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HomeMy WebLinkAbout04-05-05 Volume III INDEX TO WITNESSES FOR PETITIONER DIRECT CROSS REDIRECT RECROSS REBUTTAL Julia E. Coolidge-Stolz 87 99 FOR RESPONDENTS Thomas E. Coolidge 4 34 84 2 INDEX TO EXHIBITS FOR PETITIONER MARKED ADMITTED Ex. No. 15 - power of attorney 36 100 Ex. No. 16 - e-mail 47 100 Ex. No. 17 - May 15, 03 letter 52 100 Ex. No. 18 - HIPAA forms 55 100 Ex. No. 19 - 8/20/03 letter 70 100 Ex. No. 20 - letter 87 100 Ex. No. 21 - card 89 100 Ex. No. 22 - card 89 100 Ex. No. 23 - 8/12/01 note 89 100 Ex. No. 24 - 6/5/00 note 89 100 Ex. No. 25 - prescription 94 100 Ex. No. 26 - 3 photographs 96 100 FOR RESPONDENTS Ex. No. 14 - timeline 4 86 Ex. No. 15 - 9/23/03 letter 6 86 Ex. No. 16 - 9/30/03 letter 9 86 Ex. No. 17 - 10/7/03 letter 10 86 Ex. No. 18 - timeline 13 86 Ex. No. 19 - timeline 16 86 Ex. No. 20 - aerial photo 19 86 Ex. No. 21 - evaluation 22 86 Ex. No. 22 - 2000 tax return 25 86 Ex. No. 23 - checks 27 86 Ex. No. 24 - 10/20/03 letter 31 86 3 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 14 was marked for identification.) THE COURT: This is the time and place for a resumption of the hearing in the matter of Eleanor U. Coolidge. Are counsel prepared to proceed? MR. FLOWER: Yes, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. MR. FLOWER: When we concluded Mr. Thomas Coolidge was on the stand, and I would like to recall him to the stand. Whereupon, THOMAS E. COOLIDGE having been duly sworn, testified as follows: THE COURT: Would you give your name again please for the record? THE WITNESS: Yes. Thomas, middle initial E for Edward, Coolidge, C-o-o-l-i-d-g-e. DIRECT EXAMINATION (CONTINUED) BY MR. FLOWER: Q Mr. Coolidge, I'll show you what we've marked as Respondents' Exhibit 14. One of the things that struck me as we proceeded with this case is that the timeframes can be confusing. Is this a timeline that you prepared for December of 2002 to December of 2003? A Yes, it is. 4 1 2 3 4 5 6 A Yes. On December 3rd, 2002, my mother moved 7 to the assisted living unit of Green Ridge Village. On 8 December 20th of 2002, my mother named me as her Power of 9 Attorney. On February 4th, 2003, my mother had some 10 unsteadiness in her walking and actually had what carne to be 11 known as a fall at Green Ridge Village, which was a 12 noticeable health event. On April 30th of 2003, my mother 13 was evaluated by Dr. Jurgensen, who testified earlier in 14 this hearing about that evaluation. 15 On the period between May 24th and May 27th, 16 2003, there were a series of communications, largely by 17 telephone, among my sister and me, and my sister and Bob 18 Frey. On May 27th in a telephone conversation my sister, 19 Julia, told me that she would see me in court. On May 28th, 20 2003, Dr. Brazel, who was my mother's personal care 21 physician, prescribed Aricept for my mother. 22 THE COURT: Would you spell that for the 23 stenographer, please? 24 THE WITNESS: Sure. Aricept is spelled 25 A-r-i-c-e-p, as in Paul, T, as in Tom. Q And does this have a D1 trnber of significant events in your mother's life that occurred during that time? A Yes, it does. Q Would you just go from left to right and note the items that you have highlighted un the timeline? 5 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 On July 2nd my sister, Julia, visited my mother at Green Ridge Village, and on July 3rd my mother expressed fear about being taken to Massachusetts and asked me to visit her at Green Ridge Village, which I did. On July 14th, 2003, Dr. Myers treated my mother at Green Ridge Village and adjusted some medications. On August 20th our attorney, Jim Flower, at our request -- our being my brother Phil and me -- sent a letter to my sister asking that further communications regarding my mother be handled through his office. MR. FLOWER: Let me pause for a moment, and the next thing I'm going to reference is a letter of September 23rd, and I'd like to have that marked as Exhibit 15 for Respondents. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 15 was marked for identification.) BY MR. FLOWER: Q Okay. I'm showing you Exhibit 15, a letter of September 23rd from you, and who is this letter addressed to? A It was addressed to both my brother Philip and my sister Julia. Q And what was the purpose of this letter? A This letter was a result of my mother's decision to proceed with the sale of her house and our 6 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 ability through a private sale to identify a buyer who was prepared to buy the house at a price she agreed to, and the communication provided the information regarding that sale, including the final value conclusion of the appraiser. We had to do a private appraisal to make sure that we understood the market value and the price of which we were selling the house. Q And the earlier appraisal was how much? A The appraisal of Larry Foote of Diversified Appraisal Services was $176,000. . Q And what was the sale price? A $192,000. Q And was there any real estate commission? A There was not. Q You were able to do that privately? A Yes, we were. Q Okay. And did this also set forth, on the reverse side, a procedure for some distribution of personal property? A Yes, it did. Q Through the sale. And what is that procedure as set forth in the letter? A My mother was interested in making sure there was a mechanism in place that would allow her to give to each of the three children an amount of $10,000 to be used 7 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 in a way which would give us equal ability to buy personal property that she was electing to auction in a way that would give us equal chance to get that personal property at a competitive value. Q And was the procedure for you individually to bid on items you wanted? A Yes, it was. Each of the three of us were advised of the auction, invited to attend, and invited to participate the same as anyone else, and my mother's arrangement was that she would pick up the first $10,000 of whatever the three of us chose to buy, and that the two who bid less would be made equal to the one who bid most by a cash balance. Q But you would lose something because there would be a commission for the auctioneer; isn't that right? That is your mother would have -- let me put it differently. Why was it that you didn't simply divide up a value of maybe $10,000 worth of property among yourselves rather than doing this through this auction procedure? A Well, my mother was in the very clear view that the relationships between of the three of us was such that that would not be possible. Q Okay. So this provided that you would each get a gift of $10,000 at that time? A That is correct. 8 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q All three of you. MR. FLOWER: I'd like this next item to be marked as Exhibit 16 for Respondents. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 16 was marked for identification.) BY MR. FLOWER: Q I'm showing you Respondents' Exhibit 16, and is this a letter to you from your sister's then current attorney, Jason Kutulakis? A Yes, it is. Q Dated September 30, 2003? A Correct. Q And instead of going through the whole letter, the letter indicates in the second line, does it not, that the firm represents your sister Julia regarding your mother's estate? A Yes, it does. Q And did you share this letter with your mother? A Of course, yes. Q How did she respond to the fact that they were representing your sister with respect to her estate? A Well, when my mother saw the word estate she became visibly very upset and said very clearly, I am not dead. 9 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 THE COURT: Said what? THE WITNESS: I am not dead. BY MR. FLOWER: Q And in the second paragraph did it request a complete accounting of all of the personal property contained in the estate, including but not limited to the personal property remaining at your mother's house? A Yes, it does. Q Did you share that request with your mother? A She read the entire letter, yes. THE COURT: She what? THE WITNESS: I'm sorry. She read the entire letter, yes. THE COURT: All right. BY MR. FLOWER: Q How did she respond to the request that she provide a complete accounting of all of her property? A Her words were that she found that to be very presumptuous. She didn't feel she owed an accounting to anyone. MR. FLOWER: I'd like this next letter to be marked as Exhibit 17. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 17 was marked for identification.) 10 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 BY MR. FLOWER: Q I'll show you what's been marked as Exhibit 17 for Respondents. Was this your response to the letter from Mr. Kutulakis dated September 30th? A Yes, it is. Q And in this letter I will ask you to note, did you see anything about your mother's mental abilities changing? A Yes. Just prior to our sending this letter my recollection is you received a telephone call from Michael Traxler, who was an associate in the law firm representing my sister, asking about my mother's mental health. Q I want to make sure you're speaking into the microphone. Okay. A I'm sorry. Q Thanks. A So yes, I did. I tried to respond to that in addition to the requests that were made in the letter that Mr. Kutulakis had sent, and I pointed out this is in October of 2003, and my mother's fall was in February of 2003. So roughly half a year had passed. By this point in time her mental abilities were rebounding very nicely, and this again was after the adjustment of her medications by Dr. Brazel and Dr. Myers. 11 1 Q Did you note that you had -- that she had 2 retained her relationship with her legal adviser, 3 Mr. Frey, and her family physician? 4 A Yes, I did. We were -- my mother had long 5 standing relationships with her attorney, Mr. Frey, her 6 personal care physician, Dr. Brazel, her accountant, Mike 7 Devlin who testified earlier, and our minister at the Second 8 Presbyterian Church, and they all had continuing contact 9 with her throughout this entire period until her death. 10 Q Let me refer you to the last paragraph of the 11 second page in which you indicate that your next two 12 requests seek information my mother considers private, and 13 which she wants you to know she has already shared as 14 broadly as she wishes. Would you explain what -- what you 15 were trying to convey here? 16 A Yes. We provided information in response to 17 several of their requests. There were two that my mother 18 instructed me not to provide. One was the appraisal report 19 by Larry Foote. My mother felt that question -- that 20 request questioned her integrity, and the letter she had me 21 sent stated the result she didn't feel she wanted to provide 22 the report itself. 23 And the fourth request, the second which we 24 did not agree to, was about the complete accounting, which 25 as I said earlier, she found to be presumptuous and 12 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 offensive. Q And did you also indicate at the end of this letter a willingness to try and work something out concerning the banjo clock? A Yes, I did. THE COURT: How much is this banjo clock worth? THE WITNESS: The banjo clock was appraised by my mother in 2002 before I became her Power of Attorney, and the banjo clock, I believe, was appraised at $4,500.00. THE COURT: Appraised by some appraiser? THE WITNESS: Yeah. It's a fellow in the Mechanicsburg area. I believe his name is Edward Lafond. BY MR. FLOWER: Q Edward Lafond, who is an expert in clocks? A Yes. THE COURT: Okay. THE WITNESS: And I have an appraisal, if you wish. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 18 was marked for identification.) BY MR. FLOWER: Q I'm going to show you what's been marked as Respondents' Exhibit 18, which is an item that says Respondents timeline of selected key dates. Does this pick 13 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 up after the other timeline that was prepared as Exhibit No. 14? A Yes, it does. Q And what dates have you highlighted on this timeline? A This picks up with the December 8th signing of the will by my mother, and it shows the period through her death in March of 2004, with four events in March. Q Okay. Now, I realize I've done something out of order. We didn't complete the review of the dates on Exhibit 14. Would you -- I think we stopped here at the letter of October 7th. Would you complete the items that you noted on this exhibit? A Yes. The October 7th letter is the one we did just talk about. On October 13th my sister Julia and Helen Kollas visited my mother at Green Ridge Village, and as a result of that Helen Kollas, I'm told, called Bob Frey asking Bob Frey to visit my mother at Green Ridge Village. On October 14th MR. FLOWER: May I show the Court the copy of this? It might be easier to follow along. THE COURT: It's up to Mr. Thomas if it's not admitted. Do you have any objection to the Court's looking at this timeline document? MR. THOMAS: Could you bring it closer? 