HomeMy WebLinkAbout08-2511ISHMEAL IBRAHIM, IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff
CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
VS. : NO.08- -2,!0 CIVIL TERM
GINA HOYT,
Defendant CUSTODY
COMPLAINT FOR CUSTODY
1. Plaintiff is Ishmeal Ibrahim, hereinafter referred to as Father. Father resides at 132
West South Street, Carlisle, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania 17013.
2. Defendant is Gina Hoyt, hereinafter referred to as Mother. Mother resides at 1125
Ritner Highway, Carlisle, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania 17013.
3. Father seeks primary physical custody of the minor children:
Name Present Residence Age
Elijah Ibrahim 1125 Ritner Highway 7.15.00 DOB, -8 yrs old
Carlisle, PA 17013
Azmir Ibrahim 1125 Ritner Highway
Carlisle, PA 17013
Elijah was born out of wedlock.
Azmir was born out of wedlock.
Elijah is presently in the custody of Mother.
Azmir is presently in the custody of Mother.
11.30.02 DOB, -5'/2 yrs old
During his lifetime, Elijah has resided with the following persons and at the following
addresses:
Name Address Date
Ishmeal Ibrahim 26 Spring Street - Apt B birth - late 2000
Gina Hoyt Shippensburg, PA
Marilyn Hoyt
Jason Hoyt
Gina Hoyt 26 Spring Street late 2000 - mid 2001
Marilyn Hoyt Shippensburg, PA
Jason Hoyt
Gina Hoyt Shippensburg, PA mid 2001- late 2001
Kim Shields
Tina Shields
Ishmeal Ibrahim Carlisle, PA late 2001- early 2002
Gina Hoyt
Gina Hoyt Shippensburg, PA early 2002 - mid 2002
Megan Norris
Gina Hoyt Shippensburg, PA mid 2002 - 11/2002
Jason Hoyt
Gina Hoyt Shippensburg, PA 11/2002 - spring 2003
Jason Hoyt
Azmir Ibrahim
Gina Hoyt Newville, PA spring 2003 - fall 2003
Azmir Ibrahim
Ishmeal Ibrahim 78 W. Louther Street fall 2003 - 1/2004
Azmir Ibrahim Carlisle, PA
Gena Thomas
Ishmeal Ibrahim Shippensburg, PA 1/2004 -1/2005
Azmir Ibrahim
Jason Hoyt
Erin Hoyt
Kim Shields
Ishmeal Ibrahim Shippensburg, PA 1/2005 - mid 2005
Azmir Ibrahim
Ishmeal Ibrahim Shippensburg, PA mid 2005 - 7/2005
Azmir Ibrahim
Jason Hoyt
Erin Hoyt
Gina Hoyt (briefly)
Gina Hoyt various unknown addresses 7/2005 - 1/2007
Azmir Ibrahim
Ishmeal Ibrahim 144 W. Church Street 1/2007 - 4/2007
Gina Hoyt Carlisle, PA
Azmir Ibrahim
Theresa Brown
Ishmeal Ibrahim Enola, PA 4/2007 - mid 2007
Gina Hoyt
Azmir Ibrahim
Theresa Brown
Gina Hoyt Enola, PA mid 2007 - winter 2007
Azmir Ibrahim
Theresa Brown
Gina Hoyt Carlisle, PA winter 2007 - present
Azmir Ibrahim
Theresa Brown
Jose Ortiz
During his lifetime, Azmir has resided with the following persons and at the followin
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addresses:
Name Address Date
Gina Hoyt Shippensburg, PA birth - spring 2003
Jason Hoyt
Elijah Ibrahim
Gina Hoyt Newville, PA spring 2003 - fall 2003
Elijah Ibrahim
Ishmeal Ibrahim 78 W. Louther Street fall 2003 -1/2004
Elijah Ibrahim Carlisle, PA
Gena Thomas
Ishmeal Ibrahim Shippensburg, PA 1/2004 - 1/2005
Elijah Ibrahim
Jason Hoyt
Erin Hoyt
Kim Shields
Ishmeal Ibrahim Shippensburg, PA 1/2005 - mid 2005
Elijah Ibrahim
Ishmeal Ibrahim Shippensburg, PA mid 2005 - 7/2005
Elijah Ibrahim
Jason Hoyt
Erin Hoyt
Gina Hoyt (briefly)
