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DERRIK G. AVEY,
Plaintiff,
IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
CUMBERLAND COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
v.
ACAMIE L. WILT,
Defendant.
01-5648 CIVIL TERM
IN RE: OPINION PURSUANT TO PA. R.A.P. 1925
EBERT, J., July 7,2006 --
In this child custody case, Defendant has filed an appeal to the Pennsylvania
Superior Court following an order awarding primary physical custody of the child to the
Plaintiff.
The Defendant appeals for the following stated reasons:
1. The lower Court erred in transferring primary physical custody of the child
from the Defendant/Appellant to Plaintiff/Appellee herein when it failed to
consider the best interest of the child.
2. The lower Court erred in transferring primary physical custody [from]
Defendant/Appellant to Plaintiff/Appellee herein in contravention of the
child's preference.
3. The lower Court erred in transferring primary physical custody [from]
Defendant/Appellant to Plaintiff/Appellee herein in contravention of the
child's physical, intellectual and emotional well-being, the factors
enumerated in 23 Pa. C.S.A. 5303(a)(1).
4. The lower Court erred in failing to consider which parent is more likely to
encourage, permit and allow frequent and continuing contact and physical
access between the noncustodial parent and the child, the factors
enumerated in 23 Pa. C.S.A. 5303(a)(2).
5. The lower Court erred in transferring primary physical custody of the child
from Defendant/Appellant to Plaintiff/Appellee herein when it followed the
opinion of an expert discounted at trial.1
This opinion is written in support of the Order pursuant to Pa. R.A. P. 1925 and is
based on the following findings of fact.
1 Statement of Matters Complained of on Appeal, filed May 23,2006.
FINDINGS OF FACTS
1. The subject of this custody litigation is six-year-old Keaton G. Wilt, born on April
30,2000.
2. A two day hearing was held on this matter on February 10, 2006, and
March 9, 2006.
3. Keaton suffers from a number of physical and emotional problems, including high
anxiety and depression, which manifest as psychosomatic ailments such as
nausea, as well as anger and aggressive actions toward others. These
behaviors are most manifest at times of custody exchange between the two
parties.
4. The child's natural father, Plaintiff/Appellee Derrick G. Avey ("Father"), resides at
8916 McClay's Mill Road, Newburg, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, with his
wife, Kyline C. Avey, and their two minor children.
5. Father and his wife have been married since 2000 and have resided at their
current address since April 2002. At the time of the hearing, Father had been
employed at Volvo Powertrain in Hagerstown, Maryland, for 5 % months.2 Wife
works as a medical transcriptionist out of their home.3
6. The child's natural mother, Defendant/Appellant Acamie L. Wilt ("Mother"),
resides at 2962 Cook Road, Fayetteville, Franklin County, Pennsylvania, with her
paramour, Chad E. Cook, and their minor son, Dayton. Mother has worked as a
substitute school bus driver for two years.4 Chad Cook had not worked for 2 %
2 Notes of Transcript from hearing held on February 10, 2006 and March 9, 2006, p. 7 (hereinafter "NT
").
3NT 181.
4 NT 104.
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years as a result of an injury he sustained at Lear Corp, but recently obtained
employment at Grove Corp.5
7. Mother and Mr. Cook, who as recently as March, 2006, was still married to
another woman, have been together since 2000 and have resided at their current
address since January 2006.
8. Chad Cook has a criminal record which includes an arrest for felony car theft at
the age of 17, and convictions for Accidents Involving Damage to Attended
Vehicle (Hit and Run) in 1997, Driving Under the Influence in 1999; and Unsworn
Falsification in 2002.6
9. Both the Mother and Mr. Cook admit that Mr. Cook has a temper.
10. Mother and Mr. Cook have moved at least five times since Keaton's birth, with
the most recent move in January, 2006, disrupting Keaton's kindergarten year.?
11. In approximately 2003, the Mother and Mr. Cook occupied a residence at
Grindstone Hill Road, Chambersburg, where they were without water for three
months.8
12. In addition to the child in this case, Mother has a son, Dayton, age 3, with Mr.
Cook. Dayton resides with them. Mother also has a daughter, Anneka, age 14,
who is in the primary custody of the Mother's parents. Anneka suffers from
cerebral palsy and is confined to a wheelchair.
