1 ?/ I I r ; r ! I r 1 I 1. I I r I r r r r r 1 ,Q5 1 I„ -40 10(J )I I y n ) ?1 IA• r l nrl 38 I Ir ?,J.rrl. 95 cm In % ,(i 17 16 15 d2? 1•i- 31 30 13--29 z8 -27 1? 26 26 1t 24 23 10 2:? •21 9" [20 19 8 - 18 ig r I' I I rr - I .? GIRLS: 2 TO 18 YEARS L t?? d PHYSICAL GROWTH 44A?^ liutnrd e 1. NCHS PERCENTILES Nanro (?7 1 C/[' __ _ -- I i I I I I I t n I: nl I. ?nl? !d 1 n!! I1 ?n:??l„ II 1'? Li 11 ibpp it, li 111 I ?AII P„1 IO!, LI Y.I J•1 I ,!.11,'I,,I l - E Y A Y Jn '. ? ? ,I4..Ln1 I '- - - - - - - --cuJ Jr, ui6 -- - - -- - - 176>'1 I'.d671y1'1 -- 110 li7 ... .. 1 tit) ! .,.! 1.u i- I I? 1I.I - 166 66 z 4 I 6 t d it 10 VI I'MYLIN, _ ' ,. r Idea , Ie„ 1 . r? ?., .-,.. J' r ' I I ?. ? ? ? w 166 ' ti 1 61 t55 r -- ?/ - ?? ' c cm In I)o Icy 150 y/o 0(j. i -- 1411 X ? / .. .. I i / 1 ? I'p] T 86 I 11 ll __ - f t I 10p 7It;0 _ - f- ?/ / I ?t501 r I { !, I ! tl) 116- 4 - Y ` - r? y 66 110.. 0 110' a - l f 60 3 qI I Il X .501 110 o r I ? ? ? u v o? iota r. / i. 1 11J u} 31, 60 - - ---- ?'i .' I -- - --- 3U't > ?cm .. i ??-.. f_ I I .. I ? I i I •? ?I I r_) r-I ?/ I Ullle' Apo: 'i IY 41 Z(, ? lit 11. / [ r ri 2 WEEK-A [] Birth lix Review SSESSMENT I "1 Fantlly I ix Ravlow I) Day Care (7 Household ?i9AGBIi15: V' /t),4 Pe (0- scl,,6. l-- r Dovolopmontt lk Prone • Lifts head p1 Fixes Eyes ?. Responds to noise N uttitiont ? y 7 Breast Ca.46 o Vitamins (I Formula n Fluoride CI nol of Bottle ? Sterilization PF.t N. Skin HEENT Fled Reflex I_urtgs Heart Fem. Pulses Abdomen Genitalia Lfis Feet Neuro Anticipatory tiuidancot • Daycare • Signs of illness • Temperament • Sibling Rivalry • Sleeping • Pacifier • Encourage Cuddling ? Car Seal Cl Ka • Parents • Time for them selves Assessment/Plan.- ().)/ /,711 41 rll..- r di lJ IDate:/// /% J Age:,,/M Ov Wt 1 Ill. V, ? _ [ I I ?./ d 2 MONTH ASSESSMENT ' P7' Day Care `, Ll Household Concerns, 9volopmanto Prone - Lifts head 460 Follows to midlme R Vocalizes C] Responds to noise plq' Smiles Nutritiont Breast 6K- Vitamins -T V f C7 Formula q l(h 0 Fluoride C) Anticipate Solids PM N. Skin HEENT Red Reflex Lungs Heart Fem. Pulses Abdomen Genitalia Hi pis Feet Nouro Anticipatory Guidencet • Anl,cipaw colds 8 fever • Temperament O Passive Smoke • Sleeping ? Car Seat • Pacifier ? Parents Bells lssessment/Plant C;l ?Q? <ti. ItJ PATIENT TELEPHONE CALL RECORD ebr AAA Dn1atJ?_Q Tlmw, _?__ -__ nn?'? Callur: ?/}!+ I Patlenh .sr) L?("1°,?f _ `. Tel, Nc Reaaon far Collc " ?- Present Modre Rocammendat Ion a/ I,rare r Ipl Ion r rnarmacyc ?__ Tel. N:: • Place In pallent'r Medical record V •I I WT ,?„ ?"- rl'pft, /vV r +CC 1? I% 'S?P nv /,• - c%_? S wr?dm VA, 4.41 J 10 - 3-.D, "f/(1' ?• ?l/a /fir X14 I\ YVA ?d-? .96 0 /lutes t4, N d ?' Aa,?p 1 31 0`?? Q,GV,.tJ " r r'cIL &n&kt4A, QA a? AoGrl??91 r i J-?Ill 4, ?i? 3 -- 9"?z /4,? Opt . t tlt r? ,I lr>Itr a,.., C'-ra?.?. Gtiirpr.-?. C..?Va1ct-?t (?Qr?l .ltQ? r• LILA?..414 I, I : I II I I I I II I 1 1 "Ant AM kj, PHONE DATE t : CC f c,cl; ffl'Z('((? ! E'/l l/:) th) ( 41 ??tdK C(!Y'r?t.rlfil?J $t l d. 0('4 (Cot') . f- r 1 •J,J,C?. ? I? .? f , 01 r 11 ? ? _ C?4<2,? 1 P: 11719 3 r ' ?.x? cc? l I? c_L o..nd can, o?P (? I - 25 ?1 `I (:cacl-+c'c 1?c,ra rs `V 011 CC'CIt'i ?Ivvk' (Seer) on I- It-J.cgq c'vY inFrcn?r? riI ?dn,Ily 0603 S? ce. ) A-11,9 A 14'r v t%4 .S G /J 9 v of & CL* i 14 Axe/ l•.:J ?n? ' f 1u. ? M1'?F l` ? ? / ? 1 rY'f•?r 9/11y /yY % II,, ? I 1 yl , G?. C a ?oy I •I 1 _"''? f I (V S ?r?c,,., •?Cm ???, m vt,) 1 0'3.. '3 IZ /Jr. 44 I ? ?' cv? ,. 7 aY-RS no 5100Pff, Uc _" 7539 y olucose Won , blood pH protoln_ •7 25 QS t~/ m- 4 D 11 30 `11 Larn .oa nud U U C 11• a7 9s d, v Co..cjh I /Y.?dc1..a,??fVnft?w..-R•..0 / •??--??6? ??. 'F?.:o f+.» . I l L'h(A.??? Lti4 ep It . I / + K ISO T't_? Data' ,? , to / Age' Ll 11 a ., lr'14uL? t / x q3 %- - - x - _ .4 Y EAR ASSESSMENT Development) ,R,Hops/Iumps 3.4 colors ,W,,Plays pretend ZI Drs •3 pnrt parson 17 GIv63Toko conversation 4ij Tells Stones W Count to 10 -4,P Nutdtlon: . L ((,'q PEt N. Gan, app. Skin HEENT Lungs 4- Hears 1 -) Abdomen 1 Ganltalio Etttram./Back Neuro Anticipatory Guidance: Il Fire safely I I Stranger safety I 1 Chores 17 Private reprimand (I limits & consequences Consistent follow through Aseessment/Plan: L'Y L, L Immunlzatlons/Labs: I vision I 0. , j . Name. C( l., r? h. t 1, OA,-. 8D: I, ? Du '1 1 (fns.. ;(/ ?vi jtt4!/) pe)44 'Odbr,I te&IAI Joe" 131 44e- o. r.i r C: -c ) tral./lye /1C ftj?Jd7c ti . (.c i??? ??L?? J) k t. / I t ??? ? •P?r. (/r.. ?-? `lam,-? omo: I 1 '"ti' t 1 ? Aga; % 11yEAR ASSESSMEIN ?nnsutns. r" = Oevelopir ll Xoress & Undress I Recognlzss most letters Q Plays cooperatively Nutrition: O Prudont dlel pE: N. Gan. BA -. Skin HEENT Lungs Heart Abdomen - Genitalla - EMIremJBack Nauro Anticipatory Guidance; /Ilke halmal (J Violence & TV ] Learn narne, address & phone N 7_7 School readiness Assessment/Plan: zt,W Return VisltF 1 Immunizati ba: C -0- Vision 8771( ?( c' t C V( Hcaringl?,4tiy(Ipp?,,. j? Urine It, pH blood glucose protein 1.L...._. ketone. _ leukocyle ndnle ,.c: OPT p4 '9.OPV ad I I 1'b X PPD no. C Ave- 3.255-q-1 ice! I or) f t oor Lre-ercmun - chit') 7 ?-3il;- - - h, ak SCM I Ai 44j/, /14-1 oh, P'ov?21 - oos 'i -.-P•9? P a s" i'l 7 Ay Lrt-crhrti7,'o,??t C/i r J 1r 73, u v. .L N,T,n I , w > F/ L/ 10 I ?1??7 T L t :'na'il Mu,r "Iuxrf, WL Npu,tldl ?) 51 Zr rn v11'N v, %tPPILi" V"," lv 4t..a, VnJ,nn¢a'A". ..UJI 4"'6QU014c11\t . nJJ hV cW - h:v. .ot,m 3,Lrze7 Rvcw.) QLY e.o,,,mJ 4.a u:'iVt1 '(rw IflYmI S yj C.o 1,d M1) 4N., M, tJ e4i4LvW) t(f)v" w .. n, J Cei 'hr Iv I'n c. ,'Jtvap ck,v,; I L( sn ll,,, tVS,:v rraa4. /cl??, l,.uuru ,. e6t nun ! 'hun` nu ,, 4(? u, n? , r J h . "' Aw,n Ilvtt' ^- t"" m..>rurh.,hun `uY '1(41 u. 41LJ N p.r, l,,t.:t lV( )4v (7J fv.tA 11nr-M re.V.l.q iv ,?{I 1,11 Jr`?'f?rl cr,trti .)" Vv o1.c,??Ia?e •<,vy ?n 4.?..• .r.n,i' t?, or U rasa u4 Y u..) a tN Y110 ,n Ik ' rw,.4y OCmtlr, UUU ___ i?r!) Dille: 11, ??') Ago: 6 6 YEAR ASSESSMENT Nance; f P.. ,)? 4J I R (, Cl LJ • t , (4 Ir4 ) ,6U7 i e. to;,, 10 (YJ tur,Llf Oat h'Jr k 'Y'Ar e ,?v,?) t6r,IHJ[(/. "V 0,14 mt. 0 Oll v.' ' IVhUI, ?Gr10 rh.p6,r IUV/- vlt,) IV/,% • nl7 S. jkV I r')I-R+U., )JAI( A1(a10r,M? I llE/.? I{ WnLru1M ?L.LA MVU 0k, (/ u 6 - Dave ppmenl: Rlde 2 wheel bike :-fie shoes ,el'?Kn?ows R from L W-C'Ounl to 10 ";?$v Of we 6 part person with clothes Nutrition: eeyC4 LAW EVas, Gen. r-k L Abdomen 5'(f,VU'0 I.)t:vjV;i VP/( GenilDlld „)r,YfArlplu. ,Prrrrr}}lahv" rFlreu., Exlrem.7T3GC f{,A.et rzh*. k Anticipatory Guidance: I-1-Eating goad R--A`cloq. sloop f'] Regular physical activity AssessmenUPlan; L&r.11I II, I J Return ) I1 Vision ?IIA fl Urine PH __.__ U6rnf nrolnln l.r?,., gloat:.: JAMES E. JONES, MD. MAR LIC A MD 0111761 ilauEnr ? OOIMEN, wD. DEAR llc R 10001116Ed WkS F. OAEY, JR, M 0. MAR lx; R MD 0R036Ri -iW- me MAR LIC R MD 076771E RANWIA J?SMIIII, MD DrA0 LIC R M00444631 IEM'ARD 0. IENKEN, 00. DEAR _ _ tic R 06007610L UPTOWN PnOFE6610NAL WILDING 7646 NORTH THIRD 6111EET IIAAn16DUnG. PA 171 10 OUI R7J W b NAME AGE DATE RA VOID IF NOT SAFETY GREEN DAWROUND +'FWittAl,hn ham ,. nor"-4f. hvAAl?rnv,r?In.J. I pi-re(fIUL av'A. •1'4 h,40 Wllr wsf: IC Or)) S/,uvldnot kIG Angrh-no .r Yti7,ed Rv mr Crew or "ha 1111114 E C y"ptv,y 4'r(,l0hln1 U, M" Wee, A,L,t INAJL rut <w to AjVt., yv `. rNAA rAra,n 1N TV' REFILLO.___. TIMES I e.lcltnnr.a rt.. LABEL hrA Ix IT c 'j n? hurH, wovl)narrrw ",....xoh ew Try wvnll, rr.RA"r01 Nnv04 A.A?'" I0, NlClrnvN,rw Fb py`"'? SUBSTITUTION PERMISSIBLE IN ORDER FOR A GRAND NAME PRODUCT TO BE DISPENSFO. TIRE PRESCRIBER MUST IIAND WRITE "BRA'or) NECESSARY" OR "BRAND EDICALLY NECESSMY" IN INF RELOW ---- ...--- 7F.PE1337763 11"5 r- I-'Al ,..?Qt.V,, cr• lv?\1403?c ?, ?? 1'> ???id.u?t.C? rC?? tn? ?.'c.V?GU"°? \7?"t?' •17cX:.'?Y1? kf'?-'?W W?/Gig mu(/? .< N4( /n?U rp ?y?af/r? v'h?r1/Vn /V(Jnw^? ?1 54., ?I G{w S,'o .M, 4f? v*w O'2./ 4 ins Fk,? t?1 /1/-w? .(. Khfv?c).v?, G?ri'y^l) IO?/I ?a 'f f'A / /'1 ?Ci ?? ?' cvuc 144 fv UJr• r'D -- n u V "A &A W t in /n r,,v. I an'I- v., d? nn,. Z!(v 4v-- G?+T (rm?,'WTwt?,m(1 NU K?Sr? 1""Cl.4 r"7't,r. ? /?7 J, v_? h'J C.9-I 1M ??/-M. pit G1 (lUn,,.n u V41vrl r. fl1',4w UUj?. 14 , ?G???+\, t Tvn) ! ? !.? 1 ??? P env yl 1 ?V?144 lie( L4 0 4A Ull[AI IOAc Lo 12 L? Moran PHONENUMIEAI 'S(l yvNahUi DAM IIMEt 11'rP141 tWAvy+ )vl/rtwvVC? MESSAGE/ACTIONt`^- ''l ( ?I?Ih uh ?,??r ?? ?, ' f 1 / /Slt(? l 1. ? (1t r"r) r7 o r,? 1.?.,, ct4o ? cwt D J Q, r?J,p 00??'`^'? 5'ar11,?y II'<vati J - `o(ar, A ? Ak G2. Q 2D, ?u W n-. YYVt ll,i c V ?l?/I o (?r? L4??C) ??N17?hvr? Aug-19-91111 12901P Riegler Shyrnvold & Assoc B401416 P.01 I ARNOLD TERRY SHIENVOLD, PH.D.,BCFE 2161 Linglestown Road Harrisburg, PA 17110 717.640.13'19 EDUCATION Pennsylvenle License, NPS-003203-L University of Alabama Tuscaloosa, Alebama Major: Clinical Psychology Degree: Ph D. Speclslity: Child Clinical University of Alabams Tuscaloosa, Alabama Major Clinical Psychology Degree M.A. Colgate University Hamilton, New York Degree: A, B. PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE Private Practitioner Sept. Riegler, Shienvold & Associates 2161 Linglestown Road, Suits 200 Harrisburg, PA Adjunct Professor Widener School of Lew January 1996 • ept 1997 Clinical Direglo Oct 1986-July Behavioral Medicine and Psychological Services, Ltd. Central Pennsylvania Cardiac Pulmonary Vescuiar Physicians, Lemoyne, PA canauu m Aug. 1982-June 19197 Central Dauphin School District, Harrisburg, PA , Plaintiff's Exhibit Aug-19-9e 12tO1P Rioglor 6hienvold Q Assoc 6401416 Paps 2 no-Director Canter for Behavioral Medicine Polyclinic Medical Center, Harrisburg, PA Consultant Cardiac Treatment Centers. Camp Hill, PA 1962.1996 Sept. 1976.1966 Adlupg Professorship Aug 1977-July Department of Behavioral Science, Department or Family Prec Hershey Medical Center, Heronsy Resource Payrholooist Rldgecrest Children's Center for Emotionally Disturbed Children Developing treatment plans for 10-13 year old children, training and providing individual and group psychotherapy. PROFESSIONAL AFFIUA71ONS Board of Governors, American Academy of Family Mediators 1 Association of Family and Conciliation Courts 1 Diplomete, American Board of Forensic Examiners 1 American Academy of Family Mediators-Practitioner Member 11 Harrisburg Area Psychological Association 1 Pennsylvania Psychological Association-Fellow 1 American Psychological Association 1 Association of Family and Conciliation Courts 1 P.02 Tuscaloosa, AL, doff In Implementation Aug-19-90 12tOPP Riegler 6hienvold ,S Assoc 6401416 WORKSHOP PRESENTATIONSt Co-Presenter Workshop Leader Workshop Leader Workshop Leader Panel Member Institute Leader Presenter Panel Member Ethics Forum, Academy of Family Pulling the Data Together, AFCC Cu Breckinridge, Colorado, September 1 Evaluative Mediation, Academy of Cape Cod, July 1997 Integrated Model of Custody Resolu and Conciliation Courts, Clearwater Hot Issues In Custody. Pennsylvania Dual Roles In Custody Conflicts, Ac Conference, Cincinnati, Ohio, July 1 Family Mediation-Central October, 1993 Pape 3 P.03 Son Diego. CA 1996,1997 Conference, Mediators, Association of Family January 1996 Institute, Fall 1996 of Family Mediators Paralegal Association, Conflicts, Problems and Ethics in Cu tody Evaluations, 1996 Pennsylvania Psychological lssociation Annual Meeting Harrisburg PA June, Workshop Participant High conflict custody cases Assoc lion of Family and Conciliation Courts annual conferen e, New Orleans, LA, April, 1993 Workshop Panelist Custody Litigation, Evaluation, Medi Lion: Cumberland County Family Law Division, May, 1992 Workshop Panelist The Use of Psychological Testing in Custody Evaluation, Pennsylvania Bar Association, May, 1991. Aug-19-9e 12tO?P Rioglar tihiwnvnld K Annnc b401416 P.[l4 Page 4 Seminar Leader Behavioral treatment of obesity in children, Pennsylvania Department of Health, November, 19 7. Workshop Leader Curriculum development. Associstio of Behavioral Scientists In Medial Education, Allentown, PA, October, 1977. Seminar Leader Psychologists in Family Medicine . S ciely of Teachers of Family Medicine, San Diego, CA May, 1978. Seminar Leader Stress Reduction, Hershey Medical genter, Hershey, PA, 1978. Shlenvold, A T. The effect of instructions and verbal ecinditioning on toy preferences in pre-school children Repair presented at meeting of Southeastern Psychological Association, New Orleans, LA, February, 1975 Shlenvold, AT Why research is not done in family r>tactice residencies. Presented at Pennsylvania Consortium of Family Practice Residencies. Hershey, PA, Septemb r. 1977 Shlenvold, A.T. and Resident view of their behavioral ed4cation Asken, M A Association of Behavioral Sciences ih Medical Education, October 1977 I Shlenvold, AT Behavior Intervention for juvenile ob?sity. Conference at Hershey Medical Center. i Shlenvold, A.T. Medical Psychology: The role of the psychologist within the hospital. Presented at Northeastern Association of Operating Room Technicians, Harrisburg, PA, February, 1978. Shlenvoldl, A.T. A dual focus behavioral science curculum. Symposium of APA meeting, Toronto, Canada, 197 . Aug-19-96 12102p Ris+91or Shirnvold R Assoc 8401416 Page E PUBLISHED ARTICLES Shlenvold, A,T. Asken, M.A. Cincotta, J. Family Practice Residents Training. Relevance and P n.Os lahavioral Science, of Family Practice. Bryan, T.J. Behavioral Medicine: A Review. Prlrhary Care, Asken, M.A November, 1978, Ii Shienvold, A.T. HONORS Treasurer Academy of Family Mediators, 1997- 998 Chairman Ethics Committee and Conference C mmitte for Academy of Family Mediators, 1996 to present Approved Consultant Academy of Family Mediators, 1993 o present Member Dauphin County Task Force to crest, ii a parent education curriculum for divorcing parents, Se ember, 1993 to present 1, I i r6y- ARNOLD J. SAUM, I Plaintiff t I V. t SUSANNE S. ABEL, t Defendant r t IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA CIVIL ACTION - LAW NO. 96 - 4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - CUSTODY AND NOW, this J/' dayy of CJc./'y/6e.. , 1996, upon consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Report, it is ordered and directed as followat 1. The parties shall enter into counseling and family therapy with Dr. Arnold Shienvold, with the purpose of this counseling to allow Dr. Shienvold to recommend to the parties a permanent order with respect to a custody arrangement in this case. 2. Additionally, Dr. Shienvold will make a recommendation to the parties relative to a proposed schedule on continuation of family therapy involving the parents and the minor child and any other Individuals involved in this case as recommended by Dr Shienvold. Any costs of this counsel ingltherapy that is not reimbursed through insurance of the respective parties shall be shared equally by the parties. 3. Pending further order of this Court, the following temporary Custody Order is entered: A. The Mother, Suzanne S. Abel, and the Father, Arnold J. Baum, shall enjoy shared legal custody of Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20, 1991. B. The Mother shall enjoy primary physical custody of the minor child. C. The Father shall enjoy temporary physical custody of the minor child on alternating weekends from when the child is released from school until Sunday evening at 6:00 p.m. Additionally, he shall enjoy temporary custody on every Wednesday evening from after school until 7:00 p.m. On those Mondays when the child is off school and the Father has custody of the child for that weekend, his weekend temporary custody shall extend through until Monday evening at 6:00 p.m. D. The Thanksgiving holiday for 1996 shall be handled with the Father enjoying custody from Wednesday evening before Thanksgiving until the following Sunday evening at 6:00 p.m. a. The Christmas holiday for 1996 shall be handled with the Pather enjoying oustody from December 77th at 9#00 a.m. until January 3 at 600 p.m. 4. The above custody schedule is temporary in nature and anticipates that a more permanent custody arrangement will be agreed to by the parties after additional counseling/family therapy with Dr. Shienvold. The above order is entered pursuant to an agreement reached by the parties at a custody conciliation conference. If at any time either party desires to modify the existing Court Order, that party mey petition the Court to have the case again scheduled with the Custody Conciliator. By the Court, 4' A-4 cat John J. Connelly, Jr., Esquire Susan E. Lederer, Require lla 7aa, bA- io 1014-JIAU- re t,L( ()rV s L- oP 4k P1"4)A,0gay/2 94, GcI /?/ Ccu,,6F_,x( ' E'??a y luJti i?1 ARNOLD J. BAUN, Plaintiff V. SUSANNE S. ABEL, Defendant r IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF t CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA r r CIVIL ACTION - LAW r r NO. 96 - 4060 CIVIL TERM r t CIVIL ACTION - CUSTODY IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY CIVIL RULE OF PROCEDURE 1915.3-8(b), the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following reportr 1. The information pertaining to the child who In subject of this litigation is ad followsr Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20, 1991 2. A Conciliation Conference was held on October 3, 1996. Present were the Mother, Suzanne S. Abel, with her counsel, Susan Lederer, Esquire, and the Father, Arnold J. Baum, with his counsel, John Connelly, Esquire. 3. The parties agreed to the entry of an Order in the form as attached. U at?- Date Hubert X. Gilroy squire Custody Conciliator ARNOLD J, SAUM, t Plaintiff t t V, t t SUZANNE S. ABEL, t Defendant t IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA CIVIL ACTION - LAW CUSTODY/VISITATION NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM AND NOW, upon consideration of the attached Petition, it is hereby directed that the parties and their respective counsel appear before HUBERT X. GILROY, Esquire, the Conciliator, at the Fourth Floor Conferencq Room, Cumberland County Courthouse, Carlisle, PA, on the J" day of r1m, (t, , 1997, at I'1,6 f m. At such Conference, an effort will be made to resolve the-71-ss-ues in disputet or if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the Court, and to enter into a Temporary Order. All children age five or older may also be present at the Conference. Failure to appear at the Conference may provide grounds for entry of a temporary or permanent order. Notification to the Defendant by the Prothonotary's Office is waived. For the Court, d. 7. g7 By: L h? f Date of Order Custody Conc 1 or YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A LAWYER OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP. Office of the Court Administrator Cumberland County Courthouse, 4th Floor Carlisle, PA 17013 (717) 240-6200 )r I ' ??I) I ?•n I (1 rrll ? ?r?? ?I l? I A v r I 1 I I : L?,?IIU 1?? I 1 II ? vl?./lu?111' I r 1 I I I 1 I' 1 I r I I I R ???. ?x<t/ Ztee oe1-dut Y Aeag/-z I I ' I 1 Ir r r I 1 r r r I I I I... I I li 11 r I I I r I I I r r I I . 11 I - I ? I I i l l I I r ARNOLD J. SAUM, Plaintiff V, SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA CIVIL ACTION - LAW CUSTODY/VISITATION NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM 1. Petitioner/Defendant is Suzanne S. Abel, an adult individual residing in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania. 2. Respondent/Plaintiff is Arnold J. Baum, an adult individual residing at 390 Crooked Hill Road, Hummelstown, Pennsylvania. 3. In October of 1996, a custody conciliation conference was held before Hubert X. Gilroy, Esquire, and the parties agreed to the entry of a temporary Custody Order. A true and correct copy of the Custody Order entered by Honorable Kevin A. Hess on October 11, 1996, is attached as Exhibit A. 4. Paragraph 4 of the court Order says that, if at any time either party desires to modify the existing Court order, that party may petition the court to have the case again scheduled with the Custody conciliator. 