Gina Hoyt various unknown addresses 7/2005 -1/2007
Elijah Ibrahim
Ishmeal Ibrahim 144 W. Church Street 1/2007 - 4/2007
Gina Hoyt Carlisle, PA
Elijah Ibrahim
Theresa Brown
Ishmeal Ibrahim Enola, PA 4/2007 - mid 2007
Gina Hoyt
Elijah Ibrahim
Theresa Brown
Gina Hoyt Enola, PA mid 2007 - winter 2007
Elijah Ibrahim
Theresa Brown
Gina Hoyt Carlisle, PA winter 2007 - present
Elijah Ibrahim
Theresa Brown
Jose Ortiz
5. Father lives alone.
6. It is believed that Mother lives with the following persons:
Name Relationship
Theresa Brown Roommate
Jose Ortiz Paramour
Elijah Ibrahim Child with Plaintiff
Azmir Ibrahim Child with Plaintiff
7. Father has not participated as a party or witness, or in another capacity, in other
custody litigation concerning the custody of Elijah and Azmir in this or another court.
8. Father has no information of a custody proceeding concerning Elijah and Azmir
pending in a court of this Commonwealth.
9. Father does not know of a person not a party to the proceedings who has physical
custody of Elijah and Azmir or claims to have custody or visitation rights with respect to Elijah
and Azmir.
10. Elijah's and Azmir's best interest and permanent welfare will be served by granting
the relief requested for reasons including, but not limited to the following:
a. Since Elijah and Azmir were born, Father has actively shared in the parenting
duties for both children. He has shared in the responsibility for their emotional,
physical, educational, financial and medical needs.
b. Father is fully capable of caring for Elijah and Azmir on a primary basis and his
done so in the past, having had primary custody of both children from Fall 2003
through July 2005.
c. Despite the parties' separation, Father remained actively involved with Elijah and
Azmir, getting them at least once a week for a period of several days. This lasted
until fall of 2003 when Father had primary custody of Elijah and Azmir until July
2005.
d. The parties reconciled in January 2007 and Father was again actively involved
with Elijah and Azmir on a daily basis. This continued with basic consistency
until Mother became involved with her current boyfriend in October 2007.
e. Father is willing to communicate with and work cooperatively with Mother to co-
parent Elijah and Azmir and will encourage their mother/son relationships.
10. Mother has not acted in Elijah's and Azmir's best interests in ways including but not
limited to the following:
a. Mother has deliberately acted in ways to interfere with the father/son relationship
between Father, Elijah and Azmir.
b. Since becoming involved with her current boyfriend, Mother has been arbitrary in
allowing Father to see Elijah and Azmir.
c. Mother does not have a telephone, making it difficult for Father to contact her to
discuss Elijah and Azmir or to arrange for custodial time with Elijah and Azmir.
d. The police in various areas, including East Pennsboro, Middlesex and Camp Hill,
have been called to respond to incidents of domestic violence between Mother
and her boyfriend. Father is concerned about the children's well-being and safety
being exposed to this ongoing violent home environment.
e. Children and Youth Services recently completed an investigation of Mother in
regard to the children. It is unknown if the case remains open.
f. While in Mother's custody, Elijah failed kindergarten in the 2006-2007 school
year and has had to repeat kindergarten for the 2007-2008 school year.
g. Father has reason to believe that Mother does not make Elijah and Azmir a
priority and instead focuses on socializing and spending time with friends. Father
has reason to believe that Mother and these friends participate in questionable
activities such as drinking alcohol while the children are in Mother's care.
12. Every person with rights to custody or having actual physical custody of Elijah and
Azmir have been named as parties to this action.
WHEREFORE, Father requests this Court to grant him the following relief:
1. That the parties shall share legal custody of Elijah and Azmir.
2. That Father and Mother shall have shared physical custody of Elijah and Azmir.
3. That the non-custodial parent shall have reasonable telephone contact with Elijah
and Azmir while they are with the other parent.
4. That the parties shall have an appropriate holiday schedule so that both parents
can spend time with Elijah and Azmir during the various holidays.
5. Neither party shall consume alcohol or illegal drugs when Elijah and Azmir are
in their custody and neither party shall allow Elijah or Azmir to be exposed to
persons who have been consuming alcohol or illegal substances.
6. Any other relief this Court finds just and equitable.
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MidPenn Legal Services
401 East Louther Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
(717) 243-9400
VERIFICATION
The above-named PLAINTIFF, ishmeal Ibrahim, verifies that
the statements made in the above COMPLAINT FOR CUSTODY are true
and correct. Plaintiff understands that false statements herein
are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa. C.S. §4904, relating
to unsworn falsification to authorities.
