HomeMy WebLinkAbout01-3287 CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COL~NTY, PENNSYLVANIA
v. NO. 2001- ~o~ CIVIL TERM
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, : CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant : IN DIVORCE
NOTICE TO DEFEND AND CLAIM RIGHTS
You have been sued in Court. If you wish to defend against the claims set forth in the
following pages, you must take prompt action. You are warned that if you fail to do so. the case
may proceed without you and a decree of divorce or annulment may be entered against you by the
Court. A judgment may also be entered against you for any other claim or relief requested in
these papers by the Plaintiff. You may lose money or property or other rights important to you.
including custody or visitation of your children.
When the ground for divorce is indignities or irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.
you may request marriage counseling. A list of marriage counselors is available in the
ProthonotaD"s Office at the Cumberland County Courthouse. Carlisle. Pennsylvania.
IF YOU DO NOT FILE A CLAIM FOR ALIMONY. DIVISION OF PROPERTY,
LAWYER'S FEES OR EXPENSES. BEFORE A DIVORCE OR ANNULMENT IS
GIL&NTED. YOU MAY LOSE THE RIGHT TO CLAIM ANY OF THEM.
YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE. IF YOU DO
NOT HAVE A LAWYER OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE. GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE
OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP.
Cumberland County Bar Association
2 Liberty Avenue
Carlisle. Pennsylvania 17013
(717) 249-3166
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY. PENNSYLVANIA
:
v. : NO. 2001- 3~-°7 CIVILTERM
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, : CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant : IN DIVORCE
COMPLAINT IN DIVORCE UNDER SECTION 3301(e) OR 3301(d) OF
THE DIVORCE CODE
The Plaintiff, Christopher A. Shrawder. through his attorney, Thomas S. Diehl, makes the
following Complaint in Divorce. and, in support thereof, avers as follows:
I. The Plaintiff, Christopher A. Shrawder, is an adult individual who currently
resides at 207 Birch Lane, Carlisle. Cumberland County. Pennsylvania 17013.
2. The Defendant. Desma M. Shrawder, is an adult individual who currently resides
at 207 Birch Lane, Carlisle. Cumberland Count5', Pennsylvania 17013.
3. The Defendant and the Plaintiff have been bona fide residents of the
Commonwealth of Pennsylvania for at least six months immediately prior to the filing of this
Complaint.
4. The Plaintiff and the Defendant were married on September 21, 1996 in Carlisle,
Cumberland County, Pennsylvania.
5. There have been no prior actions of divorce or for annulment between the parties.
6. The Defendant is not a member of the Armed Forces of the United States of
America or its Allies.
7. The Plaintiff has been advised of the availabilit3,' of counseling and the right to
request that the Court require the parties to participate in counseling. Knowing this, Plaintiff
does not desire that the Court require the parties to participate in cotmseling.
8. Plaintiffand Defendant are citizens of the United States o£America.
9. The parties' marriage is irretrievably broken.
WHEREFORE, the Plaintiff. Christopher A. Shrawder, respectfully requests your
Honorable Court to enter a decree in divorce pursuant to 23 P.S. § 3301(c) or 3301(d) of the
Divorce Code.
R'e~ubmitteI,
Attorney for the Plaintiff
One West High Street, Suite 208
Post Office Box 1290
Carlisle. Pennsylvania 17013
(717) 240-0833
(,717) 240-0893 - FAX
VERIFICATION
I verif3', that the statements made in this Complaint are true and correct. I understand that
false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa.C.S. § 4904. relating to
unsworn falsification to a~thorities.
CHRISTOPHER A. SHKAWDER, Plaintiff
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
v. : NO. 2001-3287 CIVIL TERM
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, : CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant : IN DIVORCE
NOTICE
If you wish to deny any of the statements set forth in this affidavit, you must file a counter-
affidavit within twenty (20) days after this affidavit has been served on you or the
statements will be admitted.
AFFIDAVIT UNDER SECTION 3301(d) OF THE DIVORCE CODE
1. The parties of this action separated on,~'1 ~.~f,/.~/'qd~/? 300/ .
and
have
continued to live separate and apart for a period of at least two years.
2. The marriage is irretrievably broken.
3. I understand that I may lose rights concerning alimony, division of property,
lawyer's fees or expenses if I do not claim them before a divorce is granted.
I verify that the statements made in this Affidavit are true and correct. I understand that
false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa.C.S. § 4904 relating to unsworn
falsification to authorities.
A. SHRAWDER, Plaintiff
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
v. :NO. 2001-3287 CIVIL TERM
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, : CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendam : IN DIVORCE
AFFIDAVIT OF CONSENT
1. A complaint in divorce under §3301(c) of the Divorce Code was filed on May 30,
2001.
2. The marriage of the Plaintiff and Defendant is irretrievably broken and ninety
(90) days have elapsed from the date of filing and service of the Complaint.
3. I consent to the entry of a Final Decree of Divorce after service of notice of
intention to request entry of the Decree.
I verify that the statements made in this affidavit are true and correct. ! understand that
false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa.C.S. § 4909 relating to unsworn
falsification to authorities.