13. In addition to his mental and emotional conditions, Keaton suffered from a brain
tumor, which was removed in February, 2005, a significant articulation problem,
and developmental problems with his feet and legs, for which he is to wear
corrective inserts in his shoes.
5 NT 235.
6 NT 225-26
7 NT 16, 100-03.
8Id.
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14. Keaton's test results show that he is a child of above-average intelligence, with a
"superior" ability to comprehend social information.9
15. This case began in 2001, when the Father initially sought shared custody in order
to establish a relationship with his then-infant son.
16. The child, parents, and parents' significant others underwent court-ordered
evaluations by psychologist Jeffrey Lensbower, who issued reports to this Court
in February, 2005,10 and January, 2006.11
17. Jeffrey Lensbower is a Psychologist who has been licensed to practice in
Pennsylvania since 1992. Psychologist Lensbower has worked with Keaton
since 2004 and is extremely knowledgeable about the case. The Court finds his
testimony and analysis of the family dynamics in this case very credible and
gives it great weight. Counsel for the Mother stipulated to Psychologist
Lensbower's expertise.
18. Psychologist Lensbower issued a follow-up letter on March 31, 2006, with the
recommendation that primary custody be transferred to the Father, which
prompted Father's Petition for Special Emergency Relief.
19. Primary custody was transferred to the Father by court order dated April 4, 2006,
which is the subject of this appeal.
20. The parties agree that custody exchanges are a problem for everyone involved.
21. At the exchanges, the child kicks and screams at the Father, refuses to go with
him, cries for the Mother, or tells the Father he hates him. However, once the
child is with the Father - and out of the presence of the Mother - this behavior
quickly subsides and the child engages in a normal, warm relationship with his
father.
9 Plaintiff's Exhibit #6, p. 5.
10 Report of Psychologist Jeffrey Lensbower, February 5,2005 (hereinafter "2005 Report").
11 Report of Psychologist Jeffrey Lensbower, January 20,2006 (hereinafter "2006 Report").
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22. According to Psychologist Lensbower, who observed the Father and child
interact on December 2, 2005, the child's behavior with his father when away
from his mother, was "spontaneously affectionate." The child placed his head on
his father's shoulder, leaned into his father, sat very close to his father, and did
not appear apprehensive. These behaviors are not typically observed when a
child is interacting with someone he fears or despises.12
23. In contrast, when the child was in the presence of both parents, the child's
posture "grew much more rigid and his behavior far more cautious.,,13
24. The most notable difference in the child's behavior when in his mother's
presence was his reference to his father as "Derrick" instead of "Dad.,,14
25. The child stayed physically far from his father while in his mother's presence and
ignored his father's requests for affection.
26. According to Psychologist Lensbower, the behavior described in paragraphs 21
to 25 above appeared very familiar, as though such interactions had taken place
before.15
27. A previous observation, made as part of Psychologist Lensbower's February,
2005, report, describes how the child was at first hesitant around his mother
when he learned that his father would be picking him up, but "became
increasingly more excited to see his father." 16
12Id.
13Id.
14 This was noted by others at the hearing; both the Father and Psychologist Lensbower stated that the child
called the Father "Daddy" while not in the Mother's presence. Mrs. Avey stated that the child told her that
the Mother told the child not to call the Father "Dad." NT 16,28,44, 184.
15Id.
162005 Report, p. 10.
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28. When the Mother seemed "attentive and warm" regarding the child's hesitations
to go with his father, the child "seemed a little surprised by her
responses... especially when she was very supportive of the exchange.,,17
29. In January 2005, as time for the exchange grew near, the child became
"increasingly more excited to see his father" and was obviously happy to see his
father when he arrived.
30. The child went back to talk to the Mother before leaving with the Father, and
Psychologist Lensbower observed:
Keaton returned to say goodbye to his mother and was very
reassuring that he would be okay with his father. It seemed
apparent to Keaton that Ms. Wilt misses him very much when he
is visiting his father. He told her that he would be back several
times, very reassuringly, as if there was question to his return.
