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GIAM TRUONG, : IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
Plaintiff : CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
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v. : NO. 2018-08485
:
ANNA TEPPIG, : CIVIL ACTION LAW
Defendant : IN CUSTODY
HYAMS, J., NOVEMBER 19, 2021
I. PREAMBLE
Resilience can refer to positive adjustment in the face of adversity. Resilience has also
been defined as the capacity of individuals to cope successfully with significant change,
adversity or risk.
Hyun Lee and James Cranford
II. BACKGROUND
The parties to this challenging custody litigation were married at the time that their three
children (F.T., G.T., and L.T.) were born. The breakup of the marriage stemmed from Father
criminal charges and eventual incarceration after he pled guilty to statutory rape in which the
victim was twelve (12) years old at the time Father initiated sexual contact. The parties had lived
together in Georgia and Mother filed for divorce in Georgia during Fathertion. She
eventually moved with the three subject minor children to Pennsylvania. Although the divorce
decree provided Mother sole legal and physical custody of the children, Mother permitted
contact between the children and their Father by way of telephone as well as some visits with
him while he was incarcerated and for a period of time after release. This contact occurred from
approximately late 2013 to 2017.
In August of 2018, following a modification to Fathers probation conditions that permitted
him to have supervised contact with his children, Father filed a custody Complaint seeking
visitation with his children. He continued to reside in Georgia and therefore, has only sought
limited partial custody during the school year and has only recently identified the request for
expanded visitation to take place in Georgia during the summer months. Following conciliation,
the parties were directed to identify a reunification counselor and Katie J. Maxwell, Esquire was
appointed as guardian ad litem for the children. A series of Orders were entered by the
Honorable Jessica E. Brewbaker from December 2018 October 2019. These orders were
issued immediately following status conferences with counsel for the parties, the GAL and the
reunification counselor. The orders slowly permitted and expanded Fathers contact with the
children subject to the review and approval of the GAL and reunification counselor including
discussion with counsel and their general agreement. The undersigned continued this practice of
holding status conferences with counsel, the GAL and the reunification counselor to determine
whether visitation should be expanded. Throughout 2020 (despite the complications brought on
by the COVID-19 pandemic) and from January 2021- May 2021, Fathers visitation continued to
be extended in length and/or frequency. An Order dated May 7, 2021 contemplated overnight
visitation to begin subject to the input of the reunification counselor. At the same time that the
overnight visitation was being contemplated, Mothers counsel identified for the first time, an
open federal investigation regarding the Father and alleged child pornography. Despite
numerous attempts of the GAL and Fathers counsel to glean a better understanding of the nature
and status of the investigation, the details remained allusive and vague. The only clarification
offered was that the material resulting in the investigation was specifically related to the same
criminal conduct of Father involving the 12 year old victim.
As the parties were unable to reach an agreement to overnight visitation and upon Mothers
demand for a custody trial, hearings were held on September 27, 2021 and November 5, 2021.
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The relevant testimony is summarized below in the following section.
III. FINDINGS
The GAL testified and recommended permitting Fathers visitation to increase to include
overnight visitation. A now adult adoptive child of the parties, Joe Pham, testified that he met
the Mother and Father at church when he was approximately fourteen (14) years old. Joe was
fostered, and eventually adopted by the Mother and Father who were married at the time he met
them. During the time that Joe lived with Mother and Father, all three subject minor children
had been born and also lived in the marital home. Joe explained that he had a very pleasant life
while living with Mother and Father, and Father was not an intimidating figure. He denied that
Father ever encouraged him to have multiple sexual partners as a teenager. Joe described the
subject minor children as being very happy while he lived there. He acknowledged an incident
when he was fifteen (15) years old where Father struck him while they were in the home. The
incident related to Joe telling Mother information that Father asked he withhold after Father fed
him fast food for dinner. Joe described this as a one-time thing, and Father apologized after it
had happened. Joe and Father did get into an argument when Joe was moving out and during the
argument Father broke Joes phone. There were no other physical incidents involving Joe or that
he witnessed.
Joe decided to move out once he became aware of Fathers sexual relationship with a minor
and that despite Mothers awareness of the relationship, she continued to frequently have the
minor to the home to babysit the children. As he was no longer a minor, he decided he was
ready to move out on his own.