5. As a result of the counselling process taking longer than anticipated, arrangements need to be made for the 1997 year- end holiday season, as well as other visitation. WHEREFORE, the Defendant, Suzanne S. Abel, through her counsel, Susan E. Lederer, respectfully requests the Court to order another custody conciliation conference for the purpose of modifying the existing Custody Order. Respectfully submitted: JAMES, SMITH & DURKIN By c 44014- ? 4-4-y ? SSUsan E. Lederer Supreme Court I.D. 044861 134 Sipe Avenue Hummelstown, PA 17036 (717) 533-3280 FEE, I M7 2:471FK LRI PUE LEUL Hbf, h. 17120f31!HJJ 03 IMI NO. U50 P. 2/2 ?lIO11'l'? Y verify that the staterente aade inlthe foregoing Petition for Bodification of Custody order are true and correct. i understand that false atatements herein are made subject to the Penalties of 16 Pa.C,B. 14904 relating to unworn falsification to authorities. aanne el? I I I I , I a a d oe14.R clew ,L?Lµ TidLZ 1 20 Lib 'cc '20 O~ A EXHIB1 r A COT 16 1996 146 ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff V, SUSANNE S. ABEL, Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA t CIVIL ACTION - LAW t t NO. 96 - 4060 CIVIL TERM t CIVIL ACTION - CUSTODY AND NOW, this // k- day of (OU0 JA' , 1996, upon consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Report, it is ordered and directed as follows: 1. The parties shall enter into counseling and family therapy with Dr. Arnold Shienvold, with the purpose of this counseling to allow Dr. Shienvold to recommend to the parties a permanent order with respect to a custody arrangement in this case. 2. Additionally, Dr. Shienvold will make a recommendation to the parties relative to a proposed schedule on continuation of family therapy involving the parents and the minor child and any other individuals involved in this case as recommended by Dr Shienvold. Any costs of this counseling/therapy that is not reimbursed through insurance of the respective parties shall be shared equally by the parties. 3. Pending further order of this Court, the following temporary Custody order is entered: A. The Mother, Suzanne S. Abel, and the Father, Arnold J. Baum, shall enjoy shared legal custody of Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20, 1991. B. The Mother shall enjoy primary physical custody of the minor child. C. The Father shall enjoy temporary physical custody of the minor child on alternating weekends from when the child is released from school until Sunday evening at 6:00 p.m. Additionally, he shall enjoy temporary custody on every Wednesday evening from after school until 7:00 p.m. On those Mondays when the child is off school and the Father has custody of the child for that weekend, his weekend temporary custody shall extend through until Monday evening at 6:00 p.m. D. The Thanksgiving holiday for 1996 shall be handled with the Father enjoying custody from Wednesday evening before Thanksgiving until the following Sunday evening at 6:00 p.m. 191 The Christmas holiday for 1996 shall be handled with the Father enjoying custody from December 27th at 900 a.m. until January 3 at 6t00 p.m. 41 The above custody schedule is temporary in nature and anticipates that a more permanent custody arrangement will be agreed to by the parties after additional counseling/family therapy with Dr. Shienvold. The above order is entered pursuant to an agreement reached by the parties at a custody conciliation conference. If at any time either party desires to modify the existing Court Order, that party may petition the Court to have the case again scheduled with the Custody Conciliator. By the Court, /s/ /1..1Gwk- Gam. ??C•? act John J. Connelly, Jr., Esquire Susan S. Lederer, Ssquire TRUE COPY FROM RECORD In ToSHM"14 '!r'i:Xt?t4, i iT?f;r ! ":2n qPr ttt',l h3f(i and tiro :; ? ,i. :•; r; ' ;I;;y, ra T': Prothonmary ARNOLD J. BAUM, t Plaintiff t t v. t t SUZANNE S. ABEL, t Defendant t t IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA CIVIL ACTION - LAW NO. 96 - 4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - CUSTODY IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY CIVIL RULE OF PROCEDURE 1918.3-8(b), the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following report: 1. The Information pertaining to the child who is subject of this litigation is as follows: Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20, 1991 2. A Conciliation Conference was held on October 3, 1996. Present were the Mother, Suzanne S. Abel, with her counsel, Susan Lederer, Enquire, and the Father, Arnold J. Baum, with his counsel, John Connelly, Esquire. 3. The parties agreed attached. - I l ?P Date to the entry of an order in the form as ay- Hubert X. Gilroy squire Custody Conciliator V IWINDOWOMPWINh"11A INUJIAUM OKI) WM ARNOLD J, BAUM, IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS Plaintiff CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. NO. 96.4060 CIVIL TERM SUZANNE S. ABEL, CIVIL ACTION - LAW Defendant IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, to wit, this /or day of ? VA4 1998, the custody hearing originally scheduled for March 27, 1998 is hereby rescheduled to August 20, 1998 at 9:30 a.m. in Courtroom a4 of the Cumberland County Court House, Carlisle, Pennsylvania. BY THE COURT: J. or irii.en-0i?c`a'r??`t gg )Uti ? l Ali ?ao 17 t; Febnury 3, 2000' \WlebVOmlly low0lent DlrectoryV3aum-AlPleodingsWodlgcatlomCue pat wpd ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff/Petitioner V. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant/Respondent IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 96.4060 CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY QMER OF COURT, AND NOW, this day of k t _ , 2000, upon consideration of the attached complaint, It Is hereby directed that the parties and their respective counsel appear before t?? ?-, Esquire, the conciliator, at >q ?.J. MCa?C? `?? ?Nn?x??ebt) Pennsylvania, n T?1C? the, day of?1 2000, at o'clock -am., for a Pre-Hearing Custody Conference, At such conference, an effortwill be made to resolve the issues In dispute; or if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the court, and to enter into a temporary order. Either party may bring the children who are the subjects of this custody action to the conference, but the children's attendance Is not mandatory. Failure to appear at the conference may provide grounds for entry of a temporary or permanent order, FOR THE COURT, Custody Conciliator ( 1 YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A LAWYER OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP. Cumberland County Bar Association 2 Liberty Avenue Carlisle, PA 17013 (717) 249-3166 1 I. I,r' rili hl ' . 1I Ir ) 1 1 Irti i r 1 r 1 1 1 :111, A l I 07. 1 are,) /ALat, des' Gb l S;'o?ci *ZA-v' ?e I I I , 1 1 ; I , I I i I. I 1 I I February J, 2000 MisbVomlly 4MC11ant DlndoryWoum-AluloodingsWodlbctllomCus pd wpd READER, ADLER & COGNETTI, PC MARIA P. COGNETTI, ESQUIRE Attorney I.D. No. 27914 2331 Market Street Camp Hill, PA 17011-4842 Telephone No. (717) 783.1383 Attorneys for Plaintiff/Petitioner ARNOLD J. BAUM, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS PlaintlNfPelltioner : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. : NO, 96-4080 SUZANNE S. ABEL, : CIVIL ACTION - LAW Defendant/Respondent : IN CUSTODY PETITION IQ MODIFY CUSTODY AND NOW comes, Petitioner, Arnold J. Baum, by and through his counsel, Reager, Adler & Cognettl, P.C., and files this Petition to Modify Custody against Respondent, Suzanne S. Abel, and in support thereof, avers as follows: 1. The Petitioner Is Arnold J. Baum, who currently resides at 390 Crooked Hill Road, Hummelstown, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania. 2, The Respondent Is Suzanne S. Abel, who currently resides at 1204 Louisa Lane, Mechanicsburg, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, 3, The parties have one (1) child, namely, Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 21, 1991. 4, There is presently an existing Custody Order in this matter as contained In the transcript of a hearing before this Court held on August 20,1998. February 3, 2000 MlsbVamily low0lml Dlndory%oum•ATItedIngsWodlllcshomCus pat wpd 6, This Order gives primary physical custody of the child to Respondent, A true and correct copy of this transcript Is attached hereto and marked as Exhibit "A" and made a part hereof, 8. The best Interest and permanent welfare of the child will be served by a modification of the Court's Order that would grant primary physical custody to Petitioner. WHEREFORE, Petitioner, Arnold J. Baum, respectfully requests this Honorable Court grant a modification of the existing Court Order. REALER, ADLER & COGNETTI, PC Date: February 3, 2000 By: 16al xz&. MARIA P, OGN T ),-ESQUIRE Attorney I.D. No. 27914 2331 Market Street Camp Hill, PA 17011-4642 Telephone No. (717) 783-1383 Attorney for Plaintiff/Petitioner Febwuy 7, 2000 IWUbVemlly law0lant Dlroalory%Bpum.A%PlosdingoWlodlOullan•Cus pot wpd VERIFICATION I, ARNOLD J. BAUM, verity that the statements made In the foregoing document, PETITION TO MODIFY CUSTODY, are true and correct to the best of my knowledge. Information and belief. , I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of IS Pe,C.S. Section 4904, relating to unsworn falsification to authorities, DATED, a?/'?/?DD ez--46,-.P ARNOLD J. RATIM a , I ' I r' r I 1 I I II ' ? ! r I. -, i I I 1 1 I I I t 1 1 1 I I I II , , o I I r I i I 1 I.I I I 1 I 1 r r I ! I , 1 1 I I I' r I 11 I L, . r 1 ' , r 11 , I , I ,i 1 rr 1 1 r ' r 'I i. I ! r I i I I , r Exhibit A ARNOLD J. BAUM V, SUZANNE S. AHEL • 4060 CIVIL 1996 9/90/98 M3. COGNBTTII For purposes of the record today, i can state the parties' agreement an follows. The parties will have shared legal custody of the minor child, and we will further define that term in a proposed court order. The partiee will likewise share physical custody of Ellie in a fashion as follows, The father will have three out of four weekends, i,e „ three on one off. And this will begin with his next regular weekend. The weekends will run from Friday after school, at approximately 4100 p.m. through Sunday eveninge at 9t00 p.m. If Friday is a school holiday, then the father will get the child Thursday at approximately 4100 p.m, and keep her for the remainder of the weekend, if Monday is a school holiday, the father will simply keep the child through until Monday evening at 6100 p.m. The father will also have the child on Tuesday evenings from 4100 to 9100, For the holidays, Mother's Day will always be with mother. And Father's Day will always be with father, from 9100 a.m. through 9100 p.m. The parties will alternate Thanksgiving each year, from Wednesday at 0100 p.m, through Sunday at 9100 p,m. And the father will have the holiday in even years. Mom will have the holiday in add-numbered years. For the Passover holiday, recognizing the two days of Seder, the father shall have the first day of Seder, and the mother shall have the second day of Seder. And the time frames will run from sundown to sundown. r ' The father shall then also get any part of the Easter and/or opring break that doeo not conflict with the Passover time that I have just dalineatgd, For Roah Hashanah, again, the father will have the first day, and the mother will have the second dav. AM those times will also be from sundown to sundown. For Yom Kippur every year, the parties will simply alternate the holiday. For Yom Kippur the mother will start this rotation, having the child for Yom Kippur in even-numbered years. The eight days of Hanukkah shall be split evenly by the parties, with the father having the option to first pick his four days. Again, the father will then also get any remainder of the child's school Christmas break, which does not conflict with those eight days of Hanukkah, except for the fact that mother will always have December 24th, from 10:00 a.m. through 30:30 p.m, The school holidays will be considered to be from when school is out through the evening before school. A clarification on what 1 have just said, that for the remainder of the Christmas break that does not conflict with Hanukkah, Path^r':a time ehAil arart after mother's time occurring on the 24th at 10:30 p.m. The father will then have the remainder of the Christmas break. During the summer, mom will have alternate weekends, from Fridays at 4:00 through Sunday at 8:00, and Wednesday evenings from 4:00 to 9:00. Additionally in the summer, each party will have the child for three uninterrupted non-consecutive ' weeks. The mother shall have two of her three weeks the first and last weeks before and after school -- the first week after ochool ends and the first week before school begins, and one other week. The father can have any other three weeks. The parties will give each other a minimum of thirty days notice of any of the weeks which are not specifically not forth by this agreement. Each of them must take the week which includes their weekend, And a week will be defined here as Friday to Friday or Sunday to Sunday, The parties shall have phone contact with the child on a liberal basis. An far as transportation is concewned, the party receiving custody shall provide the transportation. if, other than in emergency circumstances, , a party keeps the child longer than their requisite time, the other party shall be given makeup time. And finally, I believe, this agreement is based on the mother not moving out of the current school district and will so state that mother is not to move out of that school district without a prior hearing and court approval. Much 24, 1000 yWbbVamlly IWCllenl DiecloryyBsum.ANleedlnpeNMevll of service (Pet to Modify Custody).wpd REAGER, ADLER & COGNETTI, PC MARIA P. COGNETTI, ESQUIRE Attorney LD, No. 27914 2331 Market Street Camp I fill, PA 17011-4642 Telephone No. (717) 763-1383 Attorneys for Plainti petitioner ARNOLD J. BAUM, ; IN THF. COURT OF COMMON PLEAS Plaintiff/Petitioner ; CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V, :NO. 96.4060 SUZANNE S. ABEL, ; CIVIL ACTION - LAW Defendant/Respondent ; IN CUSTODY AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE COMMONWEAL'T'H OF PENNSYLVANIA COUNTY OF CUMBERLAND Before me, the undersigned Notary Public, this day, personally appeared Maria P, Cognettt, Esquire, attorney for the Petitioner, to me known, who being duly sworn according to low, deposes the following: I, Maria P. Cognetti, Esquire, being duly sworn according to law, depose and state that service of the Petition ?o Modify Custody in the above-cuplioned matter was served by Certified Mail, Return Receipt Requested, on Respondent, Suzanne S, Abel, 1204 Louisa Lane, Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania, 17055. The Certified Receipt is attached hereto as "Exhibit A." REAGER, ADIA?R & C'OGNETTI, P.C. By: Subscrib qc and sworn to before this,a?=dayof Giro Notarhnl Seal Karen A. Sheriff, Notary Public Fter aZInon, Dauphin ouiiy MY Cammlael [p?lroe Much 0, 20'12 Itpbtrgf, PONmytveiia A3e0dWL2 of Notmtor„ March 27.2000 %WtobWamlly Iaw0lont plrnctoryWoum-AWI@adlnOiiMMdivlt of Service (Pd to Modify Custody).wpd 1 I I I I I „ , , I I 11' I I r I xhibit 1 ' I I I II 1 1 • Mime t rwM e w O" ww W*". I Woo Melt to rawly ft • • Memo e, aa, am "M. fot wMM eerWoss (for on a P"Yow wn• rld basis" an IM WMU or ft wm a Met "oen Mom IN$ axtti Fast). • =C6, to the ft" of ft msiOst b, r on ft bade M bpam doe" not I • E3 Addreaas•'s Addrm Its article f ??rwt nagc?w a)Q* i0 V ggo wd• toes d$#Vwwvd WW du d 2. O RNUtcled De11vNy S dearMaa, Consult postmaster for fee, • Addressed to: a. • r vfl.ZQi]?)e. 'S C(6r. l 77f.3 K.?_ 4b. erv c• Type //eZUN ?ULCCSQ /.Q?K' 0Reglel•ted ?CoreM•d nasMW 0 Insured r 10(momwdw ? CCD n !X I7JJ-?f J wry r ep v y, (dnf m• Kb- r • a Address ( NN ngmted r aW id) PS Form Dwerrber 1004 rr ' 0"6110 e um !C! p 1 I I I. ARNOLD J. BAUM# t IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF Plaintiff/Petitioner : CUMBERLAND COUNTYr PENNSYLVANIA t vas t NO. 96-4060 CIVIL 'PERM t SUZANNE S. ABEL, t CIVIL ACTION - LAW Defendant/Respondent t IN CUSTODY ORDER or OOURT MID NOW, this day of 2000, upon consideration of the at ac Custody Conc. a on epor•r is ordeed and directed as follows: A Hearing is scheduled in Court Room M?r of the Cumberland County Court House, on the .30-d day of , 2000, at v o'clock, ?.m., at which time testimony will be taken. For purposes of this Hearing, the Father, Arnold J. Baum, shall be deemed to be the moving party and shall proceed initially with testimony. Counsel for the parties or the parties pro as shall file with the Court and the opposing party or counsel a Memorandum setting forth each party's position on custody, a list of witnesses who are expected to testify at the Hearing, and a summary of the anticipated testimony of each witness. These Memoranda shall be filed at least ten. (10) days prior to the Hearing date. BY THE oOURT, r cot Maria P. Cognetti, Esquire - Counsel for Father Suzanne S. Abel, Mother 41e,a) k129-vo F) NIS I 1 r I '1 I I 1 1 1 1 I I I I I I I I 1 I I I I , I ' 11- 1 1 r I 1 r I ,: I I 1 I. I ( I' ' r I,I I I 1 I I r I I I 1 , I I , I 1 I r I I I 1 I , 1 ? I, J 1 Iltb „ Ili I II ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff/Petitioner Va. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant/Respondent PRIOR JWOEt Kevin A. Hess IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY CUSTODY CONCILIATION SUMMARY REPORT IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CIVIL PROC W= 1915.3-81 the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following reports 1. The pertinent information concerning the child who is the subject of this litigation is as follows: NAME DATE OF BIRTH CURRENTLY IN CUSTX* Ot Elizabeth R. Abel November 21, 1991 Mother 2. A Conciliation conference was held on April 11, 2000, with the following individuals in attendance: The Father, Arnold J. Baum, with his counsel, Maria P. Cognetti, Esquire, and the Mother, Suzanne S. Abel, who is not represented by counsel in this matter. 3. This Court previously held a Hearing in this matter on August 20, 1998, at which time the parties' agreement as to basic child custody arrangements was read into the record by the Father's counsel. However, following the Hearings the parties were not able to finalize the custody arrangement by working out the necessary details. The Father filed this Petition for primary physical custody. The parties were not able to reach an agreement at the Conference and it will be necessary to schedule a Hearing. 4. The Father's position on custody is as follows: The Father believes that it is detrimental to the Child's interests to remain in the primary custody of the Mother. 