Christopher A Shrawder, Plaintiff
WAIVER OF NOTICE OF INTENTION TO REQUEST ENTRY OF A DIVORCE
DECREE UNDER §3301(c) OF THE DIVORCE CODE
1. I consent to the entry of a Final Decree in Divorce without notice.
2. I understand that I may lose rights concerning alimony, division of property,
lawyer's fees or expenses ifI do not claim them before a divorce is granted.
3. I understand that I will not be divorced until a Divorce Decree is entered by the
Court and a copy of the Decree will be sent to me immediately after it is filed with the
Prothonotary.
I verify that the statements made in this affidavit are true and correct. I understand that
false statements herein are made subject to the penalties of 18 Pa.C.S. § 4909 relating to unswom
falsification to authorities.
Christopher A. Shrawder, Plaintiff
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER. : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY. PENNSYLVANIA
'.
v. : NO. 2001-3287 CIVIL TERM
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant IN DIVORCE
AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE
AND NOW. this 7th day of June 2001. comes Thomas S. Diehl, Esquire, Attorney for the
Plaintiff, Christopher A. Shrawder, and states that he had cause to be mailed a certified copy ora
Complaint in Divorce to the Defendant, Desma M. Shrawder by certified, restricted delivery,
return-receipt requested. A cop)' of said receipt is attached hereto indicating service was made
on June 4, 2001.
Respectfully submitted.
Thomas S. Diehl
Attorney for the Plaintiff
One West High Street. Suite 208
Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013
(717) 240-0833
(717) 240-0893 -
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CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
v. : NO. 2001-3287 CIVIL TERM
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, : CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant : IN DIVORCE
AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE
AND NOW, this 19' day of August 2003, comes Thomas S. Diehl, Esquire, Attorney for
the Plaintiff, Christopher A. Shrawder, and states that he had cause to be mailed an Affidavit
Under Section 3301(d) of the Divorce Code with Counter-Affidavit to the Defendant, Desma M.
Shrawder by certified mail, return-receipt requested. A copy of said receipt is attached hereto
indicating service was made on August 2. 2003.
Respectfully submitted,
Attorney for the Plaintiff
One West High Street, Suite 208
Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013
(717) 240-0833
(717) 240-0893 - FAX
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CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
v. : NO. 2001-3287 CIVIL TERM
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, : CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant : IN DIVORCE
AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE
AND NOW, this l0th day of September 2003, comes Thomas S. Diehl, Esquire, Attorney
for the Plaintiff. Christopher A. Shrawder, and states that he had cause to be mailed the Notice of
Intention to Request the Entry of §3301(d) Divorce Decree with accompanying Counter-
Affidavit to the Defendant. Desma M. Shrawder by certified, restricted delivery, return-receipt
requested. A copy of said receipt is attached hereto indicating service was made on September
6, 2003.
Respectfully submitted,
Attorney for the Plaintiff
One West High Street, Suite 208
Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013
(717) 240-0833
(717) 240-0893 -
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CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
vs. : NO. 01-3287 CIVIL ACTION LAW
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, :
Defendant : IN CUSTODY
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, this t ¥- day of r~ ,~ ? ,2002, upon
consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Report, it is ordered and directed as follows:
i. The Father, Christopher A. Shrawder, and the Mother, Desma M. Shrawder, shall have
shared legal custody of Tyler C. Shrawder, born June 15, 1996, and Ashton M. Shrawder, bom
October 18, 1999. Each parent shall have an equal right, to be exercised jointly with the other parent,
to make all major non-emergency decisions affecting the Children's general well-being including, but
not limited to, all decisions regarding their health, education and religion. Pursuant to the terms of this
paragraph each parent shall be entitled to all records and information pertaining to the Children
including, but not limited to, school and medical records and information.
2. The parties shall share having physical custody of the Children on an alternating weekly
basis, with the exchange to take place each week on Sunday at 5:00 p.m. The non-custodial parent
shall be entitled to have a period of custody on Tuesday (or other day as arranged by agreement) from
3:30 p.m. through the following Wednesday morning when that parent shall take the Children to
school or day care.
3. Each party shall ensure that the Children get to and from the school bus stop during his or
her periods of custody.
4. Every year, the Father shall have custody of the Children from the Saturday before July 4
through the Sunday after July 4. The parties shall cooperate in scheduling periods of custody for the
Mother to make up for any regular period missed during the Father's week of custody under this
provision.
5. The parties shall share or alternate having custody of the Children on holidays as follows:
A. CHRISTMAS: The Christmas holiday shall be divided into Segment A, which shall
run from Christmas Eve at 1:00 p.m. through Christmas Day at 1:00 p.m., and Segment B,
which shall nm from Christmas Day at !:00 p.m. through December 26 at 1:00 p.m. In
even nmnbered years, the Father shall have custody of the Children during Segment A and
the Mother shall have custody during Segment B. In odd numbered years, the Mother shall
have custody of the Children during Segment A and the Father shall have custody during
Segment B.