The reunification counselor, Jamie Orris, LSW has been providing reunification counseling
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If testimony from a witness is not discussed the weight of that testimony was deemed not relevant as it pertains to
the best interest custodial factors.
to the family since January 2019. She generally sees the children following their visits with their
Father. She described Father as being highly cooperative. She supports visitation including
overnight visits at this time, however, she identified that she still has some reservations. Even
though the visits are great, the kids are happy and they want to have overnights with their Father,
she is well aware that sexual offenders have a high recidivism rate. Her unease has to do with
Fathers past and not what is presently happening during the visitation process. Despite her
reservations, she believes overnight visitation should be initiated at this time.
Father resides in Georgia with his current wife, Amanda Truong and their two-year-old child,
A.T. All three minor subject children have a positive relationship with their half sibling, A.T.
There are multiple paternal relatives (aunts/uncle/s, grandparents) who reside near Father in
Georgia and maintain a close connection with him. Father owns and works in a restaurant
located in Georgia. He was convicted of statutory rape as a result of a sexual relationship he
commenced with a twelve (12) year old. The relationship continued for several years thereafter
until Father was arrested and incarcerated. He was convicted in 2013 and he remained in prison
until 2015. He was released to a transitional center where he remained until 2016. Fathers
parole ended in 2018 and the terms of his parole were modified in April of 2018 to allow Father
supervised contact with his own children and to have pictures and videos of his own children. At
some point well before Fathers arrest, Mother became aware that Father was having a sexual
relationship with a minor. Father and Mother had an open marriage and engaged in group sex
with other couples. They had shared sexual encounters with Fathers minor victim when the
minor was under the age of eighteen (18), but over sixteen (16), the legal age of consent in
Georgia. Father discussed the sexual offender treatment he received after he was released from
the transitional center as part of his parole requirements and his realizations about himself as a
result of that treatment.
While Father was incarcerated, Mother permitted the subject minors to visit their Father and
speak with him multiple times a week on the phone. The phone calls continued until 2017, even
after Mother moved out of Georgia with the children. It appeared Fathers contact with the
children stopped around the same time Mother settled down with her current husband. Father
obtained permission from his probation officer to come to Pennsylvania in 2018, close in time to
L.T.s birthday. He sent Mother a text message that he was going to drop off gifts for the
children, and Mother never responded. While he and his wife were driving in Mothers
neighborhood, Father saw F.T. walking and they eventually recognized each other. Father
stopped, and he and F.T. had a happy, but brief reunion. He provided her the gifts, but Mother
called the police as a result of this contact and filed for a PFA. Father ultimately agreed to a
PFA being entered against him in October 2018 that expired in February 2020 without any
violations. Mother stopped all communications with Father at some point in 2018, and, from that
point forward, communications occurred only through counsel.
As a result of the instant custody action Father filed, Judge Brewbaker held a pretrial
conference in January 2019 and permitted the children to initiate contact with their Father, but
Father could not make the initial contact. Following a July 2019 status conference, Judge
Brewbaker permitted four hour visits with Fathers wife, Amanda, supervising. In September
2019, a Section 5329 Risk of Harm Evaluation was ordered. Georgia does not have that exact
type of statutory evaluation, thus Father obtained a sexual offender evaluation with Matthew B.
Connelly, which was ultimately deemed acceptable by the Court.
Concerns identified by Mother regarding visitation during the ongoing status conferences
included Father taking the children across state lines, Father holding a portion of a visit in his
hotel lobby and F.T. buying a bra during a visit with her Father. These concerns were discussed
during status conferences and it was learned Father took the children to Maryland during a visit
in 2020 to watch a movie because no local movie theatres were open and operating. One visit
partially took place in a hotel lobby where Father was staying. This occurred because L.T.
needed to use a restroom and the COVID-19 pandemic limited what restroom options were
available. They never left the lobby area of the hotel. Finally, F.T. purchased her own bra
during a visit that took place at the mall and at no time did Father enter the particular store where
the bra was purchased. All of these concerns were discussed at status conferences and addressed
with Father as part of the reunification counseling and at no time did either the GAL or Ms. Orris
recommend visits decrease as a result of the aforementioned concerns.