'fie Father indicated that there should have been a more shared custody schedule two years ago but the parties were unable to bring closure to their tentative 1996 agreement. The Father stated that, at this time, there is not enough cooperation or communication between the parties to :rake a shared custody schedule viable. The Father indicated that the child's performance in school and behavior in general have worsened. The Father believes it would be best for the Child if primary custody were transferred to him at this time. 5. The Mother's position on custody is as follows: The Mother opposes the Father's request for primary physical custody and stated that the Child has always lived with her. Instead, the Mother proposed that the Fathers three out of four weekend schedule be reduced to alternating weekends. The Mother expressed frustration with the parties' inability to communicate. The Mother believes it would be best for the Child to remain in her primary care. 6. Although often it is helpful to the parties to obtain a custody evaluation in circumstances such as these, the parties have already obtained evaluations from both Arnold Shienvold and Pauline Wallin in 1990. The parties disagreed as to the outcome of those evaluations and the process was not successful in facilitating a resolution. The parties do appear to have very serious communication and perception problems. It was clear at the Conference that the parties perceive many circumstances and issues in totally different ways, which prevents them from being able to even discuss possible solutions. The conciliator strongly recommended to the parties that they obtain counseling to address their communication/perception differences in order to enable them to effectively handle any type of custody schedule. 7. Finally, it should be noted that the Mother requested that independent counsel be appointed for the Child and the Father opposed the request as unnecessary. Although counseling would probably be very helpful for the Child, the Conciliator does not believe the appointment of independent counsel is warranted, at least based upon the information presented at the Conference. 8. The Conciliator recommends an order in the form as attached scheduling a Hearing in this matter. It is expected that the Hearing will require one full day. !y. 2 MAO-1 Dat Dawn S. Sunday, Esqu Custody conciliator I ? ll' ' APR8?1 V'? I, l,'I? I' ` l I 1 l I ' I ' ,I 11 , r I I ' _ 1 I 1 1' .. tI ??r 1 1111 1'. I I 1 I . I 11 1 I r -i I I, r i , _ 1 , I ?. I ?, y11 ? , , 1 rk 11 t 1 r' t II I 1. I I - 1 I 1 k 1 ?, . I ?tlf 1 1 I I !I I ? 1 I ? ' l I ]I II?VI rll , I I I I '??' ' ' ? I I ?, li 1 11 I i" ! 44 ? 1_' ' II?]Y l , f`•. {' 1 1, I I ? 1 ' i 1 I 1 y e I 1 '' 1 1.-. 1 , 1 I, ? ' ' .. 1 rl*r l ' I ti l' ''?, ' 11 11 I /I 1 dl 1 °. 11 1 i I I I }, ' I ` , I ' it 't 11 I i 1 I ? II I„ I I I I f[??M1 ?11 tU _ _ 1 1 r I , ,1' jd1 l 1 1 11. 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I I I i •I I , •I?I a ?7 l?¢ ?if'I I •rI ' I I II I i , r °I 1' I 'II +.'x: I , + •r rl/,1 i I I i , _? 111 G.4F, 1 , r r I I' I +,?? ,1,11 r ?.,.1, ? ? ? •w . I "ft? 41 t,t?ll I I I , r I I I I nr {.? I 11 r ,' it I iC??l' f t.J REAGER, ADLER & COGNET7'I, PC MARIA P, COGNETTI, ESQUIRE Attorney I.D. No. 27914 2331 Market Street Camp Ifill, PA 17011.4642 'T'elephone No. (717) 763.1383 Attorneys for I'lai iliff ARNOLD J, BAUM, ; IN TIIB COURT OP COMMON PLEAS Plaintiff ; CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. :NO. 96.4060 SLIZANNE S. ABEL, ; CIVII. ACTION - LAW Defendant ; IN DIVORCE', PRA_ECWE TO WITHDRAW I'F;'X'?'IION TO MODIFY CUSTODY TO THE PROTHONOTARY: Kindly withdraw on behalf of ARNOLD J. BAUM, the PlaintifThercht, the Petition to Modify Custody hereto filed in this matter on or about February 4, 2000. REAGER, ADL R & COGNETTI, PC. ? -747 t Date; June 21, 2000 By; l 6w L MARIA P. :0G . - fl, ESQUIR Attorney H No. 914 2331 Market Street Camp [fill. PA 17011-4642 'T'elephone No. (717) 763.1383 Attorney for Plaintiff' 1I 1 l 1 I I r r I .. (. illy 1 I I , I I I I1 , I COY, fi??f_ N I I ' fl, ? 1 ,I i 1 I I I i I r r I I I , I? ,1 I 1 I I I 1 r 1 I II 11 r I 1 ?tU111._n IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J, BAUM, Plaintiff NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM vs. CIVIL ACTION - LAW SUZANNE S. ABEL, IN CUSTODY Defendant ORDER AND NOW, this day ofd 2001, upon consideration of the attached Petition for Approval to Relocate, a hearing on the matter of Defendant's relocation Is hereby scheduled for the /0'4 day of &,6 '14- 41 ` -? , 2001 in courtroom #4 at r10 o'clock. BY THE COURT U/ ,SI'p fl, hll lilt f l I I I i , l 11 illV?q ' I I I' r I , I I ? , 1 I I I I 11 I 1 I r?I ' r 1 ,1 I y '1 1 r.l ' ? I I I I J . I i ?:1 r II r I I r I I I ' r I 1I r I '1 1 rl I' I . I r , I , 1 I r III' 1 I I. I 1 .1 ? 1 11 ,1 rr r. , 1 1 I II 1 r ??11 i _1„ , I 111 ' I IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM Va. CIVIL ACTION - LAW SUZANNE S. ABEL, IN CUSTODY Defendant ORDER AND NOW, this day of 2001, upon consideration of the attached Petition for Approval to Relocate, Defendant's Petition Is hereby GRANTED. BY THE COURT: I I I I I I I I I I I 1 I I I I I i i 1 I • IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff NO, 98.4060 CIVIL TERM vs. CIVIL ACTION • LAW SUZANNE S, ABEL, IN CUSTODY Defendant PETITION FOR APPROVAL TO RELOCATE AND NOW, this day of September, 2001, comes the Defendant, Suzanne Abel, pro se, who seeks the Court's approval to relocate and requests that the Court schedule a hearing or enter an Order predicated upon the following: The parties hereto are parties to the above captioned action in custody regarding the minor child, Elizabeth Rebekah Abel (DOB 11120191). 2. The parties attended a hearing before this Honorable Court on August 20, 1998. 3. At the conclusion of the hearing, Plaintiffa counsel read a stipulated custody agreement Into the record. Pursuant to the stipulated agreement, Defendant enjoys primary custody of the minor child; and father enjoys liberal visitation. (Exhibit A). 4. The stipulated agreement specifically provided, In pertinent part, as follows: And finally, I believe, this agreement is based on the mother not moving out of the current school district and will so state that mother is not to move out of that school district without a prior hearing and court approval, 6. The minor child attended Cumberland Valley School District at the time the stipulated agreement was entered. 6, Defendant currently resides at 1204 Louise Lane, Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania where the minor child attends 0 grade at Hampden Elementary School within the Cumberland Valley School District. 7, Defendant rents her current residence where she and the minor child have resided for the past 2'/a years. 6, Defendant Is engaged to be married to Mr, Allen Hostetter who resides at 7 East Leumen Street, Mt, Holly Springs, Pennsylvania. 9, Mr. Hostetter owns his residence. Mr. Hostetter Is employed full tirne by ComCast Cable, 10. Mr. Hostetter's residence is served by the Mt, Holly Elementary School within the Carlisle School District. 11. In anticipation of, and preparation for, their Impending marriage and the Impending birth of their child, Defendant and Mr. Hostetter would like to live together as a family, with the minor child, at Mr. Hostetter's residence, 12. The minor child has developed a familiar relationship with Mr. Hostetter, 13. The minor child Is looking forward to attending Mt. Holly Elementary School where she has already made new friends and will live closer to Defendant's extended family. 14. Defendant has given notice of intent to vacate at her current residence. The apartment complex has confirmed November 4, 2001 as Defendant's last date of residence. 15. Defendant advised Plaintiff of their anticipated relocation and offered to transport the minor child to and from Plaintiffs brother's house (where Plaintiff currently resides) at 3200 Elm Street, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania so that Plaintiffs visitation schedule remains undisturbed and that Plaintiff is not inconvenienced by Defendant's relocation. 16. Travel to and from Mr. Hostetter's residence is approximately 17 miles or 22 minutes more then travel to and from Defendant's current residence, relative to Plaintiffs current residence. 17, To minimize the stress of changing schools In mid-year, Defendant seeks to transfer the minor child to Mt. Holly Elementary School as early In the school year as practicable, WHEREFORE, Defendant respectfully requests this Honorable Court to schedule a hearing or enter an Order approving Defendant's relocation. Respectfully Submitted, Suzanne Abel, Prose By, Mzahrie Abel RO, x 1032 Mechanicsburg, PA 17066 (717) 3030366 , IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff NO, 98.4080 CIVIL TERM Ve. CIVIL ACTION - LAW SUZANNE S. ABEL, IN CUSTODY Defendant VERIFICATION I verify that the statements made in the foregoing Defendant's Petition for Approval to Relocate are true and accurate. I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pe.C.S. §4904 relating to unsworn falsification to authorities, i. Ali At I A1.0 qwAln%ln zenne S, Abel 1 1 I 1 1 I 1 I I 1 IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff NO, 96.4060 CIVIL TERM vs. CIVIL ACTION - LAW SUZANNE S, ABEL, IN CUSTODY Defendant 63]4;Mlol& _ • I, Suzanne Abel, pro se, do hereby certify that I served a true and correct copy of the foregoing Defendant's Petition for Approval to Relocate upon the following below-named Individual by depositing same In the U,S, Mail, postage pre-paid at Mechanicsburg, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania this 119 day of September, 2001, SERVED UPON: Maria Cognetti, Esquire Cognetti & Associates 210 Grandview Avenue Camp Hill, PA 17011 (counsel for Plalntlfn Box 1032 Mechanicsburg, PA 17055 (717) 303-0355 SuzeP.O.n Abel Pro se-Defendant t -ARNOLD J. BAUM V. SUZANNE S. ABEL - 4060 CIVIL 1996 8/20/98 MB. COONETTIc For purposes of the record today, I can state the parties' agreement as follows, The parties will have shared legal custody of the minor child, and we will further define that term in a proposed court order. The parties will likewise share physical custody of Ellie in a fashion as follows. The father will have three out of four weekends, i.e., three on one off. And this will begin with his next regular weekend. The weekends will run from Friday after school, at approximately 4:00 p.m, through Sunday evenings at 8:00 p.m. If Friday is a school holiday, then the father will get the child Thursday at approximately 4t0O p.m, and keep her for the remainder of the weekend. If Monday is a school holiday, the father will simply keep the child through until Monday evening at 8c00 p.m. The father will also have the child on Tuesday evenings from 4c00 to 6:00. For the holidays, Mother's Day will always be with :pother. And Father's Day will always be with father, from 9:00 a.m. through 8:00 p.m. The parties will alternate Thanksgiving each year, from Wednesday at 8:00 p.m, through Sunday at 8:00 p.m. And the father will have the holiday in even years. Mom will have the holiday in odd-numbered years. For the Passover holiday, recognizing the two days of Seder, the father shall have the first day of Seder, and the mother shall have the second day of Seder. And the time frames will run from sundown to sundown. ?rKHl?3/f !? The father shall then also get any part of the Easter and/or spring break that does not conflict with the Passover time that I have just delineated, For Rosh Hashanah, again, the father will have the first day, and the mother will have the second day, And those times will also be from sundown to sundown, For Yom Kippur every year, the parties will simply alternate the holiday. For Yom Kippur the mother will start this rotation, having the child for Yom Kippur in even-numbered years. The eight days of Hanukkah shall be split evenly by the parties, with the father having the option to first pick his four days, Again, the father will then also get any remainder of the child's school Christmas break, which does not conflict with those eight days of Hanukkah, except for the fact that mother will always have December 24th, from 10:00 a.m. through 10:30 p.m. The school holidays will be considered to be from when school is out through the evening before school. A clarification on what I have just said, that for the remainder of the Christmas break that does not conflict with Hanukkah, father's time shall start after mother's time occurring on the 24th at 10:30 p.m. The father will then have the remainder of the Christmas break, During the summer, mom will have alternate weekends, from Fridays at 4:00 through Sunday at 8:00, and Wednesday evenings from 4:00 to 8:00. Additionally in the summer, each party will have the child for three uninterrupted non-consecutive weeks. The mother shall have two of her three weeks the first and last weeks before and after school -- the first week after school ends and the first week before school begins, and one other week. The father can have any other three weeks. The parties will give each other a minimum of thirty days notice of any of the weeks which are not specifically set forth by this agreement. Each of them must take the week which includes their weekend. And a week will be defined here as Friday to Friday or Sunday to Sunday. The parties shall have phone contact with the child on a liberal basis. As far as transportation is concerned, the party receiving custody shall provide the transportation. If, other than in emergency circumstances, a party keeps the child longer than their requisite time, the other party shall be given makeup time. And finally, I believe, this agreement is based on the mother not moving out of the current school district and will so state that mother is not to move out of that school district without a prior hearing and court approval. 1' 1 1 1 1 !I 1 1 ? I 1 ? ' i 1 I I i I 1 11 I 1 .1 ' I. ' 1 1 ?, ' I I 'I I I' ? 1 I.1 1? I 1 1 I, ?j. I 1 V_." ?' r.? X 4 I I ??. , aJ rti'3 1 1 ??1'?.. r_? , ?j 1 I I 1. , ,1 L)I ?.. ? I y '. ?'jt) ?{ 1 1 I I I I ll ? ? ?I I 4 tll] r Vi I 1, lr_ -. I ?.. .,:J 1 I II 1 I 1 I 1 i I I I 1 I I ? i I ?. I 1 ? 1 I i _ 1 1 II I i ? 1I i I I I i I 1 1 i 1 11 i I I I I I ? I 1 1 i ( 1 I ? i. I 1 i I I I I. 1 1 1. I I I' r I I ?I i ? 1 I I 1 I i 1 1 ! I (:. r ? 1 ?1 I I I. 1 1 11 I 1 1 i i ? I I I., ARNOLD J, BAUM, Plaintiff/Petitioner v. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant/Respondent IN THE COURT O COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUN'T'Y, PENNSYLVANIA , NO. 96.4060 CIVIL. ACTION - LAW IN CUS'T'ODY AND NOW, to wit, this 10' Jay o?' och t+•• 2001, the hearing currently scheduled in this mutter for October 10, 2001, Is hereby rescheduled to October 26, 2001, at 3;30 p,m, In Courtroom 94 of the Cumberland County Courthouse, Carlisle, Pennsylvania, BY'T'HE COUR'T', Kevi ? I I I r I I W1111101) Wily I..YLw11?irw,Wr?. AVy.s, Mwp/Wu ?.. l1,ml,"•till IgNI ARNOLD J, BAUM, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. : NO. 9G•4060 CIVIL TERM SUZANNE S. ABEL, : CIVIL ACTION • LAW Defendant : IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COQ AND NOW, to wit, this 'I * day of No -c-.6.y , 2001, It is hereby ORDERED AND DECREED that the attached Stipulation for Custody be made an Order of this Court and said Stipulation is adopted In it entirety and incorporated herein as an Order of Court. BY THE COURT': 4 ,414 A. Hess, Judge V ?O\ IW IIAV.1, 11 W bAY IMwawl Wwm A1A# W . 11\hUIW W.m Im Il"Ud, w, -,M OWN1 ARNOLD J, BAUM, ; IN THE COURTOF COMMON PLEAS Plaintiff ; CUMBERLAND COUN'T'Y, PENNSYLVANIA V. NO, 96.4060 CIVIL'fERM SUZANNE S. ABEL, CIVIL. ACTION - LAW Defendant IN CUSTODY STIPULATION FOR CUSTODY AND NOW, this .3tLday of _ nC-#0 j], _, 2001, PluintIIT Amold J, Baum (hereinafter referred to un "Father"), and Defendant, Suzanne S. Abel (hereinalter referred to as "Mother"), having the hest interest of their minor child, Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20, 1991, In mind, do hereby agree and stipulate as l'ollows; 'fhe parties agree and acknowledge that it is in the best Interest and welfare of the minor child that they have shared legal custody. The parties' agreement to shared legal custody is in consideration of the following; a. Both parties recognize that each of them need to be fully involved in all aspects of their child's welfare and happiness; b. Both parents desire that neither parent should ever be relegated to the status of "visiting" or "weekend parent"; C. Both parents agree that their child presently perceives both parents as a source of love and security and wishes to continue both relationships; -1.. 1W-*JMW1 brNl11M UIFLYYYl11Yn A`ApwnllnllNLryI W,w IIV 1 uwNl nlI NIFI IIYJALI d. Both parents agree that they possess the ability to communicate and cooperate with each other in promoting their child's best interest; C. Both parents are agreeable to a shared custody arrangement under certain teens and conditions; C. Both parents will attempt by all possible means to foster their child's relationship with the other parent. Both parents realize and appreciate that it is critical for their child's healthy development that she feel good about and loving toward both parents and that both parents play a major role in helping to achieve this goal; g. Both parents shall fully share Information including oral and written reports, regarding their child concerning all aspects of her life, including, inter alia• information concerning schooling and education, health, religion, summer activities and friends. Both parents shall take part in all decisions concerning the child; and both parents agree to cooperate to the fullest possible extent in their child's upbringing to the end that her relationship with hoth parents shall be as hurmonious as possible. Plaintiff and Defendant shall confer concerning their best efforts to agree upon the selection of schools and colleges and any summer activities in which the child may engage, 2. The parties shall share physical custody of the minor child in accordance with the following schedule: a. Beginning on October 26, 2001, father shall have three of every four weekends beginning at 4:00 p.m. on Friday and ending on Sunday at 7:30 p.tn, Said -2- ?VIIW'InnII,IW111?N Iba'.wx/VlumrA'Ap?„nun1,Al1?nb0in l?wl Ywul, .v, wlwl ? Uw)6V1 1 , weekends shall be consecutive. If Friduy is u school holiday then. In that event, rather shall have custody beginning on 'I'hursduy at 4:00 p.m. I I' Monday is u school holiday then, in that event, rather shall have custody until Monday at 7:30 p.m. b, rather shall likewise have custody every 'T'uesday evening during the school year, from approximately 4,00 p.m. (but no later than 4:30 p,m.) through 7,30 p.m. C. Beginning on the second Sunday following the close of school, primary custody ofthe minor child shall revert to rather, However, during the week prior to Father's assumption of summer custody he shall forego his'T'uesday evening visit. d. During the summer months, Mother shall have custody on alternate weekends beginning Friday at 4:00 p.m. through Sunday at 8:00 p.m, C. Mother shall have custody 'T'uesday evenings from 4:00 p.m. through 8:00 p.m. f. Mother shall also have custody for one additional uninterrupted week during the sutmner. Mother must provide Luther with at least thirty (30) days written notice of the week she plans to utilize. For the purposes of this Paragraph a week shall be defined as Sunday at 8:00 p.m. through Sunday at 8:00 p.m, g. During the summer months. Father shall be entitled to three (3) non- consecutive one week periods of uninterrupted custody. For the purposes of this Paragraph a week shall be defined as Sunday at 8:00 p.m. through Sunday at 8:00 p.m. Said weeks shall include Father's regularly scheduled weekends, rather must provide -3- "NiWVUnI11pVlIm11bw4x1VIWnAlpmnwiUApIgINUn LU /uMull iul ulJ UMI?VI Mother with at icust thirty (30) days written notice of the weeks In which he plans to take vacation. During these weeks Mother would not be entitled to her Tuesday night visitation, h. The child must be returned to the primury custody of Mother on the second Sunday before the start of the school year. During the week prior to the resumption of school father shall forego his Tuesday visit, The child shall spend Mother's Clay with Mother and Father's Day with Father, The holiday shall be defined as beginning Lit 8:00 pan. on the evening before the holiday and ending at 8:00 p.m. the day of the holiday. J. The Thanksgiving holiday shall be alternated between the parties each year. The holiday shall be defined as beginning at 8:00 p.m. on the Wednesday the day before the holiday and ending at 7:30 p.m. on the Monday oiler the holiday. Father shall have the holiday in even numbered years and Mother shall have the holiday in odd numbered years. k. The Passover holiday shall be shared between the parties, The parties shall share the holiday from sundown to sundown. Father shall get the first 24 hours of Seder and Mother shall get the second 24 hours of Seder. 