Date: 7
Ishmeal Ibrahim
ISHMEAL IBRAHIM,
: IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff
CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
GINA HOYT,
VS.
NO. 08-
Defendant CUSTODY
CIVIL TERM
AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE BY MAIL
I, Jessica Holst, do hereby swear that I served Gina Hoyt, with a Complaint For Custody
on A , 2008 by certified mail, return receipt, restricted delivery, to the person
and addresses below:
Gina Hoyt
1125 Ritner Highway
Carlisle, PA 17013
I, Jessica Holst, verify that the statements made in this Affidavit of Service are true and
correct. I understand that false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa. C.S.
Section 4904 relating to unsworn falsification to authorities.
Date:
Signature:
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ISHMEAL IBRAHIM, IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff
CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
VS. NO. 08- 41Z I I CIVIL TERM
GINA HOYT,
Defendant CUSTODY
PRAECIPE TO PROCEED IN FORMA PAUPERIS
To the Prothonotary:
Kindly allow, Ishmeal Ibrahim, Plaintiff, to proceed in forma au eris.
I, Jessica Holst, attorney for the party proceeding in forma au eris, certify that I believe
the party is unable to pay the costs and that I am providing free legal services to the party.
jka"HoIsA, Esquire
MidPenn Legal Services
401 East Louther Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
(717) 243-9400
ISHMEAL IBRAHIM IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
PLAINTIFF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
V.
GINA HOYT
DEFENDANT
2008-2511 CIVIL ACTION LAW
. IN CUSTODY
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, Wednesday, April 30, 2008 , upon consideration of the attached Complaint,
it is hereby directed that parties and their respective counsel appear before Jacqueline M. Verney, Esq. , the conciliator,
at _4th Floor, Cumberland County Courthouse, Carlisle on _ Thursday, May 29, 2008 at 8:30 AM
for a Pre-Hearing Custody Conference. At such conference, an effort will be made to resolve the issues in dispute; or
if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the court, and to enter into a temporary
order. Failure to appear at the conference may provide grounds for entry of a temporary or permanent order.
The court hereby directs the parties to furnish any and all existing Protection from Abuse orders,
Special Relief orders, and Custody orders to the conciliator 48 hours prior to scheduled hearing.
FOR THE COURT,
By: /s/ ac uelrne M. Verne Es .
Custody Conciliator
The Court of Common Pleas of Cumberland County is required by law to comply with the Americans
with Disabilites Act of 1990. For information about accessible facilities and reasonable accommodations
available to disabled individuals having business before the court, please contact our office. All arrangements
must be made at least 72 hours prior to any hearing or business before the court. You must attend the scheduled
conference or hearing.
YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR ATTORNEY AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT
HAVE AN ATTORNEY OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET
FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP.
Cumberland County Bar Association
32 South Bedford Street
Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013
Telephone (717) 249-3166
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ISHMEAL IBRAHIM, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
V. : NO.2008?2511 CIVIL ACTION - LAW
GINA HOYT,
Defendant 7USTODY
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, this -51t- day of , 2008, upon
consideration of the attached Custody Conci iation Report, it is ordered and directed as
follows:
1. A Hearing is scheduled in Court Room No. S , of the Cumberland
County Court House, on the. day of A!Fp ? , 2008, at
o'clock, 4. M., at which time testimony will be taken. For purposes of this Hearing,
the Father shall be deemed to be the moving party and shall proceed initially with
testimony. Counsel for each party shall file with the Court and opposing counsel a
Memorandum setting forth each party's position on custody, a list of witnesses who will
be expected to testify at the Hearing and a summary of the anticipated testimony of each
witness. These Memoranda shall be filed at least five days prior to the Hearing date.
2. Pending further Order of Court or agreement of the parties, the following
shall remain in full force and effect.
3. The Father, Ishmeal Ibrahim and the Mother, Gina Hoyt, shall have shared
legal custody of Elijah Ibrahim, born July 15, 2000 and Azmir Ibrahim, born November
30, 2002. Each parent shall have an equal right, to be exercised jointly with the other
parent, to make all major non-emergency decisions affecting the Children's general well-
being including, but not limited to, all decisions regarding their health, education and
religion. Pursuant to the terms of 23 Pa.C.S. §5309, each parent shall be entitled to all
records and information pertaining to the children including, but not limited to medical,
dental, religious or school records, the residence address of the children and the other
parent. To the extent one parent has possession of any such records or information, that
parent shall be required to share the same, or copies thereof, with the other parent within
such reasonable time as to make the records and information of reasonable use to the
other parent. Both parents shall be entitled to full participation in all educational and
medical/treatment planning meetings and evaluations with regard to the minor children.