14 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 THE COURT: Do you have any objection, Mr. Thomas? MR. THOMAS: No objection. THE COURT: All right. BY MR. FLOWER: Q Okay. I'm sorry to interrupt, Mr. Coolidge. I believe we were at October 14? A Yes. My understanding is on October 14th Bob Frey, my mother's attorney, visited her at Green Ridge Village in response to the request by Helen Kollas. On October 29th there was a letter from Attorney Traxler of the firm representing my mother with some additional requests and indicating that if we didn't supply the data requested that they were willing to seek a court order. On November 13th my mother was informed by me of the challenge filed the earlier day by my sister Julia by petition to the Court. On November 13th my sister served a subpoena to attend and testify on me and on Renee Kreamer, the administrator of the assisted living unit at Green Ridge Village. On November 14th my mother accompanied me to the settlement of the sale of her house. On November 17th my mother herself testified in a mental competency hearing resulting from my sister's petition. Around Thanksgiving Bob Frey, my mother's attorney, visited her in response to 15 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 my mother's request that he do so so she could change her will, and on December 8th my mother, with Bob Frey and Dr. Myers as witnesses, signed the changed will. Q You indicated that on November 14th your mother attended a settlement of the sale of the house to the Gabig family. Did she have any comments to you on that day about the settlement? A Only two that come to mind. She was extremely pleased with the price. She thought $192,000 was above what her expectations had been. So she was very happy with that. And in conversation with the purchasers, Will and Pattie Gabig, she was really, really happy to hear they had two children and that there would be again children in the house. Q As you reflected on these matters, have you identified some sequential actions that have, in your mind, lead to your mother's decision to disinherit your sister? A Yes, I have. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 19 was marked for identification.) MR. THOMAS: Your Honor, if the witness is going to be expressing an opinion, I would object to that. The facts would speak for themselves, and it would be up to you to determine what the facts mean. MR. FLOWER: I can ask the question a little 16 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 differently. THE COURT: All right. BY MR. FLOWER: Q Are there actions which your sister took or didn't take which upset your mother in a way that you could perceive? A Yes. Q I'm going to show you what's marked as Respondents' Exhibit 19, and this is headed -- well, would you identify those actions or inactions that you perceived disappointed or irritated your mother? A The first that I recall, and is shown on this document, is May 27th when my sister challenged my mother's decision to give me the banjo clock as a gift. The second was on September 30th when my sister, by the letter that we talked about in the earlier timeline, challenged my mother's decision to sell her house and to auction much of the personal property that had been in the house. And it was at this point that my mother clearly expressed displeasure that my sister was involving a lawyer in a matter she didn't believe should be handled in that manner. On October 7th there was the letter which we talked about earlier as well with some additional requests, and that letter, as we mentioned earlier, included an expression of willingness on my part to have you talk with 17 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 her lawyer to see if there could be an arrangement to return the banjo clock. That was done at my asking and against my mother's expression of best judgment. On October 13th my sister visited my mother despite the fact that on October lath, as Renee Kreamer testified, she asked that she not be visited on that date. My mother said she found that to be disrespectful. On October 29th there was the further letter from my sister's lawyers expressing willingness to seek a court order, which when my mother read that she viewed as a clear escalation of the ongoing discussions. And then on November 13th and 14th my mother learned of the filing of the petition on November 12th that questioned her mental competency, and that, to my mother, was crushing and devastating and clearly took this to a level that left her in a very, very different place with respect to her views of my sister. Q Can you tell us what about that was crushing to your mother? A I'm sorry? Q Can you tell us what about that -- why was it crushing? Did she explain to you why? A Yes, she did. My mother graduated Phi Beta Kappa out of Dickinson College. She was a very bright person in her prime, and in November of 2003 she was not in 18 1 her prime. Clearly she had had some decline in mental 2 ability. She was very much aware of that. Obviously, this 3 is after her fall, if you will, in February of that year. 4 She was very cognizant of her mortality, and 5 she was very much aware at the same time that she felt 6 confident she continued to have basic judgment, and she was 7 enormously hurt that somebody would question whether she 8 retained that level of continuing ability. 9 Q You heard the testimony of Dr. Wettstein, 10 Petitioner's expert witness, which relied on certain 11 assumptions. One was that your mother was isolated at Green 12 Ridge Village. Would you please describe the location and 13 layout of Green Ridge Village? 14 A Surely. As was mentioned earlier, Green 15 Ridge Village is about 11 miles from Carlisle in the 16 direction -- as you head up towards Shippensburg, it's 17 actually right outside of Newville. It's 3 miles off of 18 Interstate 81, and just a short stretch off of the Ritner 19 Highway, which I believe is Route 11. It's easily 20 accessible by those major roads. It is a campus of 21 240 acres with a number of buildings, and it's a full 22 fledged retirement community. 23 (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 20 was 24 marked for identification.) 25 19 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 BY MR. FLOWER: Q I'll show you what's been marked as Respondents' Exhibit Number 20, and would you tell the Court what this is? A Yes. This is an aerial photograph of Green Ridge Village. Q You've been to Green Ridge Village a number of times to visit your mother; is that correct? A Many times. Q And have you ever had to travel any dirt roads to get there? A There are no dirt roads in between here and Green Ridge Village. Q What part of Green Ridge Village did your mother live in? That is what type of care was she receiving? A She lived in the assisted living unit wing of the main building, which was known as Swaim, and that's spelled S-w-a-i-m. Q And is that a maln building with two wings, a nursing unit and assisted living unit? A That's correct. One half of the building is the assisted living unit and the other is a nursing unit. Q Do you have to go through any security or process to visit a person who is there? 20 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A Absolutely not. One of the attractions she found was that it was a totally open living environment. People can come and go, as Renee Kreamer testified earlier, 24 hours a day, either directly through the wing end door, which was only a short distance, perhaps 20 or so yards from my mother's room, or through the central lobby and down the hallway. Q Did your mother see visitors there? A Routinely. Q And do you recall any particular visits that she might have received? A Well, she was -- she was often visited by folks from Second Presbyterian Church, especially two of the pastors with whom she had a particularly good relationship. Her sister, Jean, who lives in Virginia, came up pretty routinely. There were occasional visits by former neighbors. She spent a lot of time with three childhood friends that lived there. And, of course, there were members of our family as well who visited her. Q Were you asked to provide any information, family information, to any of your mother's caregivers at Green Ridge Village? A Only one occasion I can recall, which would have been in March of 2003 when she elected to be treated by Dr. Myers, who was the psychiatrist who visited Green Ridge 21 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Village, and there was an initial evaluation form that sought some background information that I completed. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 21 was marked for identification.) BY MR. FLOWER: Q I'll show you what's been marked as Exhibit Respondents' Exhibit 21. A Yes. Q There was some testimony which may have been confusing earlier that suggested that folks at Green Ridge Village didn't know that Mrs. Coolidge had a daughter. On page 2 of this there is a psycho-social history. Did you fill that out? A Yes, I did. Q Okay. And what did you indicate in that psycho-social history? A Well, among the facts I provided was one that states clearly that she had three children, Phil, age 50, and Julia age 45 in the Boston area, and myself, 48, in Carlisle. Q Did anybody ever specifically ask you how many children your mother had, and did you ever not name all three if you were asked? A There are two questions there. Q I'm sorry. 22 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 sorry. A I'm just trying to keep track of them. I'm I don't recall any other time being specifically asked, and I certainly never, ever mentioned one or two of us without mentioning all three. Q You reviewed Dr. Wettstein's report dated February 16, 2005; is that correct? A Yes, it is. Q And he notes a couple of -- he relies upon several items there, acts which were allegedly committed to you as reported by Mrs. Kollas; is that correct? A Yes, it is. Q There was some suggestion that you sold your mother's bed out from underneath her at Green Ridge Village. Was that true? A That assertion was first raised in the March hearing, and Renee Kreamer testified that that was not the case. I was surprised to see it again in her letter. It certainly 1S not the case. Her bed was never, never sold. Q And, in fact, at the last hearing we presented a gift letter establishing it was given to the home; is that correct? A It was given to the home after my mother's death, that's correct. Q There was some suggestion in that letter that you had been rejected for a loan, and that was why you were 23 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 trying to get your mother to change bank accounts? THE COURT: Some suggestion that what? BY MR. FLOWER: Q In the letter that you had been rejected for a loan, and that was why you were telling your mother to change bank accounts. Have you ever been rejected for a loan? A Well, first of all, I think the suggestion and the basis for that was in Mrs. Kollas' testimony here and not in the letter. Q I beg your pardon. A But I have never applied for a loan, and obviously, if I've never applied for a loan, I could never have been rejected for a loan. Q Did you ever compel your mother to change her bank accounts? A Absolutely not. Q Did your mother change her bank accounts at any time following your father's death? A The only thing she did after my father's death was clean up some accounts which had been in joint names with my father, and she did, I believe, change from a non-interest bearing checking account at M & T bank to an interest bearing checking account at what then was Waypoint Bank. 24 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 THE COURT: Was what? That then was what bank? THE WITNESS: Waypoint. THE COURT: Waypoint? THE WITNESS: It's now Sovereign Bank. THE COURT: All right. THE WITNESS: I had nothing to do with any of those activities, and they all predate my becoming Power of Attorney. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 22 was marked for identification.) BY MR. FLOWER: Q I'm going to show you what's been marked as Exhibit Number 22, and correct me if I'm wrong. This appears to be tax returns for 2000, 2001, and 2002 for your mother, and on at least one year for your father; is that correct? A They're partial tax returns, that's correct, but it includes the portion that clearly identifies taxable interest. Q Are these the true and correct tax returns, to the best of your knowledge? A Yes, they are. Q And you indicate that this shows, for those three years, which bank accounts your mother had? 25 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A The tax returns themselves do not show that, but also in this very same stapled pack are actual source documents from the financial institutions where she had accounts, and those show the exact -- Q There are THE COURT: Let him finish his answer or the record will be confused. The exact what? THE WITNESS: Account numbers. THE COURT: And banks? THE WITNESS: Yes, sir. THE COURT: Okay. Anything further, Mr. Flower? MR. FLOWER: Yes, Your Honor. BY MR. FLOWER: Q And do these reflect any change in bank accounts? A She did not change bank accounts. Although for anyone looking at the record, let me just say in the case of the one, the bank account number changes. That's because of the practice of what now is Citizens Bank. With my father's passing, when it went to her individual name, the number changed, I believe. Q Does your family have a tradition of gifting from one generation to another? A Yes, it does. 26 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q And following your father's death, did your mother institute a similar practice? A Yes. My paternal grandmother, Margarite, who we would have known as Ma, followed that practice in her later years, and following my father's death my mother contemplated and ended up deciding to do the same. Q And Dr. Wettstein relied in his opinion upon the information that you had compelled your mother to pay for your daughter's college tuition. Do you recall that? A I read that, yes. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 23 was marked for identification.) BY MR. FLOWER: Q I'll show you what's been marked as Respondents' Exhibit Number 23, which has 3 pages. Would you identify each of those pages for the Court? A Yes. The top page is Harris Savings Bank check number 1005 ln the amount of $9,722.00 made payable to the University of Delaware. That was for my daughter's spring tuition. And when my mother presented that check to me she made mention of the fact that she recalled my dad telling me shortly after I married my wife that he had never known either of his grandparents, and that while we were under no pressure to have grandchildren, that the moment we did he would be retiring from teaching at the Carlisle High 27 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 School. My daughter Devyn is the older of my two children, and following his death when she presented this to me she said how much she thought that would be meaningful not only to her but to my father in that context. It's the only payment my mother ever made for college tuition. Q Around the -- would you identify the other checks in this exhibit? A Yes. In the same round of gifting, if you will, the second check on the middle page is from my mother's Mellon Bank account, check number 1047, which is made payable to my brother Philip Coolidge in the amount of $11,000. Q And the third page? A The third page is an image of a check from my mother's Harris account, check number 1009, made payable to my sister in the amount of $10,000, and that rounded out for her that round of comparable gifting. Q Dr. Wettstein also assumed that you had transferred your mother to a personal care home? THE COURT: I'm sorry. That you had what? BY MR. FLOWER: Q You had transferred your mother to a personal care home? Was that an action that you took? A My mother alone decided where she lived. 28 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 29 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q And how long was she with your mother on that occasion? A Perhaps five, ten minutes, something like that. Q Do you know if your sister visited your mother at any time between her admittance to the Hospice room on March 16 and your mother's death on March 24, 2004? A None that I'm aware of. Q And did she attend the memorial service on March 27th? A No, she did not. Q There was some suggestion in earlier testimony that you wanted the house sold to a particular friend of your's. Were you -- did you know Will Gabig well before he bought the house? A I recognized the name, but I don't believe I ever met him prior to meeting him when he came THE COURT: Prior to what? You never met him prior to what? THE WITNESS: Prior to his coming to ask about the availability of the house for sale. THE COURT: All right. BY MR. FLOWER: Q Is there any property of your mother's that should be a part of her estate that your sister retains in 30 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 her possession? A My understanding is she has the silver that she testified to earlier. My mother mentioned that other things were in her possession, but I don't have any knowledge of any other specific items. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibit No. 24 was marked for identification.) BY MR. FLOWER: Q I'm going to show you what's marked as Respondents' Exhibit Number 24. THE COURT: What was Respondents' Exhibit 23? THE WITNESS: The canceled checks, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. Mr. Flower. MR. FLOWER: Thank you, Your Honor. BY MR. FLOWER: Q This begins with a letter of October 7, 2003. Would you indicate the gist of this letter? A Yes. My mother had a CAT scan done I believe on February 13th following her fall. Dr. Jurgensen evaluated my mother on April 30th. In conversations with my sister after that evaluation, she asked if I would provide the CAT scans to her. THE COURT: I'm sorry. I just can't hear you. She being who, and what did she do? She asked 31 1 something? 2 THE WITNESS: May I begin over to make sure I 3 get it right? 4 THE COURT: Please. 5 THE WITNESS: My mother had a CAT scan taken 6 on February 13th following her fall at Green Ridge Village 7 that occurred on February 4th. Dr. Jurgensen evaluated my 8 mother on April 30th, and in the course of that 9 Dr. Jurgensen reviewed that CAT scan. I telephoned my 10 sister subsequent to that. We had, I believe, several 11 conversations, and in the course of one of those my sister 12 told me that her son, Joseph, would be having an evaluation 13 by a Dr. Jeffrey Wildbern (phonetic) within the next few 14 weeks and to ask if she could -- my sister asked me if she 15 could borrow my mother's CAT scans so that her son's, 16 Joseph's, doctor could look at them in the course of that 17 evaluation. 18 I hadn't interpreted my mother's instructions 19 of March 24th that said no information was to be shared to 20 not literally include each and every piece of everything, 21 including the CAT scan. So on the assumption I was 22 following her instructions, I sent the CAT scan to my 23 sister. That is shown on the Fed-Ex tracing document which 24 is in this stapled pack. 25 32 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 BY MR. FLOWER: Q Did you tell your mother you had sent the CAT scan? A No, I didn't. I -- well, I subsequently did. Q Yes. How did she react? A I was prompted. Well, she was very upset that I had misinterpreted the literal meaning of her instructions, and she basically read me the riot act that no information meant no information, period. Q All right. Now, referring to this exhibit, the third page is the confirmation by Federal Express that you sent this CAT scan to your sister; is that correct? A Yes, it is. Q And you several times through counsel requested that the CAT scan be returned; is that correct? A At my mother's instruction, that is correct. Q And page 2 of the exhibit is a letter from Abom and Kutulakis dated October 20th, 2003. Is that essentially refusing to return the CAT scan? A It indicates my sister intends to keep them so long as she finds it necessary. Q And to this date have those medical records been returned to you? A No, they have not. Q And do you continue to request that they be 33 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 returned? A That was my mother's wish. MR. FLOWER: Cross-examine. CROSS EXAMINATION BY MR. THOMAS: Q I wasn't going to start here, Mr. Coolidge, but I'm a little confused. You testified today that the silver set was property of the estate? A I'm just recalling back to the March testimony where my sister indicated it was not intended as a gift for her. That's the basis for my statement. Q But your mother had told you that, in fact, it was a gift for her, right? A My mother had said my sister had the silver. I interpreted that to mean it was a gift. Q So that we don't have to go to court later on, what's your position today? Is it a gift and does it belong to Julia or does it belong to the estate? What's your position? A My sister had the conversation at the time the silver was given to her. If she says it wasn't a gift, that would seem to be the most direct knowledge of whether it was or it wasn't. I don't have any other more direct information. Q Okay. Now, you were given a Power of 34 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Attorney from your mother on December 20th, 2002, correct? A That's correct. Q Previously in February of 2002, without being requested to do so by your mother, you attempted to get your mother to sign a Power of Attorney in favor of you; is that correct? A That's positively wrong. Q Well, the records at Chambersburg Hospital indicate that you went there around 11:00 at night in February of 2002 to have your mother sign a Power of Attorney. Do you recall doing that? A I don't recall the records you're referring to, but I certainly never went at 11:00 at night to ask my mother to sign a Power of Attorney. I'm happy to recall for you the exact events as I recall them. My mother went in February to Chambersburg Hospital. I went to visit her on the day of her admission in the emergency room while she was being admitted. At one point a member of the staff of Chambersburg Hospital came and had some words with me. Among the questions that was asked of me was whether or not I knew if my mother had a Power of Attorney. I did not. They suggested that that was an appropriate document for somebody at her point in life to have. And so in the course of conversations with my mother later I conveyed that, and she agreed, as we had talked about it 35 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 several times before, not only we in terms of my mother and me, but also my mother and my brother, that at some point that was something that she knew that she would have to do, and through that conversation with my mother, it was agreed that we would ask Bob Frey, her attorney, for just some standard boilerplate so that she could familiarize herself with what that would involve. We did then talk about whether or not that's something that she ought to do while she was at Chambersburg, if she wished to do it, or later. (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibit No. 15 was marked for identification.) BY MR. THOMAS: Q I'm showing you what I've just had marked as Petitioner's Exhibit Number 15. Can you identify what that document is? A It's a document that's titled Immediate, General, Durable, Healthcare Power of Attorney. Q And does it have your mother's name on it? A Underneath the signature line it has her name. Q And does it indicate who the Power of Attorney is? A It has my name, Thomas E. Coolidge. Q Would you look at the last page, please? A I'm looking at it. 36 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q Look at the top. What's the date on it? A February of 2002. Q And your testimony here in court today is that you deny -- you absolutely state that it is false that you took that document to the Chambersburg Hospital and asked your mother to sign it? A That's not what I said. Q Oh, well, that's what I thought you said. A That's not what I said. Q Did you take it to her in February of 2002 and ask her to sign it? A Yes, I did. Let me review for you again. I did not ask her to sign it. She asked to understand what the document would contain. We asked Mr. Frey to prepare the document. I took the document to her. Q All right. Before you go through this speech again THE COURT: Wait. We need to let him finish his answer. What was the rest of the answer? THE WITNESS: I did not ask her to sign it. BY MR. THOMAS: Q Are you done? A Yes, sir. Q Why did you ask the nurse's station if they had a notary on staff to notarize that document? 37 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A Well, as I explained, my mother and I were trying to understand the mechanics, if she wanted to do it, of whether or not it was possible to do. Q And your mother had just been admitted that day on a psychiatric admission, correct? A No, in the sense that this would not have been taken up that same day. Again, I was at Chambersburg Hospital when the staff asked about it. I'm not sure if this would have been I don't even think this was probably the next day because it would have taken Mr. Frey's office some time to actually pullout the boilerplate for me to take up. So it would have been on a subsequent day. Q All right. And absolutely not at 11:00 p.m. at night, right? A I don't believe it would have been at 11 p.m. at night. Q Well, was it or wasn't it? A To the best of my recollection it was not. I don't recall ever visiting my mother at 11:00 p.m. at night. Q All right. Well, eventually -- A Unless perhaps that was the day -- I don't know the hour of her admittance in the emergency room, but certainly on any subsequent day it would not have been at 11 p.m. 38 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q So now you're not sure if it was 11 or not; is that right? A I'm not sure which day you're referring to. Q Okay. But in December she did sign a Power of Attorney and named you the attorney in fact, right? A Yes, that is correct. Q And since your becoming her Power of Attorney, you have prepared this document, which is Respondents' Exhibit Number 9? A Yes, sir. Q And this document contains all your performances and records with regard to being her Power of Attorney; 1S that correct? A I would probably stop short of all, but it certainly is intended to provide what I believe would be a comprehensive reporting of the major activities I undertook on her behalf. Q wouldn't it? A Q thing? A Q correct? Well, financially it would show everything, It shows all of her accounts? I believe it does, yes. Statements from her accounts, that sort of That's correct. You were one of the executors of her estate, 39 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A With my brother, yes. Q And you either prepared or had prepared a form 706 to file an estate tax return with the federal government? A That actually was prepared by Bob Frey at our request, yes. Q Okay. And on that form 706 under the schedule that lists accounts receivable, cash, and that sort of thing, there's mention of an outstanding $43,000 mortgage that you and Beth owed to your mother Eleanor Coolidge, correct? A That is correct. Q Now A I'm not sure of the amount, but we certainly have an outstanding mortgage that dates back some twenty years that's roughly in that amount. Q All right. The balance is roughly in that amount? A That's correct. Q Okay. And you were paying the 8 percent interest on that mortgage? A That is correct. Q Before I go onto the next thing, when the interest rates went down to like 4 1/2 percent, why didn't you ever get it refinanced? 