1. With regard to the child's Faster/spring break, Father shall be entitled to any portion of that break which does not conflict with the Passover holiday schedule. -4- `WI,L lYn11111M?I.MIIAInM.)'IIw11w A` Apmnnn„M I"am.. lnll.N?d, un ryJ . ? Irv7\NI tn. Rosh Hashanah shull be shared between the parties, The parties shall share the holiday front sundown to sundown. Father shall get the first 24 hours of the holiday and Mother shall get the second 24 hours ol'the holiday. n. With regard to Yont Kippur the parties shall alternate the holiday from year to year. 1'he holiday shall run from sundown to sundown. Mother shall have the holiday in even nutnbered years and Father shall have the holiday in odd numbered years. o. With regard to Hanukkah the parties shall equally share the eight (g) days of Hanukkah. Father shall be entitled to select which blur (4) days he will have custody, which must coincide with his weekend time, p. For the Christmas holiday Mother shall be entitled to custody from the close of school through 10:30 p.m. on Chrisunas eve. Beginning on December 24 at 10:30 p.m. Father shall be entitled to any portion of the child's Christmas break which does not conflict with Hanukkah, but in any event shall end on 7:30 p.nt. on the evening before the start of school. 3. Mother shall be responsible for all transportation. 4. Reasonable telephone privileges with the child shall be afforded to the non- custodial parent at all times. 5. Father agrees that Mother may relocate with the child to the Carlisle Area School District. Mother agrees not to move from the Carlisle Area School District -5- INIAft"Ap I,.% Jim without the prior written consent of father or until a tall hearing before the Court and farther Order of Court. father agrees that he will not move without prior written nWilcation to Mother, I f father moves more than 5 miles from his current residence he shall obtain the prior consent of Mother, which consent shall not he unreasonably PRIM withheld. However, should father move more than 5 miles from his current residence all transportation shall be borne equally by the parties. 6. Should either party fail to facilitate custodial exchanges at the appropriate time, the party negatively eilected shall be entitled to make-up thee. 7. The parties farther agree that this Stipulation shall be entered us an Order of Court and as such shall have the same full force and effect as if this matter had been tried and decided. 8. This Stipulation and Order of Court shall supersede any existing custody arrangements between the parties. 9. This Stipulation and Order of Court shall continue in full force and ell'ect until further Order of Court and/or amended agreement in writing between the parties. -6- IWIIEVYn.IYI,YVIIMN UII?bgylYmA\AIIIwNNAIAgmIYnN INIVWMI ,v/•,y ? ? Uvi1Nl lo. The parties hereby waive their right to present this Stipulation In open Court or to have their case heard by the Court at this thne, IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the purtles have hereunto set their hands and seals the day and year first above written. Witness Arnold J. Bautn 7 p Witness S ne S. Abe I I I I I .I I I , , I I I ' I ARNOLD JAY IIAUM I IN 'II Ih. COUIt'I' Or C'ONIN4UN PL1:AS OI PI.nIN'I'lhP 1 CUM111:It1.AN1) COUNTY, III; NNSYLVANIA a V. t 96.4060 C'IVIt. At"ZION I.AW SUYANNG SPENCGIt AIIrL t IN C'lJti'I'l)I)Y DFI+:NDAN'r ORDER OF COURT ANI) NOW. _ _.___..Wednesdry, Mpy041 2006 upon consideration ofthe attached Complaint, It Is hereby directed that parties anJ theb respeellvr counsel appear before Dewn S. Sunday, ksy, the conciliator, at 39 Wert Main Street, Meehenleshurg, PA 17066 on Wednesday. June 01, 2006 at 9100 AM t'ur n Ihe-lienrhtg Custody C'unlcrence. At such cunlercnCe, nn ell'urt svlll he nutde to resolve the Issues In dfsputc; or if this cannot he accomplished. to define and narrow the issues to he heard by tl a court, and w enter into a tcmpontry order. All children Sue IA a ur older may also he prcscm at the cunlcnna:. (allure w uppear at the conlerenee nmv pros ide grounds for entry of n temporary or permanent order. The court hereby directs the parties In furnlsh any and sill eitlsdng Protection from Abuse orders, Special Rellef orders, and Custody orders in the eonelliadtr 48 hours Orlon it) scheduled hearing, FOR 11 U: COURT. By: „ Al _ Dawn S, StunrlaY, a-s4, _ ,k C'ustodv Conciliator The Court ol'Common I'Icns of C'umherlluxl Comm nis required by loss to comply vs ith the Americans Milt I)isuhillics Act of 1990, for inlirmtutiom about accessible I'ocilities and reasonable accommodations m ailahic to disuhled individuals having business before the court. please Contact our ollice. All arrangements rust he made at least 72 hours prior to any hearing or business before the court. You must attend the scheduled confercnCe or hearing. YOU SIIOULI) TAFH' HIS PAPIA 10 YOUR A H ORNI:Y A'f ONCI'., Ip YOU DO NOT HAVE AN ATI'URNFY Olt C•ANNO'I' AFFORD ONE. 0010 OR I ELI'.PIIONIi'I'll[:OfPICf: SIiT FOR I'll BELOW'Fo FIND OUT WI11:It I: YOU CAN 61:1' 116AL 111`1'. CLImberlnnd County Bar Association 32 South Bedford Street Carlisle. Pconsylvuniu 17013 Telephone (717) 249.3166 111.I:IJ?i?ff t!:r. OF THf: rr?.;rl,cl: ;rnrr 2005 MAY -5 PH 12139 1r?'•j I11 rlrlc;?i?;,•,?,Iln I ? I I IIr, 1 i .c(llr? (4tr?a!xC I I II I I ? I 1 r r : I I 1 I 1 11 I I r I I I : 1 1 I,I r II I r lil I i I I I ARNOLD JAY BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL, Defendant AND NOW, this IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO, 06.4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY day of . 2008, upon consideration of the attached petition, it is hereby directed that the parties and their respective counsel appear before Esquire, the conciliator, at Pennsylvania, on , the day of 2008, at o'clock _.m., for a Pro-Hoaring Custody Conferenco. At such conference, an effort will he made to resolve the issues in dispute; or if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the court, and to enter into a temporary order. Either party may bring the children who are the subjects of this custody action to the conference, but the children's attendance is not mandatory. Failure to appear at the conference may provide grounds for entry of a temporary or permanent order. FOR THE COURT, By: Custody Conciliator YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A LAWYER OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP. Cumberland County Bar Association 2 Liberty Avenue Carlisle, PA 17013 (717)'140.3166 By: J. ARNOLD JAY BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL, Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION • LAW IN CUSTODY PETITION, TO MODIFY CUSTODY AND NOW COMES, Petitioner, Suzanne S. Abel, pro so, who avors as follows: 1. Petitioner is Suzanne Spencer Abel, who residos at 22 East Street, #(i, Mt, Holly Springs, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, 2, Respondent is Arnold Jay Baum, who resides at 2319 Herr Street, Harrisburg, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania. 3. The parties have one minor child, Elizabeth Rebekah Abel, born 11/20/1991. 4. On November 11, 2001, the Honorable Judge Kevin Hess entered the present Custody Order giving Petitioner primary physical custody, with liberal visitation to Respondent. (See Exhibit A, attached). 5, The best interests and permanent welfare of the child will be served by a modification of the Court's Order that would grant supervised visitation to Respondent, WHEREFORE, Petitioner respectfully requests this honorable Court to grant a Modification of the existing Court Order, Date Suzo,hne Spencer Abel Pro Se Petitioner 22 East Street, #0 Mt, Holly Springs, PA 17006 (717) 234•2401 , VERIFICATION I verify that the statements made in this petition are true and correct, I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa, Cons, Stat, Ann, §4904 relating to unsworn falsification authorities, Date Sux ne Spence Abel I I 1 I r I 1 I I I I I 1 l I r I I I r I 1 r I I I r I I I 1 I I 1 III r I I II r I r. I i 1 I I" . I ?. I r , I r I I I I r I r i I i I ? CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE I certify that a true and correct copy of the Petition to Modify Custody has been served via first class US, mail W the following party, Maria Cognotti, Esq., Attorney for Respondent Maria Cognetti & Associates 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp Hill, PA 17011 `1?a9 v? ? ? l? ? ,ti, l Date Suz a Spencer Abel No Se Petitioner 22 East Street, #6 Mt, Holly Springs, PA 17060 (717) 2342401 '1 I I ,I I I 1 i I I I I I I r I. 11 , I I I 1 1 I I I II I Ir I I 1 ' I 1 1 Ii r '1.1 1 rl , 1 i I r i I 1' II 1 II 1 I I I 1 1 I ' I I 1. r I I Ir r I , I ?I I ' I / I I 1 i, . r I I r r I i I I , I I r I r II ! I' , 1 I I' i I I I , i ? I r I I ' r I Exhl* A I rNReVrur I..MYr uim.yllw.AVye.w.pJra fu rwdr or qd AI(NOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant 11W : IN THE COURT Of COMMON PLEAS : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA : NO, 964060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL AC'T'ION -LAW IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COUI17 AND NOW, to wit, this Jay of Lm?ef' , 2001, it is hereby ORDERED AND DECREED that (lie attached Stipulation for Custody be made an Order of this Court and said Stipulation is adopted in it entirety and incorporated herein as an Order of Court, BY THE COURT: K in A. [less, Judge TRUE Onr. In Tostlmony i 9n(We seal of :.:lt RECORD sot my had +ri at arlfsla, Pa. IWU1YYnl/ 18W11.w UInY1hM,WR•A\1,prwnU\1YpuI W m fu cnW/, w, •N IWIM ARNOLD J. BAUM, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. : NO. 96.4060 CIVIL. TERM SUZANNE S. ABEL, : CIVIL ACTION - LAW Defendant ; IN CUSTODY STIPULATION FOR CUSTODY b} AND NOW, this day of 0C Qk n ___, 2001, Plaintiff, Arnold J, Baum (hereinafter referred to as "Father"), and Defendant, Suzanne S. Abel (hereinafter referred to as "Mother"), having the best interest of their minor child, Elizabeth R. Abel, bom November 20, 1991, in mind, do hereby agree and stipulate as follows; 1. The parties agree and acknowledge that it is in the best interest and welfare of the minor child that they have shared legal custody. The parties' agreement to shared legal custody is In consideration of the following: a. Both parties recognize that each of them need to be fully involved in all aspects of their child's welfare and happiness; b. Both parents desire that neither parent should ever be relegated to the status of "visiting" or "weekend parent"; C. Both parents agree that their child presently perceives both parents as a source of love and security and wishes to continue both relationships; -i- PNiib`Awl, 16"Il .Y Ib• W y?INrro AUW?II.InUY41J W ui b. t u6W' m Mw IwI W l d. Both parents agree that they possess the ability to communicate and cooperate with each other in promoting their child's best Interest; C. Both parents are agreeable to a shared custody arrangement under certain ternns and conditions; f, Both parents will attempt by all possible mans to foster their child's relationship with the other parent, Both parents realize and appreciate that it is critical for their child's healthy development that she feel good about and loving toward both parents and that both parents play a major role in helping to achieve this goal; g. Both parents shall fully share information including oral and written reports, regarding their child concerning all aspects of her life, including, inter aiia. information concerning schooling and education, health, religion, summer activities and friends. Both parents shall take part in all decisions concerning the child; and both parents agree to cooperate to the fullest possible extent in their child's upbringing to the end that her relationship with both parents shall be cis harmonious as possible, Plaintiff and Defendant shall confer concerning their best efforts to agree upon the selection of schools and colleges and any summer activities in which the child may engage. 2. The parties shall share physical custody of the minor child in accordance with the following schedule: a. Beginning on October 26, 2001, Father shall have three of every four weekends beginning tit 4:00 p.m. on Friday and ending on Sunday at 7:30 p.m. Said -2- IWiJV,uil,Uw??m IAiuu,Vl,un Akjp lAbpAw pu rumW0v1•1N u?Ilw weekends shall be consecutive, If Friday is a school holiday then, In (lint event, lather shall have custody beginning on Thursday at 4:00 p,m, If Monday Is a school holiday then, in that event, father shall have custody until Monday tit 7:30 p.m. b. Father shall likewise have custody everyTuesday evening during the school year, from approximately 4:00 p.m. (but no later thin 4:30 p.m,) through 7 30 p.m, C. Beginning on the second Sunday following the close orschool, primary custody of Orc minor child shall revert to Father. However, during the week prior to Father's assumption of summer custody fie shall forego his Tuesday evening visit, During the summer months, Mother shall have custody on alternate weekends beginning Friday at 4:00 p,m. through Sunday at 8:00 p.m. C. Mother shall have custody'fuesday evenings from 4:00 p.m, through 8:00 P.M. Mother shall also have custody for one additional uninterrupted week during the summer. Mother must provide Father with at least thirty (30) days written notice of the week she plans to utilize. For the purposes of this Paragraph( a week shall be defined as Sunday at 8:00 p.nn, through Sunday at 8:00 p.m, g. During the sunnier months, Father shall be entitled to three (3) non- consecutive one week periods of uninterrupted custody, for the purposes of this Paragraph a week shall be defined as Sunday at 8:00 p.m. through Sunday at 8:00 p.m. Said weeks shall include Father's regularly scheduled weekends, Father must provide -3 'V 1WU?Vwp I1.YhnY IMavnVlAwnA.lrnwsU\1Yry1Yna h. IWYM, wl •la Iw7W1 Mother with at least thirty (30) days written notice of the weeks in which he plans to take vacation. During these weeks Mother would not be entitled to her Tuesday night visitation. h. The child must be returned to the primary custody of Mother on the second Sunday before the start of the school year. During the week prior to tl?e resumption ol'school Fattier shall forego his Tuesday visit. The child shall spend Mother's Day with Mother and Father's Day with Fattier. The holiday shall be defined as beginning at 8:00 p.m. rnn the evening before the holiday and ending at 8:00 p.?n. the day of the holiday. j. The Thanksgiving holiday shall be alternated between the parties each year. The holiday shall be defined as beginning at 8:00 p.m. on the Wednesday the day before the holiday and ending at 7:30 p.m. on the Monday after the holiday. Father shall have the holiday in even numbered years and Mother shall have the holiday in odd numbered years. k. The Passover holiday shall be shared between the parties. The parties shall share the holiday from sundown to sundown. Father shall get the first 24 hours of Seder and Mother shall get the second 24 hours of Scdcr. With regard to the child's Easter/spring break, Father shall be entitled to any portion of that break which does not conflict with the Passover holiday schedule. \Wjb'1 U1111M111uY UuAW/YIwN A'A1/nMtMW4yuIM?? N t"I'hW 107MI in. Rosh I lashanah shall be shared between the parties, 'llte parties shall share the holiday from sundown to sundown, father shall get the first 24 hours of the holiday and Mother shall get the second 24 hours oi'the holiday, n. With regard to Yont Kippur the parties shall alternate the holiday from year to year, fhc holiday shall run from sundown to sundown. Mother shall have die holiday in even numbered years and father shall have the holiday fn odd numbered years. o. With regard to Hanukkah the parties shall equally share the eight (ti) days of Hanukkah. Father shall be entitled to select which four (4) days lie will have custody, which must coincide with his weekend time, For the Christmas holiday Mother shall be entitled to custody from the close of school through 10:30 p.m, on Christmas eve. Beginning on December 24 at 10:30 p.m. Father shall be entitled to any portion of the child's Christmas break which does not conflict with Hanukkah, but in any event shall end on 7:30 p,nt. on the evening before the start of school. Mother shall be responsible for all transportation. Reasonable telephone privileges with the child shall be afforded to the non- custodial parent at all tines. Father agrees that Mother may relocate with the child to the Carlisle Area School District. Mother agrees not to move from the Carlisle Area School District -5- IWiMVrntly llW bnY lM wwyYIwYA'ArneYn,NYylWUi hl1'uY"A, wl 'PI without the prior written consent of Father or until a IblI hearing before the Court and further Order of Court. Father agrees that he will not move without prior written notification to Mother. Ifl'ather moves more than 5 miles font his current residence he shall obtain tite prior consent of Mother, which consent shall not be unreasonably MW1 withheld, I iowever, should Father move more than 5 stiles from his current residence all transportation shall be borne equally by the parties. b. Should either party fail to facilitate custodial exchanges at the appropriate time, the party negatively effected shall be entitled to make-up time, 7. The parties further agree that this Stipulation shall be entered as an Order of Court and as such shall have the saute full force and effect as if this matter had been tried and decided. 8. 11tis Stipulation and Order of Court shall supersede any existing custody arrangements between the parties. 9. 'Ibis Stipulation and Order of Court shall continue in hill force and effect until further Order of-Court and/or amended agreement in writing between the parties. -6- MA1V WAy OW&IM 1>.??s,Ylr Al yl?w4?wy,11YNr lu ruir, a? NI IMIMI 10, The parties hereby waive their right to present this Stipulation In open Court or to have their case heard by the Court at this time, IN WITNESS WIIEREOF, the parties have hereunto set their hands and seals the day and year first above written, /Witness Arnold J. Baum , Witness S? me S, Abe I I I I I ' II ?I I 1 1 -7 I I 1 I 1 I ? 1 1 1 t I I ?5 ? ?., a I I 16 t I li I I I 1 1 i I 1 II I I I I I ' ' I I I ARNOLD JAY BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL, Defendant : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 00-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY ANSWER TO PLAINTIFF'S COUNTER-PETITION FOR CONTEMPT OF CUSTODY AND NOW COMES, Petitioner, Suzanne S. Abel, pro se, who avers as follows: 6. No response required. 