B. NEW YI~ARS/EASTER/THANKSGIVIN~: The parties shall equally share having
custody of the Children on New Years Day, Easter and Thanksgiving each year, with the
specific exchange times to be arranged by agreement.
C. MOTHER'S DAY/FATHER'S DAY: The Mother shall have custody of the Children
every year for Mother's Day and the Father shall have custody of the Children every year
for Father's Day, with the specific times to be arranged by agreement.
D. The holiday custody schedule shall supersede and take precedence over the regular
custody schedule.
6. In the event either party is unavailable to provide care for the Children during his or her
period of custody for 4 hours or more, that party shall first contact the other party to offer the
opportunity to provide the care before contacting third party caregivers.
7. Neither party shall do or say anything which may estrange the Children from the other
parent, injure the opinion of the Children as to the other parent, or hamper the free and natural
development of the Children's love and respect for the other parent. Both parties shall ensure that third
parties having contact with the Children comply with this provision.
8. This Order is entez~! pursuant to an agreement of the parties at a Custody Conciliation
Conference. The parties may modify the provisions of this Order by mutual consent. In the absence of
mutual consent, the terms ofthis Order shall control.
BY THE COURT,
cc: .Iennifer L. Frechette, Esquire - Counsel for Mothe
Thomas S. Diehl, Esquire - Counsel for Father ~
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
vs. : NO. 01-3287 CIVIL ACTION LAW
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, :
Defendant : IN CUSTODY
.CUSTODY CONCILIATION SUMMARY REPORT
IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CIVIL
PROCEDURE 1915.3-8, the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following report:
1. The pertinent information concerning the Children who are the subjects of this litigation is
as follows:
NAME DATE OF BIRTH CURRENTLY IN CUSTODY OF
Tyler C. Shrawder June 15, ! 996 Mother/Father
Ashton M. Shrawder October 18, 1999 Mother/Father
2. A Conciliation Conference was held on May 7, 2002, with the following individuals in
attendance. The Father, Christopher A. Shrawder, with his counsel, Thomas S. DieM, Esquire, and the
Mother, Desma M. Shrawder, with her counsel, Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire.
3. The parties agreed to entry of an Order in the form as attached.
Date /~/~ a' -''t~Oc3 Daw~
Custody Conciliator
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
vs. * NO. 2001-3287
*
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
I, Wendy L. Shive, Legal Assistant to Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire, hereby certify
that on March 13 2002, I served a true and correct copy of the Answer and Counter Claim
upon Thomas Diehl, Esquire, counsel for Plaintiff, by depositing same, postage pre-paid,
in the United States Mail, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, addressed as follows:
Thomas Diehl, Esquire
One West High Street
Suite 208
Carlisle, P 17013
VCendy~ S~ive -
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
PLAII~FIFF : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
v.
01-3287 CIVIL ACTION LAW
DESMA M. SHRAWDER
DEFENDANT : IN CUSTODY
AND NOW, Wednesday, March 20, 2002 , upon consideration of the attached Complaint,
it is hereby directed that parties and their respective counsel appear before Dawn S. Sunday, Esq. , the conciliator,
at 39 West Main Street, Meehanicsburg, PA 170SS on Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 8:30 AM
for a Pre-Hearing Custody Conference. At such conference, an effort will be made to resolve the issues in dispute; or
if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the court, and to enter into a temporary
order. All children age five or older may also be present at the conference. Failure to appear at the conference may
provide grounds for entry ora temporary or permanent order.
The enurt hereby directs the parties to furnish any and all existing Protection from Abuse orders,
Special Relief orders, and Custody orders to the conciliator 48 hours prior to scheduled bearing.
FOR THE COURT,
By: Isl l)a~n $. Sunday. Eso.~ ..,~
Custody Conciliator ' ,)
The Court of Common Pleas of Cumberland County is required by law to comply with the Americans
with Disabilites Act of 1990. For information about accessible facilities and reasonable aneommodations
available to disabled individuals having business before the court, please contact our office. All arrangements
must be made at least 72 hours prior to any hearing or business before the court. You must attend the
scheduled ennferenee or hearing.
YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR ATTORNEY AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT
HAVE AN A'ITORNEY OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET
FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP.
Cumberland County Bar Association
2 Liberty Avenue
Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013
Telephone (717) 249-3166
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
vs. * NO. 2001-3287
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
NOTICE TO DEFEND AND CLAIM RIGHTS
YOU HAVE BEEN SUED IN COURT. If you wish to defend against the
claims set forth in the following pages, you must take prompt action. You are warned that
if you fail to do so, the case may proceed without you and a decree of divorce or annulment
may be entered against you by the Court. A judgment may also be entered against you for
any other claim or relief requested in these papers by the Plaintiff. You may lose money
or property or other rights important to you, including custody or visitation of your children.
When the ground for the divorce is indignities or irretrievable breakdown of
the marriage, you may request marriage counseling. A list of marriage counselors is
available in the Office of the Prothonotary, Cumberland County Court House, 1 Court
House Square, Carlisle, Pennsylvania, 17013-3387.