40 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A The truth of the matter is I asked my mother about that or more or less told her we intended to have it refinanced, and she became upset at the prospect of having less income. So we decided that we wouldn't pursue the reduction. Q Okay. So as a favor to her, you didn't reduce it? A Well, the truth of the matter is for some period of the some 20 or so years the interest rates probably were some percentage points higher than 8 percent, and she didn't ask to raise it, and so with her concern it certainly seemed eminently fair to me that we not reduce it. Q All right. A And that's correct, we did not. Q Now, I'm not an accountant, and quite frankly I didn't read this entire thing because I wouldn't have understood half of what I was reading, but I did look at a lot of bank statements and record keeping by you, and I couldn't find any record of you continuing to make mortgage payments after you became the Power of Attorney. Could you find them in here for me? A Well, they're there, yeah. This is a conversation I also had with Mike Devlin because of the there were into my mother's checking accounts routinely hand deposited two sources of income. One being my mortgage, 41 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 which was a fixed amount of $371.00 per month. The other was a usually small amount of -- I'm not sure if you would call it interest or dividend that she got from Evergreen investments. Q There's some electronic transfer deposits from various investments in there? A No. These were hand deposited. There also were electronic ones, but two hand deposits. Q All I'm interested in is the mortgage, if you can find them for me. A It would be tab 12. THE COURT: What exhibit are we looking at? MR. THOMAS: Exhibit Number 9 of Respondents. Number 9. THE WITNESS: Is there a particular month you're interested in? MR. THOMAS: Everyone from the time you became Power of Attorney until the time that she died. THE WITNESS: The first would be on the statement of December 29th. THE COURT: December 29th of what year? THE WITNESS: 2002. BY MR. THOMAS: Q Can you show me there? A Actually I saw an amount. I don't believe 42 1 2 3 ,4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 that is it. So let me just -- actually it is there. On December 16th there is an amount of $385.55, which would be the sum of the mortgage and the deposit from Evergreen investments. Q Oh, it isn't there as specific records showing the mortgage payment? A Not on this bank statement, no. Q Well, is there -- do you have any record that we can look at that would show $371 and whatever the cents was coming from Tom and Beth Coolidge to Eleanor Coolidge from December 12th, 2002? A Yeah, I can supply it. That's not in this binder. I can do that through canceled checks or something. Q Well, that's your accounting of what you did as Power of Attorney. Why aren't the deposits recorded in there? A I didn't provide that in here. Q Didn't you submit that book to prove that you did everything correctly? A I didn't submit it with an intention to prove anything. I intended it to be a good accounting of what I did. Q Okay. So the truth of the matter is that we can't use this exhibit to establish that you made those mortgage payments, can we? 43 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A You would not find that in that document. Q And is there any document to establish that you've made any of those mortgage payments since your mother died? A I can provide canceled checks and that kind of thing, but there's nothing in that document. Q Who did you make the payments to since your mother died? A They continue to be deposited in that same account to this day, although it's no longer Waypoint, it's now Sovereign, and the number has changed, but it's that same successor account. Q Okay. Your mother entered the Green Ridge Village Nursing Home on December the 3rd, 2002, correct? A That is correct. Q And your letter of October 7, which has already been identified. I believe you have it up here. You have in your hands there Respondents' Exhibit Number? A Seventeen. Q Seventeen. That's the letter dated October 7, 2003, and who is that letter addressed to? A Jason Kutulakis, my mother's attorney -- my sister's attorney. Q And who wrote the letter? A I did. 44 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q Now, you mention in that letter that an event occurred with your mother on February 4th, 2003, that resulted in a change in your mother's mental status. That event, was that the fall you were talking about? A It's called a fall. Let me just, for the record, be clear about my understanding of what happened that day. Green Ridge Village has handrails down the hallway, I believe on both sides, but certainly on my mother's side of the hallway. Her room is, I believe, two doors from the assisted living unit dining room. On her way to dinner that day, as she walked from her room to the dining room, she experienced some unsteadiness, and whether she sat down or sort of fell down, she had a hold of the handrail and basically ended up sitting in the hallway. We've called that a fall sometimes, but that was this event. Q Okay. Is that the event that in April triggered her going to see Dr. Jurgensen? A It was -- the April visit was a follow-up to that event, yes. I mean prior to February 4th my mother didn't have any health situation noticeably of a kind that would give rise to any concern like that. From February 4th on she clearly had had something that had happened, and so, yes, she had a number of visits subsequent to February 4th with her personal care physician, including an emergency room visit as a result of that. 45 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 She didn't seem to be progressing as might be thought towards recovery, and at some point in April it was Renee Kreamer, I believe, who suggested to me that perhaps a visit with a neurologist would be helpful in understanding what happened as well, and upon her advice, she referred Dr. Jurgensen, who I know is highly thought of in the community, and I arranged, at her urging, the April 30th visit with Dr. Jurgensen. Q Now, between February 4th, the event, and April 30th when she saw Dr. Jurgensen, you had numerous telephone calls from Julia inquiring about her mother, correct? A Between -- remind me of the dates, please. Q Between February 4th, the time of the fall, and April 30th, when your mother went to see Dr. Jurgensen. A That would be correct. Q Okay. And Julia was inquiring -- she said I talked to mom, and, you know, she doesn't sound like she's all there. I'm not getting -- making any sense. recall Julia making statements like that to you? A We had a number of conversations, yes. Do you Q Okay. And what was your reply to Julia when she would say, you know, I can't understand mom? A I don't recall the specific conversation we had, but clearly my mother had points during that period of 46 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 time, especially prior to the adjustment of her medication, where she had some days that were better than others, and clearly on some days when she was not well, we were concerned. THE COURT: I need to break into a recess for the mid-morning break at this point. We will reconvene in a few minutes. (Whereupon, a recess was taken at 10:37 a.m.) AFTER RECESS (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibit No. 16 was marked for identification) (Whereupon, Thomas E. Coolidge resumed the stand.) THE COURT: Mr. Thomas. MR. THOMAS: Thank you, Your Honor. CROSS EXAMINATION (CONTINUED) BY MR. THOMAS: Q Mr. Coolidge, do you still have exhibit -- Respondents' Exhibit 17 there in front of you? A Yes, I do. Q Okay. If you look down just a little below half-way through the second paragraph. A Okay. Q It says, I am pleased to say that her mental abilities are you with me? 47 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A Yes, I am. Q I am pleased to say that her mental abilities have rebounded nicely from the more difficult weeks just after the event. And we discussed already that the event was February 4th? A That's correct. Q Okay. Now, what did you mean by weeks, difficult weeks? about? What period of time were yoe talking A I didn't intend the word weeks within a precise meaning, but clearly after her fall on February 4th she went through a period of physical decline and adjustment, and had some periods of time when her thinking was less clear at some moments than other moments. And as she passed through that, she returned to a better place. As I said, there are more days than not thereafter she was more like herself, if you will. Q And when she got to the point where you say that she was more like herself, would you give the Court some indication of when you would have -- when that would have been? A Well, I think throughout the period largely -- and you had to have more patience with my mother because her speaking ability after that event clearly declined. So she wasn't able to express herself either as articulately or 48 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 clearly as she was before the 4th of February when she spoke in what I think most people would consider to be perfectly normal articulation. So it was harder for her to speak. But I think with respect to your question about time, if I understood you correctly, in the -- in the May, July period when her medications were adjusted -- they were working on her medication all throughout this period. And with certainty after they sort of got the medications better sorted, she clearly was substantially better on virtually all days. And in between that period of time there was a bit more of a mix, depending upon whether the medications were working well or not or how she was adjusting. Q All right. Well, the medications started on May the 28th of 2003, according to your timeline. A I believe it was on May 28th that Dr. Brazel prescribed Aricept, but she was on medications throughout that period. Q Well, is the Aricept the medication that you're referring to as the one that A It's one of them, yes. I mean in that May, June, July timeframe as they began to get a better understanding of what was working well or not, she stabilized, I suppose, in a sense of the use of the word, that she achieved a more consistent -- 49 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q Okay. And that stabilization lasted for how long? A I'd say, in my estimation, into 2004. Q Okay. All right. Now, I want to show you what I've had marked as Petitioner's Exhibit 16. Do you recall having received that email from Julia? A I don't, but I clearly see it. Q Okay. But in that e-mail she's clearly seeking some information from you with regard to how her mother's doing; is that right? The middle paragraph. A Well, yes, the middle paragraph talks about my mother recalling her fainting spell and asking about was the CAT scan normal or at least indicative of no recent brain event. Q And right before that she says she's finding it frustrating communicating with mOID. A She does. Q Did you respond to that request from Julia to answer her questions? A Not by e-mail.aslrecall. but as we talked earlier we were in fairly regular telephone communications through the period. Q Did you ever advise Julia -- when she would ask about coming down to see her mom, did you ever advise her that you didn't think that was necessary? 50 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A Each and every telephone call we ever had, I left with her whether she came or not. THE COURT: Each and every phone call you ever had you did what? THE WITNESS: I left with my sister the decision as to whether she came or not. I mean it wasn't for me to say nor did I ever say. BY MR. THOMAS: Q Now, on March the 24th, according to the records from Green Ridge Village, that's the date that Dr. Carvel, who works with Dr. Myers, would have done the initial evaluation of your mother. Your mother already had a psychiatrist, a geriatric psychiatrist by the name of Dr. Hegarty. Is there any reason why Dr. Hegarty was not chosen as the doctor to come see your mother at Green Ridge Village? A Yes. Q And what is that reason? A My mother wished to be treated at Green Ridge Village if she could, and we understood from Green Ridge Village that Dr. Hegarty didn't see patients there, but they had a psychiatrist who did, and my mother expressed interest in seeing if she would be satisfied with that psychiatrist's services. Q Did you ever contact Dr. Hegarty's office to 51 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 see if he would make visits at the Green Ridge Village? A No. We relied on the communication with the staff at Green Ridge Village, but you will find in the records that I notified Dr. Hegarty that my mother was being treated by a different psychiatrist at Green Ridge Village. (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibit No. 17 was marked for identification.) BY MR. THOMAS: Q I'm showing you what I've just had marked as Petitioner's Exhibit Number 17. Could you like at that? Can you identify that document? A It's on the letterhead of Summit Behavioral Health Services dated May 15th, 2003, from Wanda Flood, RN/James Hegarty, M.D. Q It's addressed to your mother, correct? A That's correct. Q And it was responded to by you in handwriting, correct? A That's correct. Q Is that your handwriting on there? A Yes, it is. Q Is that what you mean by when you say you notified Dr. Hegarty's office that your mother had another psychiatrist? A Yes. The content of the letter is noting 52 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 that my mother hasn't been seen recently and asking if she was satisfied with their services, and I respond hello, my mom currently resides at Green Ridge Village in Newville. Recently she has experienced physical decline, as discussed in the accompanying visit summary by Dr. Jurgensen, which would have been his letter of April 30th. THE COURT: Which would have what? THE WITNESS: Which would have been the letter that has been entered into evidence dated April 30th. THE COURT: All right. THE WITNESS: And then I continue, for the time being, my mom does not require your services further. Should this change, we'll be in touch. Many thanks for all you've done, Tom Coolidge, Power of Attorney, with my telephone number. BY MR. THOMAS: Q Okay. So you never told them that your mother had another psychiatrist, and you just told them that we'll be in touch with you if we need you later; is that correct? A It says just what I read. Q Okay. Did you have any particular reason yourself why you did not want your mother to continue to treat with Dr. Hegarty? A None whatsoever. That was entirely her 53 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 choice. Q Had you had the opportunity to review Dr. Hegarty's notes that were contained in the Green Ridge Village medical records? A At that point in time, no. Q You hadn't looked at his notes to see anything about your mother's psychiatric condition? A I had not. Q And the date on that letter, if you would agree with me, on Exhibit Number 17 for Petitioner's, is May 15, 2003? A That's correct. Q All right. Now, so let's get back to Dr. Carvel. He does his initial evaluation on March 24, 2003, and he makes a diagnosis of -- a provisional diagnosis of dementia. Do you recall that? A I believe so. Q Now, on that same date a new HIPAA form is executed by your mother. Do you know what a HIPAA form is? A Yes, I do. Q Could you explain to me what it is. to make sure before I ask you this question. A It's a privacy form. It's an expression of a person's wishes about who he or she does or doesn't want to I want have access to certain information. 