Keaton's hesitation was marked and indicates that he sees
leaving his mother as very sad and hurtful for her. He tries to
buffer her sadness. It is likely that Keaton tells Ms. Wilt that he
does not want to see his father in an attempt to alleviate her
sadness and worry. Ms. Wilt takes what he says to heart and
feels that he does not want to go with his father. This causes
stress between Ms. Wilt and Mr. Avey and Keaton which upsets
Keaton. This cycle has likely been going on for some time.18
31. Psychologist Lensbower further observed the child referring to his father as
"Derrick" only when the mother was within earshot, and checking the walls of the
testing room to make sure that he could not hear through them. Once satisfied
that he could not be heard outside the room, he referred to his father as "Dad"
and to Mr. Cook as "Daddy Chad.,,19
32. Psychologist Lensbower's most recent report of January 20, 2006, following
observation and evaluations of the child, the parents, and the parents' significant
others, recommends that the current custody schedule (with the Mother having
primary custody) be retained, as he could not say for certain at that time that she
17Id.
18Id.
192006 Report, p. 3.
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was in fact promoting a negative relationship. However, he noted, if verification
of the Mother's activities in that regard were found through court proceedings, he
recommended transferring primary custody to the Father, as the parent being
maligned.20
33. Since that recommendation, the Mother has continued to frustrate not only the
Father's attempts to maintain a relationship with his son, but also the child's
access to counseling sessions, which seemed to be helping to reduce his
anxiety.
34. Since January, 2005, the child has attended counseling sessions with Angie
Shahmoradi, a counselor with the Mountain Valley Center.21
35. The goal of these sessions was to reduce the child's anxiety symptoms relating
to custody exchanges and to improve communication skills and verbalizing
unmet needs to both parents.22
36. According to Ms. Shahmoradi, the child had initial difficulties in developing a
relationship with her and trusting that what he said in therapy sessions was
confidential.23
37. The child showed the most progress in accomplishing these goals during the
summer of 2005, during which there was a "50/50" custody arrangement where
the parties shared custody equally, resulting in more time spent with his father.
38. Following the first court hearing on this matter on February 10, 2006, in which
Ms. Shahmoradi testified, there has been a decline in therapeutic
202006 Report, p. 17.
21 NT 82.
22 Testimony of Angie Shahmoradi, NT 86.
23 NT 87.
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accomplishment because the child is refusing to talk to Ms. Shahmoradi, stating
that he is afraid what he says will end up in court.24
39. When Ms. Shahmoradi discussed the child's fears with the Mother, the Mother
informed her that the child does not think he needs counseling and did not want
to continue attending the sessions. The Mother ignored Ms. Shahmoradi's
concern that a 6 year old child may not be old enough to make such a decision.25
40. Additionally, Ms. Shahmoradi had to file a report with Child Protective Services
regarding an incident where the Mother left the child's brother unattended in her
car with the engine running at the counseling center. The 3 year old was able to
put the car in reverse and drive across the parking lot, hitting a guard rail before
someone could stop the car and remove the child. The Mother had been told
previously not to leave her children in the car unattended with the engine
running.
41. Ms. Shahmoradi also filed a report regarding the Mother's negligence in not
having her children properly restrained in the car on several occasions when she
arrived for counseling.
42. The Mother did not keep the child's ACCESS card up to date, and consequently
the cost of his counseling sessions are not being paid.
43. Based on the information contained in paragraphs 39 through 42, it appears that
the Mother may discontinue the child's counseling.
44. On March 31,2006, in a letter to the Court, Psychologist Lensbower expressed
his concern with the Mother's disregard for her child's best interest and he
recommended transferring primary custody to the Father, at least until the Mother
completes therapy for her problems.
24 Letter of Psychologist Jeffrey Lensbower, March 31, 2006, p. I (hereinafter "Letter").
25Id.