Father learned following a status conference regarding overnight visitation that there was an
alleged federal investigation involving him and child pornography. Due to that discovery, he
contacted his probation officer who, made contact with the federal system and could not identify
any new investigation involving Father. He has identified a plan for overnight visitation
regarding sleeping arrangements and this plan was approved by Ms. Orris.
Fathers wife testified briefly explaining her position on supervision and the accommodations
they were making to their Pennsylvania townhouse to meet the recommendations of Ms. Orris
for overnight visitation, including bedroom location.
Mothers concerns regarding Father having overnights were that he was grooming the
children and the possibility that he would sexually and physically abuse them. She explained
that she felt his behaviors constituted taking down their walls and making them do what he wants
them to do. Mother expressed extreme concern when F.T. came home with a bra following a
visit with Father because of his sexual offender background despite a lack of evidence or
testimony that Father was present when F.T. bought the bra. In addition, their child, L.T., who is
diagnosed with down syndrome, has made comments and displayed silly gestures that Mother
has identified as grooming by Father.
Mothers other comments regarding grooming/lowering of walls were not credible.
Unfortunately, Mother believes that because of Fathers sexual offender background with a non-
relative minor, any attempt to inquire about his childrens lives, constitutes grooming. Quite
possibly the saddest, but clearest example of this belief was Mother claiming that Father telling
the children that he loved them constituted grooming them. Mother said that in this case, the
Father was not a normal father and she found it problematic that he was trying to establish
emotional connections with the children and get them to trust him. She struggled to identify
topics of conversation that were appropriate for Father to discuss with the children and was only
able to identify sports and school.
Mother acknowledged that she was unwilling to show Father how to properly care for L.T.s
medical issues despite it being in L.T.s best interest. She did point out that Father could be
trained by a medical provider.
Mother claimed she was manipulated and abused by the Father during their marriage. She
felt she had no choice but to engage in appalling sexual acts including having her own affairs.
While Mothers depiction of the marital relationship was disturbing, even assuming her depiction
was accurate, nothing that she described changes the analysis on the best interest factors as it
relates to supervised overnight visitation at this point in the custody action. In addition, Fathers
communications with F.T. early on regarding custody or painting the other parent in a negative
light, while concerning and inappropriate, were not grooming or manipulation. Those
communications reveal a Father who wants his children to know that he loves them and wants to
be able to visit them.
Matthew B. Connolly, a licensed professional counselor, who specializes in treating sex
offenders, treated and evaluated Father. In the Fall of 2018, Mr. Connolly performed a
Psychosexual Offender Evaluation of the Father. Based on the treatment and evaluation, Mr.
Connolly had no reason to believe that Father would have a sexual interest in his own children.
Father underwent polygraph testing on a regular basis for probation and treatment purposes that
encompassed questions addressing interest in sexual contact with family members, including his
children. When asked such questions, there was no significant response when Father denied
contact. Mr. Connolly found Father to be at low risk to recidivate generally and a low risk to his
children. He was in agreement with supervised contact between the Father and his children.
Mother presented testimony from Ashley Milspaw, PsyD, who did not evaluate Father, but
reviewed records and spoke with Mothers attorney resulting in her generating a report dated
September 20, 2021. Dr. Milspaw recommended Father undergo a Section 5329 Risk of Harm
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Evaluation. She expressed concerns about Father having overnight visitation before there was a
Section 5329 Risk of Harm Assessment completed, before the children were evaluated by a
clinical psychologist, and before the supervisor had been properly trained or executed a
supervisory affidavit.
The evidence has demonstrated that it is in the best interests of the children for the Fathers
visitation to be extended to overnight visits. This determination is not only endorsed by the
GAL, but is also overwhelmingly supported by weighing the evidence presented and applying it
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This issue was previously litigated prior to undersigneds involvement in the custody action. As Fathers state of
residency does not have a comparable Section 5329 Risk of Harm Evaluation, the Psychosexual Evaluation prepared
by Matthew B. Connolly was accepted when presented at a status conference that was held before the Honorable
Jessica E. Brewbaker in October 2019 as complying with the September 3, 2019 Order directing Father to undergo a
Section 5329 Evaluation.