7. Admitted that sometime in July 2, 2004, Father demanded to know when Daughter would come to live with him, and when Daughter replied "novae", Father lost his temper and pushed minor child, knocking her off balance and causing her to strike her head against her dresser. Father then slapped Daughter for being defiant. Denied that Father's assault retaliating for Daughter's refusal to agree to live with him constituted "minor corporal punishment." 8. Admitted that Daughter has refused unsupervised visitation since Father's assault. Strictly denied that Daughter's anger and fear of father did not pre-date Father's the July 2004 assault incident. By way of further response, Mother was able to independently verify Daughter's ongoing assertions that, over the past couple of years, Father hits engaged in three parallel courses of conduct that have caused embarrassment, humiliation, fear, and anger in Daughter, to wit: 1) Father has continuously insisted that Daughter live with him so he would not have to pay child support and so he could get child support from Mother by rupontedly instructing Dnughtur that when she turns 1:3, she cut decide with whom she wnnts to live, and by demmII(lhlg thnt Daughter exercise that "right;" 'l) Father hits continuously made disparoghlg comments to Daughter ahuut Mother's life style, morals, lend values, concluding that Daughter bohnves "just like her mother" when she refuses to agree to live with him ond/or promise to exercise her "right" to live with him, and ;1) Father has reportedly tixntod on Daughter's leinikie development by accounting for her underwear, inapproprintely commenting on and ridiculing her physical churucteristics, and touching her bra in the presence of ethers. It is specifically noted that Daughwr's refusal Iu necept ongoing unsupervised visitation coineidod with Daughter's Inellses wul haul' justnlalble fenr that Father would further ridicule this physical development. 1). Denied. Strict proof demanded. fly way of further response, it is specifically denied that Mother hits exacerbated the streSSed relationship between Father and Daughter. It is further denied that Mother hits n1lowed Daughter to dictate the terms of visitation to punish father. To the centrnry, Mother hits made every possible effort to facilitate the re-establishment of a Flit her-Da ughter relationship. Specifically, Mother has dett,rred to Father's unilateral choice of counselor, and to that counselor's recommendation for supervised visitation. 10. Admitted. By way of further response, Father's participation in counseling hits been inconsistent, insincere, and disingenuous. Specifically, Father has repeatedly refused to comply with his counselor's recommendation for supervised visitation and has twice refused to attend his family's gatherings once he learned Daughter would he in attendance. Mother hits ensured that Daughter complied with all of Father's counselor's recommendations. 11. Denied, Strict proof demanded. fly way of further response, Mother has no knowledge of Father's counselor's strategy for the Filither-Daughter counseling beyond the ultimate gold of re-establishing it rel?thmship between them. 11, Denied, Strict proof demanded. Mother and Father have had no communication regarding the counseling sessions with Father nfter Father provided the name of the counselor he unilaterally selected. By way of further response, Mother discussed the lock of progress in the process with F'ather's counselor. After Father angrily told Daughter he no longer wanted her to he it part of his life at It family gathering rat his parent's home in Irate December 2004 or early January 10051, Mother agreed with Father's counselor that to continue the instant counseling would be fruitless and unnecessarily stressful for Daughter unless and until Father begun to comply with his counselor's recommendations. Admitted that Mother foiled to take Daughter to the final, closer session with counselor scheduled for Janunry 2005. Mother notes that her attorney's letter dated April 6, 2006, is materially incorrect, and she did not see that letter until served with the instant plending. 13. Denied. Strict proof demanded. By way of further response, upon the referral of Daughter's teachers in Februnry 1006, Daughter's school counselor conducted an initial assessment and referred her for it more complete ovaluation with Holy Spirit Hospital's I'eenLine. (see attached Exhibit A). TeenLine's evnluttion recommended counseling for Mother and Daughter to address stressors in their relationship, (See Attached Exhibit B). Pursunnt to that recommendation, Mother set up an appointment for them with it counselor in Carlisle. Since the recommended counseling was solely for the purpose of addressing the Mother. Daughter relationship, Mother did not violate the shared legal custody language of the Order. 14, Admitted. Father's and Father's attorney's direct threats to tho Carlisle counselor of legal action have prevented Daughter, and Mother, from receiving the recommended counseling. At no time did either Father or Father's attorney contact Mother to ascertain the roason for the recommended counseling. 15. Denied. Strict proof domunded. Father hits missed custody time with Daughter due to his courses of conduct outlined in 1111 B and 10 above, most specifically due to his refusal to Comply with the supervised visitation recommended by his counselor and his voluntary absence from his family's activities that included Daughter. 10. Denied, Strict proof demandod. By way of further response, Father, by his ongoing course of conduct outlined in 1111 H and 10 above, has failed to comply with 1111 Le., Ld., and 11 of the existing Order, 17, Denied. Strict proof demanded. By way of further response, Mother has expended considerable sums in counsel fees and costs as it result of complying with the existing Order, encouraging Father's compliance with the existing Order, and in defending Father's malicious Petition for Contempt filed in retaliation for Mother's filing it Petition for Modification in the face of Father's refusal to comply with his counselor's recommendations for supervised visitation WHEREFORE, Petitioner respectfully requests this Honorable Court to deny Plaintiffs Petition for Contempt, to Grant Defendant's Modification of the existing Court Order to include an Order for resumption of Father-Daughter counseling with it mutually agreed upon counselor, an Order for supervised visitation with Father pending further recommendation by the agreed upon counselor, an Order for commencing Mother-Daughter counseling in compliance with the TeenLino recommendation, and an award to Mother of all counsel foes and costs incurred since July 2004 for attempting to enforce the existing Order, and for having to defend Plaintiffs Petition for Contempt. Rospectfully submitted, ww Date % /. it it 10 AI ?In n b //'? AJ Suyebino Sponc.+r Abel Pro Se Petitioner 22 East Street, #0 Mt. Holly Springs, PA 17065 (717) 234.2401 I I r I , I , r I , r I I r. VERIFICATION I verify that the statements made in this petition are true and correct. I understand that false statements heroin are made subject to the penalties of 16 Pa, Cons, Stat, Ann. §4004 relating to unsworn falsification authorities. L Lw lwjl 10 , ") ()Aj lzyz' Date ui ne Sponc.er Abel 1 ' I I r r 1 I I r I I I r , „ I Irl 1 r i. r r i I i r r r I r ? I r ,r n n Exhibit A 1 1 I I 1 I 1'r 1? I?. 1 r. 1 1 1 1 1'.I I - I I 'r 1 I I r it i i I r i i 1 I 1 1 1 r EXHIBIT A Letter from Daughter's Guidance Counselor I I I I I I r I r 11 11 1 ? I 1 r I r i ,.Ir 1 I r 11 I I 1 1 I I 1 r 1 r I ? I 1 r I' - 1 : I r I I I ? I I I 11 I MAY-0E-06 99134 Ali Zliles sC/1Z%NN V CARLISLE AREA SCHOOL DISTRICT 623 W, Penn Street Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013 Telephone: 717.240.6800 Mary Kay Durham, Superintendent May S, 2003 To Whom It May Concern: Elizabeth Abel (DOD 11-20-9 1) was referrod to the Student Assistance Team at Lamborton Middle School an January 26, 20050 by a teacher who had received distressing writings from her, A follow up consultation with the school counselor resulted in a phonc call to hcr mother requesting permission for an evaluation through the Student Assistance Program, The assessment was conducted by a spccialist from Tasnline and recommendations made to Me. Suzanne Abel, Elizabeth's mother. Sincerely, Q Cynthia Sutton Counselor Lamberton Middle School P.WJ Exhibit B /'1 r'1 I ? I r , rI I I , Ir I I , I. , , I , EXHIBIT B Letter from Holy Spirit Hospital's TeenLine r I r r I I I I I I 1 ,. I I , r r WT-UV-AV? hXl VJ:JJ MM IEENLINE W No. 111-/6J-JU31 P.OU1/UU1 TEENLINE A antV101 OF HOLY®IMaIT H06PITAL May 6, 2005 Suzama Abel 22 But St, Mt, Holly Springs, PA 17065 Deer Mrs. Abel, This letter is a follow up to our conversation on March 7, 2005, 1 work for Teenline at Holy Spirit Hospital and I am the mental health liaison for Lamberton Middle School's Student Assistance Team At the team's request, l provided Elizabeth with a mental health assessment, After meeting with Elizabeth on two different occasions, it is my recommendation that she would greatly benefit from entering into outpatient counseling. Ideally, this would include individual and ca-joint sessions with you. Although Elizabeth is a very bright and gifted young lady, I have concerns that without this counseling, her emotional well-being would be significantly compromised. It is ray hope that in working with a therapist, Elizabeth will be able to productively address the issues that she is currently struggling with, and in turn, this would allow her to fully and freely express her many positive qualities and talents. Sincerely, Tonys Hofiinan MS Temline Counselor 303 North 21a Street Camp Hill, PA 17011 (717) 763.2345 Fa: (717) 763.1395 ARNOLD 1, RAUM I IN 'I'III? ('011R'I' OF C'UMMON VITAS 01 PLAINTIFF I CUM III:ICI.ANDCOUNTY. PI?NNSYI.VANIA V. 1 964060 C'IVII. ACTION I.AW SUXANNE S, ApEL I IN CUSTODY DFFIiNDANT ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, 'fhUrsdayj May-26, 2006 _ upon eomsidcration olllte attached Cuntploint, it is hereby directed that parties and their respective counsel appear beldre Down S. Sunday, Esq. the conciliator at 39 West Main Streets Mechuplcsburg, PA 17055 om Wednesday, June Ula 2006_,_ _... __ at 9.1010 .... AM for u Pre-Ilearing Custody Conference. Al such conference, an ellurt Will he made to resolve the issues Ili dispute; or if this cannot be accomplished, to Jelin( and narrow the issues to he heard by the court, and to enter into a temporary order. All children aac live or older may also be present at the conlereace. Failure to appear at the conference nmty provide grounds firr entry of a temporary or permanent order. The court hereby directs the parties to furnish any and all esisthty Ihvttectioo from Abuse orders, Special Relief orders, and Custodv orders to the conciliator 48 hours prior lo scheduled hearing, FOR Till? COUR'T'. Ily:.. lsl Daim S,_$undpy, Esq. r' Custody Conciliator The Court ml'C'ommmon Pleas ol'Cumhe ImtJ C'uunty is required by IoW to comply with the Americans with Disabilites Act of 1990. For Inibri nation about accessible I'acililics and reasonable accommodations available to disabled Individuals having business belbre the court, please contact our ollice. All arrangements must be made at least 73 hours prior to any hexing or business hdore the court. You must attend the scheduled conference or hearing, YOU SI IOULD TAKIi THIS PAPER TO YOUR A'I"fORNEY AT ONCE, IF YOU DO NOT HAVE AN A'f'1'ORNEY OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, (io TOOK rri.isTimNF.'na: OFFIC'i: sET FORTII BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERIi YOU CAN 01' LkiAL I II'.LI', Cumberland (bunt). Ilar Association 32 South Hedlhnl Street Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013 Telephopc 17171249.3160 AI(NOLD J, IIAUM t IN TI IF COUKT OF COMMON PLEAS OF PLAIN'T'IFF n CUMIIIiRLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. t 96.4060 CIVIL. ACI'IUN LAIN SUZANNE S. AI)rL I IN CUS'T'ODY DEFFNDAN'f t ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, upon cnnslderaliun nl'tite attached Cumhlalm. it is hereby directed that parties told their respective counsel appear bel'ure Down S. Sunday, Esq, , the canclliutor, lit______- _39 West Main Street, -Meehonleshuri{a.PA_17055 on Wednesdsv, June 01,1006____.__„ . at 9.1.00--AM for a Pre-Ilearing Custody Conference. At such conference, an effort will be made to resolve the Issues in dispute; or if this cannot he accomplished, la define and narrow the issues to he heard by the court, and to enter into it temporary order. All children uge live or older nmv also he present at the conference. Failure to appear at the conference may provide grounds Im envy of a temporary or permanent order, The court hereby directs the parties to furnish silly and all existing Protection from Abuse orders, Speclol Relief orders, and Custodv orders to the conciliator 48 hours prior to scheduled hearing. FUR TI-m. COUI(T. fly: _Isl_.___-_ Drtrvn_S...Smdrty, Esq,._....-Jt? _ Custody Conciliator The Court ol'C'ommon Pleas ol'Cumherhmd County is required by low to comply with the Americans with Disabllites Act of 1990. For bnl''omation about accessible facilities mad reasonable accommodations available to disabled individuals having business bel'ore the court, please contact our office, All arrangements must be made at least 72 hours prior to nay hearing or business before the court. You must attend the scheduled conference or hearing. YOU SI IOULD E n t ntis PAPER TO YOUR ATTORNFY AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE AN ATTORNEY OR CANNOT AI'FORD ONE, (;0'1'0 01('1'lil_EPIIONIi'fl IE OFFICE SET FORTII BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN OFT LEGAL KELP. Cumberland County Bar Association 32 South Redford Street Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013 Telephone (717) 249-3166 I I I I I. GGi, i 1 ;!?Jlp , r rf ? ? ? X74 I I r r I r I I 1 rII I I r. I II I r I I I ? I I 'I 1' I r ' , I r I I I I 1 I r , Ir I r I , I RECEIVED MAY 2 0 ?Mr ARNOLD J. HAUM. ; IN THE COURTOF COMMON PLEAS 1'hthttitl%Respundent : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V, :No. 96.4060 SUZANNE S. ABEL. ; CIVIL ACTION - LAW Del'cndunt/Pctitioncr : IN C'UST'ODY ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, upon consideration of the attached Complaint. It is hereby directed that the parties and their respective counsel appear belbre Dawn 1. Sunda-, Esquire, Conciliator, utj1j Akst Main Street. Mechanicsburg. Pennsylvania, on the 1_' day oQUng_, 2005, ut 9:00 u.m., I'or u Pre-I lcurbtg Custody C'onlcrence. At such conlcrencc, un eflirrt will be nadc lu resolve the Issues in dispute; or. if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the Court, and to enter into a temporary Order. All children age live or older may also be present ut the conference. Failure to appear at the conference may provide grounds I'or the entry off temporary or permanent Order. I:OIt I'I IF ('011 WI DA'I'IiU; IIY; Custody Conciliator YOU SHOULD TAKE TIIIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE. A LAWYER OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEIIIIONE THE OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU ('AN GET LEGAL. HELP. Cumberland Counly Bar Association 2 Liberly Avenue Carlisle, PA 17013 (717) 249-3166 I A[ 11011 D11VUnl)VlnmlrA4VlenJIiiMOAtima nuJ PvI lof (bnlcllqu "lid 61n) nl. 2ooS MANIA I'. cocNErn & AKSOCIA,mN KRINTQI'HF.RT. NMULL, ENQUIRE Attorney I.U. No. 691,10 210 Ora ndvlew Avenue, Suite 102 Cunnp IIIII, PA 17011 Telephone No, (717) 909-4060 Attorneys l'or Plainlif Ttenpondera ARNOLD J. BAUM, : IN TIM- COURT OF COMMON PLEAS Plointill1lespondent : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. ; NO. 96.4060 SUZANNE S. Alllil., ; CIVIL AC'T'ION - LAW DeMulunt/Petitioner : IN CUSTODY ANSWER TO DEFENDANT'S PETITION TO MODIFY CUSTODY AND COUNTER-PETITION FOR CONTEMPT OF CUSTODY AND NOW, comes the Plaintiff, Arnold J. Boom, by and through his attorney, Kristopher 'I', Small, Esquire. and with him Maria 1'. Cognetti & Associates, with this Answer and Counter petition lbr Contempt ol'Custody. ol'vvhich the lullowing is a statement: I, Admitted. Petitioner, Suzanne S. Abel (hercinutler "Mother"), currently resides at 22 East Street, 06, Mt. I lolly Springs, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, 2. Admitted, Respondent. Arnold Jay flown (hereinafter "Father), currently resides at 2319 Herr Street, I larrisburg, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania, 3. Admitted. 4. Admitted. 5. Denied, It is denied that the best Interests ol'the child will be served by granting, supervised visitation to Father, Mother has kept the child away from Father liar some time without justification and the resumption ot'visitation per the Order ol'Court dated November 11, I'I fivnl IlhrclnryNluunbA?DI.nOWp?'Anwe, and 141 Im t'nnlolil'l ?%pd hill) IM, 2000 2001, and make up time for the days missed would be In the child's best Interest, WHEREFORE, lather respectfully requests shut this Ilonoruble Court deny Mother's requested relief'. COUNTER PETITION FOR CONTEMPT OH CUSTODY G, Father incorporates file above-referenced answers as though they were more fully set forth herein at length, 7. In or about.luly 2004, an incident occurred between Father and the minor child wherein Futher was l'orced to discipline the child. Said discipline Included minor corporal pull ishmnent. li. Since the date ol'said punishment, daughter has been angry with Pother and has refused unsupervised visitation. 9. Mother has exacerbated the problem by allowing duughtcr to Jictatc the terms of her visitation with Father us u way ol'punishing Father. 10. In an attempt to avoid litigation, Pother agreed to attempt counseling with daughter as u way to resolve daughter's utnger, It. Father was only able to attend one (1) therapy session with duughtcr due to daughter's anger, however, daughter was to continue her sessions with the therapist with the intention of'rcbuegrating Father into the process. 12. Mother had led Father to believe that the counseling sessions were ongoing, however. Father discovered that daughter hus not attended a counseling session since December of 2004, A true and correct copy ol'a letter dated April 5, 2005 From Mother's attorney, Gerald I ?l'llanl DimWryUlaum•NI'IeudIIIRk%A mI%el nnJ I'el 1.11 c"ntengn "lid Alut 18, I'M S. Robinson, stating thut the child continues In counseling with Riegler 3hienvold & Associates, is attached hereto, made part hereof and nmrked ns I?xhibit "A." 13, Mother, on her own, and without consultation with Father, attempted to change counselors and set up an appointment with daughter, despite the language In the Order dated November 11, 2001, wherein the parties share legal custody ofthe child, 14. Father was able to Intervene and stop said counseling, however, Mother hnfornted the child that the canceling of the counseling was Father's fault, whereby Increasing the child's anger toward Father. 15. Father hus missed substantial anounts of eustody with the child due to Mother's refusal to rollow the Custody Order and her subsequent lies regarding the daughter's counseling, 16. Father believes and, therefim, avers that Mother, by her conduct, has willfully failed to abide by this Court's Order, and as such acted in contempt thereof', 17, Father has expended considerable sterns in counsel fees as u result ol'pursuhng this contempt action against Mother, WHEREFORE, Father respectfully requests that this I lonorable Court enter an Order as 1,01 lows: (a) Finding Mother in Contempt of this Court's Order of'Novennber 11, 2001, (b) Grunting Father counsel fees and costs fir having to pursue contempt against Mother. (c) Granting Father make-up time for all the time missed between Father and daughter. 