IF YOU DO NOT FILE A CLAIM FOR ALIMONY, DIVISION OF PROPERTY,
LAWYER'S FEES OR EXPENSES BEFORE A DIVORCE OR ANNULMENT IS GRANTED,
YOU MAY LOSE THE RIGHT TO CLAIM ANY OF THEM.
YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE. IF YOU
DO NOT HAVE?, LAWYER OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE
OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP.
CUMBERLAND COUNTY LAWYER REFERRAL SERVICE
2 LIBERTY AVENUE
CARLISLE, PA 17013
(717) 249-3166
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
vs. * NO. 2001-3287
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
ANSWER AND COUNTER CLAIM
COMES NOW, Defendant, Desma M. Shrawder, by and through her attorneys, Weintraub
& Associates, to make this Answer and Counter Claim, and in support thereof, avers as follows:
ANSWER
1. Denied. Upon information and belief, Plaintiffcurrently resides at 209 Faith
Circle, Carlisle, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania 17013.
2. Admitted.
3. Admitted.
4. Admitted.
$. Admitted.
6. Admitted.
7. Ach'nitted.
8. Admitted.
9. Admitted.
COUNT I.
R~QUEST FOR CONTINUED MAINTENANCE AND BENEFICIARY
DESIGNATIONS OF EXISTING POLICIES INSURING
LIFE AND HEALTH OF BOTH PARTIES
UNDER §3502(d) OF THE DIVORCE CODE
10. The prior paragraphs of this Answer and Counter Claim are incorporated her~in
by reference thereto.
11. During the course of thc marriage, Plaintiff has maintained certain health, life and
death insurance policies for the benefit of Plaintiffand Defendant.
12. Pursuant to Section 3502(d), Defendant requests Plaintiff be directed to continue
maintenance of said policies.
WHEREFORE, Defendant respectfully requests that, pursuant to Section 3502(d) of the
Divorce Code, the Court enter an order directing Plaintiffto continue to maintain certain life and
health insurance policies for the benefit of Plaintiffand Defendant.
COUNT II.
REQUEST FOR APPROVAL OF ANY SETTLEMENT AGREEMENT
AND INCORPORATION THEREOF IN DIVORCE DECREE
UNDER SECTION 3104
OF THE DIVORCE CODE
13. The prior paragraphs of this Answer and Counter Claim are incorporated herein by
reference thereto.
14. The public policy of the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania encourages parties to a
marital dispute to negotiate a settlement of their differences.
15. While no settlement has been reached as of the date of the filing of this Answer and
Counter Claim, Defendant is and has always been willing to negotiate a fair and reasonable
settlement of all matters with Plaintiff.
16. To the extent that a written settlement agreement might be entered into between the
parties prior to the time of hearing on this Answer and Counter Claim, Defendant desires that such
written agreement be approved by the Court and incorporated in any divorce decree which may be
entered dissolving the marriage between the parties.
WHEREFORE, ifa written settlement agreement is reached between the Parties prior to the
time of hearing on this Answer and Counter Claim, Defendant respectfully requests that, pursuant
to Section 3104 o£the Divorce code, the Court approve and incorporate such agreement in the final
divorce decree.
III.
REQUEST FOR CONFIRMATION OF CUSTODY
UNDER §3104(A)(2) AND 3323(B)
OF THE DIVORCE CODE
17. The prior paragraphs of this Complaint are incorporated herein by reference thereto.
18. The parties are the parents of the following unemancipated children who reside with
Defendant:
Tyler C. Shrawder 5 Male June 15, 1996
Ashton M. Shrawder 2 Male October 18, 1999
19. During the past five years, the children have resided with the parties and at the
addresses herein indicated.
ER. DM TO WITH WHOM ADD_RF. JST~
Birth May 2001 Mother and Father 207 Birch Lane, Carlisle, PA 17013
May 2001 Present Mother 207 Birch Lane, Carlisle, PA 17013
20. Defendant has not participated in any other litigation concerning the children in this
or any other state.
21. There are no other proceedings pending involving custody of the children in this or
any other state.
22. Defendant knows of no person not a party to these proceedings who has physical
custody of the children or who claims to have custody, partial custody or visitation rights with
respect to the children.
23. The best interests of the children will be served if custody of them is confirmed in
Defendant.
WHEREFORE, Defendant respectfully requests that, pursuant to §§ 3104(a)(2) and 3323(b)
of the Divorce Code, the Court enter an Order confirming custody of the ehildran in Defendam.