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to the custodial best interest factors. However, the evidentiary hearing, while lengthy and at
times seemingly redundant, was not without benefit. This crucial stage of initiating overnight
visitation is not the time to be undaunted. Therefore, the following requirements must be met
prior to the initiation of overnight visitation:
1. The current visitation supervisor, Amanda Truong, (Fathers wife), will complete training
to be completed by a sexual offender treatment provider (to include A Better Tomorrow
Counseling Services);
2. The current visitation supervisor, Amanda Truong, (Fathers wife), will complete an
Affidavit of Accountability of Physical Custody Supervisor that includes input from the
reunification counselor, GAL, Mother and the sexual offender treatment provider who
provided the supervisory training;
3. The reunification counselor shall continue to meet with the children no more than three
business days following visitation with Father and she shall immediately alert the GAL of
any concerns she has following overnight or any type of visitation with the Father;
4. Father and Amanda Truong shall receive medical training from an appropriate medical
provider who treats or has treated L.T., with regard to his bowel treatments and any
necessary care that he may need during longer visitation periods. Mother shall sign any
releases or authorizations necessary and cooperate with the process of ensuring that this
medical training can be set up to take place.
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See attached custodial best interest factor analysis.
The parties should be conscious that despite the pain and horror that constituted their
marriage, three beautiful and resilient humans were created.
en is grating on your ears, I don't think it's the children who
need to be adjusted.
Stefan Molyneux
BY THE COURT,
_________________
Carrie E. Hyams, J.
Tabetha Tanner, Esquire
2145 Market Street
Camp Hill, PA 17011
ttanner@tanner-law.com
For the Plaintiff
Bryan Schroll, Esquire
603 Sheppard Road
Voorhees, NJ 08043
bschroll@schrollandbowman.com
For the Defendant
Katie Maxwell, Esquire
54 E. Main Street
Mechanicsburg, PA 17055
katie@waltersgalloway.com
GAL
Exhibit A
FACTOR Discussion FACTOR OUTCOME
Which party is more likely to Mother has understandably been hesitant to This Factor favors
encourage & permit frequent permit frequent and continuing contact
& continuing contact between between the children and their Father custodial time to
the child & another party following his arrest and incarceration. overnight visitation and
However, she has failed to recognize the it be in the subject minor
therapeutic progress made and the best interest.
recommendations of the therapeutic providers
as well as what the children are requesting
(specifically F.T. who is 17 years), and has
formulated her own lay opinions about how
conduct (discussing religion, relationships, how
he cares about the children, fighting to be able
to see them), is She further has
refused to provide Father with training related
trained. At no time did she father
opportunities for Father to receive training
al providers.
The present & past abuse This Factor does not
committed by either party or Father is convicted of having sex with a minor
child who was age 12 years old at the time of custodial time to
household, whether there is a the initial incident. The Father continued to overnight visitation and
continued risk of harm to the engage in this criminal course of conduct while it would not be in the
child or an abused party & the minor was 14-16 years of age and up and
which party can better until the Father was arrested/incarcerated. best interest.
provide adequate physical Since Father has been released from prison, he
safeguards & supervision of has been working with a therapeutic provider
the child. that provides counseling and reunification
services to the children and has had a high level
of cooperation from Father. He has followed
all of her recommendations. While there is no
known current risk of harm to the children
in the last 3 years,
the gravity of the criminal behavior and the
offense cannot be ignored.
All parental duties related to the children and This Factor favors
The parental duties able to
performed by each party on be performed by Father. custodial time to
behalf of the child. overnight visitation and
it be in the subject minor
.
The need for stability & Father is not requesting any disruption in his This Factor favors
education, family life & or involvement in their residential community. custodial time to
community life. He has always traveled to PA from GA for his overnight visitation and
visitation and has been willing to transport the it be in the subject minor
children to their activities despite those
activities cutting into his custodial time. His
current proposed custodial schedule would not
result in any disruption to the stability of the
children in the areas of education, family life &
community life.
The availability of extended Father resides in GA. His parents and several This Factor favors
family siblings reside nearby and he has frequent extendi
contact with them. His Mother has even custodial time to
traveled with him and his wife to PA for visits overnight visitation and
and to help with caretaking of his youngest it be in the subject minor
child (non-subject minor child).