Each parent shall be entitled to full and complete information from any physician, dentist,
teacher or authority and copies of any reports given to them as parents including, but not
limited to: medical records, birth certificates, school or educational attendance records or
report cards. Additionally, each parent shall be entitled to receive copies of any notices
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which come from school with regard to school pictures, extracurricular activities,
children's parties, musical presentations, back-to-school nights, and the like.
4. During the summer, and beginning the first Sunday after school recesses,
the parents shall have shared physical custody of the children on a week on/week off
schedule. The exchange day and time shall Sunday at 5:00 p.m. Father shall have the
first week.
5. During the school year, Mother shall have primary physical custody of the
children with Father having periods of partial physical custody every weekend from
Friday after school to Sunday at 5:00 p.m.
6. Transportation shall be shared such that the receiving party shall transport.
7. Neither party may partake in alcoholic beverages to the point of
intoxication or illegal drugs immediately before or during their periods of physical
custody and shall insure that the children are not exposed to third parties who are
intoxicated or under the influence of illegal drugs.
8. Neither party will say or do anything, nor permit a third party from doing
or saying anything that may estrange the children from the other party, or injure the
opinion of the children as to the other parent or which may hamper the free and natural
development of the children's love and respect for the other parent.
9. The parties may modify this Order by mutual agreement. In the absence
of mutual consent, the terms of this Order shall control.
BY THE COURT,
cc: Jessica Holst, Esquire, counsel for Father
ZVincent Monfredo, Esquire, counsel for Mother
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ISHMEAL IBRAHIM,
Plaintiff
V.
GINA HOYT,
Defendant
PRIOR JUDGE: None
: IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
: CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
: NO. 2008-2511 CIVIL ACTION - LAW
: IN CUSTODY
CUSTODY CONCILIATION SUMMARY REPORT
IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CIVIL
PROCEDURE 1915.3-8, the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following
report:
1. The pertinent information concerning the Children who are the subject of
this litigation is as follows:
NAME DATE OF BIRTH CURRENTLY IN CUSTODY OF
Elijah Ibrahim July 15, 2000 Mother
Azmir Ibrahim November 30, 2002 Mother
2. A Conciliation Conference was held May 30, 2008 with the following
individuals in attendance: The Father, Ishmeal Ibrahim, with his counsel, Jessica Holst,
Esquire, MidPenn Legal Services and the Mother, Gina Hoyt, with her counsel, Vincent
Monfredo, Esquire.
3. Father's position on custody is as follows: Father seeks shared legal and
shared physical custody. Father suggests he have custody of the children Monday
through Thursday every week and Mother have Friday through Monday. Father asserts
that Mother is the victim of domestic violence and the children may have been exposed to
that violence. Mother currently lives in a one bedroom apartment with the two children
and a roommate. Father does not believe that this is adequate accommodations for the
children. Father also asserts that Mother has refused to allow Father periods of custody.
4. Mother's position on custody is as follows: Mother seeks shared legal
custody and primary physical custody with Father having every weekend, Friday to
Sunday. Mother indicates that her boyfriend no longer lives with her so that domestic
violence is no longer an issue. Mother intends to move to a three bedroom apartment in
the next month. Mother maintains that Father is only interested in physical custody to
reduce his child support.
5. The Conciliator recommends an Order in the form as attached scheduling
a Hearing and ordering shared legal custody, shared physical custody during the summer
and Mother having primary physical custody during the school year with Father having
every weekend, Friday to Sunday. It is expected that the Hearing will require one day.
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Date acq line M. Verney, Esquire
Custody Conciliator
ISHMEAL IBRAHIM,
Plaintiff/Petitioner
V.
GINA HOYT,
Defendant/Respondent
IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
NO. 08-2511 CIVIL TERM
IN CUSTODY
PETITION TO REQUEST ATTENDANCE OF MINOR CHILDREN
Petitioner, Ishmeal Ibrahim, by and through his counsel, MidPenn Legal Services,
states the following:
1. The above-captioned matter is scheduled for hearing on Friday, September 5,
2008, at 9:30 a.m.