54 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q And I want to show you petitioner's Exhibit 18. Can you identify that? A It's a document entitled PHI/Presbyterian Homes Authorization to Use or Disclose Health Information. Q And in the first paragraph it identifies those persons who are entitled to receive information concerning your mother's condition; is that correct? A The actual wording is persons authorized to use or disclose information. Q All right. And who are the persons who are identified on that document? A There are four names, Eleanor Coolidge, Tom Coolidge, Beth Coolidge, Philip Coolidge. Q And Julia's name is not listed in there as a person who's authorized to obtain information; isn't that correct? A That is correct. Q Now, the event happened on February the 4th. Your mother continued to decline and get worse until they started changing her medications on May the 28th. Who made the decision on March the 24th that Julia was not entitled to receive any medical records concerning your mother? A First let me clarify one thing you said, that if it's meant to refer back to what I said, I either didn't communicate well or you didn't understand me properly. Her 55 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 mental state from the time of her fall through to the time when she was consistently better wasn't a decline or any kind of steady state of inability to continue to function. She had some better days and she had some worse days. It was generally a troubling period. With respect to this document, I had nothing to do with it. My recollection is Renee Kreamer testified that this was something she in her role as head of the administrative staff of the assistant living unit had filled out herself in direct conversation with my mother. I had nothing to do with this form. Q Well, do you dispute that Dr. Jurgensen on April 30th states that your mother has severe -- and let me find the words here without my glasses. Serious deterioration in cognitive and intellectual functioning? MR. FLOWER: I'm going to object, Your Honor. We have a lot of medical evidence and he's now asking the witness to give his medical interpretation. I just think he's asking for a medical opinion. THE COURT: Okay. Mr. Thomas. MR. THOMAS: Well, Your Honor, he's testified that basically his mother is -- during this time period, which would include the time period that Dr. Jurgensen saw her, was -- you know, just one day she wasn't good and another day she was good, and she was able to make 56 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 decisions, and I believe that conflicts with Dr. Jurgensen's report. THE COURT: All right. Now, this is a report that has already been placed in the record? MR. THOMAS: Yes, Your Honor. It's Petitioner's Exhibit Number 7. THE COURT: All right. And you're asking this witness whether he agrees with Dr. Jurgensen's opinion? MR. THOMAS: Yes. THE COURT: It seems to me that's asking him for a medical opinion. I'll let you ask the question, but I think it's of marginal value at best. BY MR. THOMAS: Q Well, let me back up a minute. You gave the history to Dr. Jurgensen concerning your mother's mental condition when you met with Dr. Jurgensen, correct? A He asked a series of questions, and we tried to help him as best we could with some background. Q Okay. And do you recall telling him that your mother had been undergoing a gradual deterioration In mental and movement function for over a year? A I don't recall that, but I have seen it in the letter. Q Okay. MR. THOMAS: I'll let Dr. Jurgensen's letter 57 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 speak for itself, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. BY MR. THOMAS: Q Now, Julia was the only one in your family that had a medical degree; is that correct? A That is correct. Q And even periodically you would inquire of Julia to help you with, you know, any medical questions that you had, you asked her to do research and things like that for you, correct? A On occasion I did, yes. Q As recently as April 2003 she was doing some research for you; isn't that correct? A My son had at that point in time a medical condition known as ITP, and in one telephone conversation she offered to do some internet research, and she did. Q And then she -- she even e-mailed you the information that she recovered as a result of her research, right? A It was either bye-mail -- it may well have been e-mail. She sent it, yes. Q And at this point, on March the 24th when that HIPAA form was signed, there had been no disputes between Julia and your mother while she was in the nursing home, had there? 58 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 mother. A You would have to ask my sister and my I'm not aware of any specific instance that you might be referring to. Q So your testimony is that you have no idea why Julia was omitted from that HIPAA form as being a person authorized to obtain medical information concerning her mother? A I know that my mother's position routinely consistently was that she did not want my sister listed on those forms. Q All right. May 24, 2003, do you recall Julia and you're going to disclose to her about this banjo clock? What is your reason for wanting to disclose to her about the banjo clock? A Well, the purpose of the call wasn't to talk about the banjo clock. The banjo clock was one part of a more wide range of conversation. The banjo clock was only mentioned anecdotally by me as a point to make clear that we needed good communication because we were approaching the sale of my mother's home, and we would be needing to get rid of for her some personal property, and that good communication was important so we didn't have miscommunication, and that banjo clock came to mind as something that I knew I was aware of. I suspected she was not aware of it, and that we would be better off having a 59 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 good exchange of information so that there were no surprises. Q All right. Now, prior to that telephone call you knew that Julia's father had, in fact, told Julia that she could have that clock, and, in fact, he taped her name on tape stating this is to go to Julia, correct? A I did not know that at that point in time. Q But you did find out later? A I subsequently found out, yes. Q Okay. And so that you knew that when you mentioned the banjo clock that that was going to cause some consternation for Julia? A Actually no, I didn't, because, you know, my mother at that point in time was clear that my sister, since my father's death, had received a variety of things. It specifically mentions the silver. And, you know, that my mother thought all of that would be viewed as being fair in the context of things. Q Okay. Well, let me stop right there then so that we don't have to do anything later. Your mother did say then that the silver was a gift to Julia? A She did not say it was a gift. She said my sister had the silver. I interpreted what she said to mean it was a gift, but she never explicitly said that, I don't believe. 60 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q Okay. Now, Julia got upset about the banjo clock? A Not in the initial call, but in the second call. Q And when she had an opportunity to think about it, she called you back? A Yes. Q Now, looking at your graph timeline, Respondents' Exhibit No. 18. You indicate in there the first thing on May 27th that Julia challenges the gifting decision. Were you making reference to her telephone call to -- A That's not on the document that you handed me. THE COURT: It's not what? THE WITNESS: It's not on the document he handed me. BY MR. THOMAS: Q Oh, you have another one of these? A You're referring to this one, I believe. Is this the one you're referring to? Q Okay. That would be Respondents' Exhibit 19? A Yes. Q I apologize for that. The first entry on there, May 27, it says challenges gifting decision. You're 61 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 talking about Julia, correct? A That is correct. Q Okay. And the May 27th would have been the phone call that she had with Tom Frey -- or Bob Frey, the attorney, correct? A She had called me as well. Q On the 27th of May? A I'm not sure if it was on the 27th, but that would have been the date, I believe, on which I would have spoken with my mother about it. Q Now, here's where I'm having a little trouble. You've testified that your mother is pretty competent. She's able to think. She's able to talk. She's able to communicate, and you go to your mother on May 27th, and you explain to her that Julia's having trouble with this banjo clock, and she doesn't like it or whatever you tell her, correct? Is that correct? A What I would have told her at that point in time -- I had no conversation with her on that subject until after the completion of several telephone calls with my sister, including two in which she hung up with me, her conversation with Attorney Frey in which she hung up on him, and in the one conversation with me she ended, well, I'll see you in court. At that point, you know, I told my mother that we had had a series of conversations, and recounted the 62 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 gist of those, as well as the one with Mr. Frey. Q All right. Now, I've got the impression from your testimony and everybody's testimony about your mother that she was like the matriarch. She made decisions. She was firm. She was not a gray issue person, but she was pretty much black and white in issues. Is that a fair assessment? A My mother had more spunk per pound or as much spunk per pound as any human being that I've ever met. Q Okay. Why didn't you suggest to your mother back in May when she was fully competent, in your estimation, to call Julia and say, Julia, I gave the clock to Philip? So that's it, end of story? A Well, I think what you need to understand, and what I think we in the family understand is nobody told my mother to do anything. At that point in time my sister had unfettered access to my mother the same as all the rest of us, and my mother decides for herself what she does or doesn't do. Q Wouldn't that have cleared the entire issue with regard to the banjo clock, if your mother had called Julia and told her that she decided to give it to you? A I don't know. Q Now, that phone call -- those phone calls that occurred in the May 24 to May 27th time period of 2003, 63 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 that is the last telephone co~~unications that you had with Julia; isn't that correct? A I'm not recalling any others, that's correct. Q Okay. And you testified that one of your goals in the May 24th telephone call was to try and establish good communication between all of the siblings? A Yes. Q Yet you never called her once after that to try and work things out to try and get the communication onto the footing that you wanted it to be originally? A My judgment was it was better to have some time pass. Again, I remind you she had hung up on me twice. She had hung up on Mr. Frey. She ended my conversation, before she hung up, with see you in court. You know, in those circumstances my judgment was that it would be good to let some time pass. Q How much time? A Well, it was July 2nd when she then visited, and things actually deteriorated rather than got better subsequently. Q All right. Now, the July 2nd visit that Julia had with your mother, you're not present for that visit, right? A That's absolutely right. Q And you've heard both Nurse Kreamer and Julia 64 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 testify that the visit went quite well? A I have. Q Then the next morning you get a telephone call from Nurse Kreamer, and there's a big commotion going on at Green Ridge Village regarding Julia and your