The three subject minor children are very close This Factor favors
relationships with each other. They have a half sibling who
resides with Father full time and attends custodial time to
with the three subject minor overnight visitation and
children.. F.T. has a good relationship with her it be in the subject minor
half sibling. G.T. wanted to hold her right
away and is always the first one to run to his
younger half sibling. L.T. also has a close
connection with his younger half sibling. It is
believed that there are step sibling/s in
substantial evidence in this regard.
The well-reasoned preference F. T. and G.T. feel things are going well and This Factor favors
of the child, based on the are enjoying visits. The older two feel they are
capable of helping L.T. with his medical issues custodial time to
should anything arise on a visit with Father. overnight visitation and
The older two subject minors are ready and it being in the subject
willing to begin having overnights with Father
and want to go to GA to see other family interest.
members. F.T. will be 18 in April 2022. The
reunification process as per their reunification
therapist, is high.
disabilities, his preference is not being
highlighted, however, there was no evidence
that he does not wish to continue to have
visitation with his Father.
The attempts of a parent to There was no credible evidence that the parties This Factor is N/A.
turn the child against the try to turn the children against the other
other parent, except in cases parent.
of domestic violence where
reasonable safety measures
are necessary to protect the
child from harm.
Which party is more likely to Both parents have demonstrated the ability to This Factor favors
maintain a loving, stable, maintain a loving, stable and nurturing
consistent & nurturing relationship with the children custodial time to
relationship with the child overnight visitation and
adequate for the child's it being in the subject
emotional needs
interest.
Which party is more likely to This factor comes into play for the most part Until Father receives the
attend to the daily physical, with regard to the youngest child due to his necessary training, this
emotional, developmental, medical vulnerabilities. Father has not been Factor does not favor
educational & special needs
of the child er siblings have been custodial time to
capable of addressing these medical issues for overnight visitation and
L.T. if one it would not be in the
visitation.
best interest.
The proximity of the The parties live numerous states away from This Factor favors
residences of the parties each other, but Father has always figured out
ways to travel to PA from GA for his visitation. custodial time to
overnight visitation and
it being in the subject
interest.
Each party's availability to This Factor is N/A at this time given the extent This Factor is N/A.
care for the child or ability to
make appropriate child-care children.
arrangements
The level of conflict between It does not appear that the parties have been This Factor favors
the parties & the willingness able to cooperate with each other outside their
& ability of the parties to pts to custodial time to
cooperate with one another. communicate on issues and even that has been overnight visitation and
A party's effort to protect a plagued with trepidation and frustration. it being in the subject
child from abuse by another
party is not evidence of moving to overnight visits is understandable, interest.
unwillingness or inability to the complete disregard for progress made in
cooperate with that party various areas (sexual offender treatment,
reunification), etc. is disheartening. The visits
with Father are not a new step and they have
been ongoing for over two years without any
concerns related to visitation in a hotel waiting
room/use of hotel bathroom during Covid and
F.T. purchasing a bra at the mall during a
visit) did not result in visits stopping or
decreasing and the credible evidence did not
support doing so.
This Factor is N/A.
The history of drug or alcohol There were no reports of drug and alcohol
abuse of a party or member concerns in either household.
of a party's household
The mental & physical These issues were not raised as the current This Factor is N/A.
condition of a party or
member of a party's take place in Pennsylvania. Aside from
household
information presented regarding mental
infirmity. Substantial weight was not given to
suicidal ideation as it was not credible.
Any other relevant factor The reunification counselor previously This Factor favors
recommended (supervised) overnight visitation
be initiated. She is open to a phase in approach custodial time to
overnight visitation and
would like to monitor those visits and how they it being in the subject
go before extending visitation to take place
over the Summer in GA. She acknowledges interest.
that more recently she has been and is still on
the fence regarding increasing the visitation
time to overnights, (this happened after
federal investigation regarding Father and
child pornography), but her reservations relate
to what she knows about child abusers and
nothing specific to this case or the Father in
this case. The GAL recommends visits
progress to overnights (supervised) with those
overnight visits eventually occurring in GA
over the summer. Father had a sexual
offender evaluation and the evaluator testified
Father
completed sexual offender treatment. There
was no credible evidence presented that Father
is grooming his own children or credible
evidence that would corroborate that Father
has sexual interest in his own biological
children.
Exhibit A
CUSTODY CHECKLIST