10.'llenl nlieAUpVluwwMl'IcuJbip?lmNUr wd 11cl N9 Coollcwpl rpd Mu) IN, I N3 (d) Order Mother to resume the child's counseling with Rieglar Shienvold & Associates, (c) All other relief that the Court deems equitable and just. Itespectfully Submitted: MARIA 11. COGHTTI & ASSOCIATES C V? Date: May 18, 2005 liy: K1141 'TO'11 .R'I', SMULL, ESQUIRE Attu ney I.D. No. 09140 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp I[ill, PA 17011 'Telephone No. (717) 909-4040 Attorney f'or Plaintiff/Respondent YERMI ;ATION 1, Arnold J. Baum, hereby verily and state that the facts set forth in the foregoing document are true and correct to the best of my information, knowledge and belief. I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa. C.S,A. §4904 relating to unsworn verification to authorities. Q , Date: Arnold J. Baum I I , I I I , , r , 1 1.1 1 I , I 1 I I I r II I r I 1 I I I r I 1 ? I I I r , April 5, 2005 Marla P. Cognetti, Esquire 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp Hill, PA 17011 APR - 7 2005 Re: Suzanne Abel v Arnold J. Baum•No.t 964060 Our File No.; 1988,004 Dear Ms Cognetti: This is in reply to your letter dated March 21, 2005 regarding the above captioned custody matter. According to my client, the subject minor child Is in counseling with Riegler Shienvold and Associates and insists on supervised visits with her Father. I am proposing that Father's periods of partial custody be resumed based on her counselor's recommendation. In that regard I propose that we send a joint letter to the counselor requesting a proposal. Sincerely yours, ROBINSON & GE:RALDO By: Gerald S, Robinson, Esquire cc: Suzanne Abel GSR: gsr Hardebutg Cumberland County P. 0. Box 6320 4407 North Front Street P0. BOX 64 Harrisburg, PA 171106320 Herdeburg, PA 17110 Carlisle, PA 17013 xw,vrobinson•peraldo.mnn (117( 232.8626 (800) 671.2727 (8001671.2727 Poe (717) 2326008 Washington, D C. 1316 Ponneylvanla Ave., S E, Washlnpton, D C. 20003 (202)644-2600 Fee (202) 6476342 CERTIFICATE; OF BERVICIr I, Kristopher T, Smull, Attorney lbr Plahttlli7Respondent herein, do hereby cerlNy shut on this date I served the foregoing Answer to Dellendont's Petition to Modify Custody and Counter Petition t'or Contempt ol'Custody by depositing a true and exact copy thereol' ht the United Stales mail, rirst class, postage prepaid, addressed as Ibllows; Swann Spencer Abel 22 Bust Street, 110 Mt, Holly Springs. PA 17005 MARIA P. COGNETTI & ASSOCIATES Date: JI I?I BY: KRIS OPII 4 ' SMULL, ESQl11RF Attorney LD, No. 09140 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp I fill. PA 17011 Telephone No. (717) 909-40011 Attorney Im Plainti117Respondent n I I I! ' I 1 I 1 r i I 1 I, I r r 1 I ' 1 I 1 I r r rll? i I ?! ? '?Q I I I r G' I rn nV V„ I Pt 1?! zi I I I I •I r 1 1 I 1 I I I I I r 1 I 1 r i I I r , I r 1 a RECEIVED JUN 087005 J0 ARNOLD JAY BAUM Plaintiff vs. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS Oh CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA 96.4060 CIVIL ACTION LAW IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, this /i'' day of 2005, upon consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Report, i is ordered and directed as follows; 1, The prior Order of this Court dated November 11, 2001 is temporarily suspended pending implementation of counseling under this Order and the follow-up custody conciliation conference scheduled by this Order. 2. The parties shall promptly select a counselor and initiate therapeutic family counseling for the purpose of re-establishing the relationship between the Father and the Child. The rather shall provide a list of counselors under his insurance coverage through counsel to the Mother by the end of the day following the conciliation conference on June I, 2005. The parties agree that the Mother will use the services of the same counselor if she desires to initiate counseling to address other issues between the Mother and Child to ensure that the Child is not working with two counselors during the same time period. The Father agrees to provide any necessary consent which the counselor may require to engage in counseling with the Mother and Child as well. 3. Pending implementation of the counseling between the Father and Child and the follow-up conciliation conference, the parties shall have shared legal custody of the Child, the Mother shall have primary physical custody of the Child, and the Father shall have periods of partial custody as further provided in the following provision, 4. Beginning on the first Tuesday following the first counseling session for the Father and the Child, the Father shall have custody of the Child every Tuesday evening from 6,30 p.m. until 8:30 p.m., with an adult relative or friend, with whom the Child is familiar in attendance, The Father shall notify the Mother in advance of the identity of the accompanying adult. The first Tuesday evening period of custody shall take place at the paternal grandmother's residence, The parties acknowledge that it is their goal to expand the Father's periods of custody with the Child to the prior regular schedule at the Father's residence with no accompanying adult by the end of the Sumner 2005, However, the panics agree to obtain guidance from the counselor as counseling progresses os to the appropriate timing for expanding the schedule, eliminating the need for an accompunying adult and the location for periods of custody, A OF rfrC?rr j?oN?rnpy 7,IOO``S JUII 16 qp! IOr 5 y pi'l b+rSy? l!dpf"ot ?JNt1' I I I 1 I 1 I I , I , "II I' r I r I "1 11 ? I ? i I I i" iI I , I ! I?1,? 1. I 1 r ?1.: ! , I 1 I I I I I I 5, The Mother shall provide all transportution far counseling sessinns and exchanges of custody pending the follow-up conciliation conference, 6. The parties and their counsel shall attend u follow-up custody conciliation conference on August IB, 2005 at 9:00 aan, in the of7lce of the conciliator, Dawn S. Sunday for the purpose of reviewing the ongoing custody arrangemotts, BY THE COURT, A. Hess J. cc: v6jtopher T. Small, Esquire - Counsel for Father be Pacuska, Esquire - Counsel for Mother Mgt e.? 0 I I I I •,, ARNOLD JAY BAUM Plaintiff Vs. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL Defendant Prior Judge: Kevin A. Hess IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA t 96.4060 CIVIL AC'T'ION LAW IN CUSTODY IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CIVIL PROCEDURE 19153-8, the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following report: 1. The pertinent Information concerning the Child who is the subject of this litigation is as follows: NAME DATE OF BIRTH CURRENTLY IN CUSTODY OF Elizabeth Rebekah Abel November 20, 1991 Mother 2. A custody conciliation conference wus held on June I, 2005, with the following individuals in attendance: The Father, Arnold Jay Baum, with his counsel, Kristopher T'. Small, Esquire, and the Mother, Suzanne S, Abel, with her counsel, Abbe Pacuska, Esquire, 3. The parties agreed to entry of an Order in the form as attached. ." 3, coos tiLa4..0 w 61%2 Date Dawn S. Sunday, Esquire Custody Conciliator ',r RECEIVED AUG 22100'5 ARNOLD JAY BAUM IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF Plaintiff CUMBERLAND COUN'T'Y, PENNSYLVANIA vs. 96.4000 CIVIL. ACTION LAW ; SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL Defendant t IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COURT' AND NOW, this _ z Y ' day of w , 2005, upon consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Report, it Is ordered and directed as follows: L The prior Order of this Court dated June 15, 2005 is vacated and replaced with this Order. 2. The prior Order of this Court dated November 1 I , 200116 temporarily suspended pending Implementation of counseling under this Order and the follow-up custody conciliation conference scheduled by this Order. 3. The parties and the Child shall participate in it course of therapeutic family counseling with Laurie Walker, L.P„ for the purpose of rc-establishing the relationship between the Father and the Child. The parties agree that the purpose of the counseling shall be therapeutic only and that no assessment or custody evaluation shall be obtained unless agreed upon in writing by both parties or ordered by the Court. 'file parties agree that there shall be no written recommendations or assessments obtained through the counseling, No custody evaluation shall be considered by the Court unless the evaluation was obtuincd by the written agreement of the parties or by Court Order. The parties agree that the Mother will use the services of the same counselor if she desires to initiate counseling to address other issues between the Mother and Child to ensure that the Child is not working with two counselors during the sane time period. The Father agrees to provide any necessary consent which the counselor may require to engage in counseling with the Mother and Child as well. 4. Pending implementation of the therapeutic family counseling and the follow-up conciliation conference, the parties shall have shared legal custody of the Child, die Mother shall have primary physical custody of the Child, and the Father shall have periods ofpurtial custody as further provided in the following provision. 5. Beginning on the first Tuesday following the first counseling session for the Father and the Child, the Father shall have custody of the Child every Thursday evening from 6:30 p.m. until 9;30 p.m., with an adult relative or friend, with whom the Child is familiar in attendance. The Father shall notify the Mother in advance of the identity of the accompanying adult. The first Thursday evening period of custody shall take place at the paternal grandnnother's residence. The parties acknowledge that it is their goal to expand the Father's periods of custody with the Child to the prior A regular schedule at the Father's residence with no accompanying adult by the end of November, 2005. However, the panics agree to obtain guidance from the counselor us counseling progresses as to the appropriate timing for expanding the schedule, eliminating the need for an accompanying adult and u locution for periods of custody, Under this temporary Order pending resumption of the custody arrangements set forth in the November 11, 2001 Order, the Mother shall provide transportation for the Child at the beginning of the father's periods of custody and the i-ather shall provide transportation for rctuen of the Child to the Mother's residence 1iollowing his periods of custody. The requirement in the preceding paragraph that an adult relative or friend be present during the Father's periods of custody shall not apply during periods of transportation under this provision. 6. The parties and their counsel shall attend u follow-up custody conciliation conference in the office of the conciliator, Dawn S, Sunday, on Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 10;00 uum. for the purpose of reviewing the ongoing custody arrangements following the implementation of counseling, cc: stopher T, Small, Esquire - Counsel for Father erald S, Robinson, Esquire - Counsel for Mother v a zqo BY THE COURT, ARNOLD JAY BAUM Plaintill' Vol SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL Defendant Prior Judge, Kevin A, Hess IN THE COURT Or COMMON PLEAS 017 CUMtSLI(LANU COUN I Y, 1114NNNYLVANIA 96.4060 CIVIL. ACTION LAW , t IN CUS'T'ODY CUSTODY CONCILIATION SUMMARY REPORT IN ACCORDANCE: WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CIVII. PROCEDURE 1915.3.8, the undersigned Custody Conciliulor submits the l'ollowhtg report: I. The pertinent information concerning the Child who Is the subject of this litigation Is as follows: NAME; DA'L'E OF BIRTH CURREN'T'LY IN CUSTODY OF Elizabeth Rebckah Abel November 20, 1991 Mother 2. A follow-up conciliation conference was held on August 18, 2005, with the following individuals in attendance: The Father, Arnold Jay Bount, with his counsel, Kristopher T. Small, Esquire, mid the Mother, Suzanne Spencer Abel, with her counsel, Junic Wassmer and Gerald S. Robinson, Esquire. 3. The parties agreed to entry of un Order in the font its attached. l?r-?Qf1s- Dutc Dawn S. Sunday, Esquire v Custody Conciliator 1 i ' i i ' I I I I 1 1 1 'I ' r . 1 ? i i 1 1 1 I ? I i t ? I I Ii, 1 I i i I I i 1.-I 1 I I ? I I. I I I ? I I I , I ,I I I I I I 1. I I I I i I I I I I I '?, ? r ? - ? ' I I I i. r 1 it ? i 1 I i 1 i 1II I i I I ' I 1 I I 1 1 I ? I I I 1 ? I, I I 1' 1 ? ' I ' I I I I I i ?, I I i 1 1 1 1':. I ? 1 1 I I _i I ? ' I 1 ' ill I .. I I ? 1 ? ? I ' I r I 1 I li I 1 I 1 1 1 I 1 I I L? I I 1 I I i I ? ?. - ' i I I I I I 11 ? i ' ' I '. ?. I r ? I11, ?r I ? i I? ? I ' i ? ? i I I 1 I I I I I I ARNOLD JAY BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL, Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY PETITION TO MODIFY CUSTODY AND NOW COMES, Petitioner, Suzanne S. Abel, pro se, who avers as follows: 1. Petitioner is Suzanne Spencer Abel, who resides at 22 East Street, #6, Mt. Holly Springs, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania. 2. Respondent is Arnold Jay Baum, who resides at 2319 Herr Street, Harrisburg, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania. 3. The parties have one minor child, Elizabeth Rebekah Abel, born 11/20/1991. 4. On November 11, 2001, the Honorable Judge Kevin Hess entered the present Custody Order giving Petitioner primary physical custody, with liberal visitation to Respondent. (See Exhibit A, attached). 5. The best interests and permanent welfare of the child will be served by a modification of the Court's Order that would grant supervised visitation to Respondent. WHEREFORE, Petitioner respectfully requests this Honorable Court to grant a Modification of the existing Court Order. Date Suz4fine Spencer Abel Pro Se Petitioner 22 East Street, #6 Mt. Holly Springs, PA 17065 (717) 234-2401 VERIFICATION I verify that the statements made in this petition are true and correct. I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa. Cons. Stat. Ann. §4904 relating to unsworn falsification authorities. Date Suz ne Spence Abel CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE I certify that a true and correct copy of the Petition to Modify Custody has been served via first class U.S. mail to the following party. Maria Cognetti, Esq., Attorney for Respondent Maria Cognetti & Associates 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp Hill, PA 17011 Date Suz a Spencer Abel Pro Se Petitioner 22 East Street, #6 Mt. Holly Springs, PA 17065 (717) 234-2401 0. kd?? & EXHIBIT A ORDER OF COURT dated 11 /7/01, with STIPULATION FOR CUSTODY j \WT ME mily"w is Dllcaury? m-AUp atASOp"m Crc Cuz* a,.wpd ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant 11/X11 IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, to wit, this day of p e R 2001, it is hereby ORDERED AND DECREED that the attached Stipulation for Custody be made an Order of this Court and said Stipulation is adopted in it entirety and incorporated herein as an Order of Court. BY THE COURT: K in A. Hess, Judge TRUE Cr)n,,• ")') ,a RECORF.) In Testimony ,,.i, u Set my hack` and he seal c o at arlisla, Pa. 7 .....(Y.._ 6"f , \WtshV jjy law\Clirnt D.,ccto T\ um-A\kWftd=Un fipuMe fm CU y,ws.wpd ARNOLD J. BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant M5101 IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY STIPULATION FOR CUSTODY s? ,,p? AND NOW, this ,3L _ day of /-? 1 JL?7 OLLJ1- 2001, Plaintiff, Arnold J. Baum (hereinafter referred to as "Father"), and Defendant, Suzanne S. Abel (hereinafter referred to as "Mother"), having the best interest of their minor child, Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20, 1991, in mind, do hereby agree and stipulate as follows: The parties agree and acknowledge that it is in the best interest and welfare of the minor child that they have shared legal custody. The parties' agreement to shared legal custody is in consideration of the following: a. Both parties recognize that each of them need to be fully involved in all aspects of their child's welfare and happiness; b. Both parents desire that neither parent should ever be relegated to the status of "visiting" or "weekend parent"; C. Both parents agree that their child presently perceives both parents as a source of love and security and wishes to continue both relationships; -1- \wI? Wmur i,„.\Crent onY,a,sna m-AwWmrmmU, Uvu]Am f?cust? y s,. Td IW25M] d. Both parents agree that they possess the ability to communicate and cooperate with each other in promoting their child's best interest; e. Both parents are agreeable to a shared custody arrangement under certain terms and conditions; £ Both parents will attempt by ail possible means to foster their child's relationship with the other parent. Both parents realize and appreciate that it is critical for their child's healthy development that she feel good about and loving toward both parents and that both parents play a major role in helping to achieve this goal; g. Both parents shall fully share information including oral and written reports, regarding their child concerning all aspects of her life, including, inter alia information concerning schooling and education, health, religion, summer activities and friends. Both parents shall take part in all decisions concerning the child; and both parents agree to cooperate to the fullest possible extent in their child's upbringing to the end that her relationship with both parents shall be as harmonious as possible. Plaintiff and Defendant shall confer concerning their best efforts to agree upon the selection of schools and colleges and any summer activities in which the child may engage. 