HomeMy WebLinkAbout01-92 OrphansIN RE: APPOINTMENT OF A
GUARDIAN OF THE PERSON OF
MILDRED J. GERBER
IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
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IN RE: CONTEMPT
BEFORE BAYLEY, J.
OPINION AND ORDER OF COURT
Bayley, J., April 1, 2003:--
Following hearings conducted on October 8 and December 19, 2001 in a
contested proceeding regarding the appointment of a guardian of the person of Mildred
J. Gerber, the following order, supported by a written opinion, was entered on
December 21, 2001
(1) Frederick E. Gerber, II, is appointed plenary guardian of the
person of Mildred J. Gerber.~
(2) A hearing on the petition of Marilyn Gerber for access to her
mother shall be conducted in Courtroom Number 2, Cumberland County
Courthouse, Carlisle, Pennsylvania, at 2:30 p.m., Monday January 28,
2002. The guardian of the person shall have Mildred J. Gerber present
for the taking of her testimony.
Mildred Gerber was born on November 9, 1914. Her husband died in February,
1998. She had three children: Frederick E. Gerber, II, Jane Heflin, and Marilyn J.
Gerber. Marilyn Gerber opposed the appointment of Frederick E. Gerber, II, as plenary
~ On March 22, 2001, following a contested proceeding, this court found that Mildred J.
Gerber was an incapacitated person. PNC Bank was appointed plenary guardian of
her estate.
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guardian of the person of Mildred Gerber. Jane Heflin supported the appointment. The
guardian opposed any contact by Marilyn J. Gerber with her mother. Following a
hearing on that issue, the following order was entered on March 25, 2002:
[i]t is ordered that the personal guardian of Mildred Gerber shall allow
Marilyn Gerber to visit with her mother for four continuous hours each
week when Marilyn Gerber can arrange to be where her mother is
located. ~
~Having appointed a personal and estate guardian for Mildred Gerber, we
are satisfied, at this point, that the visitation herein ordered can be
conducted in a manner that is not contrary to the best interest of Mildred
Gerber.
On July 24, 2002, the guardian filed a motion for the temporary suspension of
access visits under the order of March 25, 2002, and for a further order precluding all
further visits by Marilyn Gerber with her mother. On July 29, 2002, the motion was
denied without a hearing. On the petition of Marilyn J. Gerber, the following order was
entered on December 18, 2002:
[a] Rule is entered against Frederick E. Gerber, II, to show cause why he
should not be adjudicated in contempt for failing, in his capacity as
guardian of the person of Mildred J. Gerber, to allow Marilyn Jo Gerber
access to Mildred J. Gerber as provided for in an order of March 25,
2002. Rule returnable at a hearing at 8:45 a.m., Thursday, February 6,
2003, at which time Frederick E. Gerber, II, is directed to appear.
(Footnote omitted.)
The guardian filed an answer. The contempt hearing was conducted on
February 6, 2003. When the Rule was entered the alleged contempt was civil in
nature because Marilyn Gerber sought enforcement of the order of March 25, 2002,
allowing her access to her mother for four continuous hours each week. See Bruzzi v.
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Bruzzi, 332 Pa. Super. 346 (1984). Mildred J. Gerber died at age 88, on January 14,
2003. It was then no longer possible to coerce the guardian into compliance with the
order of visitation. When the hearing was conducted on February 6, 2003, the issue
arose as to whether the alleged contempt became indirect criminal contempt. While at
first we thought that was the case, on reflection, we conclude that the issue of contempt
following the death of Mildred Gerber is still civil in nature. Marilyn Gerber seeks
damages. A court may in a proceeding for civil contempt impose the remedial
punishment of a fine payable to the aggrieved litigant as compensation for any special
damage sustained by reason of the contemptuous conduct of the offender. Faterni v.
Faterni, 371 Pa. Super. 101 (1988).
When Frederick E. Gerber was appointed plenary guardian of the person of his
mother on December 21, 2001, she was living in her marital home in New Cumberland,
Cumberland County. Marilyn Gerber lived nearby. Frederick Gerber lives in Fairfax,
Virginia. Shortly after his appointment, Frederick Gerber moved his mother into the
home of his sister, Jane Heflin, in Chicago, Illinois. While her mother lived in Chicago,
Marilyn Gerber regularly sought to exercise her four continuous hours each week of
visitation with her mother under the order of March 25, 2002, until there was an ex-
parte order in an Illinois court on October 29, 2002, terminating the visitation. The
difficulty Marilyn had in exercising this visitation and the expenses she claims she
incurred due to roadblocks put in her way by the guardian, forms the basis of her claim
of contempt and damages arising therefrom.
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When we met Mildred Gerber during the course of the guardianship proceedings
she was a refined lady suffering from dementia who was in the twilight of her life.