Respectfully submitted:
WEINTRAUB & ASSOCIATES
{ Jennifer L. Frcchctte, Esquire
2650 North Third Street
Harrisburg, PA 17110
(717) 238-2200
ID #87445
ATTORNEY FOR DEFENDANT
VERIFICATION
I, Desma M. Shraa, der, hereby swear and afl.mn that the facts contained in the
foregoing Answer and Counter Claim are ~rue and correct and are made subject to the penalties of
18 Pa. C.S. Sec. 4904 relating to unswom falsification to authorities.
' ' Desma M. Sh~a"~de~
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
vs. * NO. 2001-3287
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
I, Misty D. Lehman, Legal Assist~mt to Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire, hereby certify
that on August 15, 2002, I served a true and correct copy of the Petition to Modify Order of
Custody and Order of Cour~ scheduling a Custody Conciliation Conference upon Thomas
Diehl, Esquire, counsel for Plaintiff, by depositing same, postage pre-paid, in the United
States Mail, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, addressed as follows:
Thomas Diehl, Esquire
One West High Street
Suite 208
Carlisle, P 17013
MistyID. Lehma{n -
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
vs. : NO. 01-3287 CIVIL ACTION LAW
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, :
Defendant : IN CUSTODY
PRIOR JUDGE: Kevin A. Hess
CUSTODY CONCILIATION SUMMARY REPORT
IN ACCORDANCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CIVIL
PROCEDURE 1915.3-8, the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following report:
1. The pertinent information concerning the Children who are the subjects of this litigation is
as follows:
NAME DATE OF BIRTH CURRENTLY IN CUSTODY OF
Tyler C. Shrawder June 15, 1996 Mother/Father
Ashton M. Shrawder October 18, 1999 Mother/Father
2. A Conciliation Conference was held on September 26, 2002, with the following individuals
in attendance. The Father, Christopher A. Shrawder, with his counsel, Thomas S. Diehl, Esquire, and
the Mother, Desma M. Shrawder, with her counsel, Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire and Stephanie
Mihalko, Esquire.
3. This Court previously entered an Order in this matter on May 14, 2002 under which the
parties have shared physical and legal custody of the Children. The Mother filed this Petition to
Modify, seeking primary physical custody. At the Conference, the parties were able to agree that
neither party would make non-emergency telephone calls to the other party's home either after 8:00
p.m. or before 7:30 a.m. As to the remaining issues, the parties agreed to investigate the financial
feasibility of engaging in co-parenting counseling and to recontact the Conciliator to advise whether a
counseling provision should be included in an Order. As the Conciliator has been informed by the
Mother's counsel that neither of the parties' insurance coverage applies to counseling, the parties have
decided to forego the counseling alternative due to the financial situation. Consequently, the entry of
an additional Order is not necessary at this time.
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Custody Conciliator
cc: Thomas S. DieM, Esquire - Counsel for Father
Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire - Counsel for Mother e.~ .//~.,LGM_ /o to. o.z,
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CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
vs. * NO. 2001-3287
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
RULE
AND NOW, this ~(' day of ~,~j~... '~ .2003, a rule is hereby issued to show cause
why the within request should not be granted.
RULE RETURNABLE J~ ,,g o DAYS.~//ff-- .r~,,, '~
BY THE COURT:
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY,PENNSYLVANIA
vs. * NO. 2001-3287
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
PETITION TO WITHDRAW APPEARANCE
Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire hereby respectfully petitions this Honorable Court for Leave
to Withdraw her appearance as counsel for Plaintiff', Desma M. Shrawder, and in support thereof,
avers as follows:
1. Petitioner is Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire.
2. Respondent is Desma M. Shrawder.
3. Petitioner was retained by Respondent in 2002 to represent her in her various divorce,
custody and support matters.
4. Petitioner has undertaken such representation but is unable to continue for the
following reasons:
a. Respondent has disregarded an agreement with Petitioner as to fees and costs
and withdrawal is allowed pursuant to Rule 1.16(b)(4) of the Rules of Professional Conduct. To date,
Respondent owes Petitioner over $1,500 in fees and costs.
5. Petitioner has communicated to Respondent that she intends to withdraw as counsel
for Respondent. A true and correct copy of said letter is attached hereto as Exhibit "A."
WHEREFORE, Petitioner respectfully requests leave to withdraw her appearance as
attorney for Respondent.
Jenni~'er'L. Frechette, Esquire
Petitioner
VERIFICATION
I. Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire, verify that the coments of the foregoing Petition to
Withdraw Appearance are true and correct to the best of my knowledge, information and belief.
I understand that I am subject to the penalties of 18 Pa. C.S. Sec. 4904 relating to
unswom falsification to authorities for any false statements that I made in the foregoing document.
Date: (~/~'~ ~ (~') Jenn~~'!~
EXHIBIT "A"
LAW OFFICES OF
EDWARD J. WEINTRAUB & ASSOCIATES
PRACTICE LIMITED TO FAMILY LAW
2650 N. THIRD STREET
HARRISBURG. PENNSYLVANIA 171 I0
(717)238-2200 FAX-(717)238-9280 E.MA~L-EWDIVORCE~.~^OL.COM
Edward J. Weintraub ~ ~an
Jennifer L. Frechette*
Stephanie L. Mihalko
* also admitted VA Bar
February5,2003
Desma M. Shrawder
207 Birch Lane
Carlisle, PA 17013
Re: Outstanding balance
Dear Desma,
Your hill for legal fees and services remains outstanding. The outstanding balance at this
time is $1,539.50. You must pay this bill in full within ten (10) days of the date of this letter, or
call our office to make satisfactory payment arrangements if you cannot pay the full amount now.