mother, correct? A The telephone call I received -- I mean I don't know if I would characterize it as a big commotion. Renee Kreamer clearly told me that my mother was in a state of very high anxiety and was fearful that Julia was coming back to take her to Massachusetts and she didn't want to go. THE COURT: I'm sorry. I just can't hear what you're saying. If you'll just speak up a little bit, even though the microphone is very poor in the courtroom I think I can hear. THE WITNESS: Would you like me to repeat that? THE COURT: If you would, please. THE WITNESS: The telephone call I received from Renee Kreamer advised me that my mother was in a state of very high anxiety and that she was fearful that Julia was returning on July 3rd to take her to Massachusetts and she did not want to go to Massachusetts. BY MR. THOMAS: Q And you immediately made arrangements to go 65 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 to Green Ridge Village that morning and see your mother, correct? A Yes. Q You also telephoned Bob Frey, your mother's attorney, correct? A I attempted to reach Bob Frey. I couldn't reach Bob Frey. I then tried to reach Rob Frey, his son who's also a member of the firm. I don't believe I got Rob Frey either. Neither of them were in at that early hour of the morning on that day. Q What was your reason for calling them? A To seek advice. Q Had you spoken with your sister yet? A No. Q Had Green Ridge Village told you that your sister was there trying to remove her from the nursing home? A No. The news that I had gotten in that telephone conversation from Renee Kreamer was that they were expecting my sister back that day. Q You also called your attorney, Jim Flower, correct? A Well, at that point in time we didn't have an attorney, if you will. Q But you called Jim Flower? A Yes. I first called my brother, and we had a 66 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 brief conversation, and in quick review of things from May to that point in time, we concluded that it would be appropriate and timely that we get representation, and not wanting to do anything that might represent or be construed as representing a conflict, we decided to get separate counsel apart from the firm of Frey and Tiley, and so, yes, at that point we called Jim Flower. Q And you told him the information you had about the call you had received from Nurse Kreamer? A Correct. Q And then you instructed him to call Dr. Brazel's office to make sure that Dr. Brazel had a record of this? A I don't recall that. Q Well, it's in Dr. Brazel's records for July 3. July 3, James Flower, attorney, left message on voice mail that patient's daughter from Massachusetts tried to take patient out of Green Ridge Nursing Home to go to Massachusetts. However, the nursing home would not allow her to do so. Mr. Flower had just called to give us a heads-up. Did you tell him to make that telephone call? A I don't know what time of day that would have been, and I don't have any particular recollection at this point in time of that specific request. Q You weren't trying to build any kind of 67 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 record, were you? A Believe me, I wasn't smart enough at the time to do that. Q Well, you were smart enough at the time -- if we look at the records from Green Ridge Village Nursing Home, there was only one person that connected with Eleanor Coolidge, that has any contact with Green Ridge Village between the end of Julia's visit and the time that you received that telephone call. Do you know who that one person is? A I do not. Q It's you, Tom Coolidge. A I did not connect with my mother in that time period. Q The records indicate that you made it a point to tell the people at the desk to make sure that no medical records were released to Julia? A Happy to recreate that for you. Q I'd be happy to hear it. A Good. My mother executed that document on March 24th. I've already explained that on my own interpretation of her wishes I had given my sister a CAT scan. My mother instructed me that that was -- my interpretation was inconsistent with her wish and she didn't wish my sister Julia to have that information and that I was 68 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 to make sure in my dealings with people that there was no ambiguity about that. With awareness that my sister was going to Green Ridge Village, I was asked to make sure that they were clear about that. I testified in March, you'll recall perhaps, that I tore the ACL in my left knee in late June. I was not at Green Ridge Village from the point of my injuring my knee until the 3rd of July. I do know in the progress notes there's mention that I called on July 2nd, and if I called on July 2nd as opposed to July 1st, I probably was a day late in making sure that it was clear to them that she wished that her personal instructions of March 24 were carried out without any possible misinterpretations such as I had made. Q Okay. So I'm -- let me make sure I got this right. You said that you were asked to make sure -- and I'm assuming based on what you said last that it was your mother who asked you to make sure that Julia didn't get any records? A That's correct, but that would date back in time, sir, to something -- some good weeks before July. Dr. Jurgensen saw my mother in April. The CAT scans went up in mid-May. Q The records clearly show that your communication with Green Ridge Village was after your 69 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 daughter's -- or your sister's visit with your mother July 2nd? A Could well have been. Q Back in April your mother didn't know that Julia was going to come visit her on July 2nd, did she? A I don't know at what point my sister and my mother talked about her coming down around July 4th. Q Okay. Now, you really haven't had much conversation or any conversation with your sister other than well, let me strike all that. On July 3rd, when you went to Green Ridge Village Nursing Home, you arrived there before Julia, correct? A Correct. Q And then you were In the room with your mother when Julia came in? A Correct. Q And Julia denied that she ever said that she was going to take your mother to Massachusetts, didn't she? A Yes, she did. Q Did you believe her, Julia? A I had no way of knowing. (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibit No. 19 was marked for identification.) BY MR. THOMAS: Q I want to show you what I've just had marked 70 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 as Petitioner's Exhibit 19. Can you identify that document? A Yes. It's on the letterhead of Saidis, Shuff, Flower & Lindsay, and it's a letter dated August 20th, 2003, from Jim Flower to ~y sister Julia. Q And a portion of that letter is basically instructing Julia not to contact either you or Philip directly, but to go through Jim Flower's office henceforth; is that correct? A Yes. Again, reflecting on how things had gone from May through the visits in July, and in hopes that we could find some way of effecting meaningful and civil communications, we thought it better to do it in writing and through counsel. Q Well, you hadn't had any communication with her since May 27th other than that July 3 encounter at the nursing home, right? A That's correct. Q And Philip had not had any conversations with her at all, to your knowledge, right? A Not to my knowledge, but I can't speak for him. Q Okay. But that letter of August 20th effectively cuts off all communication that Julia can have with either you or your brother concerning her mother? A I wouldn't characterize it as cut off all. 71 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 It actually in a sense invites it, just through him. Q If I understand this correctly, she's not going to get any information from you, she's not going to get any information -- A That's not correct. That's not correct. Q And she's not allowed to get any information from Green Ridge Village? A With respect to what information she gets from Green Ridge Village, that's entirely up to my mother. I had no ability at any point in this process to decide for my mother what information she chose to share or to whom she wished to share it, nor did I ever refuse for us to receive requests, and hopefully be in a position where we might arrive at some mutual acceptable way to exchange information that my mother permitted us to exchange. Julia had at that point in time complete access to my mother personally. Q Well, you made reference in Respondents' Exhibit Number 15 -- is that there in front of you? A I don't believe so. Thank you. Q That's the letter dated September 23, 2003? A That's correct. Q Is that a letter from you? A Yes, it is. Q A And who is it addressed to? This is the letter that was addressed to both 72 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 my brother Philip and my sister Julia. Q Okay. And is that the date on which your mother decided to sell her home? A No. My mother -- I'm not sure, to be honest, exactly at what precise date my mother made that decision. It clearly was made likely even while my father still was alive in terms of how things would evolve after she dies. Q Okay. A But clearly at some point in, you know, 2002, she was on a pathway to want to sell her home and had been encouraging us to move in that direction. At this point, in September 2003, the genesis of this letter was our arrival at a point in time when we had a buyer through a private sale. Q All right. So it was an agreement of sale made in September of 2003? A It actually was -- the settlement was November 14th. I'm not sure about the legal decision, when that would be, but the settlement occurred on November 14th. Q But your letter of September 23 clearly states that mom is making these decisions, correct? A That's correct. That's correct. At this point in time, before I authored this letter, my mother had received all of the information she wanted, the appraisal on the home, information about the value of the sale, and was 73 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 confident in her own mind that's what she wanted to do, and at that point I communicated that to my brother and my sister. Q And in your opinion, on September 23, 2003, your mother was fully capable of making those decisions? A Without question. Q Were you aware of the fact that on September 17, 2003, the psychotherapist stopped therapy for your mother because of her cognitive decline? A I did not know that at that time. Q Had you noticed any cognitive decline as of September? A Like I said earlier, my mother was Phi Beta Kappa out at Dickinson. I mean clearly through the years she had aged the same as we all age, but at this point in time, for this decision, there was no question in my mind that she understood fully what she wanted to do, and understood fully what was happening. Q There's a letter dated September 30th, which is Respondents' Exhibit Number 16. Do you have that? A I'm sorry. What was the number? Q Here it is. To whom is that letter addressed? A Q That letter is addressed to me. And did I hear your testimony correctly that 74 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 you shared that letter with your mother? A That would be correct. Q Why did you share that letter with your mother when it was addressed to you? A It relates entirely to her affairs. I acted on her behalf, not for her. Q Your timeline indicates that on November 13th Eleanor 2003, Eleanor was informed of the mental competency challenge request? Yes, sir. Are you the one who informed her of that? I am. Did you read that to her word for word? Actually my recollection is she read it for was there with her when it was point by point A Q A Q A herself, but I reviewed. Q Did you explain to her that Julia was only trying to find out whether or not her mother's wishes were being followed? A I had no basis upon which to know if that was the case or not the case. I simply reviewed the document with her. Q I see on November 14th, the next date, is the date for the real estate settlement on the house? A Yes, sir. 75 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q A Q And your mother was there, correct? She was. In looking through the -- your blue book here, Petitioner's -- or Respondents' Exhibit Number 9, you signed the settlement sheet? A Yes. My mother's right hand was physically impaired, and with me there, she asked me to sign it on her behalf, and I did. Q Did you also sign the deed? A I would presume so, but I don't have any specific recollection of that. Q Then on November 26, 12 days later, your mother is signing documents at Green Ridge Village by making an X on those documents. Do you remember that? A I don't. Q I want to show you what's previously been marked as Petitioner's Exhibit Number 14. If you would look at the bottom of that. A Yes. Q Do you see a place for Eleanor's signature, your mother? A I do. Q And what is there? A It's an X. Q Did she reach a point where she was 76 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 physically incapable of signing her name? A Yes. Q Prior to November 26th, 2003? A At some point after February 4th, 2003, she had physical decline, which included a lessened ability to use her right arm, and she was right handed. Q Now, when we were last here your brother Philip was testifying. He testified that when your mother was aware that there was going to be a court hearing concerning her competency, that she prepped for that hearing because she wanted to make sure that she was -- the judge felt that she was competent. Would you agree with that statement? A I'm not sure I would use the word prepped. Again, at that point in time my