Frederick Gerber, Marilyn Gerber and Jane Heflin are intelligent people. Never
however, in the experience of this court, have we seen a more hateful relationship
between siblings. Frederick Gerber and Jane Heflin can do nothing in the eyes of
Marilyn Gerber that would gain her approval or respect. Marilyn Gerber's vituperatious
conduct assures that Gerber and Heflin feel the same way about her. To describe the
relationship between these people as poisonous is an understatement. At every turn of
events, Marilyn Gerber's insentient and unreasonable demands regarding the care of
her mother drove a final wedge between these people which made effective
communication and cooperation virtually impossible.
As soon as Mildred Gerber was moved into the home of her daughter, Jane
Heflin, in Chicago, the guardian made rules. There would be no visitation in that home.
The visitation would take place in a hotel. The visitation would be monitored at all
times by his representative, Joan Jackson, a licensed clinical social worker. Jackson
was instructed as to how the visitation was to be conducted. The days during which
Marilyn could visit were limited to Monday, Tuesday and Thursday with no weekend
visitation. Marilyn is employed as an intensive care nurse. She was not able to be with
her mother many weeks because the guardian would not schedule her request for
visitation on days that she could come to Chicago. The guardian's conduct prevented
her from making less costly long-term and weekend flight reservations than flying back
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and forth to Chicago on weekdays. She did not stay overnight because of expense.
Through October 16, 2002, Marilyn went to Chicago fifteen times to visit her mother.
On one occasion she was not allowed to see her. On another occasion the visitation
was terminated after fifteen minutes. On many occasions the visits were terminated
after a couple of hours. The guardian placed Mildred Gerber in a nursing home in
August, 2002. Initially, he did not tell Marilyn and the visits continued at a hotel.
Eventually, Marilyn found out her mother was in a nursing home, but she was not
allowed four hour visits there because the guardian gave instructions to the
administrator to prevent contact. When the guardian later allowed the visits at the
nursing home he still required that Joan Jackson be present. The visits went poorly to
say the least.
As could be expected, the rules set by the guardian brought a storm of protest
and resistance from Marilyn. The rules created tension and difficulty during the
visitations. The rules were not warranted under the visitation order of March 25, 2002.2
When the order was entered we realized that the relationship between these parties
would cause difficulties. That is why the visitation was limited. That is why, on July 29,
2002, we summarily denied the guardian's request to terminate or alter the visitation,
noting:
2 The guardian testified that he insisted upon having Joan Jackson monitor the
visitation as an advocate for his mother, and to assist him in complying with the order of
visitation. The order of visitation, however, was as simple as pie. Marilyn could visit
her mother for four hours each week. We concluded that the visits were in the best
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interest of the incapacitated person notwithstanding the agitation it might cause her.
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The guardian, Frederick E. Gerber, II, who is responsible to
provide Marilyn Gerber the visitation with her mother under the order of
March 25, 2002, and the two sisters, should take note of the Sanders &
Warren report of July 15, 2002:3
It is my opinion that these visits would be less stressful for
Mrs. Gerber if they were shorter. However, Marilyn does travel a
long distance to see her. It might be helpful if there were breaks,
quiet down time for Mrs. Gerber during the visits. The most
upsetting element of the visits is the tension between the two
sisters. The sisters need to refrain from talking to one another or
need to be better at modulating their tone of voice and controlling
their frustrations. It is a documented fact that people with
Alzheimer's Disease recognize emotional tones and cues far
longer than they remember language of facts. They will react to
very subtle emotions even if they do not understand the complete
context of the conversation. (Emphasis added.)
When the order of visitation was entered it was obvious that the family
members involved, including Marilyn Gerber, would make it difficult, that
the last person they would put at the top of their priority was their mother,
and their mother would suffer some distress as a result. Thus, the
visitation is limited. The order stands.
In Cahalin v. Goodman, 280 Pa. Super. 228 (1980), the Superior Court stated:
In clearly defining the practice and procedure for civil contempt, our
Pennsylvania judiciary has deemed five elements essential to civil
contempt adjudication: these include (1) a rule to show cause why
attachment should issue; (2) an answer and hearing; (3) a rule absolute;
(4) a hearing on the contempt citation; and (5) an adjudication of
contempt.
Despite Marilyn's conduct, she has produced evidence of the contemptuous
conduct of the guardian, and that she has suffered special damages as a result.
Accordingly, the following order is entered.
3 The guardian commissioned this report which was attached to the petition to terminate
the visitation.
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AND NOW, this
ORDER OF COURT
day of April, 2003, the Rule to show cause IS MADE
ABSOLUTE. An attachment is issued on a citation for civil contempt against Frederick
E. Gerber, II. A hearing will be conducted and an adjudication entered in Courtroom
Number 2, Cumberland County Courthouse, Carlisle, Pennsylvania at 3:00 p.m.,
Wednesday, April 23, 2003.
By the Court,
Richard C. Rupp, Esquire
For Frederick E. Gerber, II
Stanley J.A. Laskowski, Esquire
For Marilyn Gerber
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Edgar B. Bayley, J.
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