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45. It is the position of Psychologist Lensbower that the Mother has "assumed a
defensive posture against anyone who challenges her control over her son's
interactions and visitations with his father,,,26 and that while some latitude in her
behavior may have been acceptable in the past, she has now been presented
with facts regarding her son's best interest which she chooses to ignore in favor
of her own interests.27
46. The Mother has expressed her desire to not have the child see his father at all,28
supported by her own belief that it would make things better for everyone, even
though in counseling the opposite was found - the child made more progress
when he spent more time with his father.29
47. At the time of the hearing, the Father worked full-time for Volvo Powertrain on the
three-to-eleven shift. Both the Father and his father-in-law, Jeffrey Keefer,
indicated that the Father could obtain full-time work, with benefits, at Mr. Keefer's
heating and air conditioning business, beginning immediately, and at
approximately the same rate of pay. This would allow him to be home at more
regular hours and to spend more time with the child.
48. At some point during the course of counseling with the child, Counselor
Shahmoradi, as a mandatory reporter, was required to file a report with Franklin
County Children and Youth, regarding a sexual abuse allegation made by Keaton
toward Mrs. Avey. The allegation was determined to be unfounded.30
26Id.
27 Letter, p. 1-2.
28 Letter, p. 2.
29Id.
30 NT 167-68.
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49. The child made the allegation to Ms. Shahmoradi after being brought into the
room by the Mother, who prompted the child by saying, "Keaton has something
that he wants to tell yoU."31
50. According to Psychologist Lensbower, the Mother mentioned the incident but did
not seem unduly upset by it. When the child jumped into the conversation to
confirm his mother's statements, the Mother "tended to feed Keaton's concerns
rather than calm him.,,32
51. During the evaluation, Psychologist Lensbower found the Father's wife, Mrs.
Kyline Avey, to be an asset to the child, as well as to set a positive example of
good psychological and social functioning in her relationships with her husband
and the other children in her house.
52. Based on the Court's observation of Mrs. Avey, her testimony, and the manner in
which this report of sexual abuse surfaced, the Court finds that the allegation was
concocted by the Mother in order to enhance her position with regard to custody
of the child.
53. The child refers to Mr. Cook as "Daddy Chad," to which the Father does not
object, stating that Mr. Cook is part of the child's life as wel1.33
54. The Father confirms that the child's relationship with the Mother is important and
that he would help to foster that relationship.
55. Although the Mother and child have a warm and loving relationship, the Mother is
projecting her separation anxiety into the child, which affects the way the child
professes to feel about his father in her presence and the way he behaves at
custody exchanges.
31 NT 168.
32 2006 Report, p. 4.
33 NT 17.
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56. As the Father has legally sought to expand his relationship with his child, the
Mother has taken action to prevent the child from expanding his relationship with
the Father, in disregard of the child's best interest and to the point of being
detrimental to the child.
57. According to Psychologist Lensbower, a parent who promotes a negative
relationship between a child and the other parent will have an extremely
negative, lifelong impact on the child.34 Mothers have a stronger influence on the
development of emotional security than do fathers, and their ability to negatively
influence the child's emotional development is much greater.35
58. Psychological research supports the conclusion that a child should be removed
from the situation described in paragraphs 56 and 57 above and placed in the
sole custody of the parent who is being maligned.36
DISCUSSION
The General Assembly has declared that it is the public policy of this
Commonwealth to assure a reasonable and continuing contact of a child with both
parents after a separation. 23 Pa.C.S.A. s5301. In Pennsylvania, the paramount
consideration in custody determinations is the best interest of the child. Moore v. Moore,
634 A.2d 163 (Pa. Super. 1993). The general provisions controlling custody decisions
are set forth at 23 Pa. C.S.A. s5303(a):
(a) General rule.
(1) In making an order for custody or partial custody, the
court shall consider the preference of the child as well
as any other factor which legitimately impacts the
child's physical, intellectual and emotional well-being.
(2) In making an order for custody, partial custody, or
visitation to either parent, the court shall consider,
34 2006 Report.
35 2006 Report, p. 13.
36Id.
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among other factors, which parent is more likely to
encourage, permit and allow frequent and continuing
access between the noncustodial parent and the child.
(3) The court shall consider each parent and adult
household member's present and past violent and
abusive conduct which may include, but is not limited
to, abusive conduct as defined under the act of
October 7, 1976, known as the Protection From Abuse
Act.