brother, being a lawyer, might have had better insight than I did into what the hearing would be, but the petition was filed on the 12th and the hearing was the 17th. She certainly was adamant that she was going to come personally and speak for herself, and she had read the petition. So to the extent that she may have reflected upon the questions, if that's what you mean by prepped, I'm sure she did because she was positively focused that she was not going to allow herself to be declared incompetent. Q And did you help her in any way? 77 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 A I was there as she went through the questions, but I wouldn't consider it to be help. I mean the questions -- I mean the petition, in my recollection, is there were probably 24 bold points, if I'm not mistaken. She certainly knew for herself what her answers to those were. Q Well, what about the -- what questions are you talking about, because the petition would have contained statements? A I meant bold points or numbered paragraphs, however you want to refer to them. Q All right. Were you in the car on the way back to Green Ridge Village following the hearing? A I was driving the car. Q Okay. And do you remember your mother making the statement, that's it, she's out of the will? A Vividly. Q What did you say to your mom when she made that statement? A My recollection is there was a short time of silence. I mean it was sort of unexpected. She continued herself to speak for a moment or two. Q Did you encourage her not to do that? A I never encouraged her one way or the other 25 or anything like that. 78 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q What about when Phil said, do you want me to call Bob Frey? Did you say anything in response to that? A I don't believe I did. Q You are the one that had the Power of Attorney, correct? A That's correct. Q Philip didn't have a Power of Attorney in addition to your's, did he? A No, he did not. Q Why weren't you the person, as the Power of Attorney and agent for your mother, to call Robert Frey? A I think -- I don't know the answer to that. I mean you would have to ask my mother. My brother, being a lawyer, I didn't find it unusual that for a matter like that she would ask him to be the communicator of the request. Q On March the 24th, today's date -- this is the anniversary date? A Sadly, it is. Q Of your mother's death? A That's correct. Q Things had reached a point where we filed a petition on behalf of your sister for an autopsy -- a brain autopsy. Do you recall that? A I do. Q And then after it was decided by the Court 79 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 that there was sufficient evidence to support that request, arrangements were made for your mother's memorial ceremony? A It was a memorial service at Second Presbyterian Church, yes. Q You had Jim Flower, your attorney, contact me to notify Julia that she was not welcome at her mother's funeral or memorial ceremony? A I don't recall that, no. Q You don't recall that? A No. What I vividly remember is my brother and I trying to provide my sister with an alternative in terms of whether she wanted to be there for the memorial service, where she would have been welcomed, or whether she wished to -- this is more with respect to the actual burial, whether she wished to have some private time by herself as opposed to with all three of us being there ourselves. Q I don't want to have to call your attorney to the witness stand, Mr. Coolidge, but your attorney told me that Julia could either have her own ceremony, just her alone, but she was definitely not welcome, and was not to be at the ceremony where the rest of the family would have the ceremony. Do you recall that? A No, I do not. Q You are the trustee of your father Warren Coolidge's trust, are you not? 80 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A I am a co-trustee. Q With Philip? A Correct. Q And prior to your mother's death, your mother was receiving monthly income from that trust, correct? A That is correct. Q And after her death you, Philip, and Julia each received income from that trust for a couple of months, correct? A At that point In time the trust would have switched to the arrangements that she had made by will, that's correct. MR. FLOWER: I'm going to object at this point to the relevancy of going into this separate trust. MR. THOMAS: It shows bias of this individual toward my client, Your Honor. THE COURT: You can ask the question. We'll continue on until noon and then recess. MR. THOMAS: I'll be done my noon, Your Honor. THE COURT: Okay. BY MR. THOMAS: Q You and Philip as co-trustees have stopped issuing income from that trust, haven't you? A No. 81 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q Well, have you only stopped Julia's right to receive income from the trust? A No. My brother is experienced in the financial services industry. I mean what we have done is begun to take up, I understand, to be ordinary arrangements for trustee fees, and income will be distributed in keeping with that after trustee fees. Q So there has been no income distributed from that trust since June or July of last year, correct? A I suspect that is correct. Q And as trustee, weren't you required to issue a 1099 to Julia as a beneficiary so she could file her tax return? A Boyer & Ritter is working on that as we speak. Q You're working on it now? A It's not due at this point, and it's in the hands of Boyer & Ritter, and we're confident they will perform as required. Q Isn't Julia's tax return due on April 15th like everybody else's? A Q A about a K-1. I would presume so. So are ours. Are 1099's due to be issued by January 31st? I think actually Boyer & Ritter's talking I honestly don't understand. I understand 82 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 what a 1099 is. I don't understand what a K-l is, but it's in their hands. They're professionals, and I'm confident they will deliver to all three of us what we require. Q All right. Now, if I understand you correctly, you and Philip are getting money out of your father's trust, and you're calling it trustee's fees, which doesn't leave anything for the third beneficiary, being Julia; is that correct? A I don't think that's -- my understanding of it is that after the trustee fees -- after the level of income generated is sufficient to cover the market level trustee fee, that the balance of income in that period will be distributed among the three. Q But your mother received monthly income from that trust while she was alive, correct? A Yes, she did. MR. THOMAS: I have no other cross examination, Your Honor. THE COURT: Okay. We'll recess for lunch, and resume at 1:30. MR. FLOWER: May we approach the bench, Your Honor, on a scheduling matter? THE WITNESS: May I step down? THE COURT: Yes. (Whereupon, a discussion was held off the 83 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 record.) THE COURT: We'll let the record indicate that the Court is again in session in the case of Coolidge. Counsel have off the record requested that I start the proceedings at 2:00 today instead of 1:30, which is agreeable to me, but I have explained to counsel that I have another hearing at 3:00 which will require some preparation. So we have a very limited amount of time today to complete the case if that is counsel's desire. Court is in recess. (Whereupon, a lunch recess was taken at 11:56 a.m., and court resumed at 1:55 p.m.) AFTER LUNCH RECESS (Whereupon, Thomas E. Coolidge resumed the stand.) REDIRECT EXAMINATION BY MR. FLOWER: Q Mr. Coolidge -- THE COURT: Just for the record, would you state your name again, please? THE WITNESS: Sure. Thomas, middle initial E, Coolidge. THE COURT: Thank you. BY MR. FLOWER: Q There's family silver that has been referred to in testimony that is in your sister's possession; is that 84 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 correct? A Yes, it is. Q Was that ever valued? A Yes, it was. Q And what's the value of that silver? A I believe the value of that silver is upwards of $5,500.00. Q Do you recall your brother testifying that at one point he made a suggestion to his mother about giving him some discretion in dealing with assets that would go to his children after his death? A Yes, I do. Q And was that around November 17, 2003? A I believe it was on November 17. Q And were you supportive of his suggestion? A I thought his request was reasonable, and she would be well served to consider it. Q And then did you make your mother aware that you were supportive of it? A I was there when he asked her to consider it and indicated that I thought it was something she should consider if she wished. Q And in spite of the fact that both you and Philip thought this was a good idea, she decided not to change that; is that correct? 85 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A That's what Mr. Frey told us, yes. MR. FLOWER: Nothing further, Your Honor. THE COURT: Mr. Frey, do you have any questions? MR. FREY: I have no questions, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. Mr. Thomas. MR. THOMAS: None, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. You may step down. Thank you. MR. FLOWER: At this point, Your Honor, we would rest. I believe our exhibits -- I believe our exhibits 1 through 13 have been admitted, and I would move for the admission of the exhibits which we have offered today, which I believe are 14 through 24. THE COURT: Mr. Thomas. MR. THOMAS: I have no objection to any of the exhibits. THE COURT: All right. Respondents' Exhibits 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, and 24 are admitted. (Whereupon, Respondents' Exhibits 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, and 24 were admitted into evidence. ) THE COURT: Mr. Frey, was there any evidence you wanted to present? MR. FREY: I have none, Your Honor. 86 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 THE COURT: All right. And Mr. Thomas. MR. THOMAS: I have some brief rebuttal, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. MR. THOMAS: And I would call Julia Coolidge to the witness stand. RUBUTTAL Whereupon, JULIA ELIZABETH COOLIDGE-STOLZ having been duly sworn, testified as follows: DIRECT EXAMINATION BY MR. THOMAS: Q Julia-- THE COURT: Would you state your full name, please, for the record again? THE WITNESS: Sure. Julia Elizabeth Coolidge-Stolz, S-t-o-I-z. THE COURT: Thank you. (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibit No. 20 was marked for identification.) BY MR. THOMAS: Q Julia, I want to show you what I've just had marked as Petitioner's Exhibit Number 20. A Sure. Q And there's an envelope that goes with it. 87 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Without reading that, can you date that document, and just give the Court a brief statement of what is contained in that? A It was a letter sent to me by my mother in the autumn of 2001. It's postmarked October 22nd. Daddy died on July 14th. So it was a few months after daddy died. The letter refers to the silver tea service that she had had while we were going up, and she explains that it had come to them originally through daddy's family in Boston, and then she asks me when I'm next coming down, could I pick it up and have it appraised for her so that she would know what she ought to be doing with it, and it's signed love, mother. Q All right. And did you have it appraised? A Yes, I did. Q And did you advise your mother of the results of the appraised value? A Yes, I did. Q And did your mother tell you what to do with the silver set after you had it appraised? A Yes. Q What did she tell you? A She said that because -- the silver service was an 1890 dorm service, which meant it was a commercially made nice Victorian set. It was not museum quality, which is what she was hoping I was going to be able to tell her, 88 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 and so she said because it was worth a lot less than she had thought, she was hoping that I would just keep it. Q And is it in your possession now? A Urn-hum. Philip was in the room with her because I could hear his voice on the line. She said she had talked to Phil and she had talked to Tom, and they both felt since I was the one who took it an hour and a half each way to get it appraised, that I ought to just keep it. Q All right. (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibits 21, 22, 23, and 24 were marked for identification.) BY MR. THOMAS: Q Okay. Julia, I want to show you what is marked Petitioner's Exhibit 21. Could you identify the container there? A It's an envelope with my name on it in my mother's handwriting. Q Dated? A It's not dated. Q Okay. A She gave it to me by hand. Q What was the occasion for which she gave it to you? A It was because my birthday was coming and she said since I was down visiting with her, she would just give 89 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 me the card instead of mailing it. Q And what year was that? A Well, she gave me two checks with it, and they're both dated 8/26/02. Q Okay. Now, the two checks, are either one of the checks marked for any particular purpose? A Yes. There's a check made out to my husband for $100.00, and the memo on it is phone. Q Why would she be paying for a phone? A Because for years she would regularly send us checks because we placed the phone calls, and she wanted to make sure that we didn't incur any of that expense in doing that because she was worried about our financial health. Q Were these the phone calls that you spoke about before? A Every Sunday evening. Q Every Sunday evening. Okay. And did she routinely pay for telephone calls that you made to her on a regular basis? A About every other month she would send a note and a check. Q Okay. Would you take a look at that next exhibit and identify that? THE COURT: What number is that? THE WITNESS: 22. 