If payment is not received, or a satisfactory payment arrangement is not made, we will
have no alternative but to immediately file with the Court a Petition to Withdraw as your
attorneys and send your account for collection.
You will not receive additional notices from this office regarding your account. This is
your final notice. Please honor your obligation so that collection actions may be avoided and we
may continue to represent you.
Thank you for your cooperation.
Yours truly.
COPY
Daniel Stem
DS/mdl
CHRISTOPHER A, SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
· NO. 2001-3187
DESMA M. SHRAWDER. * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
I, Sherry A. Fitzkee, Legal Assistant to Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire, hereby certify
that on July 2, 2003, I served a true and correct copy of the Petition to Withdraw Appearance
upon the following individuals by depositing same, postage pre-paid, in the United States
Mail, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, addressed as follows:
Thomas Diehl, Esquire Desma Shrawder
One West High Street 61 Gasoline Alley
Suite 208 Carlisle, PA 17013
Carlisle, P 17013
-' I [ i kee, LegI ~sistant
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
vs. * NO. 2001-3287
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
I, Sherle A. Minich, Legal Assistant to Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire, hereby certify
that on August 11,2003, I served a true and correct copy ora Rule and Petition to Withdraw
Appearance with regard to the above-captioned matter upon the following individuals by
depositing same, postage pre-paid, in the United States Mail, Dillsburg, Pennsylvania,
general delivery, addressed as follows:
Thomas Diehl, Esquire Desma Shrawder
One West High Street 61 Gasoline Alley
Suite 208 Carlisle, PA 17013
Carlisle, PA 17013
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
PLAINTIFF : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
V.
01=3287 CIVIL ACTION LAW
DESMA M. SHRAWDER
: IN CUSTODY
DEFENDANT
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, Wednesday, August 14, 2002 . upon consideration of the attached Complaint,
it is hereby directed that parties and their respective counsel appear before Dawn S. Sunday, Esq. , the conciliator,
at 39 West Main Street, Mechanlcsburg, PA 170SS on Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 11:00 AM
for a Pre=Hearing Custody Conference. At such conference, an effort will be made to resolve the issues in dispute; or
if this cannot be accomplished, to define and narrow the issues to be heard by the court, and to enter into a temporary
order. All children age five or older may also be Oresent at tile conference. Failure to appear at the conference may
provide grounds for entry ora temporary or permanenl order.
The court hereby directs the parties to furnish any and all existing Protection from Abuse orders,
Special Relief orders, and Custody orders to the conciliator 48 hours prior to scheduled heartna.
FOR THE COURT,
By: Isl Dawn S. .qu~t,,l,~y. Esq. ~''v'v
Custody Conciliator
The Court of Common Pleas of Cumberland Courtly is required by ]aw to comply with the
Americans with Disabilites Act of 1990. For information about accessible facilities and reasonable
accommodations available to disabled individuals having business before the court, please contact our office.
Ail arrangements must be made at least 72 hours prior to any hearing or business before the court. You must
attend the scheduled conference or hearing.
YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR ATTORNEY AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT
HAVE AN ATTORNEY OR CANNOT AFFORD ONE. GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE OFFICE SET
FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL IIELP.
Cumberland County Bar Association
2 Liberty Avenue
Carlisle, Pennsylvania 17013
Telephone (717) 249-3166
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY,
· PENNSYLVANIA
vs. * NO. 2001-3287
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN CUSTODY
PETITION TO MODIFY ORDER OF CUSTODY
AND NOW, Defendant, by and through her attorney Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire,
files a Petition to Modify Order of Custody, and in support thereof, avers the following:
1. Plaintiff is Christopher A. Shrawder, Father, who currently resides at 209
Faith Cimle, Carlisle, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania.
2. Defendant is Desma M. Shrawder, Mother, who currently resides at 61
Gasoline Alley, Carlisle, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania.
3. The parties hereto are the parents of the following minor children who
currently reside at 61 Gasoline Alley, Carlisle, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania and 209
Faith Circle, Carlisle, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania.
Tyler C. Shrawder Age 6
Ashton M. Shrawder Age 2
4. On May 14, 2002, the Court entered an Order of Custody, granting Plaintiff
and Defendant shared legal and physical custody of the children. A true and correct copy
of this Order is marked Exhibit "B," attached hereto, and made part thereof.
5. Plaintiff/Father's girlfriend has become abusive with Defendant/Mother and
has attacked Mother's sister.
6. Plaintiff/Father has not been cooperative with Defendant/Mother's request
to continue the children's schooling in Cumberland Valley where they currently reside.
7. Plaintiff/Father has not been cooperative with Defendant/Mother's requests
to keep the children out of day care on her weeks of custody.
8. Plaintiff/Father has verbally attacked Mother in front of the children, cursing
at her, dpping open her car door and snatching a bag from Mother's car, causing the
children to cry in fear of Father's temper and abusive behavior toward Mother.