To ascertain the child's best interests, the court is required to "consider all factors which
legitimately impact upon the child's physical, intellectual, moral and spiritual well-being
on a case-by-case basis in deciding how to allocate post-divorce parental authority via
legal and physical custody." Zummo v. Zummo, 574 A.2d 1130 (1990). These factors
include: which parent is more likely to encourage access to the noncustodial parent, the
preference of the child, stability of the homes, parents' finances and work schedules,
parents' new relationships, and siblings, as well as the opinions of experts.
In this case it is in the best interest of Keaton Wilt to reduce his depression and
anxiety and the resultant physical symptoms, and to further close relationships with both
of his natural parents. After applying the above stated factors, this Court agrees with
psychologist Jeffrey Lensbower that these interests are best served by transferring
primary physical custody of the child to the Father.
1. Credibility of PsycholoQist Lensbower
While the weight of the evidence and the credibility of witnesses, including
experts, is a matter for this Court's discretion, the general rule for Pennsylvania custody
cases is that expert testimony is to be considered only in conjunction with all the other
evidence presented. Watters v. Watters, 757 A.2d 966 (Pa. Super. 2000). This Court
finds Psychologist Lensbower to be a credible professional in psychology who has
observed and evaluated the parties in the case for over two years, documenting the
condition of the child and finally culminating in a recommendation to transfer custody to
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the Father when the child's best interests demand it. His credible expert analysis
supports the findings of fact made by this Court regarding what is in the best interests of
this child. Although the Mother stipulated to Psychologist Lensbower's expert
credentials at the hearing,37 she now seeks to appeal on the basis that he was
"discounted." There is simply no basis in the record for this argument.
2. Access to the Noncustodial Parent
An important factor in custody decisions is the determination as to which parent
will most likely allow the child frequent and continuing contact with the other parent. 23
Pa.C.S.A. s5303(a) (2), see Roadcap v. Roadcap, 778 A.2d 687 (Pa. Super. 2001).
Similarly, the Court may also consider the impact of a parent who consistently
undermines the relationship of the child with the other parent or degrades the other
parent. In such cases, the Court may deny custody to the offending parent.
The importance of this factor, and the impact it can have on a child, are
unfortunately well illustrated in this case. In fact, the depression and anxiety suffered by
the child are a direct result of the Mother's failure in this regard. She has a proven
tendency to impede the child's access and emotional connection to the Father, to the
obvious emotional detriment of her child. The Mother has expressed a desire not to
have the child see the father at all, believing that this would improve the situation for
everyone involved. However, according to Psychologist Lensbower, just the opposite
has proven true. Increasing the time the child spent with the Father, in the 50/50
schedule through the summer of 2005, somewhat decreased the child's depression and
anxiety and improved his behavior.
Furthermore, it is the concern of Psychologist Lensbower, and this Court, that the
Mother has assumed a defensive posture against anyone who challenges her control
over her son's interactions with his father, to the emotional detriment of the child. In
37 NT 32.
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addition to her efforts to undermine the child's relationship with his father, the Mother
has also proven a tendency to disregard the child's best interest when it comes to his
much-needed counseling sessions. The goal of the sessions - to reduce the child's
depression and anxiety and further communication and relationships with both parents -
interferes with the Mother's personal desire to keep the child with her and away from the
Father. As a result, she has become less supportive of the counseling, particularly after
the counselor legitimately reported her to Children and Youth Services and testified in
court. In turn, it seems that the Mother has either influenced the child's feelings toward
the counseling (this Court finds it highly unlikely that the child independently formulated
the fear that what he says may "end up in court"); or at the least, granted the child's
occasional requests to forego counseling sessions. As Psychologist Lensbower stated,
while it is not surprising that the child professes an occasional wish to avoid his
counseling sessions, it is shocking that the Mother "seems to endorse his opinion as a
viable or accountable decision of his best interests.,,38
The Mother also attempted to impede the child's access to his father by alleging
that the Father's wife abused the child. These claims were brought up by the Mother,
and then supposedly corroborated by the child in her presence. Furthermore, the
Mother's reaction to the alleged incident was rather nonchalant, and she tended to "feed"
his concerns rather than calm him. Not only did Children and Youth Services find these
claims to be unfounded, but this Court believes that the Mother promoted the allegations
knowing them to be false. This Court finds that it is inconceivable that the Step-Mother
who has a responsible job as a medical transcriptionist and two children of her own with
the father would sexually molest Keaton Wilt. This Court is all too aware of situations
where feuding parents make allegations like this in order to enhance their own position
in custody disputes.
