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custody litigetionl education, public or private school whether
secular or religioull; scholast.ic athLetic pureuits and other
oxtracurr icu lar activi ties I shell be cons idered maj or decieion/j and
shall be made by the parents jointly, after discussion and
consultation with each other and with a view towarde
obtaining and following II harmonious policy in the children's best
interest.
(b) Each party agrees to keep the other informed of the
progreHs of the children's education and social adjustments. Each
party egrees not to impair the other party's right to ahared legal
or physical custody of the children. Each party agreen to give
support to the other in the role as parent and to take into account
the concerns of the other for the physical and emotional well.-being
of the children.
(") While in the presence of the children, neither parent
ahall make or permit any other person to make, any remarks or do
anything which could in any way be construed as derogatory or
uncomplimentary to the other parent. It shall be the express duty
of each parent to uphold tho 0ther parent as one whom the children
should respect and love.
(d) It shall be the obligation of each parent to make the
children available to the other in accordance with the phyeical
custody schedule and to encourage them to participate in the plan
hereby agreed and ordered.
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(I) Jaoh parent shall have the d~ty to notify the other of
any event or aotivity that oould reasonably be expeoted to be of
signifioant oon~ern to the other parent.
(f) The parents shall oommunioate direotly with one another
oonoerning any pAl'enting J.llelJe requiring canaultat.ian and Agreement
and regarding Any propalled modificationij to the phyaical custody
sohedule, which may from time to time become necessary, and shall
specificAlly not use tho children as messengers. Furt.hermore,
until each child attainll the age of ten (10) neither parent shall
discuss with the children any proposed changee to the physical
custody schedule, or any other issue requiring consultation and
agreement, prior to diBcussing the matter Bnd reaching an agreement
with the other parent.
(9) With regard to any emergency decisions which must be
made, the parent with phyaicel custody of the children at the time
shall be permitted to make the decision necessitated by the
emergency without consulting the other parent in advance. However,
that parent with physical custody making an emergency decision
shall inform the other of the emergency and consult with him/her ail
soon as possible. Day-to-day decisions of a routine nature
including those relating to medical can shall be the
responsibility of the parent having physical custody at the time.
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(h) Eaoh parent shall be entitled to complete llnd full
information from any doctor, dentist, teacher or authority and have
cQpill1! of any reportl! given to them as a parent. Such documents
include, but are not limited to, medical reports, lloademia and
eohool report oards, birth certlficatel!, eto. Both parents may and
are encouraged to attend school conferencee and activities. The
FathJr's name shall be listed with the school ao the alternative
parent to be contacted in the event of an emergency and to be
notified regarding school evente. However, it will be Mother's
primary responsibility to provide Father with oopieo of report
cards and all notificationo of major school events.
(i) Neither parent ehall schedule activities or appointments
for the children which would require her attendance or
participation at said activity or appointment during a time wh~n
they are scheduled to be 1.n the physical custody of the other
parent without that parent's express prior approval.
(j) The parties hereby acknowledge that they have discussed
and jointly made the following decisions:
1. The parties agree that Mechanicsburg Family
Practice Center for John and Thomas R. Hobbs, M.D.
fOr Angela will continue to be the children's
pediatricians and accordingly, will provide medioal
treatment to the children when necessary.
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a. The parties acknowledge that the children's legal
names are Angela C. Blair and John R. Blair and that
they ihall be known by those namei for all purposes.
The parties agree that they will instruot their
re.pective families and friends that the children
should not be referred to by dny other name.
I1-f~CAL CUSTODY
The parent. shall share physicel cuotody of the children ee
provided herein.
Mother shall have primary physical cUBtody.
Father shall have partial custody as periodically determined by
mutual agreement. Failing mutual agreement to the contrary, the
following schedule shall apply:
a. Alternating weekends, from Friday at 6:00 p.m.
until Sunday at 6:00 p.m.
b. Every Thursday from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. except
where the following Friday is a Bchool day.
c. Spring vacation including Easter Sunday in even
years with Father and with Mother in odd years.
d. Thanksgiving vacation in even years with Fether,
Thanksgiving Day to be divided at 6:00 p.m., with
Mother having the morning until 6:00 p.m. on the
firet ThanksgivIng following execution of this
Agreement and alternating thereafter.
e. Fourth of July from 9:00 a.m. until 7:00 p.m.
with Mother in even years and with Father in odd
years.
f. Memorial Day weekend including Memorial Day from
Friday at 6:00 p.m. until Monday at 7:00 p.m. with
Father in even years and with Mother in odd years.
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Q. Labor Day weekend including Lebor Day from Friday
at 6100 p.m. until Monday at 7100 p.m. with Mother
in even yeare and with Father in odd years.
h. With respect to President'~ Day, Columbue Day and
Veteran'e Day, if this holiday ie a MOndar and sohool
i. not in session, the parent having phy~ cal oustody
ot the ohild during the immediately preceding weekend
.hall have the holiday until 7100 p.m.
i. ~aqh parent shall have physical custody of the
ahildren for attendance at family funerals and
weddings with reasonable notice to the other parent.
III. TELEPHONE PRlY1l~
The parties agree that there shall be reasonable telephone
aoc... between the chi ldren and both parente. The parents are
encouraged to place telephone calls to the child between 7:00 p.m.
and 9100 p.m. so as not to interfere with dinner or bedtime. The
children shall be permitted free access to place calls to her
parents at any time they desire.
IV. RELO~A'I.lillf
The parties have negotiated the custody and partial custody
portions of this Agreement baeed upon existing circumstances, and
in particular, based upon wife's and Husband's current residences
in Cumber land County, pannsy 1 vania. If eIther parsnt desires to
establish a residence more than twenty-five (25) mIles from his or
her present residence, he or she shall give the other parent at
least ninety (90) days wrItten notice in advance of the proposed
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mov., in order to give the partie. the opportunity to aonfer, prior
to the relooation, and to eBtabliah a mutually s~ti8factory
arrangement 48 to custody and partial custody in light of the
changed circumstances. In the event that the partieB are unable to
reach an agreement, then the Court of Common plea6 of
Cumborland County Bhall have juriBdiction over them to fashion an
appropriate custody/partial cUBtody ordsr.
y'~~l, ACT!VliIJcl
The parties agree that their children may benefit from
participation in various clubs, lS6sons, achool activities, camps,
and aimilar activitiea and that it may a160 be beneficial for the
children to attend private or parochial 6chool or to have a tutor..
They further recognize, however, that their financial circumstances
may permit only a limited number of these extra activities or
special Ilchooling. If either party expects the other party to
contribute to such expenses, that party shall consult with the
other before incurring any significant expenses for such activities
or schooling. The pr.oposed expense shall be evaluated carefully by
each party, taking into consideration the nature of the expense,
the period of time during which the expense will continue, the
special talents or needs of each child, the expense involved, the
fair allocation of available funds among any other childrsn of
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