9. The best interest and permanent welfare of the children will be served by a
modification of the Court's Order, specifically:
Granting primary physical custody of the children to the
Defendant and granting partial physical custody of the children
to the Plaintiff.
WHEREFORE, Defendant respectfully requests that this Honorable Court
modify its Order as follows:
Granting primary physical custody of the children to the
Defendant and granting partial physical custody of the children
to the Plaintiff.
Respectfully submitted:
; ~'/~,'
Jenr!i~e~ L. ~=re--chett~, Esquire
A3-1'E)RNEY FOR DEFENDANT
2650 North Third Street
Harrisburg, PA 17110
(717) 238-2200
I.D. #87445
VERIFICATION
I, Desma M. Shrawder, hereby swear and affirm that the facts contained in the
foregoing Petition to Modify Order of Custody are true and correct and are made subject to the
penalties of 18 Pa. C.S. Sec. 4904 relating to unsworn falsification to authorities.
Desma M. Sh aw ,r
EXHIBIT "A"
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
vs. : NO. 01-3287 CIVIL ACTION LAW
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, :
Defendant : IN CUSTODY
ORDER OF COURT
AND NOW, this /~/~ day of ~')~, , 2002, upon
consideration of the attached Custody Conciliation Rel;~--~t is ordered and directed as follows:
1. The Father, Christopher A. Shrawder, and the Mother, Desma M. Shrawder, shall have
shared legal custody of Tyler C. Shrawder, bom June 15, 1996, and Ashton M. Shrawder, bom
October 18, 1999. Each parent shall have an equal fight, to be exercised jointly with the other parent,
to make all major non-emergency decisions affecting the Clfildren's general well-being including, but
not limited to, all decisions regarding their health, education and relig/on. Pursuant to the terms of this
paragraph each parent shall be entitled to all records and information pertaining to the Ch/Idren
including, but not limited to, school and medical records and information.
2. The parties shall share having physical custody of the Children on an alternating weekly
basis, with the exchange to take place each week on Sunday at $:00 p.m. The non-custodial parent
shall be entitled to have a period of custody on Tuesday (or other day as arranged by agreement) from
3:30 p.m. through the following Wednesday morn/nE when that parent shall take the Children to
school or day care.
3. Each party shall ensure that the Children get to and f~om the school bus stop during his or
her periods of custody.
4. Every year, the Father shall have custody of the Children from the Saturday before July 4
through the Sunday after Suly 4. The parties shall cooperate in scheduling periods of custody for the
Mother to make up for any regular period missed during the Father's week of custody under this
provision.
5. The parties shall share or alternate having custody of the Children on holidays as follows:
A. CHRISTMAS: The Christmas holiday shall be divided into Segment A, which shall
mn.. f~om Chris,'nas Eve at 1:00 p.m. through Chrislmas Day at 1:00 p.m., and Segment B,
which shall run from Christmas Day at 1:00 p.m. through December 26 at 1:00 p.m. In
even numbered years, the Father shall have custody of the Children during Segment A and
the Mother shall have custody during Segment B. In odd numbered years, the Mother shall
have custody of the Children during Segment A and the Father shall have custody during
Segment B.
B. NEW YEARS/EASTERTrHANKSGIViNG: The part/cs shall equally share having
custody of the Ch/Idren on New Years Day, Easter and Thanksgiving each year, with thc
specific exchange times to be arranged by agreement.
C. MOTHER'S DAY/FATN~I~,S DAY: The Mother shall have custody of thc Children
every year for Mother's Day and the Father shall have custody of the Children cve~ year
for Father's Day, with the specific times to be arranged by agreement.
D. The holiday custody schedule shall supersede and take precedence over the regular
custody schedule.
6. In the event either party is unavailable to pwvide care for the Children during his or her
period of custody for 4 hours or more, that party shall fu'st contact thc other party to offer the
opportunity to provide the care before contacting third party caregivers.
7. Neither party shall do or say anything which may estrange the Ch/ldren from the other
parent, injure 'the opinion of the Children as to the other parent, or hamper the free and natural
development of the Children's love and respect for the other parent. Both parties shall ensure that third
parties having contact with the Children comply with th/s provision.
8. Th/s Order is entered pursuant to an agreement of the part/es at a Custody Conciliation
Confe~nce. The parties may modify the provisions of this Order by mutual consent. In the absence of
mutual consent, the terms ofth/s Order shall control.
BY THE COURT,
cc: Sennifer L. Frechctte, Esquire - Counsel for Mother
Thomas S. Diehl, Esquire - Counsel for Father
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
vs. : NO. 01-3287 CIVIL ACTION LAW
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, :
Defendant : IN CUSTODY
CUSTODY CONCII,IATION SUMMARY REPORT
IN ACCORD.~NCE WITH CUMBERLAND COUNTY RULE OF CML
PROCEDURE 1915.3-8, the undersigned Custody Conciliator submits the following report:
1. The pertinent information concerning the Children who are the subjects of this litigation is
as follows:
NAME DATE OF BIRTH CURRENTLY IN CUSTODY OF
Tyler C. Shrawder Sune 15, 1996 Mother/Father
Ashton M. Shrawder October 18, 1999 Mother/Father
2. A Conciliation Conference was held on May 7, 2002, with the following individuals in
attendance. The Father, Christopher A. Shrawder, with his counsel, Thomas S. Diehl, Esquire, and the
Mother, Desma M. Shrawder, with her counsel, Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire.