38 Letter, p. 2.
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Promoting a negative relationship between a child and a parent has the potential
to create a lifelong negative impact on the child. The Mother has consistently
undermined the relationship of the child with the Father, and shown a tendency to keep
the child from counseling when it does not serve her interests. The negative impact on
this child is obvious and not improving. Not only does the child's condition improve with
more time spent with the Father, but this Court finds absolutely credible the Father's
indications that he will continue to encourage the child's relationship with the Mother and
that he supports the counseling. The best interests of this child clearly mandate
transferring primary physical custody to the Father at this time.
3. The Preference of the Child
The preference of the child constitutes an important factor to be weighed
carefully in determining the child's best interest, but only as long as the child's
preference is based on good reasons. E.A.L. v. L.J. W., 662 A.2d 1109 (Pa. Super.
1995). These reasons must comport with his best interests, whether or not he is able to
identify them as such. Watters v. Watters, 757 A.2d 966 (Pa. Super. 2000). The child's
maturity and intelligence must be considered in determining the weight of the
preference. McMillen v. McMillen, 602 A.2d 845 (Pa. 1992).
This Court purposefully declined to question this child as to preference given his
age and the fact that the record indicated a child so conflicted over his love for both
parents that it causes him mental, emotional and physical distress. According to the
Mother, the child states that he hates the Father and does not want to go with him.
Outside the Mother's immediate physical presence, the child's behavior simply does not
support this statement. He behaves in a manner, according to Psychologist Lensbower,
that is consistent with a child who has a warm, trusting, and loving relationship with his
father. When questioned about his relationships with his parents, this child checks the
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walls of the room he is in to determine who is listening, ostensibly to determine what to
say to please the listening party.
In fact, the root of the child's mental and emotional condition is his feeling that
there is a "correct" preference to be expressed, depending on who is present. The
simple truth seems to be that this is a child torn between his love for both parents and
the anxiety and hurt he believes they cause each other. The parents misinterpret the
reasons underlying his behaviors, and he is too young to tell them he does not want to
hurt either one. In light of this child's best interests, it is the position of this Court that
any attempt to elicit a preference from this child would have been not only futile but
detrimental to his fragile emotional state.
4. Stability
A long-standing custody arrangement where the child has a happy and warm
relationship with a parent can be the decisive factor in a custody case. E.A.L. Sr. &
J.L.L. v. L.J. W., 662 A.2d 1109 (Pa. Super. 1995). This includes a parent's maintenance
of a single home as opposed to multiple moves. Bresnock v. Bresnock, 500 A.2d 91
(1985).
There is little doubt that the child enjoys a warm and happy relationship with the
Mother, with whom he has primarily lived since birth. However, while the Father and his
family have occupied the same residence they purchased in 2001, the Mother has
moved between rental properties at least five times since the child's birth, including in
the middle of his first year of school. Additionally, at one of the Mother's residences, the
family was without water for three months.
The Mother's most recent move was to a house she purchased with her fiance,
where they have lived since January 2006. While this presents the possibility of more
stability than the Mother has been able to provide in the past, transferring primary
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custody to the Father in no way disrupts any long-term stable living arrangement for this
child.
5. Parents' Work Schedules and Finances
It is in the best interests of the child to consider the work schedules and the
amount of time the parties have available to care for the child in determining custody
arrangements so as to maximize to the fullest extent possible the time that each parent
spends with the child. Additionally, while not absolutely controlling, a Court may
consider the available finances of each parent and ability to provide an adequate home
and environment for the child. Wiseman v. Wall, 718 A.2d 844 (Pa. Super. 1998),
Roadcap v. Roadcap, 778 A.2d 687 (Pa. Super. 2001).