90 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 THE COURT: Petitioner's Exhibit 22? THE WITNESS: Yes. MR. THOMAS: Yes, Your Honor. THE WITNESS: All right. It's an envelope with mother's return address. It's postmarked August 29th, 2002. BY MR. THOMAS: Q And what is that? A That's actually a separate different birthday card that's signed love, mother and Willie. Q Okay. And I want to show you what I've had marked as Petitioner's Exhibit Number 23. Can you identify what that document is? A That's a note in my mother's handwriting that starts Dear Julia and ends love mother and it's dated 8/12/01. Q Okay. And is there any reference in there with regard to telephone bills? A Yes. It says I wrote you a check yesterday, but then had to void it because I hadn't recorded the last one in the check register. Hope this helps with your phone bill. Your help while you were here was so wonderful it can't be expressed in words. Q Okay. MR. THOMAS: And, Your Honor, I'm having the 91 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 copies marked and admitted rather than the original, although I do have the original here, so that she can keep the original. THE COURT: You say I have the original? MR. THOMAS: No. I'm keeping the original. I have the original here, but I've marked a photocopy as the exhibit. THE COURT: Mr. Flower, do you have any objection? MR. FLOWER: No objection. THE COURT: And Mr. Frey? MR. FREY: No objection, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. BY MR. THOMAS: Q Okay. And then I want to show you one more, Petitioner's Exhibit Number -- A I'm sorry. 24. Q 24. And what is that? A 5th, 2000. Q That's a note that mother mailed to me June And again, is there a reference made to the -- A It says, Dear Julia, you can use the enclosed check towards your phone bill. Q Okay. Now, also in there is a reference to a 92 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 dinner on the 17th. It was their 50th wedding anniversary. And was that on June 17th, 2000? Well, actually they intended to celebrate it Their actual anniversary was the 11th. Of June? Of June in 2000. Did you go to their 50th anniversary dinner? Yes, I did. Well, we never had a dinner because I was the only one there. I took them out for dinner, but there was no formal dinner, but yes, I came down to visit. A Q A on the 17th. Q A Q A Q Was your brother Tom there for their 50th anniversary? A No, he was in New Jersey on the shore with his family. Q Did Philip come for the celebration of their 50th anniversary? A No, he didn't. Q So you were the only child there that showed up for that? A Yes, but we had a nice time, the three of us. Q Did you in the course of your telephone conversations with your mother ever discuss medical situations concerning your mother and your father? 93 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A Yes. Actually fairly frequently. Q Did your mother ever try to withhold any medical information from you concerning their medical conditions over the last four or five years? A No. I got regular updates whenever they would see a doctor, and she would ask me questions if there was something that she didn't understand. Q In fact, after her one admission at Chambersburg Hospital, one of her psychiatric admissions, did you talk to her on the phone immediately after her discharge? A It was the first admission, and she called me right after she had gotten home and said that -- she told me which medications they had put her on in the hospital, but she said now that she was home, she was getting upset because she realized she didn't have prescriptions for some of them, and they were not medications that she had been on previous to the admission. And I asked her if they had arranged a follow-up appointment for her with her doctor, and she said no. So I asked her if she wanted me to make a call on her behalf to her doctor, and she said, yes, she would be very grateful if I would. (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibit No. 25 was marked for identification.) 94 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 BY MR. THOMAS: Q I'll show you Petitioner's Exhibit Number 25. Can you identify what that document is? A Yes. That's a page from Dr. Brazel's primary care record of mother dated 2/19/02, and it's the note written by the doctor who was covering for him that evening saying that she received a call from me, and it accurately reflects what we said in that conversation. Q About her medications? A That mom had called me, that she was concerned that she had medications for which she didn't have new scripts, and then they wrote down, her daughter wants to make sure she has an office visit scheduled so we can resolve some of these medication issues. Q And does the page also indicate the next time your mother came in to see the doctor? A Yes. The note is dated the next day, February 20th, 2002. Q And did they address her medication issues, according to that note? A He indicated that there was one -- Dr. Brazel indicated yes, he did. There was one he didn't want to continue, and then he gave her the scripts for the others. Q All right. Did your mother express any thanks to you for helping her out with that matter? 95 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A Yeah. Mother loved me very much, and once daddy had died she was a lot more verbal about saying it. Q . I just have one more exhibit for you, and it will be a group one. (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibit No. 26 was marked for identification.) BY MR. THOMAS: Q I'm showing you Petitioner's Exhibit 26, which contains three photographs. Would you look at those three photographs, and then, if you can, identify what they depict for the Court? A The first one is a photograph that was developed on December 1998. It was from the Christmas visit of that year. It's mother and Joseph in her kitchen. Q Okay. And how did your mother get along with Joseph? A Well, that's why I took the picture. She was really willing to be childlike and engage and play with him, and it shows her standing at the kitchen table with a big bag of grapes, and what she did, because he liked them as a snack, you can see he's laughing, is she would roll them down the table so that they would stop about the time they'd get to him, and then his part of the game was to pick them up and eat them, and so we took the picture. Q All right. And the next photograph? 96 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A The next two are from the same Christmas, and that was the Christmas of 2001, which was the only Christmas she was in the house after daddy died. Q Okay. And who visited with her on that Christmas day? A Jeff and I and Joseph. The two photographs show mom with Joseph, my son. Q Did Tom or Philip visit with her on that Christmas day? A We spent part of the day at Tom and Beth's house, but then they went off to do things with her family for the rest of the day. Philip wasn't there at all. Q Over the years, where did you and your family spend Christmas day? A At my parents. Out of my entire life, to my recollection, there are three Christmases I didn't spend there, my honeymoon, the year I was in my third trimester with Joseph and they told me not to drive, and the Christmas of 2002 because I had pneumonia and we never came. Q The relative in California -- I can't think of her name. A Judy. Q Judy? A Judy Foster Wali. Q Okay. She testified by telephone? 97 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 A Urn-hum. Q When was the last time you had spoken with her? A She called me while I was still working for the New England Journal of Medicine, which would have meant it had to be in 1987, give or take a year. Q That's the last time you had spoken with her? A Yes. Q What did she ask you to do at that time? A She said she was working in immigration law and she was representing a doctor whom she didn't want to be deported. So she asked me to get a piece of letterhead from the New England Journal and sign my name as M.D. and write a brief note that their science was important to the country and they should be allowed to stay. And I told her I didn't know anything about the doctor or her work, and I wouldn't do it, although I did advise her she should get somebody who would be familiar with that doctor's work, and they could do it. Q How did she react to the fact that you wouldn't help her with that? A She got really mad and said she was asking for my help and there was no reason I couldn't do it, and I told her I was not going to tango with the INS on her behalf. 98 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 Q And you haven't spoken with her since? A No. MR. THOMAS: No further questions. THE COURT: Mr. Flower. CROSS EXAMINATION BY MR. FLOWER: Q Are any of the notes or photographs which you've submitted into evidence after the hearing of November 17, 2003? A I wasn't allowed to see my mother after that so I don't have anything. Q But you didn't have any letters or pictures from that she would have sent to you from any time after that hearing, correct? A She couldn't write. Even Tom testified she could only make an X. MR. FLOWER: No further questions. THE COURT: Okay. Mr. Frey. MR. FREY: No questions, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. Mr. Thomas. MR. THOMAS: Your Honor, I have no other witnesses. I would ask that the balance of my exhibits up through Petitioner's Exhibit Number 26 would be admitted into evidence. THE COURT: Mr. Flower. 99 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 MR. FLOWER: No objection, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. You may step down. Thank you. THE WITNESS: Sure. THE COURT: Petitioner's Exhibits 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, and 26 are admitted. (Whereupon, Petitioner's Exhibits 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, and 26 were admitted into evidence. ) THE COURT: Mr. Flower, any further evidence? MR. FLOWER: THE COURT: Nothing else, Your Honor. All right. Mr. Frey, do you have any further evidence? MR. FREY: No, Your Honor. THE COURT: All right. Thank you. What are counsel's wishes with respect to requested findings of fact, conclusions of law, and briefs? MR. THOMAS: Your Honor, I would request 30 days. Well, Your Honor, I'm also going to need the transcript, I believe, in order to do it thoroughly. THE COURT: That will take a while. That could take months at this point because we're really backed up with transcripts. Are you sure you need a transcript? MR. THOMAS: Well, Your Honor, I really would prefer it because I mean the testimony was spread out over 100 1 three days, spread out over a three week period. 2 THE COURT: Have either counsel requested 3 transcripts before? 4 MR. FLOWER: We have some transcripts. I'm 5 not sure how far they go up. We certainly have -- we have a 6 transcript of the hearing on March 29th, 2004, and of course 7 we have a transcript of the hearing in November 17th of 8 2003. I don't think we have anything after that. 9 MR. THOMAS: Yeah, the only transcripts we're 10 missing would be the last three days of testimony. 11 THE COURT: All right. Well, let's take a 12 recess and you can ask the stenographers who did those cases 13 how long they think it might take to do the transcript. 14 I'm not going to make this a priority because we ha~e many 15 other cases, many on appeal, that are awaiting transcripts 16 also. We'll take a short recess for that purpose. 17 (Whereupon, a recess was taken at 2:18 p.m.) 18 AFTER RECESS 19 THE COURT: We'll enter this order: 20 AND NOW, this 24th day of March, 2005, 21 following another day of hearing in this matter, which has 22 now completed the evidentiary record, the record is declared 23 closed, and the matter is taken under advisement. 24 Pursuant to an agreement of counsel in 25 chambers of the undersigned judge, counsel shall be afforded 101 1 a period of 35 days from today's date in which to file 2 proposed findings of fact and conclusions of law, and in 3 which to submit briefs to the Court on the issues which they 4 perceive to exist in the case. 5 It lS noted that at the conclusion of today's 6 proceeding Respondents' Exhibits 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 7 21, 22, 23, and 24 had been admitted, and Petitioner's 8 Exhibits 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, and 26 9 had been admitted. No other exhibits were identified or 10 admitted on today's date. 11 Counsel for the Petitioner and counsel for 12 Respondents have both indicated that they will be requesting 13 the stenographer(s) to transcribe and file the notes of 14 testimony which to this date have not already been 15 transcribed and filed. 16 (End of order.) 17 THE COURT: Mr. Thomas, is there anything 18 more you want to see in that order? 19 MR. THOMAS: No, Your Honor. 20 THE COURT: And Mr. Flower? 21 MR. FLOWER: No, Your Honor. 22 THE COURT: And Mr. Frey? 23 MR. FREY: No, Your Honor. 24 THE COURT: Very good. Thank you. Court is 25 adjourned. 102 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 (Whereupon, the proceedings concluded at 2:35 p.m.) 103 CERTIFICATION I hereby certify that the proceedings are contained fully and accurately in the notes taken by me on the above cause, and that this is a correct transcript of same. 4~d~ Official Court Reporter The foregoing record of the proceedings on the hearing of the within matter is hereby approved and directed to be filed. 1M 2J L L ~ I ) u o,S '" r:fate I 104