2. Petitioner believes that it is necessary for the Court to speak privately to each
of the minor children involved in this custody matter in order to better
ascertain the current situation.
3. Petitioner does not believe that Respondent will bring the children without a
Court Order requiring that she do so.
4. Counsel for Petitioner has sought concurrence from Counsel for Respondent.
Counsel for Defendant concurs with the relief requested.
WHEREFORE, Petitioner respectfully requests that this Court enter an Order requiring
that Respondent bring both children to the September 5, 2008, custody hearing.
submitted,
Je idahiol%A Esquire
dPenn Legal Services
401 East Louther Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
(717) 243-9400
ISHMEAL IBRAHIM,
Plaintiff/Petitioner
V.
GINA HOYT,
Defendant/Respondent
IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
NO. 08-2511 CIVIL TERM
: IN CUSTODY
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
I, Jessica Holst, Esquire, of MidPenn Legal Services, attorney for Plaintiff, Ishmeal
Ibrahim, hereby certify that I have served a copy of the forgoing Petition to Request
Attendance of Minor Children on the following date and in the manner indicated below:
U.S. First Class Mail
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Vincent M. Monfredo, Esquire
Rominger & Associates
155 South Hanover Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
401 East Louther Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
(717)243-9400
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GINA HOYT,
Defendant/Respondent
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IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
NO. 08-2511 CIVIL TERM
IN CUSTODY
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, this day of
2008, upon consideration of
the attached Petition, the Defendant is ordered to bring the minor children, Elijah and
Azmir Ibrahim, to the hearing scheduled for Friday, September 5, 2008 at 9:30 a.m. in
Courtroom 5, Fourth Floor, Cumberland County Courthouse, Carlisle, Pennsylvania.
Distribution:
Jes w* a Holst, Esquire
enn Legal Services
401 East Louther Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
incent M. Monfredo, Esquire
Rominger & Associates
155 South Hanover Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
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ISHMEAL IBRAHIM, IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
PLAINTIFF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
V.
GINA HOYT,
DEFENDANT NO. 08-2511 CIVIL
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, this 5th day of September, 2008, after hearing in the above-captioned
case,
IT IS HEREBY ORDERED AND DIRECTED that:
1. The Mother, Gina Hoyt, and Father, Ishmeal Ibrahim, shall enjoy shared legal
custody of Elijah Ibrahim, born July 15, 2000, and Azmir Ibrahim, born November 30,
2002.
2. The Mother shall have primary physical custody of the minor children.
3. The Father shall have custody of the children for the weekend of
September 5, 2008, from 2:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. Sunday, September 7, 2008. Mother
shall pick up the children from the Father's home at that time.
4. The parties are directed to submit a proposed schedule for Father's temporary
periods of custody for weekends, holidays and summer vacation on or before
September 13, 2008.
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Attorney for Plaintiff
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ISHMEAL IBRAHIM, IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
PLAINTIFF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
V.
GINA HOYT,
DEFENDANT : NO. 08-2511 CIVIL
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, this 12t" day of September, 2008, the Court having just received the
proposed custody and visitation schedules filed by the Parties,
IT IS HEREBY ORDERED AND DIRECTED that:
1. Father shall have custody of the children for the weekend of September 12,
2008, from 7:00 p.m. until Sunday, September 14, 2008, at 7:00 p.m.
2. Father shall have custody of the children for the weekend of September 19,
2008, from 7:00 p.m. until Sunday, September 21, 2008, at 7:00 p.m.
3. Father shall have custody of the children for the weekend of September 26,
2008, from 7:00 p.m. until Sunday, September 28, 2008, at 7:00 p.m.
IT IS FURTHER ORDERED AND DIRECTED that Father shall be responsible for
transporting the children on Fridays and Mother shall be responsible on Sundays.
By the Court,
Ziessica Holst, Esquire
Attorney for Plaintiff
Vincent M. Monfredo, Esquire
Attorney for Defendant
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ISHMEAL IBRAHIM, IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
PLAINTIFF CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
V.