2. The parties shall share physical custody of the minor child in accordance with the following schedule: a. Beginning on October 26, 2001, Father shall have three of every four weekends beginning at 4:00 p.m. on Friday and ending on Sunday at 7:30 p.m. Said -z- MsWamily lawTlimt Dir ory\Bzum-A?Ayeeemimu\Upulatim fm Custody as.wpd Iof15/01 weekends shall be consecutive. If Friday is a school holiday then, in that event, Father shall have custody beginning on Thursday at 4:00 p.m. If Monday is a school holiday then, in that event, Father shall have custody until Monday at 7:30 p.m. Father shall likewise have custody every Tuesday evening during the school year, from approximately 4:00 p.m. (but no later than 4:30 p.m.) through 7:30 p.m. C. Beginning on the second Sunday following the close of school, primary custody of the minor child shall revert to Father. However, during the week prior to Father's assumption of summer custody he shall forego his Tuesday evening visit. d. During the summer months, Mother shall have custody on alternate weekends beginning Friday at 4:00 p.m. through Sunday at 8:00 p.m. e. Mother shall have custody Tuesday evenings from 4:00 p.m. through 8:00 P.M. f. Mother shall also have custody for one additional uninterrupted week during the summer. Mother must provide Father with at least thirty (30) days written notice of the week she plans to utilize. For the purposes of this Paragraph a week shall be defined as Sunday at 8:00 p.m. through Sunday at 8:00 p.m. g. During the summer months, Father shall be entitled to three (3) non- consecutive one week periods of uninterrupted custody. For the purposes of this Paragraph a week shall be defined as Sunday at 8:00 p.m. through Sunday at 8:00 p.m. Said weeks shall include Father's regularly scheduled weekends. Father must provide -3- \WubVamily IaMChenl fAtxt Tsum-A?kgeemmt Upulaem fm Custody ws.wpd 1025/01 Mother with at least thirty (30) days written notice of the weeks in which he plans to take vacation. During these weeks Mother would not be entitled to her Tuesday night visitation. The child must be returned to the primary custody of Mother on the second Sunday before the start of the school year. During the week prior to the resumption of school Father shall forego his Tuesday visit. The child shall spend Mother's Day with Mother and Father's Day with Father. The holiday shall be defined as beginning at 8:00 p.m. on the evening before the holiday and ending at 8:00 p.m. the day of the holiday. The Thanksgiving holiday shall be alternated between the parties each year. The holiday shall be defined as beginning at 8:00 p.m. on the Wednesday the day before the holiday and ending at 7:30 p.m. on the Monday after the holiday. Father shall have the holiday in even numbered years and Mother shall have the holiday in odd numbered years. k. The Passover holiday shall be shared between the parties. The parties shall share the holiday from sundown to sundown. Father shall get the first 24 hours of Seder and Mother shall get the second 24 hours of Seder. With regard to the child's Easter/spring break, Father shall be entitled to any portion of that break which does not conflict with the Passover holiday schedule. -4- \Wte Vamdy law\Climt Dircw Tt m-A?Agr netts Upulanm fm Cu Wy ms.wpd IO25I01 M. Rosh Hashanah shall be shared between the parties. The parties shall share the holiday from sundown to sundown. Father shall get the first 24 hours of the holiday and Mother shall get the second 24 hours of the holiday. n. With regard to Yom Kippur the parties shall alternate the holiday from year to year. 'The holiday shall run from sundown to sundown. Mother shall have the holiday in even numbered years and Father shall have the holiday in odd numbered years. o. With regard to Hanukkah the parties shall equally share the eight (8) days of Hanukkah. Father shall be entitled to select which four (4) days he will have custody, which must coincide with his weekend time. P. For the Christmas holiday Mother shall be entitled to custody from the close of school through 10:30 p.m. on Christmas eve. Beginning on December 24 at 10:30 p.m. Father shall be entitled to any portion of the child's Christmas break which does not conflict with Hanukkah, but in any event shall end on 7:30 p.m. on the evening before the start of school. Mother shall be responsible for all transportation. 4. Reasonable telephone privileges with the child shall be afforded to the non- custodial parent at all times. Father agrees that Mother may relocate with the child to the Carlisle Area School District. Mother agrees not to move from the Carlisle Area School District -5- \Wb Vamily lawThmt Di:NOry?6;wm-A?Ageemmss?SYpula4m fn C.,W, as w,d without the prior written consent of Father or until a full hearing before the Court and further Order of Court. Father agrees that he will not move without prior written notification to Mother. If Father moves more than 5 miles from his current residence he shall obtain the prior consent of Mother, which consent shall not be unreasonably MW withheld. However, should Father move more than 5 miles from his current residence all transportation shall be borne equally by the parties. Should either party fail to facilitate custodial exchanges at the appropriate time, the party negatively effected shall be entitled to make-up time. The parties further agree that this Stipulation shall be entered as an Order of Court and as such shall have the same full force and effect as if this matter had been tried and decided. 8. This Stipulation and Order of Court shall supersede any existing custody arrangements between the parties. 9. This Stipulation and Order of Court shall continue in full force and effect until further Order of Court and/or amended agreement in writing between the parties. -6- \Wt Vawily I-Virnr Dirvxory\tit•,m-AAjr"rnUs tipulatim for Cuswdy.w wpd 10/35/01 10. The parties hereby waive their right to present this Stipulation in open Court or to have their case heard by the Court at this time. IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties have hereunto set their hands and seals the day and year first above written. Witness rJ?? Witness Arnold J. Baum ; 10 rud S e S. Abel *;'> C.? ?? cj "r4 '? T.- _Li 1. ?It (? ?) ~ ? ?1 ti \y P^> ?) ?_ i ? ? ;?t C ? { ? ( ?. .. .v' ?(1 -.._ 'J "(` n ? .-.. r. ai ARNOLD JAY BAUM IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF PLAINTIFF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. 96-4060 CIVIL ACTION LAW SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL IN CUSTODY DEFENDANT ORDER OF COURT ND NOW, Wednesday, May 04, 2005 upon consideration of the attached Complaint, it is hereby directed that parties and their respective counsel appear before Dawn S. Sunday, Esq. the conciliator, at 39 West Main Street, Mechanicsburp?PA 17055 on Wednesday, June 01, 2005 _ at 9_00 AM for a Pre Hearing Custody Conference. At such conference, an effort will be made to resolve the issues in dispute; or if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the court, and to enter into a temporary order. All children age five or older may also be present at the conference. Failure to appear at the conference may provide rounds for entry of a temporary or permanent order. The court hereby directs the parties to furnish any and all existing Protection from Abuse orders, Special Relief orders, and Custody orders to the conciliator 48 hours prior to scheduled hearing. FOR THE COURT. By: /s/ _ Dawn S. Sunday, Esq._____ Custody Conciliator The Court of Common Pleas of Cumberland County is required by law to comply with the Americans Disabilites Act of 1990. For inforniation about accessible facilities and reasonable accommodations able to disabled individuals having business before the court, please contact our office. All arrangements be made at least 72 hours prior to any hearing or business before the court. You must attend the scheduled ;rence or hearing. YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR ATTORNEY AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT HA E AN ATTORNEY OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET FO TH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP. Cumberland County Bar Association 32 South Bedford Street Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013 Telephone (717) 249-3166 bC :ZI lddl S- I,11"f; SuGZ I:\Client Directory\Baum-A\Pleadings\Answer and Pet for Contempt.wpd MARIA P. COGNETTI & ASSOCIATES KRISTOPHER T. SMULL, ESQUIRE Attorney I.D. No. 69140 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp Hill, PA 17011 Telephone No. (717) 909-4060 Attorneys for Plaintiff/Respondent ARNOLD J. BAUM, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS Plaintiff/Respondent V. SUZANNE S. ABEL, Defendant/Petitioner May 19, 2005 CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 96-4060 CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY ANSWER TO DEFENDANT'S PETITION TO MODIFY CUSTODY AND COUNTER-PETITION FOR CONTEMPT OF CUSTODY AND NOW, comes the Plaintiff, Arnold J. Baum, by and through his attorney, Kristopher T. Smull, Esquire, and with him Maria P. Cognetti & Associates, with this Answer and Counter Petition for Contempt of Custody, of which the following is a statement: Admitted, Petitioner, Suzanne S. Abel (hereinafter "Mother"), currently resides at 22 East Street, #6, Mt. Holly Springs, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania. Admitted, Respondent, Arnold Jay Baum (hereinafter "Father), currently resides at 2319 Herr Street, Harrisburg, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania. 3. Admitted. 4. Admitted. 5. Denied. It is denied that the best interests of the child will be served by granting supervised visitation to Father. Mother has kept the child away from Father for some time without justification and the resumption of visitation per the Order of Court dated November 11, I:\Client Directory\Banm-A\Pleadings\Answer and Pet for Contemptwpd May 18, 2005 2001, and make up time for the days missed would be in the child's best interest. WHEREFORE, Father respectfully requests that this Honorable Court deny Mother's requested relief. COUNTER PETITION FOR CONTEMPT OF CUSTODY 6. Father incorporates the above-referenced answers as though they were more fully set forth herein at length. In or about July 2004, an incident occurred between Father and the minor child wherein Father was forced to discipline the child. Said discipline included minor corporal punishment. 8. Since the date of said punishment, daughter has been angry with Father and has refused unsupervised visitation. 9. Mother has exacerbated the problem by allowing daughter to dictate the terms of her visitation with Father as a way of punishing Father. 10. In an attempt to avoid litigation, Father agreed to attempt counseling with daughter as a way to resolve daughter's anger. 11. Father was only able to attend one (1) therapy session with daughter due to daughter's anger, however, daughter was to continue her sessions with the therapist with the intention of reintegrating Father into the process. 12. Mother had led Father to believe that the counseling sessions were ongoing, however, Father discovered that daughter has not attended a counseling session since December of 2004. A true and correct copy of a letter dated April 5, 2005 from Mother's attorney, Gerald I Ttient Directory\Baum-A\Pleadings\Answer and Pet for Contempt.wpd May 18, 2005 S. Robinson, stating that the child continues in counseling with Riegler Shienvold & Associates, is attached hereto, made part hereof and marked as Exhibit "A." 13. Mother, on her own, and without consultation with Father, attempted to change counselors and set up an appointment with daughter, despite the language in the Order dated November 11, 2001, wherein the parties share legal custody of the child. 14. Father was able to intervene and stop said counseling, however, Mother informed the child that the canceling of the counseling was Father's fault, whereby increasing the child's anger toward Father. 15. Father has missed substantial amounts of custody with the child due to Mother's refusal to follow the Custody Order and her subsequent lies regarding the daughter's counseling. 16. Father believes and, therefore, avers that Mother, by her conduct, has willfully failed to abide by this Court's Order, and as such acted in contempt thereof. 17. Father has expended considerable sums in counsel fees as a result of pursuing this contempt action against Mother. WHEREFORE, Father respectfully requests that this Honorable Court enter an Order as follows: (a) Finding Mother in Contempt of this Court's Order of November 11, 2001. (b) Granting Father counsel fees and costs for having to pursue contempt against Mother. (c) Granting Father make-up time for all the time missed between Father and daughter. I:Tfient DirectoryVBaum-AVPleadings\Aoswer and Pet for Contempt.wpd May 18, 2005 (d) Order Mother to resume the child's counseling with Riegler Shienvold & Associates. (e) All other relief that the Court deems equitable and just. Respectfully Submitted: MARIA P. COGNETTI & ASSOCIATES Date: May 18, 2005 By: IRI;13CR T. SMULL, ESQUIRE I.D. No. 69140 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp Hill, PA 17011 Telephone No. (717) 909-4060 Attorney for Plaintiff/Respondent VERIFICATION I, Arnold J. Baum, hereby verify and state that the facts set forth in the foregoing document are true and correct to the best of my information, knowledge and belief. I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa. C.S.A. §4904 relating to unworn verification to authorities. Date: !!! 111 Arnold J. Baum c?c oe APR. - 7 2J05 April 5, 2005 Maria P. Cognetti, Esquire 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp Hill, PA 17011 Re: Suzanne Abel v Arnold J. Baum-No.: 96-4060 Our File No.: 1988.004 Dear Ms Cognetti: This is in reply to your letter dated March 21, 2005 regarding the above-captioned custody matter. According to my client, the subject minor child is in counseling with Riegler Shienvold and Associates and insists on supervised visits with her Father. I am proposing that Father's periods of partial custody be resumed based on her counselor's recommendation. In that regard I propose that we send a joint letter to the counselor requesting a proposal. Sincerely yours, ROBINSON & GERALDO Y Gerald S. Robinson, Esquire cc: Suzanne Abel GSR: gsr Harrisburg Cumberland County P. 0. Box 5320 4407 North Front Street P.O. BOX 54 Harrisburg, PA 17110.5320 Harrisburg, PA 17110 Carlisle, PA 17013 w ..robinson-geraldo.com (717) 232-8525 (800) 571-2727 (800) 571-2727 Fax (717) 232-5098 Washington, D.C. 1316 Pennsylvania Ave., S.E. Washington, D.C. 20003 (202) 544-2889 Fax (202) 547-8342 CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE I, Kristopher T. Smull, Attorney for Plaintiff/Respondent herein, do hereby certify that on this date I served the foregoing Answer to Defendant's Petition to Modify Custody and Counter Petition for Contempt of Custody by depositing a true and exact copy thereof in the United States mail, first class, postage prepaid, addressed as follows: Suzanne Spencer Abel 22 East Street, #6 Mt. Holly Springs, PA 17065 MARIA P. COGNETTI & ASSOCIATES Date: By: KRIS O . PH SMULL, ESQUIRE Attorney I.D. No. 69140 210 Grandview Avenue, Suite 102 Camp Hill, PA 17011 Telephone No. (717) 909-4060 Attorney for Plaintiff/Respondent Fz? Ul ra , ARNOLD JAY BAUM, Plaintiff V. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL, Defendant IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA NO. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY ANSWER TO PLAINTIFF'S COUNTER-PETITION FOR CONTEMPT OF CUSTODY AND NOW COMES, Petitioner, Suzanne S. Abel, pro se, who avers as follows: 6. No response required. 7. Admitted that sometime in July 2, 2004, Father demanded to know when Daughter would come to live with him, and when Daughter replied "never", Father lost his temper and pushed minor child, knocking her off balance and causing her to strike her head against her dresser. Father then slapped Daughter for being defiant. Denied that Father's assault retaliating for Daughter's refusal to agree to live with him constituted "minor corporal punishment." 8. Admitted that Daughter has refused unsupervised visitation since Father's assault. Strictly denied that Daughter's anger and fear of father did not pre-date Father's the July 2004 assault incident. By way of further response, Mother was able to independently verify Daughter's ongoing assertions that, over the past couple of years, Father has engaged in three parallel courses of conduct that have caused embarrassment, humiliation, fear, and anger in Daughter, to wit: 1) Father has continuously insisted that Daughter live with him so he would not have to pay child support and so he could get child support from Mother by repeatedly instructing Daughter that when she turns 13, she can decide with whom she wants to live, and by demanding that Daughter exercise that "right;" 2) Father has continuously made disparaging comments to Daughter about Mother's life style, morals, and values, concluding that Daughter behaves "just like her mother" when she refuses to agree to live with him and/or promise to exercise her "right" to live with him, and 3) Father has repeatedly fixated on Daughter's female development by accounting for her underwear, inappropriately commenting on and ridiculing her physical characteristics, and touching her bra in the presence of others. It is specifically noted that Daughter's refusal to accept ongoing unsupervised visitation coincided with Daughter's menses and her justifiable fear that Father would further ridicule this physical development. 9. Denied. Strict proof demanded. By way of further response, it is specifically denied that Mother has exacerbated the stressed relationship between Father and Daughter. It is further denied that Mother has allowed Daughter to dictate the terms of visitation to punish Father. To the contrary, Mother has made every possible effort to facilitate the re-establishment of a Father-Daughter relationship. Specifically, Mother has deferred to Father's unilateral choice of counselor, and to that counselor's recommendation for supervised visitation. 10. Admitted. By way of further response, Father's participation in counseling has been inconsistent, insincere, and disingenuous. Specifically, Father has repeatedly refused to comply with his counselor's recommendation for supervised visitation and has twice refused to attend his family's gatherings once he learned Daughter would be in attendance. Mother has ensured that Daughter complied with all of Father's counselor's recommendations. 11. Denied. Strict proof demanded. By way of further response, Mother has no knowledge of Father's counselor's strategy for the Father-Daughter counseling beyond the ultimate goal of re-establishing a relationship between them. 12. Denied. Strict proof demanded. Mother and Father have had no communication regarding the counseling sessions with Father after Father provided the name of the counselor he unilaterally selected. By way of further response, Mother discussed the lack of progress in the process with Father's counselor. After Father angrily told Daughter he no longer wanted her to be a part of his life at a family gathering at his parent's home in late December 2004 or early January 2005, Mother agreed with Father's counselor that to continue the instant counseling would be fruitless and unnecessarily stressful for Daughter unless and until Father began to comply with his counselor's recommendations. Admitted that Mother failed to take Daughter to the final, closure session with counselor scheduled for January 2005. Mother notes that her attorney's letter dated April 5, 2005, is materially incorrect, and she did not see that letter until served with the instant pleading. 13. Denied. Strict proof demanded. By way of further response, upon the referral of Daughter's teachers in February 2005, Daughter's school counselor conducted an initial assessment and referred her for a more complete evaluation with Holy Spirit Hospital's TeenLine. (see attached Exhibit A). TeenLine's evaluation recommended counseling for Mother and Daughter to address stressors in their relationship. (See Attached Exhibit B). Pursuant to that recommendation, Mother set up an appointment for them with a counselor in Carlisle. Since the recommended counseling was solely for the purpose of addressing the Mother- Daughter relationship, Mother did not violate the shared legal custody language of the Order. 14. Admitted. Father's and Father's attorney's direct threats to the Carlisle counselor of legal action have prevented Daughter, and Mother, from receiving the recommended counseling. At no time did either Father or Father's attorney contact Mother to ascertain the reason for the recommended counseling. 15. Denied. Strict proof demanded. Father has missed custody time with Daughter due to his courses of conduct outlined in ¶¶ 8 and 10 above, most specifically due to his refusal to comply with the supervised visitation recommended by his counselor and his voluntary absence from his family's activities that included Daughter. 16. Denied. Strict proof demanded. By way of further response, Father, by his ongoing course of conduct outlined in ¶¶ 8 and 10 above, has failed to comply with IT l.c., l.d., and l.f. of the existing Order. 