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HomeMy WebLinkAbout94-04431 I I I jl $ \. , " "- '" '1 \ \ " " " I. .. I' Ii I' , 'I , , " I ,:' t " '- '1; ,j ~ " ., , I, , , , I J " ii " , , I, ,. - 'I II, .,' rf) , ::t- , ::( i I I ., , I " " , , i , ., , Ii: . I, ., i' parents jointly, after discussion and consultation with each other and with a view towlIrdl.l obtaintng lInd following 1I harmonious policy in the child's best interest. (b) Each party agrees to keep the other informed of the proqreu of the child's education and soc ia 1 adj ustments. Each party agrees not to impair the other party's right to shared legal or physical custody of the child. Each party agrees to give support to the other in the role as parent and to take into account the concerns of the other for the physical and emotional well-being of the child. (c) While in the presence of the child, neither parent shall make or permit any other person to make any remarks or do anything which could in any way be construed as derogatory or uncomplimentary to the other parent. It shall be the express duty of each parent to uphold the other parent as one whom the child should respect and love. (d) It shall be the obligation of each parent to make the child available to the other in accordance with the physical custody schedule and to encourage her to participate in the plan hereby agreed and ordered. (e) Each parent shall have the duty to notify the other of any event or activity that could reasonably be expected to be of significant concern to the other parent. 2 (f) The parents shall communioate direotLy with one another concerning any parenting issuo requiring consultation and agreement and regarding any proposod modifications to the physicaL oustody schedule, which may from time to time become necessary, and shall specifically not use the child as a messenger. Furthermore, until the child attains the age of ten (10) neither parent shall discuss with the child any proposed changes to the physical custody schedule/ or any other issue requiring consultation and agreement, prior to discussing the matter and reaching an agreement with the other parent. (g) With regard to any emergency decisions which must be made, the parent with physical custody of the child at the time shall be permitted to make the decision necessitated by the emergency without consulting the other parent in advance. However, the parent with physical custody making an emergency decision shall inform the other of the emergency and consult with him/her as boon as possible. Day-to-day decisions of a routine nature including those relating to medical care shall be the responsibility of the parent having physical custody at the time. (h) Each parent shall be entitled to complete and full information from any doctor, dentist, teacher or authority and have copies of any reports given to them as a parent. Such documents include, but are not limited to, medical reports, academic and school report cards, birth certificates, etc. Both parents may and 3 are encouraged to attend school conferences and activities. The Father's name shall be listed with the school as the alternative parent to be contacted in the event of en emergency and to be notified regarding school events. However, it will be Mother's primary responsibility to provide Father with copies of report cards end all notifications of major school events. (i) Neither parent shall schedule activities or appointments for the child which would require their attendance or participation at said activity or appointment during a time when they are scheduled to be in the physical custorjy of the other parent without that parent's express prior approval. (j) The parties hereby acknowledge that they have discussed and jointly made the following decisionsl 1. The parties agree that Jones Daley and Coldren will be the child's pediatrician and accordingly, will provide medical treatment to the child when necessary. 2, The parties acknowledge that the child's legal name is Ariana Nicols Say tar and that she shall be known by this name for all purposes, The parties agree that they will instruct their respective families and friends that the child should not be referred to by any other name. 4 3. The parents acknowledge that they each expeot the ohild to attend college and if she is a good student with a nigh probability of gainin~ entrance and sucoeeding in oolleg~. The parties agree that they shall each be aotively involved in the selection of an appropriate post-high school education for the child and that the choice of any college or institution shall be mutually agreed upon by Father, Mother and the child, taking into oonsideration the parents' then financial ability and eoonomic circumstances, and the child's needs, desires, talents and aptitudes for post-high school education. II. PHYSICAL CUSTODY The parents shall share physical custody of the child. Mother shall have primary physical custody, Father shall have partial custody as periodically determined by mutual agreement. Failing mutual agreement to the contrary, the following schedule shall apply 1 From Aoe l - 21 a. From Saturday at 12100 noon until 4100 p.m. b. Every Wednesday from 5100 p.m. to 7100 p.m. From Age 2 to 31 c. From Saturday at 12100 noon to sunday at 12100 noon. d. Every Wednesday from 5100 p.m. to 8100 p.m. 5 ~fter AQe 31 e. Alternating W$ekends from Friday at 6100 p.m. until sunday at 6100 p.m. ~OLID~YSI f. ChristmaB Pay 1994 with Fathor from 12100 poon until 6100 p.m. 9' Thanksgiving Day 1994 with Father from 12100 noon to until 6tOO p.m. h. Easter 1995 with Father and with Father in odd in odd years thereafter. i. Fourth of July from 9100 a.m. until 7100 p.m. with Mother in even years and with Fathsr in odd years. j. Father's day weekend from 6tOO p.m. Friday until 7100 p.m. sunday with Father every year. k. Mother's Pay weekend from 6:00 p.m. Friday until sunday at 7100 p.m. with Mother every year. 1. Memorial pay weekend including Memorial Day from Friday at 6:00 p.m, until Monday at 7tOO p.m. m. Labor Day weskend including Labor Day from Friday at 6100 p.m. until Monday at 7:00 p.m. with Mother every year. n. With respect to President's Day/ Columbus Day and Veteran's Day, if this holiday is a Monday the parent having physical custody of the 6 child during the immediately preceding woekend shall have the holiday until 7100 p.m. o. mach parent shall have physical custody of the child for att$ndance at family funorale and weddings with reasonable notice to the other parent. IV. TELEPHONE PRIVILEGES The parties agree that there shall be reasonable telephone access between the chi ld and both parents. The parents are encouraged to place telephone calle to the child between 5100 p.m. and 7100 p.m. so as not to interfere with dinner or bedtime. The child shall be permitted free aecp-ss to place calls to her parents at any time she desires. V. RELOCATION The parties have negotiated the custody and partial custody portions of this Agreement based upon existing circumstances, and in particular, based upon Wife's and Husband's current residences in Cumberland County, Pennsylvania. If either parent desires to eatablish a residence more than twenty-five (25) miles from his or her present residence, he or she shall give the other parent at least ninety (90) days written notice in advance of the proposed move, in order to give the parties the opportunity to confer, prior to the relocation, and to establish a mutually satisfactory 7