Employed as a substitute bus driver, the Mother has a more flexible work
schedule which can provide her with more time to spend with the child. At the time of
the hearing, the Father worked the second shift from approximately 3:00-11 :00 P.M.,
which meant he arrived home after the child's bedtime. During the time the Father was
working, his wife, who works from home as a medical transcriptionist, is available to care
for the child. A parent's employment and consequent absence from the house cannot
be a factor weighed against him if he or she provides adequate child care in his
absence. Murphy v. Hata/, 504 A.2d 917 (Pa. Super. 1986). The mere fact that the
Father is employed full time is not sufficient to deny custody since his wife, Mrs. Avey, is
able to and does care for the child while he is away. This is especially so in this case,
where the Court finds Mrs. Avey to be a positive source of support for the child and more
than able to provide appropriate and warm care in a stable family environment.
Furthermore, both the Father and his father-in-law testified that the Father can
obtain full-time employment at the father-in-Iaw's heating and air conditioning business.
This employment would be during normal business hours, allowing the Father to spend
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more time with the child. Furthermore, the employment would provide similar benefits
and nearly the same compensation as the Father is earning at his current job.39
The concern with finances is that a party be able to provide an adequate home
and environment for the child. Although this Court is concerned with the Mother and Mr.
Cook having gone without water for three months at a previous residence, the fact that
they have purchased their current residence may be an indication of more sound
financial footing. At present, neither party is in a financial situation which seems to
hinder their ability to provide an adequate home or environment for the child, but the
Father's financial situation is better than that of the Mother.
6. Parents' New Relationships
When a custodial parent lives in a meretricious relationship with another person,
or a person will exert a substantial influence over the child, Pennsylvania law requires
that that person be viewed by the court and subjected to cross-examination as to his
supervision, values and relationship with the children. Haller v. Haller, 547 A.2d 393
(Pa. Super. 1988).
Both parents in this case have formed new long-term relationships. The Father
has been married for approximately five years to his wife, Mrs. Avey, and they have
created a stable and happy home environment for their two minor children. Mrs. Avey
works from home and cares for the children during the day. There is nothing to indicate
she is anything but a positive role model and source of support for all her children,
including Keaton.
The Mother and Mr. Cook have been in a relationship for nearly five years as
well, during which Mr. Cook has remained married to another woman. While Mr. Cook
professes to love the child, and in fact the child refers to him as "Daddy Chad," this Court
39 The Father would earn $15.00 per hour at his father-in-law's company, which is a decrease of $0.19 per
hour from what he earns currently.
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would be remiss if it neglected to address Mr. Cook's character. Both Mr. Cook and the
Mother admit that he has a temper. He has also previously been arrested for a felony
car theft at the age of 17, and convicted as an adult of a Hit and Run Offense in 1997, a
DUI offense in 1999, and Unsworn Falsification in 2002. While this alone may not be a
sufficient basis to transfer primary custody to the Father, it does constitute a factor in this
Court's determination.
7. SiblinQs
Siblings, whether biological or half, should be raised together. Ferdinand v.
Clark, 763 A.2d 820 (Pa. Super. 2000) aff'd 784 A.2d 118 (Pa. 2001) citing Hockenherry
v. Thompson, 631 A.2d 204 (Pa. Super. 1993). In this case, the child has a younger
half-brother, who resides with his mother and Mr. Cook, and a half-brother and step-
sister who reside with his father's family. The record indicates the child engages in
normal relationships with his siblings at both households. Although he tends to be
"clingy" to adults, and at times prefer their company to that of his siblings, he also sleeps
in his half-brother's bed while at his father's house though he has his own room available
to him. This indicates to the Court a child who enjoys and feels safe in the company of
his siblings.
CONCLUSION
The clear best interests of this child are in reducing his anxiety and depression
and in promoting communication in his relationships with both parents. The Mother has
shown a tendency to disregard both the necessity of fostering a relationship between the
father and the child and the necessity of counseling for the child, in favor of her own
interests. In light of this, and given factors discussed above, the Court awarded primary
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physical custody to the Father because he was the parent more likely to encourage,
permit and allow frequent and continuing access between the noncustodial parent and
the child.
BY THE COURT,
M.L. Ebert, Jr., J.
Marylou Matas, Esquire
Attorney for Defendant/Appellant
Said is, Flower & Lindsay
26 West High Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
Marcus A. McKnight, III, Esquire
Attorney for Plaintiff/Appellee
Irwin & McKnight
60 West Pomfret Street
Carlisle, PA 17013
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