17. Denied. Strict proof demanded. By way of further response, Mother has expended considerable sums in counsel fees and costs as a result of complying with the existing Order, encouraging Father's compliance with the existing Order, and in defending Father's malicious Petition for Contempt filed in retaliation for Mother's filing a Petition for Modification in the face of Father's refusal to comply with his counselor's recommendations for supervised visitation WHEREFORE, Petitioner respectfully requests this Honorable Court to deny Plaintiffs Petition for Contempt, to Grant Defendant's Modification of the existing Court Order to include an Order for resumption of Father-Daughter counseling with a mutually agreed upon counselor, an Order for supervised visitation with Father pending further recommendation by the agreed upon counselor, an Order for commencing Mother-Daughter counseling in compliance with the TeenLine recommendation, and an award to Mother of all counsel fees and costs incurred since July 2004 for attempting to enforce the existing Order, and for having to defend Plaintiffs Petition for Contempt. Date Respectfully submitted, t.l10 .SSuzoSkne Spencbr Abel Pro Se Petitioner 22 East Street, #6 Mt. Holly Springs, PA 17065 (717) 234-2401 VERIFICATION I verify that the statements made in this petition are true and correct. I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 1S Pa. Cons. Stat. Ann. §4904 relating to unsworn falsification authorities. Date Suz ne Spencer Abel • 0 EXHIBIT A Letter from Daughter's Guidance Counselor HAY-0s-es 11!Z6 A" / des Sch A May 5, 2005 • r CARLISLE AREA SCHOOL DISTRICT 623 W. Penn Street Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013 Telephone: 717-240-6800 Mary Kay Durham, Superintendent To Whom It May Concern: Elizabeth Abel (DOB 11-20.91) was referred to the Student Assistance Team at Lamberton Middle School on January 26, 2005, by a teacher who had received distressing writings from her. A follow up consultation with the school counselor resulted in a phonc call to her mother requesting permission for an evaluation through the Student Assistance Program. The assessment was conducted by a specialist from Teenline and recommendations made to Ms. Suzanne Abel, Elizabeth's mother. Sincerely, Q4 et'ptauev ?11 6 v Cynthia Sutton Counselor Lamberton Middle School ! 0 EXHIBIT B Letter from Holy Spirit Hospital's TeenLine MAY - Ub- H,Jb FRI I],I: ?! PM May 6, 2005 LLNLINL FAX No. I11-16U-KT TEENLINE A SERVICE OF HOLYO SPIRIT HOSPITAL Suzame Abel 22 East St. Mt. Holly Springs, PA 17065 Dear lairs. Abel, This letter is a follow up to our conversation on March 7, 2005. I work for Teenline at Holy Spirit Hospital and I am -the mental health liaison for Lamberton Middle School's Student Assistance Team. At the team's request, I provided Elizabeth with a mental health assessment. After meeting with Elizabeth on two different occasions, it is my recommendation that she would greatly benefit from entering into outpatient counseling. Ideally, this would include individual and co joint sessions with you. Although Elizabeth is a very bright and gifted young lady, I have concerns that without this counseling, her emotional well-being would be significantly compromised. It is my hope that in working with a therapist, Elizabeth will be able to productively address the issues that she is currently struggling with, and m turn, this would allow her to fully and freely express her many positive qualities and talents. Sincerely, Tonya Hoffman MS Teenline Counselor 503 North 21st Street Camp Hill, PA 17011 (717) 763.2345 Fax(717)763,2385 _ P. UUVUU2 rn i") ('". ?r,?. c^ 4. <;? r. , ARNOLD J. BAUM IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF PLAINTIFF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA V. SUZANNE S. ABEL DEFENDANT 96-4060 CIVIL ACTION LAW IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, _ Thursday, May 26, 2005 upon consideration of the attached Complaint, it is hereby directed that parties and their respective counsel appear before Dawn S. Sunday, Esq. the conciliator, at 39 West Main Street, Mechanicsburg, PA 17055 on Wednesday, June 01, 2005 at 9:00 AM for a Piz-Hearing Custody Conference. At such conference, an effort will be made to resolve the issues in dispute; or if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the court, and to enter into a temporary order. All children age five or older may also be present at the conference. Failure to appear at the conference may provide grounds for entry of a temporary or permanent order. The court hereby directs the parties to furnish any and all existing Protection from Abuse orders, Special Relief orders, and Custody orders to the conciliator 48 hours prior to scheduled hearing. FOR THE COURT, By: lsl Dawn S. Sunday, Esq. __ - Custody Conciliator The Court of Common Pleas of Cumberland County is required by law to comply with the Americans with Disabilites Act of 1990. For information about accessible facilities and reasonable accommodations available to disabled individuals having business before the court, please contact our office. All arrangements must be made at least 72 hours prior to any hearing or business before the court. You must attend the scheduled conference or hearing. YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR ATTORNEY AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE AN ATTORNEY OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE. SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP. Cumberland County Bar Association 32 South Bedford Street Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013 Telephone (717) 249-3166 roK' 2n:k ' ?ymvif H\' S;7 ? t` 5' 5'1 °) RECEIVED JUN 0 8 200? ARNOLD JAY BAUM IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF Plaintiff CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA VS. 96-4060 CIVIL ACTION LAW SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL Defendant IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, this /f' day of 1 u , 2005, upon consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Report, i is ordered and directed as follows: 1. The prior Order of this Court dated November 11, 2001 is temporarily suspended pending implementation of counseling under this Order and the follow-up custody conciliation conference scheduled by this Order. 2. The parties shall promptly select a counselor and initiate therapeutic family counseling for the purpose of re-establishing the relationship between the Father and the Child. The Father shall provide a list of counselors under his insurance coverage through counsel to the Mother by the end of the day following the conciliation conference on June 1, 2005. The parties agree that the Mother will use the services of the same counselor if she desires to initiate counseling to address other issues between the Mother and Child to ensure that the Child is not working with two counselors during the same time period. The Father agrees to provide any necessary consent which the counselor may require to engage in counseling with the Mother and Child as well. 3. Pending implementation of the counseling between the Father and Child and the follow-up conciliation conference, the parties shall have shared legal custody of the Child, the Mother shall have primary physical custody of the Child, and the Father shall have periods of partial custody as further provided in the following provision. 4. Beginning on the first Tuesday following the first counseling session for the Father and the Child, the Father shall have custody of the Child every Tuesday evening from 6:30 p.m. until 8:30 p.m., with an adult relative or friend, with whom the Child is familiar in attendance. The Father shall notify the Mother in advance of the identity of the accompanying adult. The first Tuesday evening period of custody shall take place at the paternal grandmother's residence. The parties acknowledge that it is their goal to expand the Father's periods of custody with the Child to the prior regular schedule at the Father's residence with no accompanying adult by the end of the Summer 2005. However, the parties agree to obtain guidance from the counselor as counseling progresses as to the appropriate timing for expanding the schedule, eliminating the need for an accompanying adult and the location for periods of custody. FILED-OR ICE OF THE R)OTHONOTARY 2005 JE6%! 15 Asi (D: 57 i.?L . 111 It, Y i I 5. The Mother shall provide all transportation for counseling sessions and exchanges of custody pending the follow-up conciliation conference. 6. The parties and their counsel shall attend a follow-up custody conciliation conference on August 18, 2005 at 9:00 a.m. in the office of the conciliator, Dawn S. Sunday for the purpose of reviewing the ongoing custody arrangements. BY THE COURT, cc: vristopher T. Smull, Esquire - Counsel for Father ?A<be Pacuska, Esquire - Counsel for Mother OtI 16 ARNOLD JAY BAUM Plaintiff vs. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL Defendant Prior Judge: Kevin A. Hess IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA 96-4060 CIVIL ACTION LAW IN CUSTODY CUSTODY CONCILIATION SUMMARY REPORT IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CIVIL PROCEDURE 1915.3-8, the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following report: 1. The pertinent information concerning the Child who is the subject of this litigation is as follows: NAME DATE OF BIRTH CURRENTLY IN CUSTODY OF Elizabeth Rebekah Abel November 20, 1991 Mother 2. A custody conciliation conference was held on June 1, 2005, with the following individuals in attendance: The Father, Arnold Jay Baum, with his counsel, Kristopher T. Smull, Esquire, and the Mother, Suzanne S. Abel, with her counsel, Abbe Pacuska, Esquire. 3. The parties agreed to entry of an Order in the form as attached. elu.,.e , aloos c Date Dawn S. Sunday, Esquire Custody Conciliator ,4ECEIVED AUG 2212 ARNOLD JAY BAUM IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF Plaintiff CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA VS. 96-4060 CIVIL ACTION LAW SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL Defendant IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COURT AND NOW, this zr' day of 2005, upon consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Report, it is ordered and directed as follows: 1. The prior Order of this Court dated June 15, 2005 is vacated and replaced with this Order. 2. The prior Order of this Court dated November 11, 2001 is temporarily suspended pending implementation of counseling under this Order and the follow-up custody conciliation conference scheduled by this Order. 3. The parties and the Child shall participate in a course of therapeutic family counseling with Laurie Walker, L.P., for the purpose of re-establishing the relationship between the Father and the Child. The parties agree that the purpose of the counseling shall be therapeutic only and that no assessment or custody evaluation shall be obtained unless agreed upon in writing by both parties or ordered by the Court. The parties agree that there shall be no written recommendations or assessments obtained through the counseling. No custody evaluation shall be considered by the Court unless the evaluation was obtained by the written agreement of the parties or by Court Order. The parties agree that the Mother will use the services of the same counselor if she desires to initiate counseling to address other issues between the Mother and Child to ensure that the Child is not working with two counselors during the same time period. The Father agrees to provide any necessary consent which the counselor may require to engage in counseling with the Mother and Child as well. 4. Pending implementation of the therapeutic family counseling and the follow-up conciliation conference, the parties shall have shared legal custody of the Child, the Mother shall have primary physical custody of the Child, and the Father shall have periods of partial custody as further provided in the following provision. 5. Beginning on the first Tuesday following the first counseling session for the Father and the Child, the Father shall have custody of the Child every Thursday evening from 6:30 p.m. until 9:30 p.m., with an adult relative or friend, with whom the Child is familiar in attendance. The Father shall notify the Mother in advance of the identity of the accompanying adult. The first Thursday evening period of custody shall take place at the paternal grandmother's residence. The parties acknowledge that it is their goal to expand the Father's periods of custody with the Child to the prior { Amy E ?? y ???A?A ".?T??' t ??? ? ? ?? ??? pp6? ARNOLD JAY BAUM Plaintiff VS. SUZANNE SPENCER ABEL Defendant Prior Judge: Kevin A. Hess IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA 96-4060 CIVIL ACTION LAW IN CUSTODY CUSTODY CONCILIATION SUMMARY REPORT IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CIVIL PROCEDURE 1915.3-8, the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following report: 1. The pertinent information concerning the Child who is the subject of this litigation is as follows: NAME DATE OF BIRTH CURRENTLY IN CUSTODY OF Elizabeth Rebekah Abel November 20, 1991 Mother 2. A follow-up conciliation conference was held on August 18, 2005, with the following individuals in attendance: The Father, Arnold Jay Baum, with his counsel, Kristopher T. Smull, Esquire, and the Mother, Suzanne Spencer Abel, with her counsel, Jamie Wassmer and Gerald S. Robinson, Esquire. 3. The parties agreed to entry of an Order in the form as attached. Date Dawn S. Sunday, Esquire Custody Conciliator regular schedule at the Father's residence with no accompanying adult by the end of November, 2005. However, the parties agree to obtain guidance from the counselor as counseling progresses as to the appropriate timing for expanding the schedule, eliminating the need for an accompanying adult and a location for periods of custody. Under this temporary Order pending resumption of the custody arrangements set forth in the November 11, 2001 Order, the Mother shall provide transportation for the Child at the beginning of the Father's periods of custody and the Father shall provide transportation for return of the Child to the Mother's residence following his periods of custody. The requirement in the preceding paragraph that an adult relative or friend be present during the Father's periods of custody shall not apply during periods of transportation under this provision. 6. The parties and their counsel shall attend a follow-up custody conciliation conference in the office of the conciliator, Dawn S. Sunday, on Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 10:00 a.m. for the purpose of reviewing the ongoing custody arrangements following the implementation of counseling. cc: stopher T. Smull, Esquire - Counsel for Father erald S. Robinson, Esquire - Counsel for Mother v og-zLI05 BY THE COURT, IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM Plaintiff Vs. SUZANNE S. ABEL Defendant : No. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY STIPULATION FOR CUSTODY AND NOW, this C2 34, day of January, 2008, Plaintiff, Arnold J. Baum (hereinafter referred to as "Father"), and Defendant, Suzanne S. Abel (hereinafter referred to as "Mother"), having the best interest of their minor child, Elizabeth R. Abel, born November 20,1991, in mind, do hereby agree and stipulate as follows: 1. The parties agree and acknowledge that it is in the best interest and welfare of the minor child that they have shared legal custody. The parties' agreement to shared legal custody is in consideration of the following: a. Both parties recognize that each of them need to be fully involved in all aspects of their child's welfare and happiness; b. Both parents desire that neither parent should ever be relegated to the status of "visiting" or "weekend parent"; C. Both parents agree that their child presently perceives both parents as a source of love and security and wishes to continue both relationships; d. Both parents agree that they possess the ability to communicate and cooperate with each other in promoting their child's best interest; e. Both parents will attempt by all possible means to foster their child's relationship with the other parent. Both parents realize and appreciate that it is critical for their child's healthy development that she feel good about and loving toward both parents and that both parents play a major role in helping to achieve this goal; 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. f. Both parents shall fully share information including oral and written reports, regarding their child concerning all aspects of her life, including, inter alia, information concerning schooling and education, health, religion, summer activities and friends. Both parents shall take part in all decisions concerning the child; and both parents agree to cooperate to the fullest possible extent in their child's upbringing to the end that her relationship with both parents shall be as harmonious as possible. Father and Mother shall confer concerning their best efforts to agree upon the selection of schools and colleges and any summer activities in which the child may engage. The parties shall share physical custody of the minor child with Father enjoying primary physical custody and Mother enjoying alternating weekends. The parties agree that this Stipulation is subject to verbal modification as agreed to by the parties. The parties agree that transportation will be mutually resolved. The parties agree that the minor child will continue to receive counseling services. The parties agree that this Stipulation shall supersede any existing custody arrangements between the parties. The parties further agree that this Stipulation shall be entered with an Order of Court. This Stipulation shall continue in full force and effect until further Order of Court. IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereunto set their hands and seal. Witness Date Arnold J. Baum r )i-a-11 I--, - / L93& Witne Date " 0- ' I Suzanne S. Abel ?? 7 ? ? a..? _? r .. .- Y ! W f ^' ?*7 Cry ', C: •-- --1 ` :17 w?j (^- IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA ARNOLD J. BAUM Plaintiff Vs. SUZANNE S. ABEL Defendant No. 96-4060 CIVIL TERM CIVIL ACTION - LAW IN CUSTODY ORDER OF COURT JAN 24 M?*- AND NOW, this 2-1 " day of January, 2008, upon consideration of the attached Stipulation for Custody, it is hereby ordered as follows: The Order of Court entered August 24, 2005, is hereby vacated. The Stipulation for Custody attached hereto is hereby adopted and entered by Order of this Court. As evidenced by the attached Stipulation for Custody, the parties share legal custody of the minor child. Therefore, it is hereby Ordered and Directed that the school district of the minor child's attendance, to wit, Central Dauphin School District, shall directly provide to both parties any and all information, materials and documents relating to their minor child, and further, that the school district shall provide Mother with internet access to Child's information as it becomes available through the district. Mother shall provide the district with current contact information to effectuate timely receipt of such information. This Order shall remain in effect until otherwise Ordered. BY THE COURT: Xc: XAmoldj. Baum, prose ?Suzanne Spencer Abel, pro se G0? &.9-S ryrat Cf-c(- VINVAIASWd o Z :8 Nd aC Nvt' OOOZ A8VIONOHiOUd M 40 30('90-131b