GINA HOYT,
DEFENDANT NO. 08-2511 CIVIL
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, this 19th day of September, 2008, IT IS HEREBY ORDERED AND
DIRECTED that the custody of the parties' minor children, Elijah Ibrahim, born July 15,
2000, and Azmir Ibrahim, born November 30, 2002 shall be as follows:
1. The parties shall share legal custody of Elijah and Azmir, including but not
necessarily limited to the children's health, welfare, education, religious training and
upbringing shall be made by the parties jointly, after discussion and consultation with
each other, with a view toward obtaining and following a harmonious policy in raising
the children, keeping in mind the children's best interest being paramount. Each party
agrees not to attempt to alienate Elijah's and Azmir's affections from the other party and
neither party shall make disparaging remarks about the other in the children's presence,
nor permit third parties to do so. Each party shall notify the other of any activity or
circumstances concerning the children that could reasonably be expected to be of
concern or interest to the other. Day to day decisions shall be the responsibility of the
parent having physical custody, whether primary or partial. With regard to emergency
decisions which must be made, the parent having physical custody of the children at the
time of the emergency shall be permitted to make any immediate decisions
necessitated thereby. However, that parent shall inform the other of the emergency and
consult with him or her as soon as possible. Each parent shall be entitled to complete
and full information from any doctor, dentist, teacher, counselor or professional
concerning the children, and to receive any and all relevant reports or other written
information generated by such individuals concerning the children, and a copy of this
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order shall act as authority to any such professional to release information regarding the
children to either parent, upon request.
2. During the academic year, the following custody schedule shall control:
a. Mother shall have primary physical custody of the children from
Sunday evening when she picks up the children at Father's residence at 7:00 p.m. until
Friday when school is dismissed.
b. Father shall have periods of visitation every weekend. He shall pick up
the children when school is dismissed on Friday until Sunday at 7:00 p.m. at which time
Mother will pick them up at Father's residence.
c. Father shall be responsible for providing transportation to pick the
children up on Fridays when school is dismissed.
d. If the children do not have school on Friday, Father's periods of
visitation will begin when school is dismissed on Thursday.
e. If the children do not have school on Monday, Father will remain in
custody of the children until 7:00 p.m. Monday evening at which time Mother will pick
them up at the Father's residence.
3. During the summer break the following custody schedule shall control:
a. Father will have physical custody of the children from Sunday at 7:00
p.m. until Friday at 5:00 p.m.
b. Mother will have physical custody of the children from Friday at 5:00
p.m. until Sunday at 7:00 p.m.
c. Mother shall be responsible fro picking up the children from Father at
5:00 p.m. on Friday evening.
d. Father shall be responsible for picking up the children from Mother at
7:00 p.m. on Sunday evening.
e. Both parties shall be entitled to two non-consecutive weeks of time in
the summer in order to have vacation time with the children. Each party must provide
the other with 45 days notice as to when he/she wishes to exercise each week of
custody.
4. The parties shall follow a holiday schedule as outlined below to ensure their
ability to both celebrate holidays with the children:
a. The parties will alternate Memorial Day, July 4th, and Labor Day with
Father having custody for Memorial Day 2009.
b. The parties will alternate the Thanksgiving break with Father having
custody in even numbered years and Mother having custody in odd numbered years.
The Thanksgiving break shall begin when the children are dismissed from school and
shall end at 7:00 p.m. the evening before the first day back to school following the
break.
c. Each year for the children's Winter Break, the parties shall consult the
school calendar to determine the number of days in that break, including weekends.
The parties shall evenly halve the Winter Break with Mother having the first half of the
break in even numbered years and Father having the first half of the break in odd
numbered years.
d. Mother's Day shall always be celebrated with Mother and Father's Day
with Father. This holiday shall extend from 8:00 a.m. until 7:00 p.m. the day of the
holiday with the receiving party responsible for providing transportation.
5. The parties agree that they will always provide each other with current contact
information pertaining to the children, including changes of address or telephone
numbers.
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6. Both parties shall be entitled to reasonable telephone access to their children
while they are with the other parent and neither parent shall frustrate the other parent's
reasonable telephone access to the children.
7. Both parties shall make their best efforts to maintain open communication
between each other, through telephone, email or other such communication, so that
such communication is directed between the parties and not through the children or
significant others. This shall not preclude communication between either party's
subsequent spouses, significant others, or other relatives, but is meant to encourage
direct communication between the parties in order to develop and maintain a
cooperative co-parenting relationship.
8. The parties may modify the provisions of this Order by mutual consent. In the
absence of mutual consent, the terms of this Order shall control.
9. This Court shall retain jurisdiction over this matter for purposes of
enforcement and modification, unless both parties agree in writing to transfer jurisdiction
to any other appropriate Court.
ZJessica Hoist, Esquire
Attorney for Plaintiff
.i Vincent M. Monfredo, Esquire
Attorney for Defendant
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