3. The parties 'agreed to entry of an Order in the form as attached.
i77 · ..
Date ~ - Dawn~
Custody Conciliator
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, * IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff * CUMBERLAND COUNTY,
· PENNSYLVANIA
· NO. 2001-3287
VS.
DESMA M. SHRAWDER, * CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant * IN DIVORCE
AND NOW, this /'/" day of #,~.~- ,2003, the within Petition is
~ranted. The Petitioner, Jennifer L. Frechette, Esquire, is permitted to withdraw her appearance of
record for the Defendant in the above matter, and it is further ORDERED and DECREED that the
Prothonotary shall so mark the record.
BY THECOURT:
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
:
v. : NO. 2001-3287 CIVIL TERM
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER. : CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant : IN DIVORCE
PRAECIPE TO TRANSMIT RECORD
TO THE PROTHONOTARY:
Transmit the record, together with the following information, to the Court for entry of a
divorce decree:
1. Ground for divorce: irretrievable breakdown under § 335:(,) 3301(d) of the Divorce
Code. (Strike out inapplicable section).
2. Date and manner of service of the Complaint. Service was made on June 4, 2001 by
Certified mail, restricted delivery to Defendant, Desma M. Shrawder.
3. (Complete either paragraph (a), or (b).)
(a) Date of execution of the Affidavit of Consent required by § 3301(c) of the Divorce
Code: by thc Plaintiff: : by the Defendant:
(b) (1) Date of execution of the Plaintiffs Affidavit required by § 3301(d) of the Divorce
Code: June 19, 2003.
(2) Date of service of the Plaintiffs Affidavit upon the Defendant: August 2, 2003
by certified mail to Defendant. Desma M. Shrawder.
4. Related claims pending: None.
5. (Complete either (a) or (b);
(a) Date and manner of service of the Notice of Intention to File Praecipe to Transmit
Record. and a copy of which is attached: September 6, 2003 by certified mail, restricted
delivery to Defendant, Desma M. Shrawder.
(b) Date of execution of the Waiver of Notice of Intention to File Divorce Decree as
required by § 3301(c) of the Divorce Code: b~.4he-P4~intiff: : by the
Defendant: . ~-. ?./fi/Q, /'"'~/]
Date: October 10,2003 // '///~/~
{ Thor¢~.. Dieh~. Esqui}$
k,~J~rney for Plaintiff
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY. PENNSYLVANIA
:
v. : NO. 2001-3287 CIVIL TERM
:
DESMA M. SHRAWDER. : CIVIL ACTION - LAW
Defendant : IN DIVORCE
NOTICE OF INTENTION TO REQUEST ENTRY OF § 3301(d) DIVORCE DECREE
TO: DESMA M. SHRAWDER, DEFENDANT
You have been sued in an action for divorce. You have failed to answer the complaint or
file a counter-affidavit to the § 3301(d) affidavit. Therefore. on or after September 15, 2003, the
other party can request the Court to enter a Final Decree in Divorce.
If you do not file with the Prothonotary of the Court an answer with your signature
notarized or verified or a counter-affidavit by the above date. the court can enter a Final Decree
in Divorce. A counter-affidavit which you may file with the Prothonotary of the Court is
attached to this notice.
Unless you have already filed with the Court a written claim for economic relief, you
must do so by the above date or the court may grant the divorce and you will lose forever the
tight to ask for economic relief. The filing of the form counter-affidavit alone does not protect
your economic claims.
YOU SHOULD TAKE THIS PAPER TO YOUR LAWYER AT ONCE. IF YOU DO NOT
HAVE A LAWYER OR CONNOT AFFORD ONE, GO TO OR TELEPHONE THE
OFFICE SET FORTH BELOW TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GET LEGAL HELP.
Pennsylvania Bar Association Lawyer Referral Service
1-(800) 692-7375 (PA only) or
(717) 238-6715
IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
OF CUMBERLAND COUNTY
STATE OF PENNA.
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWD'
Plaintiff No. 2001-3287
VERSUS
DESMA M. SHRAWDER.
Defendant
DECREE IN
DIVORCE
AND NOW, Ot./~.~.. 2,~~' , ,~e, 3 , IT IS ORDERED AND
CHRISTOPHER A. SHRAWDER
DECREED THAT __, PLAINTIFF,
AND DESMA M. SHRAWDER _, DEFENDANT,
ARE DIVORCED FROM THE BONDS OF MATRIMONY.
THE COURT RETAINS JURISDICTION Of THE FOLLOWING CLAIMS WHICH HAVE
BEEN RAISED OF RECORD IN THIS ACTION FOR WHICH A FINAL ORDER HAS NOT
YET BEEN ENTERED;
NONE
BY THE COURT:/
~ PROTHONOTARY